Virat and Pakhi were meant to be together. - Page 2

Originally posted by: deepikagupta9

Not virakhi were never meant to be together , it was only an attraction & there was not trust b/w them , d nonsense mess pakhi created for virat was enough to prove thus relationship will never exist only. Yaha bhi communication nhi tha , d scene where pakhi tells virat she had his number & reason of blocking d number & by listening it & expression of virat u can say how pissed off he was & how stupid she was sounding . Agar virat would had told everyone about virakhi relationship so maybe samrat marriage would be cancelled but virakhi would had not happened. This relationship is quite unhealthy which would had not given anything to anyone.

Sairat ka foundation physical attraction nhi hain emotional base hain , yes they opposite to each other but vahi unke relationship ko balance karta hain aur unme kuch similarities bhi hain , they have mutual respect, trust & admiration for each other but they lack communication & understanding factor vo tabhi aayega jab unke beech friendship hogi uske liye dono ko steps lens honge sirf ek ko nhi friendship kissi bhi deal & zimmedari ke under nhi aati . Jis din sairat friends ban gaye ussi din pakhi ka best friend song khatam ho jayega.

Yes, true. Right now there's no communication between the two since both are at loggerheads with each other. They're not ready to compromise. But, at one point of time the realisation will dawn and they will start taking steps to mend their relationship and then it will be the beginning of the end of Pakhi - Virat so called friendship.

Originally posted by: Chandu_500

i agree.

virpakh ki shaadi hojaati tho virat adjust karleta pakhi se saath. as u said unki kaafi cheeze acche se mail khati hai.

but uss shaadi mein pyaar nay hoti. as virat very easily got over pakhi, abhi unki mulaakat bhi tho sirf dhi dino waali hai. he just got attracted to her outer beauty and thought she fell in love with her and as virat is emotional banda who gives respect to relations, feelings etc, impulsive hoke he gave that stupid vaada jo 2 months mein usse din mein taare dikhane laggai hai🤣. and pakhi got obsessed with virat.

sai and virat's relation is not that good now, they have many differences. but with time they are knowing each other's good and bad qualities and accepting their flaws and will still want to stay together cuz of pure love. as this is what pati patni ka relation is about.

pakhi's personality traits:

and pakhi insaan hi acchi nay hai, she is selfish, shameless, cunning, manipulative, she doesn't really love the family members she just acts to care for them so that family waale usse support kare and sai ke saath koyi na ho. kehte hai na dushman ka dushman dost hota hai that formula is used by both pakhi and kaku in this matter.

virat's personality traits:

virat is impulsive, jithna usse lagta hai woh ithna mature nay hai, apne family pe blindly trust karta hai and he reacts without knowing both sides of the story. he can go to any extent for his loved ones, dil ka bahut accha hai. jaan booj ke he never hurts anyone. kabhi kabhi uncontrollable hojaata hai just like hulk.😆

if pakhi and virat gets married, pakhi ki loterry lag jaayegi cuz bandha laakhon mein ek hai, but virat ki band baj jaayegi as bandi 'saanpon' mein ek hai. 🤣

Nice interpretation for PP 'saanpon' 🤣🤣

Wouldn't it be boring if everything went according to plans, if everything happened as per the expected norms? Would you then be waiting for the next moment, with bated breaths?

There's a charm in the unexpected, in the unplanned. There's a charm in romance that weren't meant to happen. Sometimes, a moment of connection is enough to overrule all "laws [of love] that lay down who should be loved, and how" (A. Roy)

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

Wouldn't it be boring if everything went according to plans, if everything happened as per the expected norms? Would you then be waiting for the next moment, with bated breaths?

There's a charm in the unexpected, in the unplanned. There's a charm in romance that weren't meant to happen. Sometimes, a moment of connection is enough to overrule all "laws [of love] that lay down who should be loved, and how" (A. Roy)

Yes, exactly! There relationship would have been a stagnant one. Sai and Virat grow together. There's a struggle in their relationship which makes it with the while.

Originally posted by: Bluegrass

They are of the same age; have had normal life experiences. They also are of the same social background. They both act with poise. They would have been a conventionally-attractive-socially-sanctioned couple. The communication between them would have been spades better, too

Unlike Sai. Sai's trauma as well as their own traumatic episodes together make Sai a warrior. For her, offence will always be the best defence because that's her trigger. Fight or flight mode is always alert. She's younger and abrasive. They have skipped the attraction stage, the titillation stage to end up on the most matured stage, no pun intended, of the relationship. The paradigm is inverted. The paradigm has been shattered. They don't know how to communicate. Their relationship will probably never be socially sanctioned.

But, but would Virakhi really have been that great? They weren't willing to be patient to let their 'relationship' mature, pun absolutely intended here, Pakhi wanted to possess and marry Virat ASAP. To her, the infatuation was never allowed to develop into love. It turned into an utterly selfish obsession. A zid. Her obsessive traits might have laid latent had they been married. But her selfishness would have never gelled well with Virat's need to do things for others. In the house full of people who treat his as booty of war, she would have been another claimant. And, Virat wouldn't have understood her either.

Sai couldn't care less. She only has —not possess— Virat. He's not her golden goose but the only man who cares selflessly for her.

She's Virat's only weapon in this house. She pushes him to break the shackles of every kind of toxicity. She makes him feel like a person of his own and not a vessel of expectations. She will fight for herself, and him. Her's is an unconditional attachment. This man hasn't had that.

He makes her realise that she doesn't always need to fight. That fights can be shared. That they are won together. That she deserves a partner. They will reach there somehow. They weren't 'meant' to be together but they deserve each other. Need each other. Belong to each other.

Oh God,beautiful posts ,isn't Pakhi a bit too selfish, I mean even unknown numbers trouble you by dialing twice or thrice ,and here ,he just misplaced the damn number and she decided to marry. Isn't it heights of selfishness if you marry ,but the other person shouldn't. Isn't love sacrifice .

And Virat and Sai have a connection ,they consider it responsibility and the beauty is that no matter how much they both are pushed to the edge ,but they don't want give it up and walk away . While comparing the two ,logically it is easy to walk out of responsibility forced on you ,than his so called precious love.

I answered a similar question on another thread in detail. Pakhi's own silly mistakes and stubbornness made her make a mistake that eventually put virat in difficult position in regards to his brother and his family, which is why he chose his family. It was wrong for him to bring a girl into his brother's life who doesn't love his brother, because by doing that he has robbed his brother of perhaps having a loving and devoted wife. He rather should have said to pakhi that if you don't want to marry my brother then I will say nothing, but due to your mistake I cannot hurt my brother and family and he should have said even if you don't marry my brother, I cannot marry you as my family and brother's feelings are my priority. Knowing pakhi she still would have agreed to marry samrat just to be around virat.

But now coming to your question, assume that pakhi had not blocked virat's number in anger, virat would have been able to reach her, and he would have cleared her misunderstanding about losing her number and the effort he and sunny went through to find her number. Then they would have met up, introduced each other to their families, kaku would have approved only because despite virat having found a girl of his own choice rather than kaku's, she would have been pleased knowing he at least chose a girl that is of her desired caste.

Going by this scenario, pakhi would be an accepted bahu of the family, however, that being said a lot of the pampering and special status pakhi enjoys right now in the house is because she is kaku's chosen bahu and above that, because they feel sorry for her as samrat went missing in action right after their marriage and because if samrat does not return then pakhi gets all his money. That's why they treat her so carefully well. So if virat and pakhi had a normal love marriage like I described above, and approved by kaku due to her caste, so she would not be treated the way she is right now and would probs be treated just like any other bahu in that house and kaku bossing her around and taunting even pakhi, but obviously not taunt her like karishma and ashwini.

How pakhi would react and adjust to living in such a family where women are treated like this, bossed around and taunted is questionable, because as of now pakhi would not know how it feels to be treated as a bahu in that house when she isn't treated the same way as the others and there is a bias behaviour in her favour that runs in that house. Maybe she wouldn't be the obedient and non-questioning type of bahu she is right now where currently she is doted on so much. Maybe there would be some discord and clashes between her and the repressive and rude family members of that house, who right now don't dare say anything less than kind to her.

And ultimately whatever the relationship would be like with the chavans and her would have had some impact on her relationship with virat. I have a feeling pakhi would eventually want to move out of that house and there would be some clashes of ideology between her the family and virat.... after all she comes from a family where she is a pampered only child with just her and her parents, and luckily for her she is in a joint family sasural, who despite being regressive actually pamper her even more than her parents did in a way. So would pakhi be used to and be able to adjust in such a regressive household and treated in a way she is not used to? She's probably taking a lot of trips to her maayka I bet.

But now moving on to the next scenario. If virat told the family the truth about how he and pakhi are in love, I can bet 100% without a doubt kaku's entire attitude towards pakhi would change. Pakhi was dishonest with her about happily marrying samrat when she was asked. In fact pakhi said it with her head held high and with complete authority whilst looking kaku in the eyes that she is marrying samrat by her own will and nobody is forcing her, which impressed kaku. On top of it samrat is to an extent even more loved than virat, and kaku and ninad would resent both virat, but even more so pakhi about cheating/ hurting virat and playing with his feelings and family's trust. Without a doubt not only would she not be a pampered bahu of the house like she is right now, but she would definitely be taunted left-right-centre like karishma and ashwini, and pakhi gets mirchi and starts leaving the house at just the smallest words of ashwini or being reprimanded by sai for her intrusiveness, so if she was being subjected to the insults that sai is, she would not take it and she would probably argue with virat about his family or leave house eventually because we all know what virat is like that he could never leave his family.

All in all I feel if pakhi was not the pampered princess bahu of the house like she is right now, she would not be able to adjust in the house and there would be discord between her and virat and the family.

Originally posted by: deepikagupta9

Not virakhi were never meant to be together , it was only an attraction & there was not trust b/w them , d nonsense mess pakhi created for virat was enough to prove thus relationship will never exist only. Yaha bhi communication nhi tha , d scene where pakhi tells virat she had his number & reason of blocking d number & by listening it & expression of virat u can say how pissed off he was & how stupid she was sounding . Agar virat would had told everyone about virakhi relationship so maybe samrat marriage would be cancelled but virakhi would had not happened. This relationship is quite unhealthy which would had not given anything to anyone.

Sairat ka foundation physical attraction nhi hain emotional base hain , yes they opposite to each other but vahi unke relationship ko balance karta hain aur unme kuch similarities bhi hain , they have mutual respect, trust & admiration for each other but they lack communication & understanding factor vo tabhi aayega jab unke beech friendship hogi uske liye dono ko steps lens honge sirf ek ko nhi friendship kissi bhi deal & zimmedari ke under nhi aati . Jis din sairat friends ban gaye ussi din pakhi ka best friend song khatam ho jayega.

100% agree with you. Often two very similar people being together is also not ideal, imo virat and pakhi have differences that repel them such as virat being selfless and putting his family above himself, and like you said I doubt pakhi would be all that thrilled with how much of a pushover and how sacrificing he is for his family even when it comes to his marriage. Some of the best relationships are those where two different people balance out each other's flaws and make each other better with their individual qualities. That is sairat. They both have flaws and both have really good qualities that the other should possess. They can actually make each other better whilst also balancing the flaws of one another. The best thing is that since sai came in his life virat has started to become far more open on his thoughts and feelings towards the negative functions and dynamics of the family. This is a good quality that he has gotten as influenced by sai, whereas sai is learning to tackle situations in a more calm manner.

Also it is questionable whether this 2 day yoga love would have become long-lasting love after marriage.

Originally posted by: Chandu_500

i agree.

virpakh ki shaadi hojaati tho virat adjust karleta pakhi se saath. as u said unki kaafi cheeze acche se mail khati hai.

but uss shaadi mein pyaar nay hoti. as virat very easily got over pakhi, abhi unki mulaakat bhi tho sirf dhi dino waali hai. he just got attracted to her outer beauty and thought she fell in love with her and as virat is emotional banda who gives respect to relations, feelings etc, impulsive hoke he gave that stupid vaada jo 2 months mein usse din mein taare dikhane laggai hai🤣. and pakhi got obsessed with virat.

sai and virat's relation is not that good now, they have many differences. but with time they are knowing each other's good and bad qualities and accepting their flaws and will still want to stay together cuz of pure love. as this is what pati patni ka relation is about.

pakhi's personality traits:

and pakhi insaan hi acchi nay hai, she is selfish, shameless, cunning, manipulative, she doesn't really love the family members she just acts to care for them so that family waale usse support kare and sai ke saath koyi na ho. kehte hai na dushman ka dushman dost hota hai that formula is used by both pakhi and kaku in this matter.

virat's personality traits:

virat is impulsive, jithna usse lagta hai woh ithna mature nay hai, apne family pe blindly trust karta hai and he reacts without knowing both sides of the story. he can go to any extent for his loved ones, dil ka bahut accha hai. jaan booj ke he never hurts anyone. kabhi kabhi uncontrollable hojaata hai just like hulk.😆

if pakhi and virat gets married, pakhi ki loterry lag jaayegi cuz bandha laakhon mein ek hai, but virat ki band baj jaayegi as bandi 'saanpon' mein ek hai. 🤣

Exactly! Not only they supposedly fell in love too quick, but virat has actually very quickly moved on from her too, except he does not realise it. If virakhi married it would not have lasted that so-called love they believe they have.