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@music_girl

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Posted: 13 years ago

#121

Originally posted by: PariNain

yah I made this post for the sake of u, Marsi farnkie and others like u baby type

😆i dont even read those things 4get about like or comment

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Faiza Ghafoor

@SecretSapphire

Rocker

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Posted: 13 years ago

#122

Hawa ka samna karna paray ga
Diye ko hosla karna paray ga
mera nuqssan bhi mumkin hy lakin
mujhy koi faisla karna paday ga

Hey all Hi me again. well suddenly a controversial person. ok I read all your comment but instead of reply separately I will try to reply all of u here in this post.

First I made a general post. it was not against any particular writer or FF. I posted what i feel. and thanks reads. most of the readers are agree with me.

ok the first objection is "well we are here for enjoyment not for any gayan"
Sweet did u ever read fairy tales when you was a kid??? hope u read it every fairy tales contain a msg a positive msg which helps to build children's character. so its in the education policies to give knowledge and morals through stories. And most religious book of hinduism is Rayman and Mahabharat and what is it life stories of Ram and krishan. Am I right? but the philosphy of life is hidden in this. what's the purpose to write it in story form??? just that ppl understand it and understand the meaning of life, learns the morals. so stories helps a lot to teach ppl. they EFFECT ppl. in a way no one can. so u cant deny the fact that WRITERS ARE THE BACK BONE OF THE SOCIETY.

second objection is "Why dont u ignore this" well guys how many FFs shld I agnore??? and its not abt me its about u ppl and ur next generation. because u admit it or not but its effecting u and ur society. I just want u writers to save ur future ur teenagers.
My one question to all my writers hey guyus if u have childern of 14 or 15 yrs old or have sisters of the same age
will u allow them to read any of ur work????
honestly answer it. Will u allow them to get information which they should nt have at this tender age???

Third Abt Ra**. Well I dont knw much abt world and religions but One thing I know is
Ra** is a crime in evry nation and religion's Rule book. U cant justify a rape or a rap*** . can u????
I dont think a rap*** is allowed in a society. sorry for being rude but will u justify a person who rap** a girl very dear to u in real life????
will u forgive the person who rap** spme one of ur family. put ur hand on ur heart and tell me WILL U FORGIVE A RAP***. NO ur answer is NO never. so how can u justify a crime like this?????
and a girl a respected girl will never forgive a person who snatched her honor, her sanity. Will a girl forgive her rapi***??? will a girl fall for the one who disgraced her????
just give me honest answers.

I was expecting a lot of negative comments but I never thought that my wonderful writers will defend a crime???? Well I did not have any intentions to hurt someone. Sorry but there are a lot of topics other than se*. U can bring some burning issues which are the cancer of a society. All of u are fabulous so plz dont take it personal. That was a general post abt what I felt.
and If i hurt someone's feelings I am sorry again
and thanks ruchs, Marsi effin Anshra partner aashu seher reni and other all for ur support

Edited by PariNain - 13 years ago

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lazy-sleeper

@lazy-sleeper

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Posted: 13 years ago

#123

AWESOME JOB DQ! Perfectly said!AS said by someone i dont remember is it required to give word to word description? 2ndly it was just a general post there was no mention of ms X or mrsY why all are taking it upon themselves as an insult or something.., well the effect of fairy tales has been rightly said. If not big effect it does have an impact on us we guys arent asking you to stop the whole thing. just decrease the intensity step by step next the r... thing is absolutely unforgivable! next the r... thing is absolutely unforgivable! not intended to hurt anyone but i would like to say please try to avoid these stuff as much as possible dear writers We readers love you a lot and this is just a request so that we all are comfy reading:D

Edited by Miss.Mars - 13 years ago

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SilentMelody

@SilentMelody

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Posted: 13 years ago

#124

@ FAI...
WEELDONE GRL...
this ia what i also wanted to say, how a grl can fall for a guys who ra* her...
only point is that words should b used carefully to talk abt anything...how sensitive topic may b ...dats it...

Edited by ranjeeta1410 - 13 years ago

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mechantefille

@mechantefille

Dazzler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#125

I applaud you my girl for this post. That's one of the reasons that put me off GF. Rape is a crime...don't put rapists on a pedestal by making them your heroes. My sincere request.

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maanugeetu

@maanugeetu

Explorer

Posted: 13 years ago

#126

hey sorry for the late reply.

i understand ur point but totally agree with tich di, anshra di and most importantly sdlife19 di.

i am a student and a part time teacher and i too know much about the younger generation then any other person. i deal with them everyday.

today's younger generation is much more advanced then us. they only understand the language of facebook, twitter and youtube and they even talk about mills and boon stories.and BDSM. they simply do not need any permission to know anything.

even if our forum writers stop writing about these things they will find it out from other sources.

we come in this forum for entertainment. hum mein se koi bhi yaha bachha nahi hai. we deliberately come here and read the stuffs, woh bhi aapni marzi se. so lets not discuss about society and morality issues. we are here to enjoy maaneet 's true love and all ff writers are trying in different ways to show only one thing that true love can change even a beast and a monster. so don't take it otherwise. yaha rape issue ko koi bhi justify karne ki koshish nahi kar raha. we can't do that.

u said 90% of the writers are writing about these things, that means its a trend aur koi bhi trend one sided nahi hota. readers feedback mill raha hai, 90% readers are reading it.they want it. no writer in any forum is a heartless sadist who enjoys writing these things. i have read so many stories with such issues in it and i can tell u that the writers have punished maan so much ki kuch updates ke baad readers ne request kya hai ff writer ko ki aab bohut punishment ho gaya aab to maan aur geet ko mila do.

so only 10% have problem with it. i personally do not read detective stories, thrillers i do not watch ghost movies because i can't handle them.

so my point here is simple, those who cannot handle it don't read it.

there are hundreds of other stories where there is no adult content. read those.

in any forums according to a rough calculation, there are 500 to 600 max members who read fanfictions. it is just a small part of the society. hamare ff writers ke wajah se samaj nahi badle ga.the real power lies with the readers and not the writers. jab readers yeh sab nahi read karenge tab yeh trend apne aap bandh ho jaye ga.

so just trust the writers and simply read ff's as stories . don't take it seriously.

if i sounded rude, plz sorry. i never intended to hurt anyone.

Edited by maanugeetu - 13 years ago

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sdlife19

@sdlife19

Sparkler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#127

Originally posted by: tich.1990mg

Thank God koi to hain mere sath, reading these comment leaving my study book i felt so worn out,, that readers thinks this way for a writer like they doesn't know any moral or ethics,, for god sake its an forum for STORIES,,, so take them as stories only not a real life experience

me t00 tich

i was very upset when i read it first th0ught 0f n0t c0mmenting but when i read c0mments i feIt bad

we writers d0 say it earIier wat the st0ry is abt

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tich.1990mg

@tich.1990mg

Voyager

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Posted: 13 years ago

#128

Originally posted by: sdlife19

me t00 tich

i was very upset when i read it first th0ught 0f n0t c0mmenting but when i read c0mments i feIt bad

we writers d0 say it earIier wat the st0ry is abt

yaar its sounding like we are the only hope for society, we only spoil readers mind,, readers are innocent who can't understand their good,, they can't take a story as a story but will point a finger towards writer only, jaane de in everything we will do all to entertain readers but will get bashed by them only... and when we are clearing our plot,,, they will say we are supporting a CRIME... Now i got why MG writers are quitting day by day,, when readers can't support teh writer why should they took so hard time just to make them satisfy,, i wil say stick to ur respective writers who are saints,, i said all this knowing i m nowhere in this still it effects me cz indirectly its pointing all writer who had shown that particular phase in their ffs, i m not outsider of that LOL😆

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-Crayon-

@-Crayon-

Inactive

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Posted: 13 years ago

#129

Heya. 😊

I haven't read all the comments but I do have something to say.

I don't read many FF's here but I want to say that it's disturbing to see Rape and other forms of Sexual abuse being Glorified.

If one wants to address such Social Issues and raise awareness. That's Fine. No one would have problem with it, but the problem arises where such issues like Sexual abuse and rape are not handled properly.

It's disturbing to see a girl falling in love with her own rapist or a person who abuses her physically and mentally. Such scenes where the male protagonist (Acc to the story! ) manhandles the girl and forcefully does things to her are seen as passionate and intense which sadly is not the case. They are not at all passionate and intense, rather they are regressive.

Just because the hero(Again acc to the story! )is Maan it doesn't mean that such acts can be justified.

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maanugeetu

@maanugeetu

Explorer

Posted: 13 years ago

#130

Posted: 27 September 2012 at 8:09am | IP Logged

Originally posted by sdlife19

Originally posted by tich.1990mg

Originally posted by mahimaneet

Originally posted by tich.1990mg

I don't know should i say anything here or not, AGREE this is a sensitive issue that maybe effecting young generation, but my question is KNOWING IT CAN EFFECT UR INNOCENT MIND WHY U R READING SUCH STUFF??? writers always put an WARNING note still u guys are saying it not ethics n all, i agree maybe ur heart can't except maan as a Rapist,, but not every story is DARK Story after this,, My Kagaz ki Kashthi too based on this issue so i felt to poke my nose here, hehehhe sorry 😆

but again that is not a dark story,, but some writer put WARNING that its a dark story,, so why ppls are reading it and getting effected, if u r not alright with it, u should opted out rather pointing what a writer should do or not.. it always hard for writer too for portray such thing in decent way, what do u thing THEY AREN'T GIRL OR A HUMAN?? but still they did cause of a story demand,, yes i agree there is some Unnecessary rape scene as few writers thinks it will add more spice and that is wrong but i m saying when a writer said pls avoid this part or the whole ff cz its has some parts that u can't take for ur brain then reader should leave that part or ff na? why again n again cribbing for such issue,, everyone has there own way of reading and writing,, so its better to be in that criteria...

sorry if i was rude but can't help it seeing the post where everyone is pointing a slap indirectly to a writer... sorry again if i was rude...

thank u for ur time and please don't read such stuff further it will only harm u...

completely agree wid tich😊

Thank God koi to hain mere sath, reading these comment leaving my study book i felt so worn out,, that readers thinks this way for a writer like they doesn't know any moral or ethics,, for god sake its an forum for STORIES,,, so take them as stories only not a real life experience

me t00 tich

i was very upset when i read it first th0ught 0f n0t c0mmenting but when i read c0mments i feIt bad

we writers d0 say it earIier wat the st0ry is abt

i too agree with u tich di. thik bolecho.😉 aajkal kar claas 9, 10 er students der dikle aar oder katha shunle tomar maatha kharab hoe jabe. shedin e ekta student asked me maam apni fifty shades of grey padechen, just imagine...😉

plz writers don't get disheartened and stop writing because of few such posts and comments. u have loyal readers like us who trust u and believe u will never write anything wrong.

ps: do read my comment on page 19

Edited by maanugeetu - 13 years ago