Hey All,
I have been reading post here of so many people out here and I must say you people are such good writers. Its such a pleasure reading such beautifully potrayed emotions.
But the essence somehow is being missed because we are expecting a lot. Last week was full of blast and emotions lot of things came out. lot many shades of three people came out whose lives are unfortunately interconnected. So I just wanted to analyse each character starting with Virat as if now. Please help me with ur valuable thoughts and expressions.
Virat:
IPS a honest and disciplined officer, the way story has been projected so far I feel he is like is mother a submissive in thought and actions. Though he became an IPS officer but for me that was to please his family and to get recognized by them. From childhood he saw his mother been ill treated by the family members where an officer like him should have raised voice against the abusive, bad and unacceptable behavior of his family. Instead he let his fam treat his mother no less then a servant. he was shocked when aai compared him with his father, what aai meant was jitni bhi achi parvarish kari tumhari genes to tumhe tumre dad kay hi mile and so u misbehaved with ur wife or should I say when other day pakhi mentioned that u need to teach some manners to your wife u found this was best way to do so. Aai told Virat she saw Ninad in him, So was this the reason he apologized Sai because he could not accept the comparison of him to his father, that somehow he hated his father for ill treating his mother but surprisingly never did anything to protect her honour. I guess Virat has this broken childhood, a childhood where he has seen his fam ill treating his mother and all wanted a recognition and acceptance from his fam and so he thought to become an IPS officer to get a recognition from his family.
In my earlier post I did mention he think coz his father was an army official hence for him he is his idol, I am inquisitive what sort of official was he, an honest man doesnt disrespect his wife, and if the show is showing how some high rank officials behave with the woman within closed doors then such people disrespect duty also. The story further will somehow show that he misbehaved with Pulkit also beat him up as told by Devi tai. Then I seriously doubt Virat's behaviors. When Virat was in faux whether to marry Sai or not he visualized his father explaining the meaning of duty. I thought Ninad would be proud of Virat marring Sai but alas that was an extension to understand Virat's behaviors.
I read somewhere a child's behaviors depends on relationship of the parents. Some never want to be the person their father or mother are and some end up being worse. In Virat's case he is like his mom with the genes of his father which will eventually come out like it did in last week, where he was trying to teach Sai responsibility, but in between that child came out who can be evilers then his father.
Virat seems confused. Why is it that he is not able to come in terms of his feelings. He made Pakhi clear that he doesnt loves her but who will make Sai understand as he was the on who himself asked Sai not to expect anything from him, as he has given his heart to someone else. Why cant he just draw a line for pakhi other than lstning her. Dude you need to draw a line now that when u see what Pakhi is doing. when you urself admitted that Pakhi behaves differently with rest and different with Sai. When Pakhi said u spoiled three lives, how did that happened, so Pakhi is not counting Samrat's life (Well Pakhi if Virat did not had courage to tell the truth of his feelings to his fam you should have told the same.) Why is only Virat responsible, You too is responsible for spoiling ur own life.
Regarding Marriage, zimadari uttana hai become more of an ehsaan that what we are getting a feel, but somehow I am getting a feel that he is trying to come in terms of the fact that he is married. Whether Virat was in love with Pakhi or not thats subjective but he wanst sure shot ready to marry anyone let alone Sai. But he married when did not get time to even come in term of his feelings, Sai and Virat are that two individual who trying to know each other payaar tho dur hai. Where Virat is double of Sai's age. So he will take time to comprehend their feelings there attachments, somehow Virat is mesmerized by Sai's daring behaviors coz that what he wanted needed to be inbuilt but as I said its his childhood that had made him submissive. The recent Picture of Sairat as posted by Ayesha on Instagram said there are many layers in Sairat love story, the layers have just started opening we need to be patient on what and how these layers will be opened.
Our society how ever modern we say will never accept a man doing anything for a girl, without any named relationship. So if Virat had married Sai and would have done anything for her this would have suffocate them lot more due to society and that would have been uglier.
A Mistake that Virat did was to continue talking to Pakhi and to tell Pakhi everything about Sai. this is how Samrat came to know about Virat and Pakhi. What Virat should have done was to leave Pakhi altogether, and the best friend how did Pakhi become his best friend bhai dosti humne bhi ki hai and it takes time to call anyone ur best friend let alone that person u thought u loved, whose number you lost and had no ways to reach out to her. and then u meet her as ur hone wali bhabhi. tho yeh best friend kaha say aya.
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