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Posted: 12 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: NinnzGurti

First of all your signature was very offending and I don't think that your explanation justified it at all..
You are not the only GC fan that gets hurt when someone bash or abuse him or Drashti for that matter... We love them both and this is the place where we have the opportunity to love and cherish them as Maan and Geet.. Some of us are happy being here reading Geet related stuff and ff's and we should have the right to do that.. Not all of the Geet fans have moved on to PV and MB but they still love them as Maan and Geet and need a place to remember and celebrate them..




I never tried to justify my action, merely apologized for it. My intention was never to offend anyone in Geet forum members knowing I myself was in it, but it looked like that which explains the hate. Sure, go ahead and relive Maan & Geet in this forum, who's stopping anyone. Certainly not me, I have GC to look forward to everyday; certainly not me stopping anyone.

And as for the bashing and me not being the only one getting hurt, well I'd love to some people being defensive for both rather than one in future.

Peace out.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: ..Sadiie..



I never tried to justify my action, merely apologized for it. My intention was never to offend anyone in Geet forum members knowing I myself was in it, but it looked like that which explains the hate. Sure, go ahead and relive Maan & Geet in this forum, who's stopping anyone. Certainly not me, I have GC to look forward to everyday; certainly not me stopping anyone.

And as for the bashing and me not being the only one getting hurt, well I'd love to some people being defensive for both rather than one in future.

Peace out.


I don't understand, you said that you didn't intend to target anyone in Geet forum yet your signature box clearly stated that they should close down Geet forum and turn some 2 faced b*tches homeless...how does this make sense?? How is this not offensive??
This will obviously affect the members in Geet forum and upset them..

and the comment about people only being defensive about of one of them.. well, we can't force people to love them both naa..If you have the right to be a GCian then the rest have a choice to be DDians as well..and honestly i feel that the maaneetians and Gurtians are doing all the work when it comes to defending especially GC - not only here but facebook etc...frankly, GC has the most laziest fans I've seen
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Posted: 12 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: NinnzGurti



I don't understand, you said that you didn't intend to target anyone in Geet forum yet your signature box clearly stated that they should close down Geet forum and turn some 2 faced b*tches homeless...how does this make sense?? How is this not offensive??
This will obviously affect the members in Geet forum and upset them..

and the comment about people only being defensive about of one of them.. well, we can't force people to love them both naa..If you have the right to be a GCian then the rest have a choice to be DDians as well..and honestly i feel that the maaneetians and Gurtians are doing all the work when it comes to defending especially GC - not only here but facebook etc...frankly, GC has the most laziest fans I've seen



You've said it all. No further discussion from my side as I ain't here to create arguments; merely Apologize for my action. (And like yeah, Mere Bolne se your opinion will change and then so will mine on things. Better if we end it here no?)


Peace out 😊.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#14
That is right
im not a gurbina fan or a arya fan either
we are just Gurmeet aka Maan Singh Khurana fans
and we are not two-faced people
we just cant stand when people bash our favorites😆
and i know you did not mean that from the beginning 😊
if there is one thing i know... sadiie can never be wrong ⭐️
Edited by mishtykaur - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#15

Originally posted by: mishtykaur

<font color="#666666">That is right</font>

<font color="#666666">im not a gurbina fan or a arya fan either</font>
<font color="#666666">we are just Gurmeet aka Maan Singh Khurana fans</font>
<font color="#666666">and we are not two-faced people</font>
<font color="#666666">we just cant stand when people bash our favorites😆</font>
<font color="#666666">and i know you did not mean that from thebeginning😊</font>
<font color="#666666">if there is one thing i know... sadiie can never be wrong⭐️</font>



LOL. Jin Logon Ke Liye Siggy Dabba tha, they didn't give two hooties to it; instead I got the hate of people I never wanted to hurt, not even unintentionally. Sigh! LOL
I guess Iss Baar I was wrong in 2 things; Using Bad language, and attracting the wrong people to my Dabba by using a rather confusing Quote.

But Awh Thanks Ji <3
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Posted: 12 years ago
#16

Originally posted by: ..Sadiie..



LOL. Jin Logon Ke Liye Siggy Dabba tha, they didn't give two hooties to it; instead I got the hate of people I never wanted to hurt, not even unintentionally. Sigh! LOL
I guess Iss Baar I was wrong in 2 things; Using Bad language, and attracting the wrong people to my Dabba by using a rather confusing Quote.

But Awh Thanks Ji <3


hota hai hota hai
life mein sab kuch hota hai
but at least you cleared your intention
now its up to them if they accept it or not
and if they don't it is not your fault as you did your part already😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: ..Sadiie..



Like I said, it was an "In the moment" act from me and I have apologized for it. And I also used the word "Some" which CLEARLY Meant not everyone.
I could have been reported to the Mods but what was the need to openly attack me? It was a Mere Signature to begin with yet it was made as though 2000000 people had the same Dabba and "Actually" wanted the forum closed. And the irony, I am a member in this forum which no one acknowledged because I am in Punar Vivah Forum too; that too often.

But Never mind, i'll always remain the wrong doer in everyone's eyes here. I won't even try and change that.


Peace.

When you can make a post generalizing particular group of people out of frustration why should someone else who was your friend should not make saddiee...and saddiee no one hates someone because they belong to another forum unless otherwise we don't give sarcastic comments.. ..i mean the one who are still only in this forum have made any sarcastic comments against you before you made this siggie!!!...if you feel so its personal..
i came her to give you the reply ., and to make you understand what others feel...but in return you gave a very rude reply...if you have considered us your good friend your reply would have been polite...but NO...but you instead blame people in ghsp forum for not being good to you!!!!!...and here i stop talking to you because you clearly expect a reply like you are never wrong or something like that !!!!!! and if you really felt sorry you would not have given such a rude reply...

PEACE!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
#18

Originally posted by: sindu_gurti

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3" color="#006600">When you can make a post generalizing particular group of people out of frustration why should someone else who was your friend should not make saddiee...and saddiee no one hates someone because they belong to anotherforumunless otherwise wedon'tgive sarcastic comments...i mean the one who are still only in this forum have made any sarcastic comments against you before you made this siggie!!!...if you feel so its personal..</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3" color="#006600">i came her to give you the reply ., and to make you understand what others feel...but in return you gave a veryrude reply...if you have considered us your goodfriendyour reply would have been polite...but NO...but youinsteadblame people in ghsp forum for not being good to you!!!!!...and here i stop talking to youbecauseyou clearly expect a reply like you are never wrong or something like that !!!!!! and if you really felt sorry you would not have given such a rude reply...</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3" color="#006600">
</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3" color="#006600">PEACE!!!</font>



You think the above reply of mine was rude? 😕
All I've said Is, what was the need to openly attack me when i had already been reported to the mods? - now if you think it's right for GHSP forum members to openly bash me because of my signature after reporting me, then I guess I was wrong in thinking at least one person would have felt ke both sides were wrong in openly attacking one another (me generalizing and gHSP bashing me as an individual)

And, like you've said, you're not gonna reply to me because my comment was rude as you came here to explain what other members felt - I've already akcnoledged that, I merely came to apologize..

Mere Kehne Se Ke this is the reason why I did it, will anyone believe me? No, because the wrong people attacked me to begin with and I'm still apologizing.


Peace out.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#19
i heard from many of my friends who were still in ghsp forum about you...no one ever told me bad about you..even anu who made the post was shocked to see you made that post and she was hurt..i just replied you in first place because i don't want any kid to get hurt!!.. that's why i tried to explain that to you...have you seen any of us bashing gc here...infact i love GC more than anyone and anything ...all i tried to tell you was there are many in this forum who were not involved in any of the politics and enjoying ghsp forum with peace and i just wrote what those innocent people felt and so that before you do anything of that sort in future you would think once!!!!!...and you very well knew anu is one kind of person who will never bash GC...and i understood you and that's why i accepted your apology because i felt it was sincere.,...so please don't mis- read people and give blunt replies saddie...wE NEVER CONSIDERED THOSE WHO WATCH PV/MB AS OUR ENEMY OR THEY ARE NOT THE MEMBERS OF THIS FORUM.!! btw who are we to decide the members of this forum., its individuals choice...ONLY THOSE MANY WHO JOINED PV FORUM AND MB FORUM LECTURED ABOUT OUR STAY IN THIS GHSP FORUM and made n number of sarcastic comments...but still we didn't mind unless they drag us in any of the issues...you made an apology and you cannot expect everyone to accept it...you have to take the replies back in a very polite way...because you made the post in the forum., an open post and you need to be polite at-least to those who are talking in good terms...you are assuming that people don't like you and with that assumption if you are going to read anything we would sound biased!!!!!!..and peace out to you dear!!!!!!

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Posted: 12 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: sindu_gurti

<font face="Courier New, Courier, mono" size="3" color="#006600">i heard from many of my friends who were still in ghsp forum about you...no one ever told me bad about you..even anu who made the post was shocked to see you made that post and she was hurt..i just replied you in first place because idon'twant any kid to get hurt!!..that'swhy i tried to explain that to you...have you seen any of us bashing gc here...infact i love GC more than anyone and anything ...all i tried to tell you was there are many in this forum who were not involved in any of the politics and enjoying ghsp forum with peace and i just wrote what those innocent people felt and so thatbeforeyou do anything of that sort in future you would think once!!!!!...and you very well knew anu is one kind of person who will never bash GC...and i understood you andthat'swhy iacceptedyour apology because i felt it was sincere.,...so pleasedon'tmis- readpeopleand give blunt replies saddie...wENEVERCONSIDERED THOSE WHO WATCH PV/MB AS OUR ENEMY OR THEY ARE NOT THE MEMBERS OF THIS FORUM.!! btw who are we to decide the members of this forum., its individuals choice...ONLY THOSE MANY WHO JOINED PV FORUM AND MB FORUM LECTURED ABOUT OUR STAY IN THIS GHSP FORUM and made n number of sarcastic comments...but still wedidn'tmind unless they drag us in any of the issues...you made an apology and youcannotexpect everyone to accept it...you have to take the replies back in a very polite way...because you made the post in the forum., an open post and you need to be politeat-leastto those who are talking in good terms...you are assuming thatpeopledon'tlike you and with that assumption if you are going to read anything we would soundbiased!!!!!!..and peace out to you dear!!!!!!</font>






I am Not Trying to justify my actions, in fact I am sincerely apologizing for keeping such a signature.

The only downside here for me and what has me frustrated is that the wrong people reacted to my signature Dabba! That's it!


But i also know that What my signature Box had said, even I admit was actually a wrong way to put across my actual thoughts.


My intention was NEVER To target anyone living IN This forum, my intention was for those who COME HERE when they are "needed" (If that makes sense..)

As a GCian I got pissed, and the only forum I could think of at that moment for my anger was Geet forum because it was like an Adda for all bashers to come there and Bash GC since they can't do it in their own forum.

Yes, I have hurt many people but those people weren't supposed to because my Dabba was at OTHER People!

Ghusse main I said Geet forum because somewhere I foolishly thought Ke "My buddies will know I'm targeting it at those people who attacked GC and won't bother with the Dabba"

But I didn't look at the bigger picture, which was; my signature Box WAS looking as though I'm targeting everyone INSIDE Geet forum.


And if I am to look at from this angle then yes, me getting into trouble by the mods is justified because I DESERVED IT!

But again, as the other side of my brain asks me that was it really needed for Geet members to attack me as an individual and call me names?

Yes, I admit that I asked for it all but then again; if I was the wrong doer, couldn't everyone else be the greater person by NOT Stooping down to the same level as me?

I got attacked with things like "She's got another place to drool over"
Really now? Yeh Hi Baaki Reh Gaya Tha kya? :(


Aside that, like I have said time and time again. My Signature Dabba was NEVER Intended to anyone living In this forum, it was for those who Come here and "Act" like they're GurTians when they're really not. But with that, I acknowledge the fact that my Signature box did actually look as though I was Targatting everyone in Geet forum so I Sincerely apologise for that. My intention was to never hurt the people in this forum but I'm very much aware it did so I am sincerely sorry for that.



Peace.

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