I never knew, calling 'BG' is a CRIME! NOTE pg 16 - Page 11

Originally posted by: delhigirl

no kuls. i do not feel that way. you are siding with correct and i appreciate that.

it takes a lot of guts to call a spade a spade

Originally posted by: hindu4lyf

Everything works two ways right? So similarly if one constantly looks to find fault in Geet's behaviour, then you will succeed. The point I was trying to make is that it was Dev that did what he did to Geet, it was Geet that went through it and not Maan and if she chooses to forgive him then that's her choice. At the end of the day, we may consider it wrong and think that such a deed is unforgivable but it makes her the bigger person. Dev was a stranger, Maan is her husband and that counts for a lot more.

I'm sorry but I honestly think it is extremely foolish to compare the justification of Geet's actions to the justification of human rights of a terrorists. This is simply an online forum where we are discussing fictional characters..maybe you consider what Geet has done to be a big sin..I don't. I respect your opinion but I don't respect you comparing the show to terrorists and their human rights. I am not blowing what you said out of proportion but honestly that is not a like for like comparison from any angle. Anyway I seem to be repeating myself here..I do understand where you're coming from in general although I respectfully disagree.

Originally posted by: kesha2412

Snehal respect your views atleast you are sensible in your opinions...

But it wasnt just anyone for Geet, it was Maan. The same Maan who said that she is the most pavitra person for him. The same Maan who accepted her after all the past happenings. The same Maan says she has no gairat and she has safed khoon (which means - translates someone who lacks character). Just thinking about what might have gone through her gives me goosebumps. Dev and her family never mattered to her a much as Maan matters to her, even now.

I do agree that they need to show that Geet is melting and that she is... she loves Maan. If she was really angry with him she would have shunned him a lot more vehmently than she is at present. She feels for his plight and all that he is going through. And its not her ego thats stopping her it is her 'id' - the less rational and darker part of an individuals psychology.

What I am sad about is the amout of Geet bashing that is going on in this forum. And this is not just this time but every time that its only Geet that is bashed. Even when she is not in the wrong and Maan is wrong some individuals in this forum come out with excuses for his totally rude and unwarrented behaviour but when it comes to Geet being wrong she is bashed left right and centre.

Anyway this is my POV and as we are individuals we can all differ in our opinions.

Originally posted by: snehalS

hey Kesha thanks for trying to understand my POV.

I completely agree with you that what Maan said was wrong.....neither I am saying he is right nor Maan is justifying his words.........he is sorry for what he did......he deserves Geet ka ruthana, even ghar se jaana for that

what I cant understand is, why Geet is taking it as "Gunah" not to be forgiven ever, rather than a Galati of her hubby who is doing what not to seek her forgiveness.........on top of that why she has to say this to DEV........I can understand when she says this to Maan himself that she will not forgive him......but when she says it to DEV😲 it appears to be her ego to me. And when a character like Geet which I loved for her rightness is ruined .....I get unhappy😔

the same she also has done with Maan earlier by rejecting him in front of Media.....but Maan did forgive her because he loves her more than his self respect, ego, social status and list can go on....

one more thing... no intention of bashing Geet here, agar hamara koi friend hota usaki jagah to yahi salah dete hum that forget and forgive ASAP

anyways having seen new promo.....she is going to forgive him sooner or later........so der aye durust aye😊 aur kya keh sakate hai

Loved interacting with you dear😊😊😊 keep rocking!
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Originally posted by: kesha2412

Hey... totally understand where you are coming from and I agree that what Maan did was definitely not a sin, it was not a crime and CVs should have refrained from using a word like 'gunah' here.. What he did was probably one of the biggest maybe unintentional blunder of talking before thinking... Yes he said some very hurtful things but he is repenting... and he shld be forgiven now..

As for Geet not forgiving Maan... I agree with what Pammi said... for what I am interpreting Geet has already forgiven Maan.. and its not her 'ego' but her 'id' that is stopping her from accepting a decision that her subconscious mind has already made consciously and in front of Maan.

The concept of 'Id' as described by Sigmund Freud (the father of psychology) - The id comprises the disorganised part of the personality structure that contains the basic drives. The id acts according to the pleasure principle seeking to avoid pain or displeasure aroused by increases in instinctual tension. The id is unconscious by definition. It is the dark, inaccessible part of our personality and most of that is of a negative character and can be described only as a contrast to the ego. Id is where contrary impulses exist side-by-side without cancelling each other out.

BTW its a pleasure interacting with you as well... 😃