Sincere Apology - RE: Signature Box

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Posted: 12 years ago
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A lot of you will probably ignore this thinking 'she's faking it' but I advise you not to because I sincerely apologise to everyone who have been offended by my Signature Box.

I admit, it was wrong of me to keep such a signature box, it was against IF rules too, (Yes, I'm not egoistic nor arrogant not to admit my mistakes) but the fact that y'all thought It was indicated towards YOU; has left me shocked and frustrated.
Not to mention the amount of hate I received from people who didn't know the reason behind it but decided to go ahead and take digs at me like there was no tomorrow.

For the last time, and probably the first, my Signature Box was NOT Targatted at anyone in Geet forum! Now, do I have to explain why I changed my Signature Dabba right after GC got bashed in this very same forum by people pretending to be his fans but actually having the guts to bash for "You Know what for you know who"? Was i Gonna sit quiet and watch him get bashed by random people hailing from other forums? It was an "in the moment" act from me when I got mad - Sigh, the price you have to pay for being an ardent GC Pankhi. I don't regret my Dabba cuz it wasn't Targatted to anyone who attacked me yesterday.

Just ONCE Someone could have asked me "Sadiie change your Siggy Dabba, it's rude and people are annoyed" and I would have IMMEDIATELY Gotten rid of it! I NEVER Thought my Dabba was gonna be such a big issue apart from the language used in it!

Oh and the irony, I was finally about to change my Dabba as the instinctive side of me kicked in, I had a feeling something was about to happen; when my eyes fell on the Gazzilion people viewing my profile. And the rest, everyone knows.

I ain't no Two Faced. I didn't bitch about this forum with anyone. Whoever tried to talk about my Dabba I simply avoided and made sure it wasn't repeated. So I don't get why I'm Two faced for people when my Dabba wasn't even Targatted at anyone IN This forum anyway. Had you actually asked me instead of assuming, then you wouldn't have felt the need to gang up on me.

How was it affecting anyone to begin with?
Was the forum REALLY Gonna shut down just because of one Frustrated Dabba that's been there for a good week, with 100+ people against it one day? You do the calculation.

I'm not some troll here, I've been part of this forum and i STILL am. Just because I don't make a post here everyday doesn't mean I'm over this forum and "I've found some other place to drool"

^THAT Right there is some clear Bull Crap given to me when nothing else was left.
I don't 'drool' in PV forum, I watch the show and discuss - Nothing else. If this show was on air, I'd do the same; unfortunately it isn't so I don't roam around here when the show is over and this place has been left open for "Maaneetians & GurTains" - And No, I ain't no GurBina Fan, I ain't not AarYa Fan. I'm a Gurmeet Choudhary Fan. Period.

I STILL Love My Maan Singh Khurana! I STILL Have FFs here that need updating! (To whoever said they haven't seen me - I'm no popular writer here, how would you see me around?)


Once again,

I apologise to anyone and everyone that was offended by my signature Dabba. Now that I think about it, it WAS Instigating (I kept thinking it was for "Some" while everyone here thought I was talking about everyone here! Cut me some slack! You really think My Dabba meant anything when you've known how I'm like when people tick me off regarding GC?!)
But I could have been reported to the Mods without being bashed as an individual in the forum.
I heard Celebs get bashed and their fans are annoyed since the Celebs don't read the bashing, when Fans/Members get bashed by other members; it feels worse, trust me; no one, even those who were taking digs atme yesterday,must go through such a thing; that too on a forum that's being strictly moderated.

-My Dabba may have been a wrong thing, but you didn't look superior in this while openly attacking me with an attitude of "I don't wanna know why but I will point my finger at you anyway cuz you're on the Recieving end anyway".

I don't want people hating on me for no reason, my Dabba was NEVER Taragatted for those residing in here, yet it was assumed that way, which is ..shocking, and the fact that people whom I knew, went ahead and ganged up on me; is quite surprising.


But, I'm Sincerely sorry if I have offended any of You and again, it was never Targatted to anyone in here.

Thought I'd share my side of the story which I wasn't able to to do yesterday.



Edit ~ This is my last topic on this forum, removing my work and stuff from here as well. 😊

Peace.


Sadiie x
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Posted: 12 years ago
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sincer apology from my side sadiie..
im sorry..
i had no idea what was going on.. still i thought it was beacuse of them. cc fanzzz.. was pissed off with them... so i commented.. lolzzz... somewhere it hurt me.. by hearing of geet forum should be shut down..and all.. after all its one home we have.. just chill yaar... missunderstandings har jagah hote hai... again sorry yaar...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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yaar like button kam nahi kr rha hehehehe..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: RukhluvMaan




sincer apology from my side sadiie..


im sorry..


i had no idea what was going on.. still i thought it was beacuse of them. cc fanzzz.. was pissed off with them... so i commented.. lolzzz... somewhere it hurt me.. by hearing of geet forum should be shut down..and all.. after all its one home we have.. just chill yaar... missunderstandings har jagah hote hai... again sorry yaar...



Just because of ONE Signature Dabba, just ONE! Was my Dabba gonna make an impact on the closure of this forum? Was i joining hands with people to get this forum closed down when i myself keep getting into trouble by the Mods? Some Common sense could have been used here, Clearly It was my way of showing frustration towards the Bashing on GC but no, I'm a Hater aren't I? A two faced person who is in PV forum bitching about this forum.
No one else had a Dabba like that except for me! Then why this Kolaveri of attacking me Without actually knowing the full story?

But It's okay..What's done, cannot be undone...Just needed to get it out of my system.


Peace 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: RukhluvMaan




yaar like button kam nahi kr rha hehehehe..



On my Khatara IPod, can't press like either ..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Awwh. . apology accepted twinnie.

You just became the bigger person🤗

I know you didn't want to justify your actions. . .but i am glad you did and gave your side of the story.

See you left all the people who ganged up on you speechless. . that's a big accomplishment since all they do is yap. .yap. . YAPP! 😆

This war should of never started. . .but can't undo what's already done.

Keep the peace people!


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Saddie i don't know what happened before ..but when i came across your siggie i was really offended...there are many here who don't bash gc and love him like anything...just love him with DD..and just love him as maan...or just love him in anything he does..to be very frank i liked him as ram/but adored him as MAAAN...maan has become someone i could not live without..and if i think about maan its only geet coming into my mind., so i am adherent to ghsp...nothing like i hate gc or i don't like any of his shows...to be honest., i am not liking either of their shows..its not i am forcing myself., this is what and how I feel...so we roam around in this forum for everything...this is our second home..even though you wrote out of hurt., it still hurt-ed many people...we wanted this place badly ..not to bash gurti..but love them and to be with them!!... that's all...there were differences when the show was going...i do agree there were criticisms/bashings and different fan groups rifts ., but it was the past...at present i don't see any actor bashing but the sarcastic comments about the members!!!!...so please don't target people in groups..if you find someone talking bad about gc then report them., but don't brand GHSP FANS/MAANEETIANS/GURTIANS/ OR FOR ANY GROUPS/GHSP FORUM...GC HAS BEEN SARCASTICALLY COMMNETED IN MANY OTHER FORUMS TOO..AND YOU WONT BELIVE IT WOULD BE THOSE ACTIVE GHSPINAS IN THIS PAGE WERE THE ONCE WHO FOUGHT AGAINST IT!..I CAN GIVE YOU MANY POSTS LIKE THAT!!!...apologies accepted...so no worries!!!!..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mrs.ZSK

Awwh. . apology accepted twinnie.


You just became the bigger person🤗

I know you didn't want to justify your actions. . .but i am glad you did and gave your side of the story.

See you left all the people who ganged up on you speechless. . that's a big accomplishment since all they do is yap. .yap. . YAPP! 😆

This war should of never started. . .but can't undo what's already done.

Keep the peace people!




Thanks Twinnie 🤗
I don't have an ego nor am I arrogant not to admit my mistakes. At first I didn't bother and allowed everyone to make assumptions about me like always, thats why I wasn't gonna justify my actions. But then again, who am I kidding? I might as well justify myself than have 500 odd people adding me into their hit list.

And those people, well I'm least bothered about them. I have apologised, i don't expect anything in return.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sindu_gurti

<font face="Courier New, Courier, mono" size="3" color="#000066">Saddie idon'tknow what happened before ..but when i came across your siggie i was really offended...there are many here whodon'tbash gc andlovehim like anything...just love him with DD..and just love him as maan...or just love him in anything he does..to be very frank i liked him as ram/but adored him as MAAAN...maan hasbecomesomeone i could not live without..and if i thinkaboutmaan its only geet coming into my mind., so i am adherent to ghsp...nothing like i hate gc or idon'tlike any of his shows...to be honest., i am not liking either oftheirshows..its not i am forcing myself., this is what and how I feel...so we roam around in this forum for everything...this is our second home..even though you wrote out of hurt., it stillhurt-edmany people...we wanted this place badly ..not to bash gurti..but love them and to be with them!!...that'sall...there were differences when the show was going...i do agreetherewerecriticisms/bashings and different fan groups rifts ., but it was the past...at present idon'tsee any actor bashing but the sarcastic comments about the members!!!!...so pleasedon'ttarget people in groups..if you find someone talking bad about gc then report them., butdon'tbrand GHSP FANS/MAANEETIANS/GURTIANS/ OR FOR ANY GROUPS/GHSP FORUM...GC HAS BEEN SARCASTICALLY COMMNETED IN MANY OTHER FORUMS TOO..AND YOU WONT BELIVE IT WOULD BE THOSE ACTIVE GHSPINAS IN THIS PAGE WERE THE ONCE WHO FOUGHT AGAINST IT!..I CAN GIVE YOUMANYPOSTS LIKE THAT!!!...apologies accepted...so no worries!!!!.</font>.



Like I said, it was an "In the moment" act from me and I have apologized for it. And I also used the word "Some" which CLEARLY Meant not everyone.
I could have been reported to the Mods but what was the need to openly attack me? It was a Mere Signature to begin with yet it was made as though 2000000 people had the same Dabba and "Actually" wanted the forum closed. And the irony, I am a member in this forum which no one acknowledged because I am in Punar Vivah Forum too; that too often.

But Never mind, i'll always remain the wrong doer in everyone's eyes here. I won't even try and change that.


Peace.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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First of all your signature was very offending and I don't think that your explanation justified it at all..
You are not the only GC fan that gets hurt when someone bash or abuse him or Drashti for that matter... We love them both and this is the place where we have the opportunity to love and cherish them as Maan and Geet.. Some of us are happy being here reading Geet related stuff and ff's and we should have the right to do that.. Not all of the Geet fans have moved on to PV and MB but they still love them as Maan and Geet and need a place to remember and celebrate them..


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