Hi all:
Many times I have noticed the posts requesting join interview of Gurmeet and Drashti.
Yes I would love to see them too but Ladies let's consider this...
In spite of having all this controversy about them, Gurmeet and Drashti have constantly given us good show. It shows their professionalism and I trully respect them for that
Now once off the set they are Gurmeet and Drashti and the time they have is their personal time and we as fans do not have any rights to impose on that time. These actors work really hard from early morning to evening and they do have their personal lives. We love them as Maaneet because of their dedication in their roles and as they are true to their characters.
So I think their families also would love to have them in their true characters as what they are to their respective families as their respective families have full rights on their time and on them.
Drashti is a daughter and a sister and an aunt and beyond the walls of the sets of Geet she is that and she needs to live her life peacefully and enjoy it with her family which she loves.
And the same goes for Gurmeet, he is a son, a brother and most importantly a husband and he needs to live and enjoy his life with his family beyond the sets of Geet.
Yes they are the actors but it does not make them less family person. And each individual has a right to be a family person and enjoy the life within the boundaries of their own families. What fun it would be to be a successful actor and not share the fame with your family???
We know them as actors and what they do on the show and how beautifully they make alive a fictional character but we do not know their personal lives and we have no rights to say anything in that aspect because we do not know the facts
I have also noticed that many things we have been telling since long were just speculations and no solid facts and because of many gossips which have grown out of boundaries without any facts, we have made untrue speculations and in fact in doing so we have done a great injustice to those people whom we have loved
So I think when they so faithfully give us Maan and Geet we should let them be what they want to be in their real lives and let them do what they want to do and not impose our wishes on them.
They both are extremely dedicated in their professional as well as in their personal lives and we as their biggest fans on this forum should respect them not only because we love them beingin their character but becasue they deserve our respect.
Many times I have seen some group blame Gurmeet and then some blame Drashti. But division in this forum is not necessary. We may love Gurmeet or we may love Drashti individually or we may love both as Maneet but the fact is we love them and when we love them we have to respect their privacy in their personal lives
Sometime be really true to yourself and just put yourself in their shoes and then you will realize that they are much more tolerant then we could be in those circumstances
I really love and respect both Drashti and Gurmeet and would love to say they are awesome and I am happy with what they give me as Maaneet. My hats off to them for their superb dedication and performance.
Another my request is not to get rattled or upset with any show which tries to insitigate fight between fans. Those shows are trying to cash in the popularity of the actors and raise their own ratings.
For me an acotr's professional and personal lives are totally different and there is no connection or comparision.. The screen life is based on fictional characters and the real life deals with real people.. we all are adults here we all have families and we all want to make our families happy and want to spend time with them so how could we expect less from others and if some one does that it is really unfair and we should not give them any important to such things and help them to increase their own rating as that is what they are trying to do...
Hope you will read through my post and agree with what I have to say
Thank you ladies have a great Sunday afternoon love to all Eva
Edited by evasumi - 13 years ago
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