Badtameezi at its level best - Page 3

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

She has a sense of right and wrong but it is necessary how you fight.

I asked a question to someone, "Name the dangerous weapon?" I got an answer "Your tongue and your words" You cant take your words back.

Frustration comes out I understand, but when it comes out people disrespect you

I agree words hurt more when said in anger. But I am not able to condone Sai’s behaviour today. I kind of feel sorry for her. At 18 yrs she lost the only family her Aaba and the amount of trauma she went through because of Jagtap. Added to that after marriage CN vasis do really make her life hell.
Did she have a mourning period or time to reconcile to the hard facts of her life? No! one after other life altering decisions were taken on behalf of her by the GC wasis or she herself had to make few decisions about accepting the marriage to Virat.

For me Sai comes from a difficult place, to top it she has strong moral compass about right and wrong. No greys for her which I understand being a 18yr old.

I have said this in another post I am reiterating it here, she feels isolated from everyone and believes that she needs to fight her own battles for survival even if it’s a small thing.

In today’s episode even if she had cooked up a story and lied about going toPulkit house for lunch she would have been scolded and called names. Still she would have to fight in that house. Because she doesn’t command any respect.

Sai feels If she doesn’t raise her voice she cannot survive either in CN or outside world. This is her character sketch IMO.

Originally posted by: KBBofRCIBC

I agree words hurt more when said in anger. But I am not able to condone Sai’s behaviour today. I kind of feel sorry for her. At 18 yrs she lost the only family her Aaba and the amount of trauma she went through because of Jagtap. Added to that after marriage CN vasis do really make her life hell.
Did she have a mourning period or time to reconcile to the hard facts of her life? No! one after other life altering decisions were taken on behalf of her by the GC wasis or she herself had to make few decisions about accepting the marriage to Virat.

For me Sai comes from a difficult place, to top it she has strong moral compass about right and wrong. No greys for her which I understand being a 18yr old.

I have said this in another post I am reiterating it here, she feels isolated from everyone and believes that she needs to fight her own battles for survival even if it’s a small thing.

In today’s episode even if she had cooked up a story and lied about going toPulkit house for lunch she would have been scolded and called names. Still she would have to fight in that house. Because she doesn’t command any respect.

Sai feels If she doesn’t raise her voice she cannot survive either in CN or outside world. This is her character sketch IMO.

Yeah you are right, but she should have told the truth to Ashwini if not Virat. She should have shared with her, Ashwini would have saved her today.

People know she is hiding truth, so now this is all wrong. Human nature is "Its ok if we lie, but when we speak truth it should be full, when people know you are hiding, they question you and make your Tamasha" Not for us but for Chavans.

Sai's mistake is she told half truth. Half truth always hurts, keep Chavans aside, Virat (though he has no right) but he feels he has a right to know everything about Sai. That day he went to college for Aniket.

Originally posted by: laksh

I just hope that she never does that.

If she does that whats the difference between them and Sai

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

Yeah you are right, but she should have told the truth to Ashwini if not Virat. She should have shared with her, Ashwini would have saved her today.

People know she is hiding truth, so now this is all wrong. Human nature is "Its ok if we lie, but when we speak truth it should be full, when people know you are hiding, they question you and make your Tamasha" Not for us but for Chavans.

Sai's mistake is she told half truth. Half truth always hurts, keep Chavans aside, Virat (though he has no right) but he feels he has a right to know everything about Sai. That day he went to college for Aniket.

True I agree. There is lot of should have could have in today’s fight.

but today was Sai’s partial outburst of all the pent up anguish she had. And the trip cancellation fight residue is still there without any resolution. She has come to a place I give a damn attitude to everyone including Virat.

I am saying partial outburst because the fight didn’t resolve Sairat problems. It’s just put them in a place to rethink and reevaluate each other value and meaning in each other’s life. And hopefully pave way for a better understanding and better relationship.

Originally posted by: KBBofRCIBC

True I agree. There is lot of should have could have in today’s fight.

but today was Sai’s partial outburst of all the pent up anguish she had. And the trip cancellation fight residue is still there without any resolution. She has come to a place I give a damn attitude to everyone including Virat.

I am saying partial outburst because the fight didn’t resolve Sairat problems. It’s just put them in a place to rethink and reevaluate each other value and meaning in each other’s life. And hopefully pave way for a better understanding and better relationship.

Sai had the trip in her head. The yesterdays fight with Virat, so it resulted in the outburst. When will be the trip matter will be solved I dont know

Sai's outburst is because of the unresolved fight she had with Virat and also because of CN gang's silence to Pakhi's hysterical reaction for ladakh trip.

Until ladakh trip, Pakhi has always showcased herself as a susheel bahu infront of CN gang but her reaction to Sai joining the ladakh trip has let the mask slip and has revealed her true intentions behind the trip but still CN gang was okay with it. This is the reason for Sai's anger.

CN gang was unaware of Virat-sai marriage deal so for them it is a real marriage and still they had the audacity to question 'Sai the wife' as if she is the other women in the marriage.

The problem is Sai already feels a third wheel due to Virat's actions but in the ladakh trip incident even CN gang has also made her feel the same. She knows that CN gang disapproves her but she didn't imagine that they hate her to such an extent that they can question her wife status and could easily hand it down to Pakhi.

Originally posted by: deepzz

Sai's outburst is because of the unresolved fight she had with Virat and also because of CN gang's silence to Pakhi's hysterical reaction for ladakh trip.

Until ladakh trip, Pakhi has always showcased herself as a susheel bahu infront of CN gang but her reaction to Sai joining the ladakh trip has let the mask slip and has revealed her true intentions behind the trip but still CN gang was okay with it. This is the reason for Sai's anger.

CN gang was unaware of Virat-sai marriage deal so for them it is a real marriage and still they had the audacity to question 'Sai the wife' as if she is the other women in the marriage.

The problem is Sai already feels a third wheel due to Virat's actions but in the ladakh trip incident even CN gang has also made her feel the same. She knows that CN gang disapproves her but she didn't imagine that they hate her to such an extent that they can question her wife status and could easily hand it down to Pakhi.

Right you are

Sai to Chavans "Tauda kutta tommy, sadda kutta kutta" 😒