Sai’s indifference / thread

Have a read — (please go through the whole thread) — some insight into why Sai’s “indifference” is better for now

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To him at that moment , when he was talking to Sai on video call in GC when she was in the safe house , the biggest thing he lost was Pakhi. At that moment. Which I can understand:

But Sai was talking about her father BEING her whole world and she has no one else apart from her abha and not being with him now is painful. Comparing that to his two day love and how he knows loss is little incomprehensible to me BUT it’s his feeling at that point so can’t discount it.

In the initial days of marriage Sai is nothing but his duty which he want to full fill....during the complaint against him, during Pakhi's exit from CN...he, in his frustration stressed that this marriage is deal she should not bother about him...and during that complaint scenario in his pain of loosing job and out of his senses he told that going to Gadcharoli is his biggest mistake and he should not have taken impulsive decision of marrying her.....that's it she built her walls so high and could not see anything other than that.....till that time she was ready to give this marriage a chance at a corner of her heart...after that incidents she completely shut herself.....

Even now she thinks herself his zimmedari and he loves pakhi....she knows that he gave commitment/promise to pakhi and according to her virat being virat will never fail to fulfill his promise and to fulfill his promise given her father he even married her whom he did not want to.... so he will never break his promise to pakhi...so in that case she has no chance with him....

Now-a-days Even though when he sometimes opening expressing that she is very important to him....she just ignores that.....and she opening tells that she still remembers that this marriage is a deal and she will leave him once she becomes doctor......she can't let her guard down and take risk......she already lost her abha and she can't afford to loose him after getting attached to him......

Until and unless she get assured that he will not leave her no matter what....she should continue showing indifference.......

Originally posted by: ssoujanya

In the initial days of marriage Sai is nothing but his duty which he want to full fill....during the complaint against him, during Pakhi's exit from CN...he, in his frustration stressed that this marriage is deal she should not bother about him...and during that complaint scenario in his pain of loosing job and out of his senses he told that going to Gadcharoli is his biggest mistake and he should not have taken impulsive decision of marrying her.....that's it she built her walls so high and could not see anything other than that.....till that time she was ready to give this marriage a chance at a corner of her heart...after that incidents she completely shut herself.....

Even now she thinks herself his zimmedari and he loves pakhi....she knows that he gave commitment/promise to pakhi and according to her virat being virat will never fail to fulfill his promise and to fulfill his promise given her father he even married her whom he did not want to.... so he will never break his promise to pakhi...so in that case she has no chance with him....

Now-a-days Even though when he sometimes opening expressing that she is very important to him....she just ignores that.....and she opening tells that she still remembers that this marriage is a deal and she will leave him once she becomes doctor......she can't let her guard down and take risk......she already lost her abha and she can't afford to loose him after getting attached to him......

Until and unless she get assured that he will not leave her no matter what....she should continue showing indifference.......

Well said!! 100% agreed. This was very well written, thank you for sharing ❤️🤗

Originally posted by: idkwhattoput

Well said!! 100% agreed. This was very well written, thank you for sharing ❤️🤗

Thank you so much for your appreciation❤️......it means a lot.....this is just my second very long post......this will help me in expressing my opinions more freely in future.....

Actually I wrote this recently when I saw all their fight scenes and waiting for the right moment to post......they fight with passion.....

Originally posted by: ssoujanya

In the initial days of marriage Sai is nothing but his duty which he want to full fill....during the complaint against him, during Pakhi's exit from CN...he, in his frustration stressed that this marriage is deal she should not bother about him...and during that complaint scenario in his pain of loosing job and out of his senses he told that going to Gadcharoli is his biggest mistake and he should not have taken impulsive decision of marrying her.....that's it she built her walls so high and could not see anything other than that.....till that time she was ready to give this marriage a chance at a corner of her heart...after that incidents she completely shut herself.....

Even now she thinks herself his zimmedari and he loves pakhi....she knows that he gave commitment/promise to pakhi and according to her virat being virat will never fail to fulfill his promise and to fulfill his promise given her father he even married her whom he did not want to.... so he will never break his promise to pakhi...so in that case she has no chance with him....

Now-a-days Even though when he sometimes opening expressing that she is very important to him....she just ignores that.....and she opening tells that she still remembers that this marriage is a deal and she will leave him once she becomes doctor......she can't let her guard down and take risk......she already lost her abha and she can't afford to loose him after getting attached to him......

Until and unless she get assured that he will not leave her no matter what....she should continue showing indifference.......

Tagging some to know your opinion on my post. Sorry if I missed anyone

Sometimes when I rewatch the old episodes, I feel like hitting Virat with a sandal. He was such a delusional guy. Whenever he mentioned about losing the love of his life, it was so cringy. Is he for real ? He talks about two days love, the love he didn't even recognize her voice when she called him.

There are many times he was quite hurtful to her and then when she did something good for the family, he would act like nothing happened. He said she was his biggest mistake and then next day before she left he said he doesn't know if he can still take her zimmedari knowing she is too ziddi. She said it's his choice if he wants to or not. I am glad she didn't play the victim card and was ready to leave him. Then when she saved him from the suspension, he acted like nothing happened the day before or in the morning when he was about to throw her out of his life. And Sai needs small things to forgive him like he supported against Pakhi and she was happy and said thanks to him. 😆

Next when he was jealous with Amey, he didn't want to see the entire family was making her life a hell. All he saw was her disrespecting the elders. He questioned Kamal Sir's parvarish because she gave karwi jawab to his family members. Again Sai told him that his father taught him something his family was never taught. Respect a woman and take a stand when she is wronged. That look he gave to her like if he was ashamed. You should be Virat. 😆 And that night he came and started talking to her like nothing happened.

So yes I really hope she won't let him enter in her heart that easily. He should realize what he did to her and what he said to her. She should take her time and make him suffer a little before accepting his love.

Originally posted by: notaquitter

To him at that moment , when he was talking to Sai on video call in GC when she was in the safe house , the biggest thing he lost was Pakhi. At that moment. Which I can understand:

But Sai was talking about her father BEING her whole world and she has no one else apart from her abha and not being with him now is painful. Comparing that to his two day love and how he knows loss is little incomprehensible to me BUT it’s his feeling at that point so can’t discount it.

I am sorry, what are we talking about? I am not able to view the entire thread since I cannot login.

I gathered you are talking about their first video call.

Originally posted by: laksh

I am sorry, what are we talking about? I am not able to view the entire thread since I cannot login.

I gathered you are talking about their first video call.

Yea it’s their first video call. But I think what I am saying is probably off topic 🙈

Originally posted by: notaquitter

Yea it’s their first video call. But I think what I am saying is probably off topic 🙈

But I see some other discussion in the thread, so I got confused 😆