Dil se zimmedaari nibhana...

I'm sure that the majority of us are extremely pissed off with the way Virat belittled Sai repeatedly, by calling her immature. I'm not denying the fact that Sai can be extremely blunt and rude when she wants to, and yes, in certain situations, she is impulsive and immature, and he can maybe talk to her about that. Why try imposing Pakhi on her? It's like Virat is trying to shove his love for Pakhi down her throat!

I wasn't too happy when Sai said "Aapko life mein koi aur nahi mila kya..." line, because it was downright insulting, but the one where she asks "Pakhi doctor hai kya?" makes a lot of sense. Here, he wasn't even talking about Pakhi helping her in the house, he is talking about her studies for heaven's sake, and that has nothing to do with "usne tumse zyada duniya dekhi hai...".

And Sai was 100% right when she said, "aapko dil se meri zimmedari nahi nibhani hai, toh theek hai...". What does he want to achieve?? Does he want to make Sai like Pakhi, because he cannot have her? That's how it comes across. I can understand that Virat is trying to do everything to help Sai, but when she's clearly refusing, it'd be better for him to stop trying, than shove it down her throat, because he very well knows that Sai will not just sit there and accept the fact that people are making decisions for her.

What do you guys think?

Love,

Niya🤗

I only wish for Pakhi to tell Virat she is not keen on doing this and won’t do it.... straight to his face (as last time she didn’t answer and walked away); maybe then he will understand that it’s not cool to force this upon both the ladies. Sai saying the dialogue of “aur koi” does come across as a bit distasteful but she put it as is. She doesn’t know how to sugarcoat and as she said the truth is always bitter. Pakhi isn’t fit to be anyone’s mentor right now because she herself is lost in her emotions. Instead of making it easier for the ladies, Virat is only making it worse. Rather than Pakhi and sai, it’s Virat who’s over involved nature is messing things up. He should leave Sai and Pakhi alone for once with their choices.

Virat needs to stop imposing his decisions on everyone.

Sai needs to tone down her hostility towards Virat & Pakhi, ignore the shit out of the amar-premis & focus on her own dreams.

Pakhi needs to start saying NO to Virat & his stupid demands.

but alas! that won't happen & we will keep getting tortured with the drama for a long time 🤣

The last part was so good when Sai was questioning him.

When she said "aur koi nahi mila" i think its because Virat keeps shoving Pakhi on her. In the segment yesterday, Ayesha said that Sai is not offended as such by Pakhi, but Virat keeps on bringing Pakhi, and I think Virat kind of think he is responsible for Pakhi as well. Sai is already riled up with his family and he keeps grouping these two together.

Originally posted by: LadyWhistledown

I'm sure that the majority of us are extremely pissed off with the way Virat belittled Sai repeatedly, by calling her immature. I'm not denying the fact that Sai can be extremely blunt and rude when she wants to, and yes, in certain situations, she is impulsive and immature, and he can maybe talk to her about that. Why try imposing Pakhi on her? It's like Virat is trying to shove his love for Pakhi down her throat!

I wasn't too happy when Sai said "Aapko life mein koi aur nahi mila kya..." line, because it was downright insulting, but the one where she asks "Pakhi doctor hai kya?" makes a lot of sense. Here, he wasn't even talking about Pakhi helping her in the house, he is talking about her studies for heaven's sake, and that has nothing to do with "usne tumse zyada duniya dekhi hai...".

And Sai was 100% right when she said, "aapko dil se meri zimmedari nahi nibhani hai, toh theek hai...". What does he want to achieve?? Does he want to make Sai like Pakhi, because he cannot have her? That's how it comes across. I can understand that Virat is trying to do everything to help Sai, but when she's clearly refusing, it'd be better for him to stop trying, than shove it down her throat, because he very well knows that Sai will not just sit there and accept the fact that people are making decisions for her.

What do you guys think?

Love,

Niya🤗

If you notice the scene where they are holding hands for the pictures and he tells her photo khinchwane aur zimmedari nibhane me farak hai tumhe samajhne ke liye aur mature Hona padega, she literally swallows her anger. I think she handled herself with so much maturity instead of pushing him away and saying, "Aap Apne aap ko samajhte kya hain?"

Originally posted by: Saiviratcutest

I only wish for Pakhi to tell Virat she is not keen on doing this and won’t do it.... straight to his face (as last time she didn’t answer and walked away); maybe then he will understand that it’s not cool to force this upon both the ladies. Sai saying the dialogue of “aur koi” does come across as a bit distasteful but she put it as is. She doesn’t know how to sugarcoat and as she said the truth is always bitter. Pakhi isn’t fit to be anyone’s mentor right now because she herself is lost in her emotions. Instead of making it easier for the ladies, Virat is only making it worse. Rather than Pakhi and sai, it’s Virat who’s over involved nature is messing things up. He should leave Sai and Pakhi alone for once with their choices.

@bold - I totally agree with you. Sai doesn't know how to mince words. So she says it as she sees it. Though it may come off as insulting and hurtful, there is some amount of truth in it.

And I don't think Pakhi will openly tell Virat that she doesn't want to be involved in Sai's life, because Virat has created this perfect illusion of her and he doesn't want to break it. Also, she is already insecure as she feels that Virat is slipping away from her, and her telling that she doesn't want to mentor Sai might make him turn away from her even more.

Originally posted by: happy007

Virat needs to stop imposing his decisions on everyone.

Sai needs to tone down her hostility towards Virat & Pakhi, ignore the shit out of the amar-premis & focus on her own dreams.

Pakhi needs to start saying NO to Virat & his stupid demands.

but alas! that won't happen & we will keep getting tortured with the drama for a long time 🤣

I only hope Sai puts Virat in his place and gives him a reality check on how "immature" she is. And then focus on her padhai and leave that pagal-khana. Probably even take Ashwini with her.

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

The last part was so good when Sai was questioning him.

When she said "aur koi nahi mila" i think its because Virat keeps shoving Pakhi on her. In the segment yesterday, Ayesha said that Sai is not offended as such by Pakhi, but Virat keeps on bringing Pakhi, and I think Virat kind of think he is responsible for Pakhi as well. Sai is already riled up with his family and he keeps grouping these two together.

Exactly! Also, when Virat keeps pushing Sai down Pakhi's throat, she feels that she's burden to him and that's why he's giving her responsibility to others.

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

If you notice the scene where they are holding hands for the pictures and he tells her photo khinchwane aur zimmedari nibhane me farak hai tumhe samajhne ke liye aur mature Hona padega, she literally swallows her anger. I think she handled herself with so much maturity instead of pushing him away and saying, "Aap Apne aap ko samajhte kya hain?"

Seriously... at that moment, if Sai had hit Virat on his head with something hard, I wouldn't have minded. Like seriously... what has photos got to do with this conversation. When she spoke about dil se zimmedaari nibhana, she wasn't even talking about the photos, she was talking about how he's trying to thrust Sai's responsibility on everyone else. But hamara Virat too "mature" to understand Sai's words.

Originally posted by: LadyWhistledown

Exactly! Also, when Virat keeps pushing Sai down Pakhi's throat, she feels that she's burden to him and that's why he's giving her responsibility to others.

True. And this is insulting to her, as well.