Originally posted by: BrainEaterOwl
Replying to your comment without quoting since I'm from mobile.
I get everything you said Dii. I understand why they got her married to Yash. Khuranas were one of the best family and getting Geet married in their family where they agreed to let her continue her studies, Yash being the mature, sensible person; was the best they could have for their daughter who was nave. In fact, I believe Geet's parents are one of the best parents any child can have. They just wanted Geet to grow up & so they thought marriage was the best option since its brings a sense of responsibilities, maturity, which Geet lacked. And we did saw that Geet was disappointed in herself when she saw that she knew nothing compared to Arpita. If I remember correctly, she even cursed herself for not listening to her mother once she realized her carelessness. So guess, Geet's parents decision was indeed right.
The reason I partially blamed Geet's mother cos Geet couldnt understand the relationship shared btw a couple & also Yash's wish of expressing his love was delayed, remained unfulfilled (more so I feel really bad for Yash).
Her mother knew how her daughter is, since she was the one worried about Geet or that she was a over pampered kid, and so I felt it was her mother's duty/responsibility to at least make few things cleared to Geet cos she knew daughter lacks majorly.
I understand talking about initimate relationship with their daughter is an awkward situation & not all mothers are comfortable & do that. But she could have at least given some hints to Geet to make her realize in what type of relationship Geet was getting in if not giving her every detailings. Her mother knew Geet inside out, so I just felt had she made her daughter prepared at least for something, it would have helped Geet some way. Also, Geet wouldnt have felt guilty.
Also, I said that a mother-daughter usually has a talk btw them before marriage cos I've usually seen/heard about it. Plus it wasnt like Geet's mother was way too shy that she couldnt even share anything with her daughter. Or may be I feel this cos my relation with my mother is friendly & we talk, discuss on everything without any awkwardness. So I just kinda felt that Geet's mother pushed her into marriage without teaching her anything.
May be I've this wrong belief that a mother always talk to their daughters before getting them married.
But as you said, people learn from their own mistakes & grow up, and Geet indeed matured. We can now say she has become a married woman in true sense from an immature girl.
-Sanjana!
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