Gauri should take some lessons from jhanvi

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Posted: 16 years ago
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May be Gauri should take some lessons from Jhanvi when it comes to self respect and how to hold on to your man and make him crazy about yourself .
Gauri truly needs lesson in self respect and make her man(akash) crazy about her.
If she can dream about him and fantasize and goes to him without glasses and make fool of herself in his office why not now when they are on their honeymoon.
Gauri when will you learn untill you keep bowing you will be kicked.
Learn to kick back girl and stop bowing to him. as for your knowledge all humans are created equal and you have upper hand as long as devyani is with you.
start giving back to akash in the same tone he is giving you and may be he will learn.
There is no one better than yourself girl the sooner you learn the better it is especially when you dealing with a scum and looser like akash.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I so agree with u. Kick Akash's butt, how can u be subjected to abject humiliation and still not retaliate. Silly Gauri????? She should explain everything clearly to Devyani.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Gauri has been conditioned to be this way. Even her own family doesn't believe she can do any better than Akash. They think she is LUCKY to have him. That is why Savitri pushed her into this marriage. They really think she is just so hideous that no one will ever accept her. To Gauri, the be all and end all of life is to please her husband. If she fails at this, she has failed at life. Akash has done nothing wrong in her view. She thinks she is the one who has failed him.

To some degree yes, she should get a makeover. But first she needs a brain makeover. I think women should try to look their best...but they should do it for themselves, so that they will feel more confident. Not for an arrogant S** like Akash.

As for Jhanvi, the woman who apologizes for freeing a small girl from being tied to a fountain in the burning hot sun is hardly a role model. The girl who stays in a house with a misogynist and abusive man should not be used as an example. Gauri tolerates humiliation, Jhanvi tolerates abuse. Both are equally stupid, hopless, pathetic, disgusting, desperate empty shells. I have an equal disdain for both of them.
**plz let us not use such language as we are not allowed
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Posted: 16 years ago
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rainbow I do agree with you somewhat why jhanvi looses self repect or allow them to insult her when it comes to her elder ones. I guess we are taught when mother or father figure do wrong things of punish you for even doing right it is all justified.
She did not oppose menka's all wrong doing same way she is now doing with her FIL.
I only said in the context with her and Nikhil she always stood up to him.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Let's not forget that Akash needs a mental makeover too.

He thinks he can do whatever he wants with Gauri because she won't say anything to anyone. He treats her worse than people treat their pets. Actual people talk to their pets humbly and care for them. I know he hates her, but to what extent? Is it even worth his time to display such hatred for his own wife--a person who will be with him 24/7 no matter what he does to her?
He probably gets a kick out of whenever Gauri has tears in her eyes and he probably gets a rushing jolt of endorphins to know that she is suffering because of him. Akash is a very horrible rakshash!!!!!🤬
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Posted: 16 years ago
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i am agree with you but i am more against in case of akash.is this is good if you are good looking you just hate other for her bad look.......akash is doing wrong i dont want gauri change herself to get akash love but to give leson to him .first of all she just catch him in her love and then leave.......akash deserve this
i m agree with rachna he is rakshash .if he will try he can change gauri but no he wants very beautiful girl not love........
janvi track is so boring i dont watch clearly so i cant comment........
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Posted: 16 years ago
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janvi is doing wrong by interfering in her father in law life.everybody had one past even janvi had she was kothewali ........2mrw if her sasur will call her kothewali and will interfere in her life she will go against him..so why she is doing all these ....why she want to know about pooja........why she opened the door without anybody permission may be it create some problem for her family.......she has self respect but she is over confident ........
gauri is better atleast she is not intersested in akash past and ready to accept her husnband if he change himself..........
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Agree with rainabow totally . The girls r really not worth setting as examples . Saraswati cannot be a role model as she herself tolerated abuse , laxmi too , jhanvi who bullies Nikhil knowing he is hooked but is submissive to sasur , and Gauri is most pathetic , dressed ib Banarsi saris and sobbing on honeymoon . Just my opinion . Why blame Akash when wife is dressed like some bejewelled cow . None of the girls know what meaning of real seilf development or self respect is . All they know is being submissive and then doing untimely phokat ka arrrogance .

But Di , I laughed a lot about wat u said abt Gauri fantasizing abt Akash in office . The way u put it is so natural , as if we chat on phone or while having tea .😆

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