Do they have any idea what marriage is? - Page 3

Originally posted by: sammy17

True, I don't recall virat saying when they were about to marry that sai will have to leave after she becomes doctor and neither virat said to her that they will remain together only till she becomes doctor. All he had said is that he will never be able to give her husband love and that she cannot expect anything else other than care and support from him. It was sai who had said that they will only remain married until she becomes doctor. Meaning virat of course did not marry sai with intention of leaving her at any point, and this is a very interesting point actually, because that means virat married her with intention of always looking after her, and he merely gave her option knowing that she does not want to marry him that he will not keep her chained and she can leave if she wants. Virat leaving sai was not a decision he made for himself or them and neither was it an option that he had offered to himself, it was only an option that he left for sai if she in future does not want to be in this marriage. Interesting!

Yeah which is why he is always trying to make her understand how to "behave" or "talk" bc his intention is lifelong. He does not intend to make her leave or leave her at any point. He was always irked when she talked abt "deal" etc. Because when he brought her home, it was forever. He merely suggested she can do whtever she wants afer she becomes a doctor but he uses those tactics w her to get her to calm down. I dont even think he meant it bc he knows it's a long time from now and he will change his baiko's decision heheh

Originally posted by: VioletOrchid123

Both vahini and virat's brains works in weird ways.... Vahini thought she will marry samrat and be close to virat... Yeh nahi socha virat will be eventually pressurised by his family to get married... He being only child of his parents will never be allowed to reamain a celibate.

Virat must have thought vahini will move on eventually as samrat is a nice guy and likes her too... He was anyway posted in GC toh she wont see him everyday... But he didn't know how obsessed vahini was with him.... Saamne nahi bhi rahoon toh she will keep reminding him of his promise through phone calls.

Those phone calls she kept doing was ridiculous. Matlab he made her a promise to be a celibate for her for the rest of his life, toh ab woh usse chahen se kaam bhi nahi karne degi and he can only think about her and not work for the rest of his life?

Originally posted by: prs_725

Yeah which is why he is always trying to make her understand how to "behave" or "talk" bc his intention is lifelong. He does not intend to make her leave or leave her at any point. He was always irked when she talked abt "deal" etc. Because when he brought her home, it was forever. He merely suggested she can do whtever she wants afer she becomes a doctor but he uses those tactics w her to get her to calm down. I dont even think he meant it bc he knows it's a long time from now and he will change his baiko's decision heheh

LOL yeah 4 years is long time. He never intended on leaving her which is why he never told her to leave him, he just offered the freedom to leave him if she wants in future, and that too, since giving her that option he has only ever said things that completely contradict that option such as wanting her to be accepted by his family as bahu, telling his family sai will learn to become a good bahu eventually and asking sai to take up bahu responsibilities on top of him making a face whenever sai used to bring up their deal waali shaadi. Now he has started possessiveness and jealousy for her. 🤪 He never intended on leaving her, and neither does he want her to leave him.

Originally posted by: sammy17

Those phone calls she kept doing was ridiculous. Matlab he made her a promise to be a celibate for her for the rest of his life, toh ab woh usse chahen se kaam bhi nahi karne degi and he can only think about her and not work for the rest of his life?

Uska bas chale toh virat ko ghar pe hi rakhte and made him drink the exotic tea whole day like the rest of the makad sena... When he went to save sai from jagtap, she was like koi aur nahi bacha sakta usse... Like what even.. It was his duty as a police officer.

Before virat promis

patar patar ready to marry samrat

it's haldi function virat & patar patar face to face

Then she will show new color😲,

In Sangeet function she wants to create something### but virat give her promises and send her out of the room 👏

After marriage she will become a bagvan budda mood🤪 and samratko bagadiya .

Virat ne promise karnese se pehale patar patar se promise Liya ta samrat se shadi karneka (shadi karneka Matlab sirf sindur barna mangalsootr pehana nahi hotahe)

Pehale Patar patar promise todi, bad me virat ne v promise toda isme galat kya he?

Also what Pakhi did, how as a person (I won't say woman bc this applies to men too), you would be willing to be close to someone else when you are married to someone else in the same house knowing once married there's physical intimacy involved so you are thinking abt the guy's brother when you are w the guy ew. she's messed up. what was virat thinking asking her to marry HIS brother (out of all people)!!!

Marriage hain koi joke nahi

Mabe thats why its so easy for Virat to move on bc he probably cut all ties of "feelings" and just have the dosti wala pyaar and is now seeking that actual pyaar from Sai.

Originally posted by: Guiltyo0o

Seriously

When virat ask pakki to marry samrat and gave her his stupid promise, didn't he know what they will face later?

Ok you don't want to break your family happiness , just leave her! No need to ask her to marry your brother !

And pakki , the mature lady, didn't know what she will have to do? What if samrat didn't know about them? And he didn't leave? What will she do with him? Tell him , don't touch me, my heart with someone else?

Virat and sai, deal marriage ? They will live together for five or more years, and then they will walk away out of it very easy?

If no physical attachment, every thing will be ok and it will be easy!

Exactly, but ITV shows have this strange liking for scenes leading up to actual so called first time. I feel that ruins creativity and concept. They come up with strange scenarios to show that raw chemistry

Marriage is a game for ITV because in each and every show it is a forced marriage then the nuptial night will come after the muhurat is out about 1-2 years...if the show stays that long....

They can't show a bit of reality...

This goes for leads only but side characters are always happy they sometimes get pregnant before marriage also.

Pakhi is not a baby drinking milk from a bottle she was in her late 20's so she knows what she was doing never to forget she has a motive behind this marriage Samrat is a ladder she will climb on him to reach Virat.

Virat shamelessly dumped his brother on that day..He asked Pakhi to marry his brother and was crying bucket continuously call her the promise given to her is the highpoint of Pakhi behaviour...

Makhi, the very mature lady, has no mind of herself to think is Virat Tulsidas of this era that when he said or has given a promise it can't be broken.....

Originally posted by: VioletOrchid123

Uska bas chale toh virat ko ghar pe hi rakhte and made him drink the exotic tea whole day like the rest of the makad sena... When he went to save sai from jagtap, she was like koi aur nahi bacha sakta usse... Like what even.. It was his duty as a police officer.

Yeah this pattar lekha would prefer he stay jobless and vela at home so she can keep watch on him

Originally posted by: prs_725

Also what Pakhi did, how as a person (I won't say woman bc this applies to men too), you would be willing to be close to someone else when you are married to someone else in the same house knowing once married there's physical intimacy involved so you are thinking abt the guy's brother when you are w the guy ew. she's messed up. what was virat thinking asking her to marry HIS brother (out of all people)!!!

Marriage hain koi joke nahi

Mabe thats why its so easy for Virat to move on bc he probably cut all ties of "feelings" and just have the dosti wala pyaar and is now seeking that actual pyaar from Sai.

Well actually he never loved pakhi and it was infatuation, that's why i was so easy for him to choose his family and brother over pakhi and even easy for him to have moved on and find joy in sai's company unlike pakhi who is stuck in past. Even pakhi never loved him but was infatuated by now her feelings for virat have mixed with ego.