Felt very bad for Virat today

I am on the Virat's side...He was genuinely concerned about Sai, always stood for her, even when he was angry he didn't forget to tell her to eat,the way Sai spoke to him today,she really showed how immature she is.

I know the family doesn't treat her well but she lives in the house like living in the hotel..

Still I can understand her response towards abusing family members but for Virat😒didn't she think for a second before talking such hurting words to Virat?...I didn't like it at all...

His only concern was " learn how to react" and not to change her response

Today the first time I was totally upset with Sai's behavior

Ok, the only thing I think she did wrong was comparing Virat to her father. That was a no no for me.

However, she did not start the fight and was trying to concentrate on her test. She was still reeling from the morning scene and prefered to stay silent.

Virat was still upset with the morning fight, was eager to be with her and even tried to clear the differences. Since she was silent, he tried to make her talk, probably thinking that they'll talk it through. Maybe if he let her alone since she had a test as well and they slept through it, they would have more time to think where they went wrong.

Unfortunately it escalated and both exploded.

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

Ok, the only thing I think she did wrong was comparing Virat to her father. That was a no no for me.

However, she did not start the fight and was trying to concentrate on her test. She was still reeling from the morning scene and prefered to stay silent.

Virat was still upset with the morning fight, was eager to be with her and even tried to clear the differences. Since she was silent, he tried to make her talk, probably thinking that they'll talk it through. Maybe if he let her alone since she had a test as well and they slept through it, they would have more time to think where they went wrong.

Unfortunately it escalated and both exploded.

She even tried to tell him she's studying and he was calm then but when she said you arent letting me study, he went bonkers again. Basically, anything she said wouldnt have helped. He wouldnt have even left her alone.

Originally posted by: prs_725

She even tried to tell him she's studying and he was calm then but when she said you arent letting me study, he went bonkers again. Basically, anything she said wouldnt have helped. He wouldnt have even left her alone.

also virat was deeply hurt by the fact that sai always told him she did not love him nor she did not want to marry him. see virat insecurities will surface more and more and sai just needs to talk with heart to heart and assure him that he matters to her

Strange Virat is hurt as she has told him time again she doesn’t love him nor she wants to marry him and it was the truth.

He Married her for his so called Farz and then told her can’t be her husband that doesn’t hurt a 18 year old ouch.

There is one thing I want to know from the dictionary of Chavan Saheb what does Zimmaderri account for, if he had to throw it on her face what has he done for he should have just adopted her.

Between I like it how Neil puts it across, all 3 of them are flawed.

She didnt mean to "compare" even. All she said is that she did the right thing and her father would have been proud of her for doing the right thing instead of reorimanding her. And in her 18-19 years of existence, she has never been treated like this. her father who is basically the only family she has known in her life must have also definitely scolded or been angry with her but has never spoken to her in such a manner. Jab hum kisi ko apna parivaar maan kar unki zimmedari uthate hai toh we cant start counting the things we do for them like Virat did today. Sai is definitely not thankless. She has thanked Virat for everything he has done in the past and she does acknowledge his efforts and she only trusts him but Virat- the "mature" guy is not seeing her pov today. He provoked the argument. She was sitting silently studying for her test. He's the one who got upset and started exploding. Yes she's definitely impulsive. She doesn't say "ok jaane doh". But gradually she will learn to pick her battles also.

Someday virat will also realize ki Sai ne uske liye kya kya kiya hai. She makes him laugh, allows him to be spontaneous, live in the moment, shows him its ok to express what you feel honestly instead of keeping your emotions suppressed, even if her methods are unconventional, she has a heart of gold. She will never tolerate injustice or unjust behavior towards anyone and will take a stand for the members of his family like she has done for shivani. Also she is never the one to initiate the fight. She merely responds in the same manner that she is spoken to. Shes completely transparent, not manipulative. Jo dil mein hain voh zubaan pe hai and she doesn't hold a grudge. As much as the family hates her she has wanted to ger their aashirwaad because they are older. "Duniyadaari" or "diplomacy" gradually seekh jaayegi. Sirf virat ke pravachan se aur kuch mahinon mein magic nagi hoga. Yes Virat as her husband is entitled to have disagreements, put forth his opinion, and advise her on being more careful with her choice of words and not always being tit for tat. but he should also as the older and more mature person reflect on his own choice of words and the actions of his family. Virat has by clever emotional manipualtion convinced her that living in hostel is tough but as someone that has lived in hostel myself i am so sure it is WAY easier than living in CM. I dont think she would ever have a roommate that would treat her the way BK, sonali, ninad, omi and PP treat her. Unfortunately if Sai moves out they cant show this ott drama. Being a "wife and bahu"were and "tolerating emotional abuse" were not part of the deal that this shaadi was. Unfortunately Virat is blind to the emotional abuse. He thinks its just clashing of ideals of his spitfire wife and his traditional and conservative family.

Sai and Virat are flawed. Pp is just plain delusional, evil, manipulative and selfish who just pretends to be very obedient and well mannered.

Originally posted by: phibi

I am on the Virat's side...He was genuinely concerned about Sai, always stood for her, even when he was angry he didn't forget to tell her to eat,the way Sai spoke to him today,she really showed how immature she is.

I know the family doesn't treat her well but she lives in the house like living in the hotel..

Still I can understand her response towards abusing family members but for Virat😒didn't she think for a second before talking such hurting words to Virat?...I didn't like it at all...

His only concern was " learn how to react" and not to change her response

Today the first time I was totally upset with Sai's behavior

Sai is like this only from day one who hardly cares what other feels , she things only she is right .with virat she has a history of her nonsense & unapologetic behaviour.

Today virat dared to speak in her own tone thats why she couldn't tolerate it & asking tameez from virat.

I hope virat don't apologise.

I felt for Sai and everyone not being able to understand her ...getting her wrong from day 1

Virat kind of instigated that argument with Sai so feel little sympathy for him in that regard

he has seen first hand how nasty everyone is towards Sai

However he can’t control his elders so he tries to control the ‘weaker’ younger Sai

The only thing I do feel is pity for Virat for being in such a horrible toxic family. Man wants peace and he can only get it by leaving that place

Also his weird relationship with Pakhi is something else Sai has to put up with

Originally posted by: neeraja91

She didnt mean to "compare" even. All she said is that she did the right thing and her father would have been proud of her for doing the right thing instead of reorimanding her. And in her 18-19 years of existence, she has never been treated like this. her father who is basically the only family she has known in her life must have also definitely scolded or been angry with her but has never spoken to her in such a manner. Jab hum kisi ko apna parivaar maan kar unki zimmedari uthate hai toh we cant start counting the things we do for them like Virat did today. Sai is definitely not thankless. She has thanked Virat for everything he has done in the past and she does acknowledge his efforts and she only trusts him but Virat- the "mature" guy is not seeing her pov today. He provoked the argument. She was sitting silently studying for her test. He's the one who got upset and started exploding. Yes she's definitely impulsive. She doesn't say "ok jaane doh". But gradually she will learn to pick her battles also.

Someday virat will also realize ki Sai ne uske liye kya kya kiya hai. She makes him laugh, allows him to be spontaneous, live in the moment, shows him its ok to express what you feel honestly instead of keeping your emotions suppressed, even if her methods are unconventional, she has a heart of gold. She will never tolerate injustice or unjust behavior towards anyone and will take a stand for the members of his family like she has done for shivani. Also she is never the one to initiate the fight. She merely responds in the same manner that she is spoken to. Shes completely transparent, not manipulative. Jo dil mein hain voh zubaan pe hai and she doesn't hold a grudge. As much as the family hates her she has wanted to ger their aashirwaad because they are older. "Duniyadaari" or "diplomacy" gradually seekh jaayegi. Sirf virat ke pravachan se aur kuch mahinon mein magic nagi hoga. Yes Virat as her husband is entitled to have disagreements, put forth his opinion, and advise her on being more careful with her choice of words and not always being tit for tat. but he should also as the older and more mature person reflect on his own choice of words and the actions of his family. Virat has by clever emotional manipualtion convinced her that living in hostel is tough but as someone that has lived in hostel myself i am so sure it is WAY easier than living in CM. I dont think she would ever have a roommate that would treat her the way BK, sonali, ninad, omi and PP treat her. Unfortunately if Sai moves out they cant show this ott drama. Being a "wife and bahu"were and "tolerating emotional abuse" were not part of the deal that this shaadi was. Unfortunately Virat is blind to the emotional abuse. He thinks its just clashing of ideals of his spitfire wife and his traditional and conservative family.

Summarized this so well! She learns when Ashwini explains it to her or when someone talks to her calmly w pyaar. She doesn't retort in a mean way. They just dont know how to make each other explain/understand themselves.