Why did Menka go to Yuvraj!!!!

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Posted: 17 years ago
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I simply don't get it. When Yuvraj is making frequent trips, she probably has his mobile and knows he is @ the office then why did she have to go his home?? That woman doesn't think before she does things then cries over split milk.

Don't you agree that if she really loved and trusted Savitri's daughters then she wouldn't have gone to Yuvraj's house in the first place?

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Posted: 17 years ago
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You got a good point.
Yuvraj visits the Garodias regularly. Menka knows Kajri's true colors. She shouldn't have just went to the Garodia Niwas, knowing that Menka may insult her. She might've thought that Yuvraj would be home but then, even if he was there, Kajri might try to cover up the matter and shoo Menka away before he would see her.
It would have been best if she had waited for Yuvraj or as you said, contacted him on his cell. 😊
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I might be wrong here and I do apologize if I offend...

I think Menaka has the traditional "Indian Mother with Son Syndrome." It's almost mythical, bordering ever so slightly on Freudian (not the weird stuff). Let me explain:

SON can do no wrong. Menaka blamed Kajri, Rasili, Suryakant, Savitri, the girls, but never her son. My poor baby 20+ year old Yuvraj. It was his karma. Why did god not save her son from Kajri? He was tricked into kicking his mom, dad, sister, grandmother and others out.

When push comes to shove, SON will choose his mother and family above all else. I don't think we've seen that with Yuvraj at all. Just because he has become more involved with his exiled family members, it does not mean he will give $$$. He should have offered already, so that his father's life can be improved. Instead, he chose to invest that $$$ in outfitting Kajri with the latest saris and jewelry.

The SON is the mother's badge of honor in the family. With no real job or etc, her great achievement is to give birth to a boy, who is valued in India and who will care for his family in the future, assuming he does not meet a girl like girl.

Menaka like other mothers think "I've done so much for him. He is the apple of my eye. He is the one that loves me and needs me most." And she'll forsake other relationships to protect her son. Yuvraj and Menaka, at a glance.

It's hard to get rid of these preconceived (and perhaps slightly true way back when) notions. When the economy changes, the values will change, and the family structure will change.

BTW, in the last few years, I've come across many people who've volunteered that their sisters do more for their families than their brothers, who other CEOs at home to answer to.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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OOPS. šŸ˜†

I meant a girl like Kajri, instead of a girl like girl.
5th paragraph beginning with badge of honor.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Why does Menka need Yuvraj to confront Kajri for the money?

The family has forgiven Yuvraj for his mistakes and welcomed him back in the "family" graces...Why hasn't he contributed or volunteered the money on his own...The property is still in his name.
When the Doctor told them the amount of money needed..Yuvraj being the son who has all should of said "I will help my father now, by paying for the surgery", instead of having the family wonder where the money will come from...



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Posted: 17 years ago
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And you know what, it doesn't even occur to them that Yuvraj should've paid! 😲

Even better, they don't even blame or question him about it!

This family is a piece of work! šŸ‘
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Posted: 17 years ago
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true.. but i think the only reason that menka went to yuvraj was because in her itty bitty brain of hers... she keeps thinking of how savitri & the daughters keep getting the credit for everything .. so she probably wanted to "help out" but getting her own flesh & blood to help out to get some credit .. thats all menka ever thinks about .. i mean she lost her husband because she wanted yuvraj to get evveerrything .. i dont believe her tears at all .. 🤢

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Posted: 17 years ago
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its funny how yuvraj was always flying around the family when they didnt want him around and now when he's needed is convientely dissappeared of the radar.. GFN son..😔 seriously though meenka is so fine tuned to a son being the end all that she will never change and baa is responsible for that syndrome for that is why meneka for 20 odd years has ruled the house cause she gave birth to a son.. disgusting.... 😔 but this is a bitter reality and so i totally agree with gp00 well saidšŸ‘

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Posted: 17 years ago
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You are right Menaka shdnt have gone there. I agree with gp00 views. The only reason possible is Menaka wanted to carve a place for herself back in the eyes of Baa and others. She has been feeling jealous so by getting the money she hopes to get the limelight back.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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woww wot a point u observed n pointed gud one yes ofcourse she had his cell no n if she wanted she cud have acted differently but tehn we shud never forget our teleserial writers keep forgetting things n act illogically smtimes so may be we can think yuv lost his mobile or menka forgot hsi num šŸ˜‰

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