That family gave her no reason to apologize. So why force??

When there is no acknowledgement that you did something wrong what is the purpose of saying sorry. Of course Sai is not the person who dislikes admitting her mistakes. She has apologized Virat, Aayi etc. previously when she genuinely felt sorry for something she did. But the Chavan family barring a few never showed even the slightest of concern for her. So how would they expect her to consider their feelings and position in the family while speaking about them in front of others.

If they extract an apology forcefully that would only be to satisfy Bhavani, Ninad and Omkar's ego. If just saying sorry is enough then you are accepting that the mistake is on your side. Coercing to apologize will only backfire when there is no remorse which is what happening now.

Originally posted by: Chattering-Lory

When there is no acknowledgement that you did something wrong what is the purpose of saying sorry. Of course Sai is not the person who dislikes admitting her mistakes. She has apologized Virat, Aayi etc. previously when she genuinely felt sorry for something she did. But the Chavan family barring a few never showed even the slightest of concern for her. So how would they expect her to consider their feelings and position in the family while speaking about them in front of others.

If they extract an apology forcefully that would only be to satisfy Bhavani, Ninad and Omkar's ego. If just saying sorry is enough then you are accepting that the mistake is on your side. Coercing to apologize will only backfire when there is no remorse which is what happening now.

I beg ur pardon which episode sai admitted her mistake & apologize to virat for her nonsense behaviour from day one which started coz she thought virat was laughing ( who was talking on phone ) at her after throwing kheechar on her as it was taxi driver fault not virat. Only one time she apologized for bursting d balloons gifted by virat .

Regarding apologizing 2 chavan kanjars I agree u with , they don't deserve it , ulta unhe sai se apologize karna chahiye 4 all d nonsense thing they do to instigate her .

But there some similarities b/w sai & chavan kanjars both lack courage to accept their mistakes, apologize to baad ki baat hain , apni galti accept karna seekh jaye wahi badi baat hain.

both r strong believers that hum kabhi galat nhi ho sakte as sahi hone ka copyright sirf unka .

Both parties have big fat ego , mostly turn blind or deaf to hear or see other person pov . Unka pov hi sahi ho sakta hain baaki sab bakwas hain.

I know people will say sai don't have ego but self respect . Sai herself don't understand d meaning of self respect , jinki khud ki self respect hoti hai , those people don't insult others that 2 with no fault.

Sirf kamal sir or virat had a courage to accept their mistake & apologize, even kamal sir had apologize on behalf of sai to virat , so did virat for his family .iske liye bahut courage ki zarurat hoti hain.

Sai or chavan kanjaro ki saara time to muh khol ke ek dusre se non stop fight karne mein chali jati , apologize kaha se karenge

I agree. Sai is very free with her "sorrys" and "thank yous." Just how many times has she thanked Virat. And she really means it when she thanks him because Virat feels it too. Also, she freely gives away her sorrys too. Just see the number of times she apologized to Shivani while talking to Amay. Heck, she even apologized to Patraleka at her house, who did not deserve it one bit. It is one thing to apologize to elders even if it is not your fault, as long as they have your respect, like how she apologized to Ashwini last week. But Sai is completely right about not apologizing to other Chakram residents if she thinks she is not at fault. If she did it once, they will make sure she does it every time. You give them a centimeter, they will take a mile from you. And the thing is, even with the way Bhavani and Ninand treat her if she wrongs them in any way, and she feels that she has wronged them, I can bet that she will not hesitate to apologize to them right away. This is just who Sai is.

i loved when she said..aap pooja paat kijiyar na mann ko shanthi milegi🤣..so true..dont they have any other work other than scding ashwini and taunting sai..😡

Originally posted by: Chattering-Lory

When there is no acknowledgement that you did something wrong what is the purpose of saying sorry. Of course Sai is not the person who dislikes admitting her mistakes. She has apologized Virat, Aayi etc. previously when she genuinely felt sorry for something she did. But the Chavan family barring a few never showed even the slightest of concern for her. So how would they expect her to consider their feelings and position in the family while speaking about them in front of others.

If they extract an apology forcefully that would only be to satisfy Bhavani, Ninad and Omkar's ego. If just saying sorry is enough then you are accepting that the mistake is on your side. Coercing to apologize will only backfire when there is no remorse which is what happening now.

Totally agree! Especially, Ninad has stooped so low! He threatened to be violent by raising his hand if she didn't learn. This is domestic abuse. I wonder what Virat would have told baba if he was there. Also, kaku threatened Sai "tange tod dungi" when she wanted to go to DCP's office. Even teachers are not allowed say such things to their students in India now a days, but treating DILs like this is shame. But Sai knows to deal with them.

Originally posted by: Anvi2009

I agree. Sai is very free with her "sorrys" and "thank yous." Just how many times has she thanked Virat. And she really means it when she thanks him because Virat feels it too. Also, she freely gives away her sorrys too. Just see the number of times she apologized to Shivani while talking to Amay. Heck, she even apologized to Patraleka at her house, who did not deserve it one bit. It is one thing to apologize to elders even if it is not your fault, as long as they have your respect, like how she apologized to Ashwini last week. But Sai is completely right about not apologizing to other Chakram residents if she thinks she is not at fault. If she did it once, they will make sure she does it every time. You give them a centimeter, they will take a mile from you. And the thing is, even with the way Bhavani and Ninand treat her if she wrongs them in any way, and she feels that she has wronged them, I can bet that she will not hesitate to apologize to them right away. This is just who Sai is.

Sai apologizes whole heartedly upon finding out her mistakes. Even though she wasn't wrong she apologized to Pakhi because Virat became "bechain" without his "dost/pyar" etc. Though she must learn to understand Virat's feelings , she should never accept bulling from chakrams