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Posted: 17 years ago
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Guys we all hate Kajri very much but there r somethings to be noted .

In the episode where Kajri meets Dev , it is shown that she was driving and the car broke down , and she tells Yuvraj that she drove herself as the driver had gone somewhere .

Now , Kajri is a prostitute , but she has been shown independent enough to learn driving . None of the Betiyaan have been shown to have this practical skill . They constantly look at the faces of their husbands for the smallest of things . . Kajri on the other hand doesnt need a man for anything ....even a paid one , like the driver , her servant . She is perfectly capable of managing without a man . Kajri is more independent than the Betiyaan.

Kajri also doesnt take nonsense from any man ....she gives back real good . Surya keeps quiet , Rasik keeps quiet , Yuvraj gulps in front of her ....Shitij is totally tongue tied . Kajri isn't afraid of any male domination . The Betiyaan ...Saraswati and Laxmi take torture from men....first their Dad , then their husbands . Kajri is fearless .

During the Daan pooja [ hope u guys havent forgotten ] Kajri is the only female who asks her father in law an important question . Why was he trying to be mahaan and gain glory of doing Daan by stripping his daugters of ornaments ? This question was very very valid . None of the Betiyaan showed this practical sense .

Kajri bluntly tells in front of all when she is found out that Yuvrajs crimes were unpardonable . Whereas the Betiyaan find his crimes [ getting his dad almost shot , forging , insulting his own mom , throwing his family out on the streets] totally pardonable .

Kajri and Rasili r shown to have better business sense than Surya who blindly signs papers inspite of being tricked once by his own son .

Kajri is as loyal to Rasili as the Betiyaan r to their Dad . Infact , the Betiyaan hide many facts from their Dad [ like Karans story ] but Kajri discusses evrything with Rasili and respects her experience .

Agreed , Kaj is evil and only loves money . But all the qualities that a woman needs in this age .....to be independent , sharp , quick witted , fearless , are in this negative character ......the positive characters , the Betiyaan only sob sob sob and show a woman to be helpless till she is almost half dead ! Now you tell me , who is superior....Kaj , or the Betiyaan ?

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Superb topic for discussion and excellent points👏 My comments are below in red😊

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Guys we all hate Kajri very much but there r somethings to be noted .

In the episode where Kajri meets Dev , it is shown that she was driving and the car broke down , and she tells Yuvraj that she drove herself as the driver had gone somewhere .

Now , Kajri is a prostitute , but she has been shown independent enough to learn driving . None of the Betiyaan have been shown to have this practical skill . They constantly look at the faces of their husbands for the smallest of things . . Kajri on the other hand doesnt need a man for anything ....even a paid one , like the driver , her servant . She is perfectly capable of managing without a man . Kajri is more independent than the Betiyaan.

Very well said, the Garodia family is known as one of the richest families of Rajpipla and the girls grew up in riches but yet never were that independant to learn driving. Here I think this is since they grew up in such a sheltered atmosphere unlike Kajri, and on top of it, they were always neglected and never given much importance or freedom like Yuvraj had. Probably that's why the girls never learnt driving. For that matter, we haven't even seen any of the girls going to college, so we can't even be sure how educated they are. Maybe thats the message they are trying to show, if ur not independant enough, then you may end up like the Betiyaan crying all day long😆

Kajri also doesnt take nonsense from any man ....she gives back real good . Surya keeps quiet , Rasik keeps quiet , Yuvraj gulps in front of her ....Shitij is totally tongue tied . Kajri isn't afraid of any male domination . The Betiyaan ...Saraswati and Laxmi take torture from men....first their Dad , then their husbands . Kajri is fearless .

Wow, I never realized how all the men are afraid to speak in front of her. The only fearless man we have in this show right now is Dev😆

During the Daan pooja [ hope u guys havent forgotten ] Kajri is the only female who asks her father in law an important question . Why was he trying to be mahaan and gain glory of doing Daan by stripping his daugters of ornaments ? This question was very very valid . None of the Betiyaan showed this practical sense .

I thought the very same thing when I saw that episode. Even though she said it from a negative angle, what she said had a lot of sense and truth in it. When he's completely broke, he doesn't need to still be the one to give the biggest donation.

Kajri bluntly tells in front of all when she is found out that Yuvrajs crimes were unpardonable . Whereas the Betiyaan find his crimes [ getting his dad almost shot , forging , insulting his own mom , throwing his family out on the streets] totally pardonable .

Yes, the Betiyaan tend to forgive and forget pretty easily. But here, I'm thinking its because of their different kinds of upbringings that the Betiyaan and Kajri have had. The Betiyaan for one had a mother like Savitri who always taught them to be the epitome of sacrifice. Whereas Kajri grew up in a very crude atmosphere where she always had to fight back to survive.

Kajri and Rasili r shown to have better business sense than Surya who blindly signs papers inspite of being tricked once by his own son .

That is very true. Surya is the businessman, but always signs w/o reading and never seems to learn from his past mistakes. He blindly trusts ppl so quickly. After having such a bad experience, he shouldn't be trusting anyone and shud be cautious at every step. Wonder how he ever managed his business.

Kajri is as loyal to Rasili as the Betiyaan r to their Dad . Infact , the Betiyaan hide many facts from their Dad [ like Karans story ] but Kajri discusses evrything with Rasili and respects her experience .

Yup, thats one thing very good I find abt Kajri. She married Yuvraj and got all this wealth. She doesn't even need to give a 2nd thought to Rasili, because she is Yuvraj's wife and she'll get all the money. But yet she is as loyal as ever to Rasili.

Agreed , Kaj is evil and only loves money . But all the qualities that a woman needs in this age .....to be independent , sharp , quick witted , fearless , are in this negative character ......the positive characters , the Betiyaan only sob sob sob and show a woman to be helpless till she is almost half dead ! Now you tell me , who is superior....Kaj , or the Betiyaan ?

To survive in today's world, Kajri is definitely more superior. I wish she gave the Betiyaan a crash course on being independant and surviving w/o always looking around for help.

I enjoyed this topic.. thanks for such a lovely discussion😊

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Posted: 17 years ago
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wowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww wot a graet thread really liked ur attitude dear 👏 u r absolutely correct she must be a prostitute but she is a real daring lady i think haalat my dear haalaat made hger dat way not to fear any but betiyaan they come from a conservative family where girls r always da recessive part so waise bhi society is a male dominating society kajri in a way is perfect i really appreciate ur thinking n ur lovely brilliant post 👏
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I think betiyaan beacuse they are clever they always help their parents but at the same time they sweet there is a thing as too fast 😆 . Betiyaan are shown like that in the context of the show but at the end of the day they are strong and know whats right and wrong which is what makes a human 😳 not that they can drive or get one over on another person
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Posted: 17 years ago
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well dts da whle point!! dey shw dt kajri iz da daring 1 and betiyaan arnt bcze bachpan se betiyaan ev bin tortured since dey whr little kids kajri es bin bindaas nt afraid of nefink she cn do wateva she liks no 1 iz der 2 stp er

betiyaan may seem a bit quite nw bt wen it cm wen saraswati pati wz anoyin er, laxmi wz da 1 who stood nxt 2 er u no

betiyaan whr da 1 who tld bapuji n every1 bout who kajri reli iz!!!

lik i fink nw kajri, betiyaan ki jaal mein fas rahi he n dey r goin 2 teach er a lessn so she wnt be able 2 do nefink n betiyaan wl b shwn reli daring
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Thanks Kruthi 😊 . One more point : It is Kajri who ultimately teaches Menaka the lesson of her life , not the Betiyaan . The Betiyaan fail in teaching Menaka a lesson...they just keep quiet and see their mom suffering . Even Laxmi fails to pay back Menaka in the same coin [ she does it with Dharaben ]but she is unable to stop Menaka from dragging Saraswati to Abortion....and at a certain point she shields {!!} Menaka after realising that she swiped Saraswati's gifts and made her look bad in the sasural . She tries feeding her cake instead [ on her birthday] and Menaka turns her face away ! It is wrong to pamper a bad person's ego ....it makes him more bad as he thinks she can get away with it all the time . I feel Menaka behaved badly cause she got no opposition in the house ....which she should have . It took an outsider like Kajri to give her back in the same coin. It is Kajri , not Laxmi , who ultimately exposes Menaka in front of Surya by telling him that do you know what she has done ?? We expected this from Laxmi . Seeing Menaka , the hateful villain, come to her knees was something we viewers wanted to see for a long time and this satisfaction was given to us by Kajri ...not the Betiyaan . And she did it in a second , she just put her in her place ! She doesn't take any faaltu domination from any female just coz she is elderly [ the Betiyaan take it from Baa , Menaka , Dharaben...Kavita Didi .}.I love the Betiyaan too but facts r facts . Tell me what u feel kruthi .
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Thanks Kruthi 😊 . One more point : It is Kajri who ultimately teaches Menaka the lesson of her life , not the Betiyaan . The Betiyaan fail in teaching Menaka a lesson...they just keep quiet and see their mom suffering . Even Laxmi fails to pay back Menaka in the same coin [ she does it with Dharaben ]but she is unable to stop Menaka from dragging Saraswati to Abortion....and at a certain point she shields {!!} Menaka after realising that she swiped Saraswati's gifts and made her look bad in the sasural . She tries feeding her cake instead [ on her birthday] and Menaka turns her face away ! It is wrong to pamper a bad person's ego ....it makes him more bad as he thinks she can get away with it all the time . I feel Menaka behaved badly cause she got no opposition in the house ....which she should have . It took an outsider like Kajri to give her back in the same coin. It is Kajri , not Laxmi , who ultimately exposes Menaka in front of Surya by telling him that do you know what she has done ?? We expected this from Laxmi . Seeing Menaka , the hateful villain, come to her knees was something we viewers wanted to see for a long time and this satisfaction was given to us by Kajri ...not the Betiyaan . And she did it in a second , she just put her in her place ! She doesn't take any faaltu domination from any female just coz she is elderly [ the Betiyaan take it from Baa , Menaka , Dharaben...Kavita Didi .}.I love the Betiyaan too but facts r facts . Tell me what u feel kruthi .

Another good point👏 None of the Betiyaan did a thing to expose Menka even after all the torture she gave to them, it was only Kajri who could do that.

Just think, if Laxmi was like Kajri, then all this time she spent suffering at Karan and Kavita's, she could have given them back. Instead of crying and looking upset, if she had looked unmoved after everything they told her, then they wud not have gotten the satisfaction they wanted. Once Dev started handling Kajri, Laxmi was relieved, and Karan was unhappy sensing that. That was the strategy she had to use right from the start while working at saving her father. It was only sheer luck that Karan's mom woke up at the perfect time when Surya was trapped. What are the odds for that to happen? Only because this is a soap, it happened w/ perfect timing. But realistically to survive people like Menka, Rasik, Karan, Kavita, etc you have to be like Kajri.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Great points, I think the Betiyaan rule as they have nice personalities, shame, and alot of love for their family!

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