Badtameezi at its level best

Sai's view point

I will not tolerate wrong. I will not tolerate lie. In order to protect this I will fight with everyone. She doesn't mind if she gets rude. That much rude that she gets angry. In my life time, not a single professor has invited me for dinner alone. I share a bond of 8 years with Guruji, but still she hasn't invited me. And you are fighting to go with such unreasonable reasons.

The fight today was of Sai going to the house or not. Then again she brought Pakhi in between. Pakhi tried to indulge in the fight. But why did she told she is the unwanted DIL. The fight was not of that topic at all. Suddenly she brings Pakhi, "She is the most wanted Bahu" The fight was not between the Bahus at all. Where the trip matter come from? You are hurt Sai because of the trip thing, then take a sword and fight with Virat. You already had fighted for it, but now for how many times will you fight for the same things. Its hard to forget but whats gone is gone.

You want to fight for truth, then there are many ways to fight against the truth. Chavans are the worst, but why Sai needs to fight always. THE WAY SHE WAS YELLING WAS IRRITATING

Virat

Oh man what should I say about him. The way he hold his hand was so firm. You hurt Sai. Was that a part of your deal. If you don't want to allow Sai to go, then you could have explained her that today I have plans for you, please set this for other day or ask Sai to give Pulkits address. You claimed it as an Ehsaan and I was like...

For the words you have said to Sai, after that you jor Jabardasti doesn't hold any sense. Its a responsibility. So your responsibility is to keep Sai safe and give her a shelter. So it shouldn't matter if she doesn't tells the reason. Tomorrow he showed rudeness by not offering food to Sai. Virat, you behaved like Kaku.

Patralekhaji

Aapki to baat hi kya karein. You have the habit of being a Kabab mein Haddi. I dont know why you said to Virat leave Sai's hand, you would have loved it. Because you said and Virat got firmer. After what Sai said about Virakhi you shouted like a "Chamachidiyu" (A bats voice is irritating). Is it Ok to shout like this for a woman who says respect elders?

Chikhna Chillana aapki bhi aadat hai, bus aapki dikhti nahi hai, Sai ki dikhti hai. And what you said regarding friendship "PAVITRA BANDHAN". Doesn't suits you at all. EMA mein bhi aapke PAVITRA BANDHAN hi hai

ASHWINI WAS ONLY THE WISE LADY TODAY.

this is what i was talking about

the negative part

sai did stand up for herself but she crossed limits

everyone crossed their limits unknown to them words and actions pierce like swords

It is easy to say let bygones be gone. Forget it but only the person who faced humiliation could decide how long she will take to forget and forgive. The trip fiasco shattered Sai. It is not possible to forget it the next day and move on.

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

Sai's view point

I will not tolerate wrong. I will not tolerate lie. In order to protect this I will fight with everyone. She doesn't mind if she gets rude. That much rude that she gets angry. In my life time, not a single professor has invited me for dinner alone. I share a bond of 8 years with Guruji, but still she hasn't invited me. And you are fighting to go with such unreasonable reasons.

The fight today was of Sai going to the house or not. Then again she brought Pakhi in between. Pakhi tried to indulge in the fight. But why did she told she is the unwanted DIL. The fight was not of that topic at all. Suddenly she brings Pakhi, "She is the most wanted Bahu" The fight was not between the Bahus at all. Where the trip matter come from? You are hurt Sai because of the trip thing, then take a sword and fight with Virat. You already had fighted for it, but now for how many times will you fight for the same things. Its hard to forget but whats gone is gone.

You want to fight for truth, then there are many ways to fight against the truth. Chavans are the worst, but why Sai needs to fight always. THE WAY SHE WAS YELLING WAS IRRITATING

Virat

Oh man what should I say about him. The way he hold his hand was so firm. You hurt Sai. Was that a part of your deal. If you don't want to allow Sai to go, then you could have explained her that today I have plans for you, please set this for other day or ask Sai to give Pulkits address. You claimed it as an Ehsaan and I was like...

For the words you have said to Sai, after that you jor Jabardasti doesn't hold any sense. Its a responsibility. So your responsibility is to keep Sai safe and give her a shelter. So it shouldn't matter if she doesn't tells the reason. Tomorrow he showed rudeness by not offering food to Sai. Virat, you behaved like Kaku.

Patralekhaji

Aapki to baat hi kya karein. You have the habit of being a Kabab mein Haddi. I dont know why you said to Virat leave Sai's hand, you would have loved it. Because you said and Virat got firmer. After what Sai said about Virakhi you shouted like a "Chamachidiyu" (A bats voice is irritating). Is it Ok to shout like this for a woman who says respect elders?

Chikhna Chillana aapki bhi aadat hai, bus aapki dikhti nahi hai, Sai ki dikhti hai. And what you said regarding friendship "PAVITRA BANDHAN". Doesn't suits you at all. EMA mein bhi aapke PAVITRA BANDHAN hi hai

ASHWINI WAS ONLY THE WISE LADY TODAY.

i agree, her zid and reason was wrong. i wont justify that. but her anger and everything is cuz of last night fight and also cuz of her sticking to the facts nature😆

its like she only believes that she is his zimmedaari, and is a boj on him and he loves his vahini, shaadi is merely a deal. so she always thinks that the things that he do for her like caring for him, taking stand for her and everything, he is doing that as his 'duty' as he took the responsibility of her and promised her father.

she did not understand the depth of the situation and his concern for her, she only went with the facts today, that was the biggest reason for all this mess.

usse ithn pata tha ki ghar se jaha hi jaana ho tho muje kaha jaa rai hoon kab tak aaongi yeh sab batake jaana hoga. so she gave those details, about pulkit and devyani reason woh batana nay chahti thi without confirming the facts and knowing anything.

she took it on her ego when virat stopped her from going and said and did things he shouldn't have or have handled in a different way. because of which baath badgai and sai showed mirror to everyone. even spoke about the things that was not required but its good that she did. it gave some clarity to some people around and now they knows ki sai speaks facts no matter who the person in front her is or the situation is. no one expected that she would say things, sab ke thote udgaye the😆

i felt that in a way its good that she told it in front of all about pakhi and virat, now virat and pakhi will know how serious this matter is and at least no virat cant ignore that fact as sai will keep on reminding him about it till he gives a clear answer. 👍🏼

She is completely fed up of the insults and the humiliations meted out to her by all family members.

But never raise question on any of Patralekha’s behavior come what may.

Her without reason playing the victim card.

So it was not a day’s reaction but a pent up frustration and humiliation which came out as an outburst.

Also Virat’s habit of always brushing her thoughts and concerns under ‘badtameezi, immature’ etc. led her to this.

I guess any person in her place with sane mind would have done so and more probably Sai because she’s had a strong and distinct sense of right/wrong, justice/injustice, truth/lies

Originally posted by: Mages

this is what i was talking about

the negative part

sai did stand up for herself but she crossed limits

everyone crossed their limits unknown to them words and actions pierce like swords

I didn't like todays episode. Everyone was at fault today. Even Shivani

Originally posted by: Srijeeta06

She is completely fed up of the insults and the humiliations meted out to her by all family members.

But never raise question on any of Patralekha’s behavior come what may.

Her without reason playing the victim card.

So it was not a day’s reaction but a pent up frustration and humiliation which came out as an outburst.

Also Virat’s habit of always brushing her thoughts and concerns under ‘badtameezi, immature’ etc. led her to this.

I guess any person in her place with sane mind would have done so and more probably Sai because she’s had a strong and distinct sense of right/wrong, justice/injustice, truth/lies

She has a sense of right and wrong but it is necessary how you fight.

I asked a question to someone, "Name the dangerous weapon?" I got an answer "Your tongue and your words" You cant take your words back.

Frustration comes out I understand, but when it comes out people disrespect you

Originally posted by: Chandu_500

i agree, her zid and reason was wrong. i wont justify that. but her anger and everything is cuz of last night fight and also cuz of her sticking to the facts nature😆

its like she only believes that she is his zimmedaari, and is a boj on him and he loves his vahini, shaadi is merely a deal. so she always thinks that the things that he do for her like caring for him, taking stand for her and everything, he is doing that as his 'duty' as he took the responsibility of her and promised her father.

she did not understand the depth of the situation and his concern for her, she only went with the facts today, that was the biggest reason for all this mess.

usse ithn pata tha ki ghar se jaha hi jaana ho tho muje kaha jaa rai hoon kab tak aaongi yeh sab batake jaana hoga. so she gave those details, about pulkit and devyani reason woh batana nay chahti thi without confirming the facts and knowing anything.

she took it on her ego when virat stopped her from going and said and did things he shouldn't have or have handled in a different way. because of which baath badgai and sai showed mirror to everyone. even spoke about the things that was not required but its good that she did. it gave some clarity to some people around and now they knows ki sai speaks facts no matter who the person in front her is or the situation is. no one expected that she would say things, sab ke thote udgaye the😆

i felt that in a way its good that she told it in front of all about pakhi and virat, now virat and pakhi will know how serious this matter is and at least no virat cant ignore that fact as sai will keep on reminding him about it till he gives a clear answer. 👍🏼

Sai has break some walls. She has some set of perceptions, which will take time to break.

But yes she said everything in front of Virat and Pakhi and family, to chalo chhupane ki koi baat nahi

You know for the first time, I just resonate with all three leads of the show.

Kyunki up till a point I genuinely could not with Pakhi, aur Virat ko toh chod hi do.

Kyunki, who in their right mind tell their vahini, somebody equal to a mother like position, that haan matlab mein Samrat dada ko dhoka nahin de sakta.... but I myself will never commit to anybody else ? And to the extent ki he tells his newly wed wife that as well. You are telling me this man has commitment towards his brother’s wife ?!

And now you expect this same wife to magically understand your changed demeanour ? Kaise ? In this aspect you have not made yourself trustworthy at all . Support and care can be in many formats. If you want your stance to be clear, munh kholo aur kuch bolo. Matlab taaane maarne toh aata hai . That toh everybody in this house has taken PhD in. So the same applies for simple questions and statements.

Next Pakhi ... tumhari mein kya bolun. I mean kuch toh self respect at least. Kuch toh. I mean, kya ? Kya ? You are talking about betrayal ? Aur woh kya jo tumne Samrat ko Diya ? Aur tab toh Virat was not even married.

And how ? What is wrong with the women of this house, that they appear so cruel?

Aur Sai. Sai is a young girl. She has been more accommodating and understanding than most people of her age. Most people at this age, have to care about only studies and khaana. And here she is trapped in this helpless situation.

We can’t blame anyone for today’s episode. Even we know ki jab jhagda hota hai toh people sudden,y become like computer ke data storage space. Full recall up till 7 years back jo kiya tha. So yes, fights are often nasty.

Today her only fault was her not understand the reason behind at least Ashwini aai stopping her. Or that she did, and just didn’t care anymore.

At this point I am fed up, toh uska toh poocho hi mat I guess. 😂😂😂

We are talking about a family of bullies who was ready to throw her out of home to fend for herself just coz she didn't apply Alta due to her allergy.

These people care and are concerned about her visit to Professors house? And she is supposed to believe it and respect them after seeing first hand of all the things they do to her. They have no humanity.

The only relation she has in this house due to which she is staying is as a deal wife of Virat.

But he is hell bent on changing terms of their deal and takes out his frustration via anger when she sticks to the deal part.

When she confronted him about his commitment to Pakhi, he has no answer for 2 days. She told him I won't interfere in your personal matter and you don't interfere in mine.

But he interfered and then made it all about his ego. Even then she was silent, when he hurt her hand and threatened to lock her, that's when she realized even Virat is behaving like Chavans. Her saying I will file an FIR was not wrong. But then he got personal, ehsaan faramosh.

She told everyone long time back no one will say Virat ne taras kha ke ya ehsaan ke liye shadi nahi ki.

But by hurting her hand and threatening to lock her, interfering in her personal matter as well as saying ehsaan faramosh, made her angry. His family got a chance to talk more and now she had to speak up.

She is a deal wife. There is no ehsaan.

Yes, she didn't have to talk about Pakhi, but Pakhi how easily questioned her character in presence of asking Virat to stop fighting. Why should she not do that?

Gang of bullies trying to control an 18 year old, ofc she has to be arrogant and rude to survive. Look what they did to their own daughter, what is Sai to them.