Virat and Pakhi were meant to be together.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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They are of the same age; have had normal life experiences. They also are of the same social background. They both act with poise. They would have been a conventionally-attractive-socially-sanctioned couple. The communication between them would have been spades better, too

Unlike Sai. Sai's trauma as well as their own traumatic episodes together make Sai a warrior. For her, offence will always be the best defence because that's her trigger. Fight or flight mode is always alert. She's younger and abrasive. They have skipped the attraction stage, the titillation stage to end up on the most matured stage, no pun intended, of the relationship. The paradigm is inverted. The paradigm has been shattered. They don't know how to communicate. Their relationship will probably never be socially sanctioned.


But, but would Virakhi really have been that great? They weren't willing to be patient to let their 'relationship' mature, pun absolutely intended here, Pakhi wanted to possess and marry Virat ASAP. To her, the infatuation was never allowed to develop into love. It turned into an utterly selfish obsession. A zid. Her obsessive traits might have laid latent had they been married. But her selfishness would have never gelled well with Virat's need to do things for others. In the house full of people who treat him as booty of war, she would have been another claimant. And, Virat wouldn't have understood her either.

Sai couldn't care less. She only has —not possess— Virat. He's not her golden goose but the only man who cares selflessly for her.

She's Virat's only weapon in this house. She pushes him to break the shackles of every kind of toxicity. She makes him feel like a person of his own and not a vessel of expectations. She will fight for herself, and him. Her's is an unconditional attachment. This man hasn't had that.

He makes her realise that she doesn't always need to fight. That fights can be shared. That they are won together. That she deserves a partner. They will reach there somehow. They weren't 'meant' to be together but they deserve each other. Need each other. Belong to each other.


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bluegrass

They are of the same age; have had normal life experiences. They also are of the same social background. They both act with poise. They would have been a conventionally-attractive-socially-sanctioned couple. The communication between them would have been spades better, too

Unlike Sai. Sai's trauma as well as their own traumatic episodes together make Sai a warrior. For her, offence will always be the best defence because that's her trigger. Fight or flight mode is always alert. She's younger and abrasive. They have skipped the attraction stage, the titillation stage to end up on the most matured stage, no pun intended, of the relationship. The paradigm is inverted. The paradigm has been shattered. They don't know how to communicate. Their relationship will probably never be socially sanctioned.


But, but would Virakhi really have been that great? They weren't willing to be patient to let their 'relationship' mature, pun absolutely intended here, Pakhi wanted to possess and marry Virat ASAP. To her, the infatuation was never allowed to develop into love. It turned into an utterly selfish obsession. A zid. Her obsessive traits might have laid latent had they been married. But her selfishness would have never gelled well with Virat's need to do things for others. In the house full of people who treat his as booty of war, she would have been another claimant. And, Virat wouldn't have understood her either.

Sai couldn't care less. She only has —not possess— Virat. He's not her golden goose but the only man who cares selflessly for her.

She's Virat's only weapon in this house. She pushes him to break the shackles of every kind of toxicity. She makes him feel like a person of his own and not a vessel of expectations. She will fight for herself, and him. Her's is an unconditional attachment. This man hasn't had that.

He makes her realise that she doesn't always need to fight. That fights can be shared. That they are won together. That she deserves a partner. They will reach there somehow. They weren't 'meant' to be together but they deserve each other. Need each other. Belong to each other.



Not virakhi were never meant to be together , it was only an attraction & there was not trust b/w them , d nonsense mess pakhi created for virat was enough to prove thus relationship will never exist only. Yaha bhi communication nhi tha , d scene where pakhi tells virat she had his number & reason of blocking d number & by listening it & expression of virat u can say how pissed off he was & how stupid she was sounding . Agar virat would had told everyone about virakhi relationship so maybe samrat marriage would be cancelled but virakhi would had not happened. This relationship is quite unhealthy which would had not given anything to anyone.


Sairat ka foundation physical attraction nhi hain emotional base hain , yes they opposite to each other but vahi unke relationship ko balance karta hain aur unme kuch similarities bhi hain , they have mutual respect, trust & admiration for each other but they lack communication & understanding factor vo tabhi aayega jab unke beech friendship hogi uske liye dono ko steps lens honge sirf ek ko nhi friendship kissi bhi deal & zimmedari ke under nhi aati . Jis din sairat friends ban gaye ussi din pakhi ka best friend song khatam ho jayega.

Edited by deepikagupta9 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Life us not what you have planned. But the learning to live with the unplanned.


Thats the Sairat journey.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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i agree.

virpakh ki shaadi hojaati tho virat adjust karleta pakhi se saath. as u said unki kaafi cheeze acche se mail khati hai.


but uss shaadi mein pyaar nay hoti. as virat very easily got over pakhi, abhi unki mulaakat bhi tho sirf dhi dino waali hai. he just got attracted to her outer beauty and thought she fell in love with her and as virat is emotional banda who gives respect to relations, feelings etc, impulsive hoke he gave that stupid vaada jo 2 months mein usse din mein taare dikhane laggai hai🤣. and pakhi got obsessed with virat.


sai and virat's relation is not that good now, they have many differences. but with time they are knowing each other's good and bad qualities and accepting their flaws and will still want to stay together cuz of pure love. as this is what pati patni ka relation is about.


pakhi's personality traits:

and pakhi insaan hi acchi nay hai, she is selfish, shameless, cunning, manipulative, she doesn't really love the family members she just acts to care for them so that family waale usse support kare and sai ke saath koyi na ho. kehte hai na dushman ka dushman dost hota hai that formula is used by both pakhi and kaku in this matter.


virat's personality traits:

virat is impulsive, jithna usse lagta hai woh ithna mature nay hai, apne family pe blindly trust karta hai and he reacts without knowing both sides of the story. he can go to any extent for his loved ones, dil ka bahut accha hai. jaan booj ke he never hurts anyone. kabhi kabhi uncontrollable hojaata hai just like hulk.😆


if pakhi and virat gets married, pakhi ki loterry lag jaayegi cuz bandha laakhon mein ek hai, but virat ki band baj jaayegi as bandi 'saanpon' mein ek hai. 🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chandu_500

i agree.

virpakh ki shaadi hojaati tho virat adjust karleta pakhi se saath. as u said unki kaafi cheeze acche se mail khati hai.


but uss shaadi mein pyaar nay hoti. as virat very easily got over pakhi, abhi unki mulaakat bhi tho sirf dhi dino waali hai. he just got attracted to her outer beauty and thought she fell in love with her and as virat is emotional banda who gives respect to relations, feelings etc, impulsive hoke he gave that stupid vaada jo 2 months mein usse din mein taare dikhane laggai hai🤣. and pakhi got obsessed with virat.

Haan, exactly! Their infatuation was never allowed to mature. Virat confused it with love and Pakhi was obsessive. They were on different tangents from the very beginning and would have been in a superficial relationship at best


sai and virat's relation is not that good now, they have many differences. but with time they are knowing each other's good and bad qualities and accepting their flaws and will still want to stay together cuz of pure love. as this is what pati patni ka relation is about.


pakhi's personality traits:

and pakhi insaan hi acchi nay hai, she is selfish, shameless, cunning, manipulative, she doesn't really love the family members she just acts to care for them so that family waale usse support kare and sai ke saath koyi na ho. kehte hai na dushman ka dushman dost hota hai that formula is used by both pakhi and kaku in this matter.

My points exactly. She's too selfish a person to be a good friend or partner to Virat or Samrat.


virat's personality traits:

virat is impulsive, jithna usse lagta hai woh ithna mature nay hai, apne family pe blindly trust karta hai and he reacts without knowing both sides of the story. he can go to any extent for his loved ones, dil ka bahut accha hai. jaan booj ke he never hurts anyone. kabhi kabhi uncontrollable hojaata hai just like hulk.😆


if pakhi and virat gets married, pakhi ki loterry lag jaayegi cuz bandha laakhon mein ek hai, but virat ki band baj jaayegi as bandi 'saanpon' mein ek hai. 🤣

Vaadon ne Bacha liya, by God

Edited by Bluegrass - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bluegrass

They are of the same age; have had normal life experiences. They also are of the same social background. They both act with poise. They would have been a conventionally-attractive-socially-sanctioned couple. The communication between them would have been spades better, too

Unlike Sai. Sai's trauma as well as their own traumatic episodes together make Sai a warrior. For her, offence will always be the best defence because that's her trigger. Fight or flight mode is always alert. She's younger and abrasive. They have skipped the attraction stage, the titillation stage to end up on the most matured stage, no pun intended, of the relationship. The paradigm is inverted. The paradigm has been shattered. They don't know how to communicate. Their relationship will probably never be socially sanctioned.


But, but would Virakhi really have been that great? They weren't willing to be patient to let their 'relationship' mature, pun absolutely intended here, Pakhi wanted to possess and marry Virat ASAP. To her, the infatuation was never allowed to develop into love. It turned into an utterly selfish obsession. A zid. Her obsessive traits might have laid latent had they been married. But her selfishness would have never gelled well with Virat's need to do things for others. In the house full of people who treat his as booty of war, she would have been another claimant. And, Virat wouldn't have understood her either.

Sai couldn't care less. She only has —not possess— Virat. He's not her golden goose but the only man who cares selflessly for her.

She's Virat's only weapon in this house. She pushes him to break the shackles of every kind of toxicity. She makes him feel like a person of his own and not a vessel of expectations. She will fight for herself, and him. Her's is an unconditional attachment. This man hasn't had that.

He makes her realise that she doesn't always need to fight. That fights can be shared. That they are won together. That she deserves a partner. They will reach there somehow. They weren't 'meant' to be together but they deserve each other. Need each other. Belong to each other.


Wow! Excellent 👏. Everything you have mentioned is so perfect. Pakhi was impatient and she just assumed that Virat forgot all about her simply because he couldn't recognise her voice. This is ridiculous. This isn't an excuse to block his number and agree to marry someone else. She had her father's support, hence she could have easily refused to marry Samrat.

On the other hand when Virat married Sayi which none of them wanted to, but due to circumstances ended up together. From a stern IPS officer he got the opportunity to become a child with Sayi and enjoy little things in life. Isn't life all about enjoying and forgetting little tensions around you? And, this is what he got from Sayi? Slowly both Virat and Sayi will realise they are meant to be together and will fight with all odds.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Agree they are kind of similar ppl. But i don't think so there would be a great future of their marriage. As I said they r similar kind of persons. They don't complete each other. N I really doubt the 1:47 love story they were just attracted to each other.

Edited by Madhukk86 - 4 years ago
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Agree....It's a infatuation just physical attraction anybody can feel this when they are single and ready to mingle....they didn't even talk properly within that two days....If this can be call as forever kind of true love its a biggest joke . as a normal humanbeings when we were in college, university most of us going through this kind if situations right....who is going to call that as a true love and make a promise to stay alone forever... what nonsense is that.. they could have show us more strong and convincing love story between virakhi

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chandu_500

i agree.

virpakh ki shaadi hojaati tho virat adjust karleta pakhi se saath. as u said unki kaafi cheeze acche se mail khati hai.


but uss shaadi mein pyaar nay hoti. as virat very easily got over pakhi, abhi unki mulaakat bhi tho sirf dhi dino waali hai. he just got attracted to her outer beauty and thought she fell in love with her and as virat is emotional banda who gives respect to relations, feelings etc, impulsive hoke he gave that stupid vaada jo 2 months mein usse din mein taare dikhane laggai hai🤣. and pakhi got obsessed with virat.


sai and virat's relation is not that good now, they have many differences. but with time they are knowing each other's good and bad qualities and accepting their flaws and will still want to stay together cuz of pure love. as this is what pati patni ka relation is about.


pakhi's personality traits:

and pakhi insaan hi acchi nay hai, she is selfish, shameless, cunning, manipulative, she doesn't really love the family members she just acts to care for them so that family waale usse support kare and sai ke saath koyi na ho. kehte hai na dushman ka dushman dost hota hai that formula is used by both pakhi and kaku in this matter.


virat's personality traits:

virat is impulsive, jithna usse lagta hai woh ithna mature nay hai, apne family pe blindly trust karta hai and he reacts without knowing both sides of the story. he can go to any extent for his loved ones, dil ka bahut accha hai. jaan booj ke he never hurts anyone. kabhi kabhi uncontrollable hojaata hai just like hulk.😆


if pakhi and virat gets married, pakhi ki loterry lag jaayegi cuz bandha laakhon mein ek hai, but virat ki band baj jaayegi as bandi 'saanpon' mein ek hai. 🤣

Sasnpon mein ek 🤣🤣
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: nilmi

Agree....It's a infatuation just physical attraction anybody can feel this when they are single and ready to mingle....they didn't even talk properly within that two days....If this can be call as forever kind of true love its a biggest joke . as a normal humanbeings when we were in college, university most of us going through this kind if situations right....who is going to call that as a true love and make a promise to stay alone forever... what nonsense is that.. they could have show us more strong and convincing love story between virakhi


yep, 2 days ki jagah 2 years dikha dete tho it would have been convincing, like a long-distance relationship maybe. but yeh 2 days ka pyaar and zindagibhar kar vaada is a funny combination.

specially for people like me who don't belive in love at first sight.

pehli nazar mein kya pata chalta hai? what if that person turns out to be a serial killer or something?🤣

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