Ashwini Aai - Godu Aka Virat - Discussion

This issue has been nagging me for a while, to be exact from the episode where Ashwini Aai reprimanded Pakhi about not going after doosaron ka pathi.

Aai has been the pillar of support for Sai from day one. (Not considering her change of heart in the Pulkit kidnap story for now)

Did any of you guys feel that Aai should have spoken to Virat about his relationship with Pakhi? At least after the Ladakh episode?

Because she never misses a chance to taunt and reprimand Pakhi for her behaviour towards Virat.

So why can’t she talk to her son and question him about his past? Also make him see some sense regarding Pakhi? Or tell him how Pakhi treats Sai?

Imo Ashwini not asking questions makes her a typical mother who thinks that her son can never go wrong. And also making the woman take responsibility for the dalliance! ( I know I am going to get chappals for this. But please guys look at the bigger picture here)


For me it makes sense and not out of character for Ashwini and also a good TRP drama. Imagine Saas pulling up her own son for the bahu. Ashwini will get the best Saas award in star pariwar awards 😉😁

PS: someone did start a similar topic, before I could read through and reply I lost it.

So restarting the topic and tagging few people. Tagging for the first time. In case you are not part of GHKPM forum sorry.

Tagging few more

Originally posted by: KBBofRCIBC

This issue has been nagging me for a while, to be exact from the episode where Ashwini Aai reprimanded Pakhi about not going after doosaron ka pathi.

Aai has been the pillar of support for Sai from day one. (Not considering her change of heart in the Pulkit kidnap story for now)

Did any of you guys feel that Aai should have spoken to Virat about his relationship with Pakhi? At least after the Ladakh episode?

Because she never misses a chance to taunt and reprimand Pakhi for her behaviour towards Virat.

So why can’t she talk to her son and question him about his past? Also make him see some sense regarding Pakhi? Or tell him how Pakhi treats Sai?

Imo Ashwini not asking questions makes her a typical mother who thinks that her son can never go wrong. And also making the woman take responsibility for the dalliance! ( I know I am going to get chappals for this. But please guys look at the bigger picture here)


For me it makes sense and not out of character for Ashwini and also a good TRP drama. Imagine Saas pulling up her own son for the bahu. Ashwini will get the best Saas award in star pariwar awards 😉😁

PS: someone did start a similar topic, before I could read through and reply I lost it.

So restarting the topic and tagging few people. Tagging for the first time. In case you are not part of GHKPM forum sorry.

Even I felt so, she did explain viru sai's behaviour or point of view during the fight between sairat and now to there was or is no change of heart she is and was worried for both sai and devyani,

If actually pulkit was fraud she will be blamed for everything she is just protecting sai,

Now comes to explaining Viru may be she have see Viru never crossing the line. But I guess after Sairat Separation (jo mujhe nhi chahiye) she might explain.

Originally posted by: KBBofRCIBC

This issue has been nagging me for a while, to be exact from the episode where Ashwini Aai reprimanded Pakhi about not going after doosaron ka pathi.

Aai has been the pillar of support for Sai from day one. (Not considering her change of heart in the Pulkit kidnap story for now)

Did any of you guys feel that Aai should have spoken to Virat about his relationship with Pakhi? At least after the Ladakh episode?

Because she never misses a chance to taunt and reprimand Pakhi for her behaviour towards Virat.

So why can’t she talk to her son and question him about his past? Also make him see some sense regarding Pakhi? Or tell him how Pakhi treats Sai?

Imo Ashwini not asking questions makes her a typical mother who thinks that her son can never go wrong. And also making the woman take responsibility for the dalliance! ( I know I am going to get chappals for this. But please guys look at the bigger picture here)


For me it makes sense and not out of character for Ashwini and also a good TRP drama. Imagine Saas pulling up her own son for the bahu. Ashwini will get the best Saas award in star pariwar awards 😉😁

PS: someone did start a similar topic, before I could read through and reply I lost it.

So restarting the topic and tagging few people. Tagging for the first time. In case you are not part of GHKPM forum sorry.

Did arise a few times.

My pov is this,

Let's consider Aai ,and along with her,hamari not so pyaari Patralekha first-

So, why does she chide Patralekha always. First of all, aai is mother of all kids in the CN. So,the strictness not only comes from didi being after Virat,but from a sense of maternal instinct. She cares for Samrat like a son,and she is not at all happy ,that her son's wife does not love or respect him,but instead is openly after an another man(lets ignore it is Virat for a moment) ,so it is morally wrong. She is not okay with this. And what instigates Aai more is more of Sai's reason here,"Pakhi didi apna pyaar chupaati nahi hai",she is openly expressing her feelings for her devar even though she is married to another man. It doesn't set right to her.

Two,this matter is a bit touche to aai. "Pati,patni aur Vaini",did it ring a bell. And in this case ,two arcs are there,if Samrat would be present,then "Bhai ,biwi aur devar" arc and with Sai,"Pati,patni aur vaini" arc. Dono ki villain same hai,but the realtions at stake are greater,a sibling relation and a martial relation. And Aai has endured a lot in this,sacrificed a lot,lost a lot,so this a bit personal to her as well. Uss vaini ko toh kuch nahi har sakti,par iss vaini ko toh control kar sakti hai,as she has right as a elder.

Coming to your claim,why not Virat-

As a mother,your claim is one. She trusts her son,that he would not follow this path. As some where or the other, Virat knows the dynamics of his parents relationship, (balcony confrontations)and she trusts that he will not take such a step.

And the thing here is,doobne wale ko tinke ka sahara.And here Sai has saved Virat. Now,he is also not single,he has a wife,and a dangerous one at it. So if Virat was single ,then she might have,but now Sai is a major hurdle for pakhi,as she(sai) is the wife and aai had made that sure infront of society.So,till Sai is happy,lets say Virat is safe. But,now as I already claimed above,Virat knows and respects relation, so he won't do something. And we all agree that Virat is very much loyal to Sai.

So,this was my pov here.❤

Aap mujhe batao what should Ashwani asked from virat about his past when she see virat is falling in love with sai, Shivani , Mohit , devi including Cgang every one can see this .

As per u if ashwani hold this thinking that virat can never be wrong then i beg ur pardon it was Ashwani only who reminded virat of his mistake when he holder Sai's hand, she always make virat see Sai's pov.

Till date she can see virat is not crossing his lines with pakhi , thoh I will say in one incident virat was wrong when he went to pakhi's room after sai telling him about aniket uspe Ashwani ko bolna chahiye I agree

Ashwani holding grudges against pakhi & blaming her always , so uske bahut reasons hai.

When Ashwani came to know about virakhi she tried calling virat but couldn't connect with him , she do remember virat's happiness after returning from yoga resort & constant sadness in Samrat's wedding.

She is witness of pakhi giving twice her consent for samrat's alliance

Devi , karishma , she herself caught pakhi trying to call virat when he was in GC.

Ashwani sees how pakhi care a damn 4 samrat but obsessed by virat , for her pakhi is 2 timing her son by being married to samrat.

Pakhi's obsession for virat is clearly visible to everyone but C gang instead of stopping her , started using it for their own benefits. Kaku keep sending pakhi to virat despite Ashwani objecting & Pakhi herself try way to be close to virat.

Ashwani witnessed virat not having problem to take sai along with him to ladakh but pakhi created a huge tamasha but when she asked her d reason of this tamasha pakhi dint answer.

She sees pakhi conspiring with Cgang against sai.

To aap bataiye kis baat ke liye Ashwani virat se uske past ko scratch kare jab virat usse reason nhi de raha.

Originally posted by: Shristhi2002

Did arise a few times.

My pov is this,

Let's consider Aai ,and along with her,hamari not so pyaari Patralekha first-

So, why does she chide Patralekha always. First of all, aai is mother of all kids in the CN. So,the strictness not only comes from didi being after Virat,but from a sense of maternal instinct. She cares for Samrat like a son,and she is not at all happy ,that her son's wife does not love or respect him,but instead is openly after an another man(lets ignore it is Virat for a moment) ,so it is morally wrong. She is not okay with this. And what instigates Aai more is more of Sai's reason here,"Pakhi didi apna pyaar chupaati nahi hai",she is openly expressing her feelings for her devar even though she is married to another man. It doesn't set right to her.

Two,this matter is a bit touche to aai. "Pati,patni aur Vaini",did it ring a bell. And in this case ,two arcs are there,if Samrat would be present,then "Bhai ,biwi aur devar" arc and with Sai,"Pati,patni aur vaini" arc. Dono ki villain same hai,but the realtions at stake are greater,a sibling relation and a martial relation. And Aai has endured a lot in this,sacrificed a lot,lost a lot,so this a bit personal to her as well. Uss vaini ko toh kuch nahi har sakti,par iss vaini ko toh control kar sakti hai,as she has right as a elder.

Coming to your claim,why not Virat-

As a mother,your claim is one. She trusts her son,that he would not follow this path. As some where or the other, Virat knows the dynamics of his parents relationship, (balcony confrontations)and she trusts that he will not take such a step.

And the thing here is,doobne wale ko tinke ka sahara.And here Sai has saved Virat. Now,he is also not single,he has a wife,and a dangerous one at it. So if Virat was single ,then she might have,but now Sai is a major hurdle for pakhi,as she(sai) is the wife and aai had made that sure infront of society.So,till Sai is happy,lets say Virat is safe. But,now as I already claimed above,Virat knows and respects relation, so he won't do something. And we all agree that Virat is very much loyal to Sai.

So,this was my pov here.❤

I agree with this view ..

initially more than virat .. she was angry for Samrat’s sake .. during run up to samrat ki shadi .. she had genuinely welcomed patralekha with whole heart .. both Shivani and ashwini were more loving than Kaku n Sonali ..

But once she understood from Karishma.. what the matter was .. she saw with her own eyes how pakhi Was not true to samrat

samrat is a wonderful attractive guy .. with a charming personality. If pakhi had backed out of marrying him .. his life would not have been ruined like now .. he would have got another suitable girl ..

This virat should have considered when he was pushing pakhi

the way pakhi behaves she did a big favour to virat family .. it is is not .. samrat is an attractive guy .. who can keep a woman happy ..he kept on asking pakhi if things are ok .. yes army guys have an issue they come fir short duration and they have to fix a girl and marry in very short time .

Aayi was angry with pakhi for destroying the relationship between 2 brothers .. she hated the idea of them always having a strain and was sad for both her sons

For Kaku it was all right because somebody who has made her own biological child unstable .. thrown off her grand child why would she care a hoot for 2 nephews ..

when sayi entered the house ashwini was shocked but happy for Virat’s sake that he has found a pretty girl to settle down with and will focus on his grihasthi

She is mean with PP as pakhi is becoming more and more shameless and others in the family are encouraging this ..

If samrat was lost for ever and virat had not married sayi .. maybe she would have accepted pp virat wedding

But now she does not want any unfairness on sayi life .. or samrat life ..

If Pakhi was in her limits after marrying Samrat and behaved with a grace like moving on from Virat (i agree she would have not married Samrat in first place if she wants to move on)... Still if she tried to be in her limits and tried to keep distance from Virat and tried to move on Aai would have definitely supported Pakhi.. But Pakhi is doing reverse..

Aai has not witnessed Virat giving more importance to Pakhi beyond friendship and she trusts her son.. But seeing Pakhi's advances she bound to taunt her to constantly remind her what she is doing is not right.

Aai also knows Virat moved on and he has care and affection towards Sai which is more than deal wala marriage or just responsibility.. She has not thought Pakhi as threat to Virat-Sai relationship yet i guess.. But she hates Pakhi's advances though..

Hi Niki.....

I have two theories why Ashwini does not confront Virat about Pakhi being the third wheel in his marriage.

One - She has 'Raja Beta' syndrome. She believes like other mothers suffering from this syndrome that her godu will never do anything wrong (which is true, he will not cross the line with Pakhi). But fails to point out the mistakes that her son makes, and puts the onus of taking corrective measures in the marriage on the daughter-in-law.

Two - She perceives Virat's flaws - his inability to sort out or express his emotions and him being a confused atma. I've seen some parents not able to deal with or have a talk with their confused children - so I'm basing my argument on that. Ashwini as we know is not one to give tough love (which is needed from parents at times). Perhaps she is apprehensive of how her advise in this matter will be received (denial? silence? shutting down?) by Virat - since she knows that it is a very touchy subject for her confused son. She knows Sai is the more emotionally sorted one - so she is hoping that Sai's positive move towards Virat (who she knows is attached to Sai) will naturally sort this matter out. This is not a wise thing to do, but that is Ashwini's flaw - her weak way of dealing with her child. Hope this is making sense. 🤓

Originally posted by: Shristhi2002

Did arise a few times.

My pov is this,

Let's consider Aai ,and along with her,hamari not so pyaari Patralekha first-

So, why does she chide Patralekha always. First of all, aai is mother of all kids in the CN. So,the strictness not only comes from didi being after Virat,but from a sense of maternal instinct. She cares for Samrat like a son,and she is not at all happy ,that her son's wife does not love or respect him,but instead is openly after an another man(lets ignore it is Virat for a moment) ,so it is morally wrong. She is not okay with this. And what instigates Aai more is more of Sai's reason here,"Pakhi didi apna pyaar chupaati nahi hai",she is openly expressing her feelings for her devar even though she is married to another man. It doesn't set right to her.

Two,this matter is a bit touche to aai. "Pati,patni aur Vaini",did it ring a bell. And in this case ,two arcs are there,if Samrat would be present,then "Bhai ,biwi aur devar" arc and with Sai,"Pati,patni aur vaini" arc. Dono ki villain same hai,but the realtions at stake are greater,a sibling relation and a martial relation. And Aai has endured a lot in this,sacrificed a lot,lost a lot,so this a bit personal to her as well. Uss vaini ko toh kuch nahi har sakti,par iss vaini ko toh control kar sakti hai,as she has right as a elder.

Coming to your claim,why not Virat-

As a mother,your claim is one. She trusts her son,that he would not follow this path. As some where or the other, Virat knows the dynamics of his parents relationship, (balcony confrontations)and she trusts that he will not take such a step.

And the thing here is,doobne wale ko tinke ka sahara.And here Sai has saved Virat. Now,he is also not single,he has a wife,and a dangerous one at it. So if Virat was single ,then she might have,but now Sai is a major hurdle for pakhi,as she(sai) is the wife and aai had made that sure infront of society.So,till Sai is happy,lets say Virat is safe. But,now as I already claimed above,Virat knows and respects relation, so he won't do something. And we all agree that Virat is very much loyal to Sai.

So,this was my pov here.❤

Agreed with what you said shristhi!

but I also feel it is a little patriarchal in bits and pieces.. For example- when the aniket thing happened and virat got jealous and stormed to pakhi's room, that was the time when aai as a mother should have spoken to virat regarding the pakhi matter...

Yes she can see virat falling in love with sai but she also is aware of sai's wall.. the better thing to do would be to help virat realize his feeling for sai, and make it clear to sai what he feels. Till that does not happen sai will live in this belief that virat loves pakhi.. As sai said post the ladakh trip fiasco, that pakhi does not hide her feeling and virat doesn't acknowledge/understand his...

As a mother, you know what your child feels and aai being a mother who has strong instincts knows this as well.....

Well, I do hope when sai leaves both Aai and Virat think about these things... and help each other realize each others mistakes.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Aap mujhe batao what should Ashwani asked from virat about his past when she see virat is falling in love with sai, Shivani , Mohit , devi including Cgang every one can see this .

As per u if ashwani hold this thinking that virat can never be wrong then i beg ur pardon it was Ashwani only who reminded virat of his mistake when he holder Sai's hand, she always make virat see Sai's pov.

Sometimes mothers do tend to overlook their sons faults Ashwini is no exception.

Till date she can see virat is not crossing his lines with pakhi , thoh I will say in one incident virat was wrong when he went to pakhi's room after sai telling him about aniket uspe Ashwani ko bolna chahiye I agree

I can never imagine Virat crossing a line with Pakhi. That’s so not Virat. But Pakhi will try her level best and she did in a dream sequence If I remember correctly though not sure of the episode number.

Ashwani holding grudges against pakhi & blaming her always , so uske bahut reasons hai.

When Ashwani came to know about virakhi she tried calling virat but couldn't connect with him , she do remember virat's happiness after returning from yoga resort & constant sadness in Samrat's wedding.

She is witness of pakhi giving twice her consent for samrat's alliance

Devi , karishma , she herself caught pakhi trying to call virat when he was in GC.

Ashwani sees how pakhi care a damn 4 samrat but obsessed by virat , for her pakhi is 2 timing her son by being married to samrat.

Pakhi's obsession for virat is clearly visible to everyone but C gang instead of stopping her , started using it for their own benefits. Kaku keep sending pakhi to virat despite Ashwani objecting & Pakhi herself try way to be close to virat.

Ashwani witnessed virat not having problem to take sai along with him to ladakh but pakhi created a huge tamasha but when she asked her d reason of this tamasha pakhi dint answer

I agree with what you are saying here.

She sees pakhi conspiring with Cgang against sai.

To aap bataiye kis baat ke liye Ashwani virat se uske past ko scratch kare jab virat usse reason nhi de raha.

My contention is why can’t Ashwini talk to her son about his past with Pakhi? What is wrong in that? They do seem to share a good relationship. By talking she is making her sons and Sai’s life is easier.

She can tell virat that Pakhi still holds a candle for him and need to address the issue seriously. It will help him as well as Sai in their marriage.

@blue - Hope I was able to answer your to your thoughts here.