Chavan niwas ke mardon ki maryaada Ka maan 🥱 - Page 3

Originally posted by: deepzz

When Virat heard Sai is going to professor's house for lunch, he could make an excuse that he is on his way to meet Sunny and he will drop her...rest everything he could have discussed in his car but nahi everything got escalated.

At age of 18, students leave their hometown and shift to different cities for their studies...it doesn't mean they don't take care of their safety especially girls...most of the time they are on their guard.

In 2021, we can't ask girls to stay home for their safety, we have to tell them ways to stay safe which an IPS officer could easily do.

Yeh toh Sai hai isliye she said truth (it is always good to say truth and leave for a place so that in case of emergency, ur parents will know where to look). Had it been some other 18 year old girl in place of Sai, she would have lied and left since everybody knows the reaction of CN gang after DIG and pakhi incident.

That is exactly my point .. yes things are unsafe but college students get a lot of liberty also at 18 .. practically all my college sundays I used to go and watch movies with my friends .. eat out and come in the evening ..

Virat was unfair to expect a girl to go and study the whole weekdays .. and be the ideal bahu in Sundays..

So what she had a lunch invite ..

I am shocked that karishma and pakhi are happy to just make food for Kaku gang ..and not have any plans for themselves

Originally posted by: KBBofRCIBC

so you don’t think he was jealous?

I don’t think it is so black or white .. a lot of things got spilt over .. we have to see more conversations with sayi n virat regarding PD sir to know

What I liked Devi tai confirmed pulkit was her hubby and Kaku , ninad kept her away from him and beat him .

Maybe they can talk more around it

the analysis is as usual beautiful. I mainly wanted to read the part related to Ashwini and Virat scene❤️

I couldn't stop myself from comparing it to the Tamil version obviously because I didn't watch KD🤣

their sai even says 'this is the reason why one needs to have his/her own money in hand, so that situations like this wont arise'

I wish they followed the Tamil version for this episode, i was much more beautifully written. dialogues were outstanding in that.

maybe I should keep my expectations low for Monday's episode. cuz even though that episode is and dialogues were similar in both versions, haha kuch accha dikhane ki baari aati hai, their they show their creativity and make it simple and average scene, that is less impactful. this is what i learned from today's episode.

Beautiful analysis Janki. In the balcony, I really wish Virat's monologue was more around, what I wanted to do and what have I done or how it turned out. Then his mom's advice would have been the right flow.

My heart went out to Sai today and couldn't help let a few tears. One could feel her pain. Virat did too..but his ego and male upper hand with the last name Chavan stood out.

Mohit, you are love and the dialogue in spasth sabdh, you are like my younger sister, should come from Virat to Pakhi too...so that the queen can trample from her dream..Gosh, whats with the energy she was taking the dinner plate. For a moment, drop your waitress job. More than today, when Virat walked out with a sign, nothing more and no words, that was even more powerful if you ask me. But glad he is taking the stand to say no to her and show her place in his life.

Originally posted by: Sairat

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Suhagraat pe bhi aa gayi thi 🤣🤣

Awesome post by you, Janki! 🤗❤️

Very good analysis Janaki.

I think Aswini said only that much to ensure Virat realise his rudeness towards Sai. She is right in not pointing out the issue of his closeness to Pakhi. That is a different matter which can be tackled or discussed later.

Unlike most of those here who felt Aswini’s part as insufficient,I thought it is apt and to the point. She just made her son realise how he crossed the line,how good hearted Sai is and how mean he is in questioning her visit to her professor.

The episode was very well shot,with the revelation of Mohit’s transformation from a silent sulking son to a human who could distinguish between right and wrong.

Ofcourse Sai Joshi stole my heart as usual. Her monologue,her eye locks with Virat that expressed her pain and disbelief everything is right in place. She and Aswini together are so endearing to watch. Got tears when Aswini hugged and comforted Sai..Thankfully Atleast god graced Sai a mother in the form of a mother in law.

Over all it was a satisfying experience watching the episode

Forgot to mention..Virat snubbing Pakhi in clear tone. Much relief and joy though I am not sure of the certainty of his attitude towards Pakhi.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Very good analysis Janaki.

I think Aswini said only that much to ensure Virat realise his rudeness towards Sai. She is right in not pointing out the issue of his closeness to Pakhi. That is a different matter which can be tackled or discussed later.

Unlike most of those here who felt Aswini’s part as insufficient,I thought it is apt and to the point. She just made her son realise how he crossed the line,how good hearted Sai is and how mean he is in questioning her visit to her professor.

The episode was very well shot,with the revelation of Mohit’s transformation from a silent sulking son to a human who could distinguish between right and wrong.

Ofcourse Sai Joshi stole my heart as usual. Her monologue,her eye locks with Virat that expressed her pain and disbelief everything is right in place. She and Aswini together are so endearing to watch. Got tears when Aswini hugged and comforted Sai..Thankfully Atleast god graced Sai a mother in the form of a mother in law.

Over all it was a satisfying experience watching the episode

Forgot to mention..Virat snubbing Pakhi in clear tone. Much relief and joy though I am not sure of the certainty of his attitude towards Pakhi.

Actually I as a mother(of a son) and person who has went through worst situation than what Sai is going through do not have the heart to interfere more than this. Ashwini pointed most important thing that you behaved like a Mad actually accurately more like something under your pant. Other than that she can only say to Virat about Pakki and his relation if she feelsVirat is crossing some line which he has not yet. Lets see but i dont think she will let this issue esp when she feels like it will bother Sai rest.

It was factually not entirely correct when aai said sai ka saaf dil iss baat seh pata chalta hai ki usne kuch nahi kaha about virat-pp ladakh trip. That sentence needs to have been better worded. EVERYONE knows virat-pp past. Ashwini as aai knows virat is moving on but pp cant respect her boundaries. So the way she should have phrased the sentence is that saaf dil ka pata iss baat seh chalta hai ki DESPITE knowing the past relationship of you-pp she did not doubt your intentions. She was not narrow minded.

In fact she was the one that pushed for you to go. And when pp threw a tantrum at Sai accompanying them, she apologized. That would have worked better. Because sai has openly said she thinks virat loves pp to aai, to virat himself, and indirectly to the wholr house! It would have also given the subtle hint to virat that Aai and elders have all known about this "yoga love" of his for a while now.

And i think many people have said that discussing pp would have become too much and ashwini didn't get involved in husband-wife matters of deal marriage etc. Which is true. But i think a couple of smart lines would have worked wonders. Something like "Sai bhale hi gussail aur akkhad ho, but usmein koi dohraapan nahi hai ki dil mein kuch aur zubaan par kuch aur jo iss ghar ke kuch logon mein hai. Aur maine tumhe pahle bhi bola tha aaj phir bol rahi hoon ki Sai se agar kuch sahi cheez karwaana ho toh voh pyaar se karo na ki uske upar raub jamake. Usko tumhaare pyaar ki zarurat hai but tum gusse mein hunesha usko aisa feel karate ho tum uspar ehsaan kar rahe ho aur voh tum par bojh hai"

Sai literally melts like butter on hot plate when people talk nicely. I am really looking forward to monday episode. I hope its a good long scene where Sairat can atleast touch on many little things between them and not just apologies.

I hope that Sai shows him how hurt she is to have virar count his favors and accuse her of ehsaaan faramoshi and repeatedly call her only zimmedari. And virat gets a chance to state that he wants Sai to stop saying deal/samjhauta and not treat him as a "nobody" but share her plans, her thoughts with him. Coz the 2 are interrelated. The reason Sai keeps a distance from virat is because she thinks she is only his zimmedari and he is doing ehsaan on her when in reality he loves pp. I have high hopes from Sairat.... looking forward to seeing how their scene will play out.

I hope virat realizes that Sai truly was very mature about the ladakh situation- she did not see it as ex lovers going on a trip. She understood that the purpose was Samrat. This despite pp coming and asking virat for clothes to pack in one bag and in front of virat falsely accusing Sai of not liking Virat-pp going together. And she was the bigger person when pp cancelled the trip and made her feel like the other women in her own marriage. And all the elders had blindly supported pp. Still she apologized to pp. Sai had trusted virat. She believed that virat wouldn't "cheat" on her or cross his limits even if hes only in a deal marriage. Even when she confronted him and asked about loving pp, she thought maybe he is hesitating on accepting his feelings on her account and told him dont be concerned about me and think ki "mujhe bura lagega". So until this use of force/khaana denial Sai had always acknowledged that virat was a good person, would never hurt her, and cared about her and her feelings. She had a lot of bharosa in him. But that trust was what was shaken by his actions. She wouldn't have been as broken by his gussa or words but 3 things he did crossed lines- use of force, denying food and then saying "mera paisa" - thus has diluted all the trust built over time.

Also i agree that i was confused by virat's surprise/look when aai said you behaved like your baaba. Because he seemed like he knew exactly what baaba is capable of and seemed alarmed. If thats the case why has he always acknowledged ninad as his role model?! Is it also because of ashwini? Maybe she repeatedly told him growing up that even if hes not a good husband but hes a good father to preserve their happy family facade and to make sure virat had a good independent relationship with his dad. Still, its shocking that virat who is clearly attached to his mother would make ninad- a man who has zero respect for his wife as his role model especially of hes aware of his behavior with his mother.

I saw snippets of the episode on Instagram. I think Ashwini tries hard to not bring up Virat and Pakhi at all. She tried to bring up only Sai in between them. She even advised Sai to not bring up Pakhi in their relationship. It’s so obs that Sai sees what others can’t see but it’s also true that if you keep pouring past over someone you can’t really move on with your own relationship and your own life. However if she constantly sees this serpent in front of her eyes and has been told to stay away, one can’t blame her for bringing the serpent in between because she is actually in between their relationship. Virat hasn’t cleared the air either.

The pathis clear for Sai to leave someday.
The idea is in Virats head and in Sais head so looks like this is going to happen. The sooner it happens the better. No one what type of fight or male ego, one should never retort to physical or emotional abuse that Virat retorted to day. There is no teaching someone a lesson In a marriage. There is working together to overcome differences. When all two people give each other is pain (said did say painful things to virat), then it’s best to leave and get some space to think if it’s worth continuing on..