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Originally posted by: shalini01

oops but like mish said love is blind.😉 😃

Originally posted by: Maya_P

actually u know y he called me stubborn...i told him i was born hindu...and i will stay hindu (details will come later on)...and he told me i'm being stubborn but in a sweet way

Originally posted by: Maya_P

I'm hindu and him christian

You know that doesn't really matter, because you do want someone compatible and who you can trust & love unconditionally & vice-versa- I think I was very lucky, arranged marriage is a gamble, I have seen many fall apart too. Love marriages seem to be like a gamble too, because I know many who were in so much love & thought everything was perfect during dating, but after marriage, things changed and just did not work out. With that said, I always believed in my parents a lot as much as God and felt that they could never go wrong in deciding my life and I guess I was destined for a good one too, so it all worked out.
You should follow your instincts too, but depends on your family perspective too, I don't think it is easy to chose a life-partner, but persistence & patience definitely helps. Not getting pressurized/influenced by peers is an important factor. I didn't find love before marriage, but did after and Rosh found love before and stuck to it, so it's all good, but one has to be careful.

yes i agree with u shallu...btw u know his family...so don't be shy to speak to him...for me it was easy...at the strat we were not talking much(me too i'm super shy when i don't know someone...plus if it's a guy...but then the events made it little easy

Originally posted by: Maaneet-is-best

You know that doesn't really matter, because you do want someone compatible and who you can trust & love unconditionally & vice-versa- I think I was very lucky, arranged marriage is a gamble, I have seen many fall apart too. Love marriages seem to be like a gamble too, because I know many who were in so much love & thought everything was perfect during dating, but after marriage, things changed and just did not work out. With that said, I always believed in my parents a lot as much as God and felt that they could never go wrong in deciding my life and I guess I was destined for a good one too, so it all worked out.
You should follow your instincts too, but depends on your family perspective too, I don't think it is easy to chose a life-partner, but persistence & patience definitely helps. Not getting pressurized/influenced by peers is an important factor. I didn't find love before marriage, but did after and Rosh found love before and stuck to it, so it's all good, but one has to be careful.

true mish divorce rate is really high now. people meet, fall in love, rush to get married and then after marriage realise that it cannot work out. my mom always tells me to pray and God will send me my life partner. He will send me my Shri Ram😊 He is never wrong.

Mishty...i'm really in a confuse state...as it's a lifetime...but ;et's see...ok i have to leave work now...i will be back when i get home

shallu i agree with u...my mom tells me the same thing..u can't trsut guys these days...u need to take ur time...ya i want my sri ram too

im off to bathe and light my diya. its almost sandhaya hour so time to pray. will log in back later on. bye mish and prema🤗

Originally posted by: shalini01

true mish divorce rate is really high now. people meet, fall in love, rush to get married and then after marriage realise that it cannot work out. my mom always tells me to pray and God will send me my life partner. He will send me my Shri Ram😊 He is never wrong.

I know about divorce, many of my friends have gone or are going through, I should PM you all about a very sad one, but anyway, yes believe in yourself, God & your parents and I agree with your mom👏

Bye Shaalu & Prema🤗