I never knew, calling 'BG' is a CRIME! NOTE pg 16 - Page 5

Originally posted by: hindu4lyf

Would the man I love so much really insult me in such a way though? According to me it's just as bad as calling a women characterless. If my neighbour was to turn around and tell me that I have no self-respect then I will say to myself 'what do they know?' but if my own husband says it to me, then it would hurt me on a much deeper level. I am not denying for even a second that this isn't the guy that saved her life, the one that fought for her when the world turned against her but does that give him the right to insult her in such a way?

Unintentionally hurting someone you love is when you come home after a long, stressful day at work and take out all your frustration on someone..it is NOT telling your wife she has absolutely no self-respect..especially not after all that she has done to fight for herself and her kid.

I wouldn't leave the house if just that was said to me but neither will I ever let a guy walk all over me and verbally abuse me in such a way. At the end of the day Maan isn't perfect, neither is Geet but if we're really talking about humiliation and pointing fingers then let's not forget that Maan pointed fingers at Geet many times before. Agreed they weren't married then or confessed their feelings but does that justify his actions? If you look at the bigger picture then Geet has suffered a lot more..even more than what Maan has to go through now.

I will not involve my self in your debate........you can continue............tell me when he calls her characterless..............Beigairat .........is hindi word.......gairat is self respect.............so baigrat meant ......no self respect...and safed khoon means.........your family is without self respect.............when he only question her self respect..............where the question on character came......so if your interpretation of word is not right.............how can a supporting argument on it..........But questioning self respect is bigger crime than........raping self respect??..just because raping was done by fake husband and question by current husband. Still she forgive Dev too once even after knowing that he abused used her.
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...In that sense if any husband should never love their wife selflessly because in that case he will be positioned as GOD when at end of day he is human being ........and rape of self respect form human being is easily pardonable......but question on self respect are not as they are coming from GOD equivalent husband.
SO much not enough you will allow his self respect to rot at your relative hands not utter single word in his support. ...IF that was not enough you complain about his big gunah to your own rapist..as if he was your childhood buddy......
.Questioning self respect was big Crime seriously I came to know today courtsey great show GHSP

Originally posted by: lily_k25

my heartfelt request to u..can i just bang a vase or utensil or something else on geet's head and call her baghairat and thus become a co-partner in ur criminal activities..?

or a better option than above...take a utensil..beat my head itself with it and call myself baghairat for not understanding a women's pain and not supporting her and thus becoming a criminal as i called myself( i am also a women..so calling myself names is also a crime 😛) baghairat and surrender myself to police and die in self pity rotting in jail..

hows that?? which option do u think will suit me?🤪

Count me in too.... I feel exactly same as you............ Till I watched GHSP today, I never knew couple of words said in righteous anger would constitute to be such a crime that rape, murder and other ordinary crimes are no where near it for their criminality, it seems. How can you expect pure love to be defined and depicted by those that don't even understand the basic definition of crime?

Originally posted by: kuls11

I will not involve my self in your debate........you can continue............tell me when he calls her characterless..............Beigairat .........is hindi word.......gairat is self respect.............so baigrat meant ......no self respect...and safed khoon means.........your family is without self respect.............when he only question her self respect..............where the question on character came......so if your interpretation of word is not right.............how can a supporting argument on it..........But questioning self respect is bigger crime than........raping self respect............

Originally posted by: maanddy

I respect your POV, now time for mine ! 😆

First : It's a fun topic ! 😊

Second : I have no more left interest in who is right and who is wrong ! 😊 coz, i do not agree, that Maan was that much wrong, that he is being given treatment like he has done a crime, and treated like a DOG ! ( Again, i will never understand this 'CRIME' ! 😆 )

Third : No comments for geet ! 😊

Fourth : Words ' Baghairat ' and 'Safed Khoon ' carries different meaning with different people, you can see this here in GF only, one of my friend explained it meaning as its urdu word and she knows it from childhood, and according to me, it was right, most of the members in GF are interpreting it so wrong, and making blunders ! 😊

May be for you and some few people, including geet, it is a big word, but there is a group of people, who does not find it that much, big and make issues !

Nevertheless, its fun topic, i have no intension to hurt anyone's feelings !

It's fun, you can join ! 😃

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@ red,

Yes, I would feel bad, hell bad, like i will kill him, and never talk to him again, that would be my temporary and impulsive reaction !

I would break all my vases, glasses and do everything to burst out my anger, will never forgive him !

But, I WOULD NEVER EVER LEAVE HIM ! Not in my this life ! Even when he calls me much bigger than this word !

Running away, like a child, is not the SOLUTION ! It's a sign of coward man !

@hindu4lyf: My 2 cents.... As you raised the issue of getting hurt most by words of those that you love most, I think you should also apply the same other way round too. It is the actions of those that we love and respect most that will hurt us most as well, especially if such actions are the likes of forgiving one's rapist and playing Holi with them as if nothing happened. If she really loves as much as you said, then she should realize and understand that her act has caused him as much and probably more hurt (owing to the nature of the act) as his words have caused her. He realized it the instant he spoke, but she does not realize it at all. That is what irks us most.

Originally posted by: sksg

@hindu4lyf: My 2 cents.... As you raised the issue of getting hurt most by words of those that you love most, I think you should also apply the same other way round too. It is the actions of those that we love and respect most that will hurt us most as well, especially if such actions are the likes of forgiving one's rapist and playing Holi with them as if nothing happened. If she really loves as much as you said, then she should realize and understand that her act has caused him as much and probably more hurt (owing to the nature of the act) as his words have caused her. He realized it the instant he spoke, but she does not realize it at all. That is what irks us most.

I dont get affected by what CVs show anymore but I am surprised at how they are continuing with this stupidity..if they were so willing to show this track of Geet leaving Maan and not forgiving Geet,they should have made Maan say some horrible things to her in anger..that would not have ruined Maan's character because we all know that he is angry young man..but showing Geet not forgiving her husband for some few rude words he said in anger and seeing him get insulted is deteriorating her character..all Geet does now is shed tears!!todayz dialogues were amusing where she was saying how she can never forgive Maan and Dev cannot understand how much pain she has suffered..I felt like laughing..OK Geet discussing pain of some rude words said by Maan to her in anger to Dev-a person who changed her life upside down and made her suffer like hell..Wasn't it weird enough to see her forgiving Dev,that CVs are showing Dev-Geet-Maan behaving with each-other so casually like they had no past..I agree they decided to let the past and Dev's sins go,but it is TOO much for me to take..Cherry on the cake is the thought of Dev coming into the house as Maan Singh Khurana,Geet's husband!..🤣..can it get any more pathetic?..I was so against the idea of Dev being forgiven but still because of CVs consistent tries I somehow accepted it BUT if they are going to show Dev being mistook as Maan,it would become highly intolerable!..I think I might have to do with written updates for few days till that non-sense is over!..Geet being ignorant and unreasonable is something I can still digest,but Dev being thought as MSK is something which is impossible to digest!..imagine Dev-Geet faking husband-wife in front of all-I will KILL myself..lol..my head is getting crazy thoughts!!!

PS-hayee hayye hayye..mein kitna sochti hoon ki ab aur nahi sochungi itna is show ke bare mein par 😡..

Originally posted by: hindu4lyf

Before I go any further..let me clarify that I would NEVER be able to forgive someone if they did what Dev did to Geet..I am simply not that large-hearted. The difference here is that Geet didn't forgive Dev..what she did is realise that she has to spend the next few years of her married life staying under the same roof with a guy whom she shares an unpleasant history with. What she did do is she chose not to hold a grudge against him because it would simply become impossible for her to live under the same roof if there were fights breaking out between Dev and Maan every other day.

What many people fail to understand is that it's all well and good that Maan saved Geet many many times but at the end of the day it was Geet that was the victim of marital rape (although to be fair rape is not the right terminology), she was the one who was a single mother who no-one was willing to support, she was the one that lost her kid despite fighting so hard for her child and so the pain of forgiving Dev was a LOT more for her than it was for Maan. Yet she still forgave him..solely because she cares about the Khurana family..she cares about Maan and wanted to do what was best. I don't think it is right to hold that against her.

I do not want to get into a prolonged argument. So, I will say only this much that if you willfully want to never find fault with what Geet did, then that is your POV and I respect you for that. But as for my part, no amount of justification can justify her act of forgiving Dev and her current indifference to Maan, period. If she is so caring enough of Khurana family that she could forgive Dev, then in the first place, she wouldn't have walked out on all of them because of her husband's outburst. What wrong did Dadi or Annie do that she walked out on them as well?

This has nothing to do with you personally, but when I find people trying to justify Geet's acts of forgiving Dev and her continued indifference to Maan, (especially when Maan's repentance is much more potent than Dev's remorse), I am reminded of the human rights activists that fight for the rights of convicted terrorists, yet ignore the plight of their victims. That is just an analogy, I am not equating anyone to anyone else, so please those who read it, don't blow it out of proportion. Her dialog of today that she can forgive anything but the current crime of Maan is in my opinion not justifiable at all, especially when it comes from the victim of attempted murder and rape who could forgive those perpetrators/criminals.

yaar....how can you say....."Baghairat" is biggest crime....even than cheating killing raping....etc....Geet is totally totally hurt because of word "Baghairat" said by Maan......That sin cannot be forgiven.....Due GHSP we learned a great thing is...."Baghairat" is a unforgivable sin......a crime....chalo yaaro....lets make a new law...."Crime Baghairat".....penalty....."disguise as driver,getting insults,letting all luxury,living in a so called outhouse,washing car,dong breakfast,lifting heavy objects,Main thing.."Doing Kushti"....😆😆
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Hayeee...."maan ki kushti"....cant wait....😍😍😍😍

Loved you post dear....👏