New York Times Part 31 Updated in Thread 2 - Page 54

Originally posted by: 6th.Element

Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's house. Which is what the ninth commandment?

Agreed that Dev is not Maan's neighbour 😆 but don't you think from the fact that he also feels pulled towards her, is in someways reinforcing what she feels for him...

If only he didn't give away his attraction then perhaps hers would fizzle out sooner.

Ah an update again!!!! Lucky me...

Originally posted by: had2bu

There is nothing more attractive about a partner than to be desired like that. If she can sense it, it is almost impossible to turn away from that magnetic pull.

Originally posted by: had2bu

Maybe I am a liberal person or I have seen enough heartbreak in friends who have gone through failed relationships, but to this point I don't think there should be any guilt in Geet. What is the point of dragging a corpse of a relationship with you and ruining any chance of happiness you may find along the way? I think life is meant for living and if anything did not quite work out the way it was supposed to, guilt is not what the participants should have. Recognize that it did not work out and move on.

Agree, but then you should put an end to that failed relation before starting something new else it would be considered cheating...mind or body!

Originally posted by: 6th.Element

Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's house. Which is what the ninth commandment?

Agreed that Dev is not Maan's neighbor 😆, which is irrelevant to what I was intending to convey. But don't you think from the fact that he also feels pulled towards her, is in someways reinforcing what she feels for him...

If only he didn't give away his attraction then perhaps hers would fizzle out sooner.

Maan is a single man (dame hot too;)), so why should he feel guilty over his attraction towards a married woman, who does he have to answer too...

I think you meant the 10th commandment 😆

"thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his ass, nor any thing that is thy neighbour's. "

Originally posted by: Onir

I don't know why but have a feeling that unconsciously she is making him aware that there's something not so good with her marriage... with all those slip of tongue moments of being single & others. I don't know whether its making sense

The decisions and comments which Geet is making seems more consciously vs unconsciously, especially about her being single and all...

Shouldn't you control the irresistible temptations else the true essence of marriage is lost...

Originally posted by: -Aarya-

Maan is a single man (dame hot too;)), so why should he feel guilty over his attraction towards a married woman, who does he have to answer too...

How does Maan being hot dictate what he does feel or not feel guilty about? 😛


"thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his ass, nor any thing that is thy neighbour's. "

I would say one who does covet both is confused about his sexuality...😉

The decisions and comments which Geet is making seems more consciously vs unconsciously, especially about her being single and all...

Her unconscious is interfering with the conscious...That is how I would put it because she was just as surprised as he was when she said that she was single there...

Shouldn't you control the irresistible temptations else the true essence of marriage is lost...

Well, she hasn't acted on it, has she? Its still very much a temptation as you claim...

part 14 & 15 loved how Maan made her figure out the figures through hard work cruel but nice at the same time

Originally posted by: -Aarya-

@Avi, @Azmatazz

The question and the answer are both relative in this case, cause every situation is different and every relation is different among different people.

But at the same time, I was merely seeking an answer on Geet's perspective; there is not an ounce of guilt in her pov, should she feel guilty for having such feelings or attractions towards Maan?

The matter of heart and brain are never in-sync, but it really all comes down to matter of choices you make...

Faria, Avi, Aarya 😃 Long time guys... and I don't know how I always miss catching you guys on the thread... but listen, I dont think that anything has happened so far that should make either Maan or Geet feel guilty about anything...

Originally posted by: -Aarya-

Agree, but then you should put an end to that failed relation before starting something new else it would be considered cheating...mind or body!

Just like a marriage does not just mean a piece of paper, I feel so does its end not mean that piece of paper. You are married with the mental commitment and it ends that way too sometimes way before both parties recognize it as over. It would be cleaner with a cutoff date but practically that does not happen a lot. That's why breakups are so painful, one person is not quite done yet. Thanks for the thought provoking discussion, i may seem awfully biased having seen the ruins left in the wake of some awful storms.

Intense , that is the only word I can use after reading there conversation. P.S : I am really happy that you are making Maan speak.