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Posted: 4 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: Zahra15

Exactly my thoughts.

How can a family, full of ARMY/Police officers, including Sai (daughter of police officer), do stuffs like this.


For Sai, it was suicidd attempt. Let's say she was not in her correct state of mind, but what about the rest of Chawan. Don't they know domestic violence is punishable by law xP


I m sorry for it .


It don't give her excuse to commit suicide , even lot of family have lost their loved one due to corona , what should those family do they also commit suicide as they lost their love one

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: deepikagupta9


I m sorry for it .


It don't give her excuse to commit suicide , even lot of family have lost their loved one due to corona , what should those family do they also commit suicide as they lost their love one

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Sorry if this came out wrong.

I didn't mean it like this.

I personally condemn suicide.

What I meant to say is let's asuume she did it in an unstable state of mind, but how are the others deliberately abusing Aai and her.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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It is very, very easy for anyone to say this person should not attempt suicide for this and that reason. Trust me, I get very angry when people attempt so for what I consider as very stupid reasons.

We may know them, they may be close to us, but we haven't walked a mile in their shoes, we haven't lived a second of their life. How are we to know and who are we to judge? One of the major cause of suicide is depression and depression most of the times is closely linked to loneliness. And trust me, loneliness can cause even the strongest to stumble!

I used to be be like that too, not understanding the reason why people would even attempt to do so. I volunteer a lot with NGOs and I once met a teen - 15 yrs or so. She had a very traumatic childhood (abuse). But she held strong for her mother who was her support system. When her mom passed away leaving her with a family that victim shamed her, she lost it. When I met her she was in the process of healing, and through conversations with her, we figured out that her attempt was because she had no one to live for, she felt lonely and the void of attachement was eating her up.

I'm not saying it's right - but, we cannot understand the negative emotions people go through. Some people stay put in such situations, but other crumble for they believe they have nothing to fight for.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

It is very, very easy for anyone to say this person should not attempt suicide for this and that reason. Trust me, I get very angry when people attempt so for what I consider as very stupid reasons.

We may know them, they may be close to us, but we haven't walked a mile in their shoes, we haven't lived a second of their life. How are we to know and who are we to judge? One of the major cause of suicide is depression and depression most of the times is closely linked to loneliness. And trust me, loneliness can cause even the strongest to stumble!

I used to be be like that too, not understanding the reason why people would even attempt to do so. I volunteer a lot with NGOs and I once met a teen - 15 yrs or so. She had a very traumatic childhood (abuse). But she held strong for her mother who was her support system. When her mom passed away leaving her with a family that victim shamed her, she lost it. When I met her she was in the process of healing, and through conversations with her, we figured out that her attempt was because she had no one to live for, she felt lonely and the void of attachement was eating her up.

I'm not saying it's right - but, we cannot understand the negative emotions people go through. Some people stay put in such situations, but other crumble for they believe they have nothing to fight for.

exactly it is very easy to pass the judgement , oh he/she didn't respect his/her life. But ppl don't understand state of mind of such ppl. life is precious for them also, but they can't even think properly in such state of mind. Preaching them about importance of life don't work. All they need love n assurance of loved ones..

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