What is it that Maan said that hurt Geet so much?? - Page 5

Sorry dear i am rambling here again...........I ahev written here what i wanted to say

MSK was insulted by Geet in front of media called as'.traitor, abuser, no self respect guy who is using her for Dev '.'for forgiving his brother for his sins'( when it was misconception not actual truth ).and '' 'But when same question asked from other side'and this verbal spat was just in 3 of them. for actually forgiving sinner ( no misconception) . When he questions her self respect .He was declared as inhuman and other as God. My question is why not anyone ask same question when she questioned his self respect and integritiy in front of all not once not twice but thrice. Even in anger he used that statement only once. Unless geet answer his query this question about self respect was genuine from his side. So instead of packing bags shouldn't she be waiting for him in bedroom for one nice communication to fill the gap. When last time MSK tried his best even after media spat to tell him truth.

Why not she did same this time. .IF she really wanted a new life and move on applies that large than life concept of forgive and forget to her own rapist for their new life. Why she dint do same thing to MSK right there. Why she didn't forgive him and forget better right there. Afterall rapinf self respect if deserve forgiveness a statement on self respect definitely earn forgiveness right there. ?

WHY the girl who is doing all this for MSK sake and their new life. Took such big step of forgiving rapist for new life'didn't thought of twice of forgiving ur own husband. ( really bad one actually who stood by you in your lows, pampered you , gave you respect, accepted your child like his own, saved ur life innumerable times, gave you repect you always expected from your family, rapist your never got one)

Why not she think of forgiving MSK for same new life for which you give pardon to your own rapist.?

Why forgiving rapist is divine forgiving your husband is question to self respect?

Why raping your self respect is forgivable and question on self respect is not?

Why you never expected Dev to go on knees to ask for apology for what he did but you all expect MSk to do that?

Why self respect is so dilluisional or fictional to all of you, that you change its aspects and meaning entirely to suit it for Geet?

Originally posted by: mehraan

u kno wat kuls i hve been absent from the forum last week..... bt present as a silent reader reading every1s POV on geet walking out...i still dnt understnd wat prompted her 2 take such abig step...of walking out...WAT HAD SHE THOUGHT???wuldnt she return back forever......or tat MAAN n the entire family had 2 beg 4 wat MAAN said... in my 8 yrs of marraige n im sure mny who r here who r far mre xperienced n.... ...had gne thru bitter arguments...i n my hubby infcat had used much mre harsh n rude words bt nvr MADE a tamasha OF OUR FIGHTS infrnt of all...it was always btwn us n bhnd closed doors...MAAN said all tat senseless stuff wen he was in anger n in state of anger one doesnt hve hold on tongue n mind......its a human nature n keeping MAANs character he was like tis from day 1......such knokjhok, arguments n fights happen between hubby n wife bt walking off widout informing is such a big step......... n like 2 day thy showed geet not atleast trying 2 get back knowing DAADi n others mite b worried...i still feel she shud hve been a bit considerate in tis matter

Originally posted by: Rituparnaa

@Kuls

Perfectly explained.....the same question abt action n reaction I asked when that media bash of Maan happened !

PPl forget the action n starts blaming the reaction always..........too sad...call it selective amnesia.......

Originally posted by: kuls11

Ritu I will say pro GEET selective amenasia.............or anti MSK selective amenisia

Originally posted by: mehraan

i still dnt understand wat was so harsh...tat she had 2 walk off from the house ...if MAAN had slapped/abused/doubted her...then tis makes all perfect sense of walking out.....