Originally posted by: BrainEaterOwl
Okay this update just made me all the more confuse. So please, you have to bear all the non sense I m going to type here. It might even feel I m over thinking and over assuming. Or even as if I have completely lost it. So if read at your own risk, dont tell me I dint warn you before.
Don't get confused..Now it's time to clear all te confusions..and even don't worry about me I m all ready to read this without a frown on my faceđ
So Yash's surprise to Geet was their wedding night and also his confession that he loves her. Wedding night dint come much as a surprise cos I had somewhere guessed it. It was one of the guess from many other weird though guesses. But him confessing his love for her was a complete shock. I seriously couldnt ever think about that. Specially after reading 78th update where he completely avoids her just dint let me ever think he could actually love her.
Not only you but most of the reader have guessed that..but the confession part was the most shocking for all of you..there was some reason behind his avoidance towards Geet
So now the question arises is why he avoided getting close to Geet on her birthday that too when they were in their bedroom? Her exams were close, like in a month time or something, so could it be possible that he realized his love for her in this one month, btw her birthday till her exams time?
As I earlier sad that Yash ahd some reasons behind his behavior on her birthday..actually Birthday was the only a proof of is beavior..ab usko pyar kab hua aur kaise hua ye sab secret hai..
Was he stopping himself just cos of her exams? But like Maan thought there are so many protections out there in the world so it couldnt be exams I feel. I assume he wanted to explore his relationship with Geet. Wanted them to be strong in their relationship emotionally than physically? May be wanted to be sure enough or even that he wanted to fall in love then experience the other aspect of a couples life? It could also be that he simply wasnt ready for it. It could be anything actually. But definitely not just Geet's exams. At least this is what I feel after reading 78th update where he had to cough to get Geet distracted.
Her exams was one of te reasons..Yas was a man of few words and such persons are of patience.. He was a mature man who supported Geet completely..and be ready for one more shoc..I m sure you will be wen you will know the reason of his behavior..Haha his distraction was for something elseđ
Anyways moving on to Maan, firstly I liked the fact that he thought Geet deserves to know the truth cos she indeed does deserves to know the truth. Secondly, I liked the brother in him which dint wanted Geet to doubt his brother's n her own husband's (Yash) love for her.
Maan is a true brother he and Yash never considered themselves as two..they always said that they were two bodies with one soul..and e needs to make Geet's mind clear for is brother
Though I m surprised about him being emotional cos Geet-Yash hadnt started their actual married life even after 6 months of marriage.
He was not enmotinal because yash and Geet were not in relation ,,he was emotinal thinking that Yash sould not express his feelings for Geet and Geet could not know that Yash Loved her..
I mean I thought he would have understood it by now that a couple doesnt just come close after sharing physical intimacy. It equally needs friendship, emotional bond n support from your partner n lot other things.
For Maan it was not a big thing that Geet and Yash were not in any relation but he is confused because they were very open and close to each other,,they never hesitated to come close even in front of the family..
Else dint he shared physical relationship with Arpita? But was he in love with her even after being in a physical relation with her for 6 months of his marriage? And not to forget she got pregnant too. So even after being intimitately close to Arpita he dint developed any kind of feelings for her, it shouldnt be a big deal if Geet-Yash dint started their married life.
Though Maan and Arpita were physcally close and it is a very common thing in an arranged marriage..couple start their marriage by physical realtions and then come emotionally close..In Arpita and Maan's case..Arpitta was a calm and of shy nature..May be she felt in opening to Maan...may be she could take some more time to open..Maan too never disliked her. he always tried to make her open to him but she could not..She was so scared of taiji that she always tried to emerge as an ideal DIL in front of family..she fullfilled her every duty to wards Family and Maan but forgot to be a friend to her husband..
After all I believe there are two types of couples in arrange marriages, one like Maan, being the practical one, continues to share the typical relation n eventually fall in love. Or even then doesnt fall in love but their kid brings them close at least emotionally n then eventually fall in love. Second type, where couple decides to explore their feelings, know each other better, their likes n dislikes, be emotionally depended on each other n then confess when they finally are ready to take their marriage to next level, like Yash. As of now, to me, Yash seems to be coming in the second category here.
Right there are two types of couples an arrange nmarriageMaan and Arpiya were sure come among te first category..But I think Yash and Geet had a very nice understanding.Let's see if he comes in the second category or not
Coming to Maan again, I feel he could get over Arpita cos firstly he never loved her despite starting the married life with her. I believe he wasnt even that much hurt when she died along with the fetus in her womb, waiting to take the shape of a baby soon. I dont know why but I felt he over came her demise very early. First, may be cos he dint love her. Secondly, his grief over losing his brother was much more than the grief of losing his wife n child. Had it been only Arpita dying in that accident then may be he would have been in grief but even then I feel he could have gotten over it n may be married second time after few months. Thirdly he dint got much time to think over Arpita's loss cos he was anyways busy handling his business, his parents n more over saving Geet from their evil chachi n making her come out of her own grief of losing her husband.
I agree that Maan was not in love with Arpia but he never disliked her.and tried his best to open her ti himself..May be they were going to take more time to develop the emotions for each other..He was hurt when Arpita died ,,he was that ublucky that he got the news of his baby after he too left him ..that baby might bind them in that emotional bond but it did not happen..More over he did not get time to mourn over his wife;s death as his brother too died with Arpita leaving his wife behind her and he had promised Yash to be there for her in his absence..Though that promise was done in some other sense but now he had to take care of his family and specially Geet ..Taiji was there to make her life hell...so he had to stand strong with her to save her..
But that wasnt the case with Geet. I feel had Geet being in a intimate relationship with Yash or had she gotten Yash's surprise when he was alive n listen to his confession face to face, experiencing all the feelings he would have evoked in her, then marrying Maan would have been WAY MORE tougher for her. Cos then she would have known what exactly all these feelings mean after personally experiencing it all from Yash already. So accepting her marriage with Maan would have been a lot more tougher for her as well for Maan to make her fall for him. Plus even if she had still fallen for Maan i.e after experiencing every feelings from Yash, she would surely have been confused, more in denial, taken much more time to realize her feelings for Maan also much much more time to get over the guilt she would have felt thinking she is cheating her first husband by loving Maan.
Geet was bound with yash and loved him..and was ready to spend her life in yash's name..She did not need his confession..She was quite happy with him..and even in this satge she took time to accept Maan as her husband..if she was in any relation with Yash it would have more difficult for her to accept her marriage with Maan..
And m assuming all this after reading how despite not actually not being in love with Yash n just thinking that she loves Yash, she was ready to spend all her life as Yash's widow. So if without feeling n experiencing what the actual married life is, she can keep such strong feelings in her heart for Yash, then after sharing a perfect couple life with Yash it would have been way more tougher for her to let go off of Yash n his memories. So here I dont even want to imagine what Maan could have gone through n how much he had to wait, had Geet-Yash were a perfect couple that he assumed them to be.
Yes... she loved Yash without sharing any relation with him...that's why I have brought this twist..
If she was in any relation with Yash you can imagine how pitiful condition maan would have fallen in.. He had fallen in love with Geet..
So after all the blabbering there, I only wanted to say that just cos Geet-Yash dint start their married life doesnt mean they are any less of a married couple. And I feel none other than Maan should have felt that. And so him getting emotional just cos Geet-Yash dint start their married or Geet not experiencing the actual married life got me really confused.
Here I completely agree wit you..they were perfect couple even though did not share any relation..Maan was only feeling emotional because Yash could not confess his feeling for Geet and Geet could not know his feelings as well and now is confused with some emotions..
After all even after being in a intimate relationship with Arpita, he couldnt fall for her n gotten over her quickly after her demise. Plus not to forget he actually fell for Geet despite he assuming she loves Yash. There was no physical interaction btw Maan n Geet n yet he was head over heels in love with her.
completely agree here too..Physical relations are not the proof of love ...there can be love without relation and is can not be even if you share te relation and Maan with Arpita and Geet with Yash are the perfect example of it..
So I thought he should have known that though a couple not sharing starting their marriage life doesnt mean they dont love each other. After all every couple has different ways of leading their married life. Not all are practical. And they experience different situations too. So Maan getting emotional got over my head.
Maan could see Geet and Yash in a deep bond..but he only wants to know that why Yash wanted to confess his feelings while Geet claimed that she loved Maan
I know you reply to your every comment Rashmi, so whenever you reply to my this non sense, over thinking n hyper active mind comment, do PM me the page number or link of it, either on IF or even inbox me in FB. My ID is Sanjana Sarkar n I m in your friend lists.
Don't say this a nonsense..I loved the way you put your all thoughts and confusions here in a very clear way..Thiugh I have tried to clear your all doubt .If something is still left to know ..you are always welcome to ask..
Oh n yes, if you are in any way offended or hurt by my comment, then m extremely sorry about it. I m really confused at Maan's behavior n thoughts and so blabbered whatever came to my mind. I myself dont know if this comment has made any sense even.
I never feel hurt or offended as nothing is said or asked about me ..it's all about my work and I feel so glad that you said everything truly and clearly...I will try my best to clear everything in my coming updates..
Waiting to know Geet's reaction over Yash's surprise. Though I believe her confusion would get cleared, I for one fact think, she will take it entirely differently. Cos now she loves Maan n her head is cleared at that one fact. So may be Yash's surprise might just make her emotional n overwhelmed her. But she wont feel any guilt of loving Maan. And she might also know that she just thought she was in love with Yash but in reality she wasnt.
Don't worry ..Geet is not going to get hurt or to feel pain..Maan is there with her at every step..I don't believe to creat MUs between Husband and wife,,Infect she will feel good and get a reason to share her heart with Maan as she is going to get the answers to all her confusions..
-Sanjana!
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