3I-Goodbye Amritsar... - Page 2

Originally posted by: kuls11

I agree with Nags this time. ...If guy is in doldrum...she has to be strong...and I feel ...gurl has individual identity...of its own ...in or not in relationship...noone has right to tell her not work...whether you are happy sad ...I know understand this Nags...like me...He is broken...but same time...individual freedom is all demand in relationship,...for me he has no right to stop her from working at first place...(FCP is speaking here)...

Originally posted by: --Nargis--

OMG...Kullu I think this is the first time in History...that I am WHOLEHEARTEDLY supporting Maan and you are WHOLEHEARTEDLY supporting GEET...wha kya dinn aa gaye hai!!!😉😆

I agree history is wriittern here...😆...I m supporting geet...let see if u can convince me..this time...that Maan is right...

Ok...now on to a more seriuos point...




I don't think there is anything here that a FEMINIST should take offense to. 😆😆 I think that Maan is preventing her from working...this is simply a reflex of his love. He loves her and he wants to protect her, shelter her...and always provide for her...and this is simply Maan's love for her...in the face of this catastrophe...he is not in a right or rational frame of mind. Like I said...once he calms down some, and thinks rationally...and we all know how rational he is...he will come to realize that what Geet is asking is not irrational...but rather realistic...and hence he will concede to her working.

Underlined good point .😆
Okiw But my question to him if he ever asked her...thats what you want GEET...me protecting you. Its his mere assumption as she was behaving childish and he was fulfilliing her wish like pampered child. She had bad past Maan is right in giving her all luxury, But all women are not like Star bahus who like to take over kitchen after marriage. GEET was different remember we thought geet will not be regular women (previously she was different 😆)who will love to live only upto to kitchen. I don't have solid proof as she was not shown to think beyond ktichen recently but nor...she told Maan she like to be that way. Its Maan assumption his own interpretation that she don't want to work. she never confessed that I like to be pampered only not want my individual identity. Forgiving was her own idea she never asked Maan...Did Maan knew before she will forgive DEV...No...when he was totally against it...SO its not necessary what Maan thinks best for her...she thinks same. she may think otherwise and its just case of another communication gap...She might have different point of view...till now question never arise ...because they were rich...But now when question came...When husband wife are equal ...in relationship for me they are equal...When wife never question man to not work...why man assume and question her...He has right on her love her belonging...her life...but beyond that there is individual identity she holds...where she has right over identity first...SO first he has to ask her...whether you want to work or not...if she says...yes I never wanted to work...he can assume ...and tell her than not work...I will work to bring us out of this...But first as individual ask her about her choice and than make assumption...and than let her decide what she wants...

He will also realize why GEET is behaving this way with him...why she is acting like a BULL head... and why she is constantly in HIS face...he will realize that she was doing this for HIM...for his SANITY.
I agree with this she is doing this to save him from further depression. Somtime strongness is needed not meak support ti bring your love from deep depression ...

This is what LOVE is about...for ONE to step up to the plate...and take charge, when the OTHER is down and out!!!😉
I agree love never means togetherness in good times...Love only can be tested in tough times...A tough time is must to check if love was real...and strong at first place...they will come out of it together

Originally posted by: kuls11

Originally posted by: -RushTrip-

wah nagz, kulu and shivu..kya discussions..hain..
very enlightening..

Originally posted by: mechantefille

OMG...Kullu I think this is the first time in History...that I am WHOLEHEARTEDLY supporting Maan and you are WHOLEHEARTEDLY supporting GEET...wha kya dinn aa gaye hai!!!😉😆

I agree history is wriittern here...😆...I m supporting geet...let see if u can convince me..this time...that Maan is right...

Ok...now on to a more seriuos point...




I don't think there is anything here that a FEMINIST should take offense to. 😆😆 I think that Maan is preventing her from working...this is simply a reflex of his love. He loves her and he wants to protect her, shelter her...and always provide for her...and this is simply Maan's love for her...in the face of this catastrophe...he is not in a right or rational frame of mind. Like I said...once he calms down some, and thinks rationally...and we all know how rational he is...he will come to realize that what Geet is asking is not irrational...but rather realistic...and hence he will concede to her working.
Maan will wanna take the burden on himself,but i think Geet will make him realize that when she's there he needn't do so. She's there with him every step of the way. The promo says as much.

Underlined good point .😆
Okiw But my question to him if he ever asked her...thats what you want GEET...me protecting you. Its his mere assumption as she was behaving childish and he was fulfilliing her wish like pampered child. She had bad past Maan is right in giving her all luxury, But all women are not like Star bahus who like to take over kitchen after marriage. GEET was different remember we thought geet will not be regular women (previously she was different 😆)who will love to live only upto to kitchen. I don't have solid proof as she was not shown to think beyond ktichen recently but nor...she told Maan she like to be that way. Its Maan assumption his own interpretation that she don't want to work. she never confessed that I like to be pampered only not want my individual identity. Forgiving was her own idea she never asked Maan...Did Maan knew before she will forgive DEV...No...when he was totally against it...SO its not necessary what Maan thinks best for her...she thinks same. she may think otherwise and its just case of another communication gap...She might have different point of view...till now question never arise ...because they were rich...But now when question came...When husband wife are equal ...in relationship for me they are equal...When wife never question man to not work...why man assume and question her...He has right on her love her belonging...her life...but beyon d that there is individual identity she holds...where she has right over identity first...SO first he has to ask her...whether you want to work or not...if she says...yes I never wanted to work...he can assume ...and tell her than not work...I will work to bring us out of this...But first as individual ask her about her choice and than make assumption...and than let her decide what she wants...
I think the CVs are looking in to our demands to make Geet a 21st Century woman...and I know her never die attitude will put einstein to shame...errr finger's crossed. Yes the work issue never came up - but now that it has...I KNOW she will wanna be a part of the workforce!

I agree CVs are trying to show 21st century GEET which I have been missing from Amritsar precisly after marriage...She wanna part of wokrofrce...she has full right too...its never question of love...
He will also realize why GEET is behaving this way with him...why she is acting like a BULL head... and why she is constantly in HIS face...he will realize that she was doing this for HIM...for his SANITY.
I agree with this she is doing this to save him from further depression. Somtime strongness is needed not meak support ti bring your love from deep depression ...

This is what LOVE is about...for ONE to step up to the plate...and take charge, when the OTHER is down and out!!!😉

True Geet is the only one who can keep the sunshine in his life. she will definitely keep him frm losing focus. Also having her around will re-inforce maan's determination to keep her safe.

I agree love never means togetherness in good times...Love only can be tested in tough times...A tough time is must to check if love was real...and strong at first place...they will come out of it together

Loveleh...it's been eons since I've seen such good argument (meant +vely) on the idiots thread...I miss that.

I haven't seen the SBS/BB thing yet, but whatever the tiff is about...I want Geet to work too. The whole ardhangini thing comes to the fore with that and I want her and Maan to fight this thing together!!

I think it's a foregone conclusion that they'll win and they'll come out together, but I think I speak for every Maneetian alive when I say that it's not the outcome that matters, it's the journey they go thru...

Nagz, Kullu - i so see both you points of view...and I agree a little with each😆

Shivi - knowing Geet...there's no way I'll expect her to be subtle...she's barge into the topic first and then be soft n quiet about it. 😃

cheers

Amru

Originally posted by: --Nargis--

Vrushy...what say you...what do you think about our discussion? Bahaut dinno ke baad kush REAL topic pe discussion ki hai!!!