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Is it the mother's fault who did not raise voice against the violence thereby encouraging Rathore?
Even if she couldnt make herself strong she should have imbibed that strength in her daughters.But then Amma had given Naina a last chance ...a chance to flee away.
And so Rathore got to know there was something more powerful in the world .
Death.
His daughter 's death.
So the control freak father couldnt control her daughter's death.
Strange isn't it.She had power to decide whether to live or not.With her death came the biggest defeat of his life.
It must have been hardest blow he had ever known .May be harder than the blows he inflicted on his wife's body and soul whose witness was Naina.
She with her death made sure that he learnt his lesson.And cannot make another Naina out of Meghna.

I cannot digest this thing.You remember you had written an os on a suicide topic.We had a discussion and you had told we have this very short moment when we can decide whether to give up or not. She must have had that moment.Why didnt she live for her mother and sister.
Weren't they worth it? After all the reason of her mother carrying on the relationship with her father must be her daughters.
May be the love that she recieved from Sameer was unmatchable.She must have been very much in love to kill herself. I remember her making a statement which implied that she would prefer death to separation. But what about the ones who loved you Naina.

Originally posted by: ardentfitzcy

I cannot digest this thing.You remember you had written an os on a suicide topic.We had a discussion and you had told we have this very short moment when we can decide whether to give up or not. She must have had that moment.Why didnt she live for her mother and sister.
Weren't they worth it? After all the reason of her mother carrying on the relationship with her father must be her daughters.
May be the love that she recieved from Sameer was unmatchable.She must have been very much in love to kill herself. I remember her making a statement which implied that she would prefer death to separation. But what about the ones who loved you Naina.

It shouldn't be called suicide.
It should be called the end of hope.

She lost hope and did not have the faith to endure.

Originally posted by: ardentfitzcy

Main naa bhagoongi...Andy toh mera hi hai...Woh balcony wala banda toh Maan hai jao dhundho kahin baitha pee rha hoga...I m planning to get transformed into bike 😆 For him love is bike. Dont think i will leave him without a fight..aapke laal ishq wale Maan ne sikhaya hai.

😲 Shoo bola na!!

so shoo!! 😆

So geet thinks herself to be instrumental of all this havoc in so many lives.The biggest being Naina's death.
She must be thinking she could have stopped all this.
Poor girl.
I am afraid how the story turn up now.

A masterpiece on its way.

Originally posted by: ardentfitzcy

So geet thinks herself to be instrumental of all this havoc in so many lives.The biggest being Naina's death.
She must be thinking she could have stopped all this.
Poor girl.
I am afraid how the story turn up now.

A masterpiece on its way.

Guilt is a burden on the soul. It is impossible to get rid of

Let's see MY Andy fix it now 😆

Originally posted by: ardentfitzcy

I was thinking had Tweesha or Geet been in Naina's place what would thay do?
Tweesha would have surely put up a fight or ran away.
Geet she would have gone with the marraige but not put an end to her life.
But then this is Tweesha who always knew to fight for herself..this would be tweesha who had learnt to take nonsense from anyone ...if she recieved one and then would give back ten.
And this is the geet who had been always mature being motherless had made her more responsible and wise.
But neither Geet nor Tweesha has Vikram rathore as a father.Had it been the case we would see a different Geet or Tweesha may be similar to Naina.

I want to blame her for taking such a drastic step.But what made her an escapist is the biggest question. All such qualities we acquire as we grow up.It is the surroundings the environment ,our parents , friends playing a pivotal role.

Twisha in Naina's place would be out of character.

Geet also due to her mother's death is hyper sensitive. She would have borne the pain as you pointed out.

Escapist is an interesting term. I think Naina decided to live on her own terms.

Not bending to a father who is worth despising.
Not willing to live without the love she had a brief taste of.
More than escapist, defiant.
More than being pathetic to herself perhaps she thought she was brave.

Don't agree with it but understand it.

Yes Avi that is a better way to put it.
The end of hope.
But nevertheless it was an end of life.
Wasnt she the hope , the cause of living of few people.She took away that with her.
I feel for the mother-sister duo and also for Sameer.
To know that your love is in some part of world is better than knowing that she gave away her life .
He might get to know about it after years still it wouldnt make him feel an iota less.

Originally posted by: ardentfitzcy

Yes Avi that is a better way to put it.
The end of hope.
But nevertheless it was an end of life.
Wasnt she the hope , the cause of living of few people.She took away that with her.
I feel for the mother-sister duo and also for Sameer.
To know that your love is in some part of world is better than knowing that she gave away her life .
He might get to know about it after years still it wouldnt make him feel an iota less.

Yes

That is why in addition to grief, suicide causes a residual anger
The people left behind are mortified with it but also angry that the person gave up. That they did not turn to them.

I am fearing this anger between Tweesha and Geet now.

I found the actions of the mother a pure love.
She let her go. Gave her a chance to escape.
But Naina's overwhelming love for her and the overwhelming fear of the consequences her mother would have to bear made her come back.