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Posted: 14 years ago

Everyone fighting about reason of Geet leave KM was right or wrong?

Some said Maan is right. Other said Geet is right.

But nobody think this way--

Now Maan and Geet is husband and wife. This relation is always based on trust on each other. There is no point of doubt. And Maan made mistake here. He made a doubt and suspect on Geet as well he say that she don't have her self respect.

Imagine how you will be feel guys - put yourself in Geet shoes - your own life partner said this word that you don't have any self respect in front of other person (specially the person who already disrespect and ditch in your past) Indirectly he says that he also not giving any respect in his life. Means the base of relation in between is poor. There is no point to keep this relation (husband and wife) more. Just staying together as man and woman relation - there is no need for marriage.

Another thing is Just Imagine and change places - like put Maan on geet place and Geet on Maan place. How Maan will feel that time. What reaction will be coming that time?

I know Maan upset about she forgive Dev. But he should think before he say this kind of word because now there relation is different not a boss and secretary.

And I think this is the reason why Geet leave Maan's house.

This is just my POV. No offense.

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kiran khurana

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Posted: 14 years ago

Geet leaving the house is not the solution! Relationships don't work this way!! Maan has the right to get mad over Geet && geet has the right to get mad over Maan! Running away is not gunna help! They need to talk & work out the things !!

Edited: U said he doubted her!! He didn't doubt her, he doubted DEV............he was just upset with Geet for not telling him about forgiveness!! It was Dev who compelled him to say that!

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ninand

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Posted: 14 years ago

Sure running away is not the solution ... for many things....

But there are exceptions..! You have to understand that what Maan said in anger was that exception..

Calling your wife.. shameless, fickle or words to that effect isn't the same as calling her anything else, or scolding or even raising his hand-- which is bad, but all these things dont humiliate your soul... do not question your integrity...

Maan was hurting bad and so in anger he said what could inflict the most pain and give vent to his rage... and thats what he did.. while his anger his violence may be justified, those words against his wife were not...

and again, Geet hasnt stopped loving him cuz of it, or started hating him, or anything of that sort...

When someone as close as your husband questions your integrity in such a manner, trashes you, it does make you question yourself,

though she knows she did not do anything to wifuly defy or hurt him.. in fact quite to the opposite effect--to start their life anew...

but his words were a slap to that feeling, a painful and open mockery of her intentions ... its because that happened so openly , that she has to leave.. Its like you lay open your deepest love and devotion for your partner open to the world, by giving up on the one bitterness that held you back from him, you open your arms with a smile while everyone around you watches, and he comes in picks a glass of water and throws it in your face.

(this is just a description of what those words would have made geet feel..)

So Maan has to make an effort to bring back her self-respect, her confidence in herself..

Maan wasnt wrong in being angry, hes completely in character...

But so is Geet.. cuz the words were brutal.

Leaving the house is justified in this case.

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kiran khurana

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Posted: 14 years ago

Maan was fighting for her self-respect!! He wanted her to get justice!

Do u remember when NT questioned Geet's character it was maan who filled her "maang" with his blood? The man ,who cared for her self-respect so much, is saying these rude words. So there must be a strong reason behind saying those words ! He said those words cuz she did lost her self-respect by allowing the person, who raped her, left her helpless on the airport, to put colors on her! By saying the truth, what mistake had he done??? He said the truth && Truth is always bitter!

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: mrs.MSK_GurTi
Maan was fighting for her self-respect!! He wanted her to get justice!
Do u remember when NT questioned Geet's character it was maan who filled her "maang" with his blood? The man ,who cared for her self-respect so much, is saying these rude words. So there must be a strong reason behind saying those words ! He said those words cuz she did lost her self-respect by allowing the person, who raped her, left her helpless on the airport, to put colors on her! By saying the truth, what mistake had he done??? He said the truth && Truth is always bitter!

hun just cuz some truths are bitter doesn't give you the right to use bitter or demeaning words..

and Its for this 'man who cares for her self respect... etc' that she wanted to forget her past and start life anew...

aankhein khol ke dekho, not just what is apparent, but what is not--

she was not playing holi, it was symbolic that she wants to move on.. as she has done with the baby tragedy.. what matters is maan and maan alone...

of all things in the world she needs to do - you think she wanted to play ringa-ringa-holi-roses in the garden with Dev and friends😳 ! She was constantly thinking bout Maan and his behavior..

and if you want the truth then how bout this-- why did Maan listen to her and Daadi maa and let Dev go, not prosecute Dev and NT? where was justice and truth then?

but this aint bout Maan vs Geet , again..

truth does not become bigger or better by hurling abuses or using crass language.. wow.. i thought that was BasicSensitivity-101.. guess not.

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kiran khurana

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: ninand

hun just cuz some truths are bitter doesn't give you the right to use bitter or demeaning words..

and Its for this 'man who cares for her self respect... etc' that she wanted to forget her past and start life anew...
aankhein khol ke dekho, not just what is apparent, but what is not--
she was not playing holi, it was symbolic that she wants to move on.. as she has done with the baby tragedy.. what matters is maan and maan alone...

of all things in the world she needs to do - you think she wanted to play ringa-ringa-holi-roses in the garden with Dev and friends😳 ! She was constantly thinking bout Maan and his behavior..

and if you want the truth then how bout this-- why did Maan listen to her and Daadi maa and let Dev go, not persecute Dev and NT? where was justice and truth then?

but this aint bout Maan vs Geet , again..

truth does not become bigger or better by hurling abuses or usinf crass language.. wow.. i thought that was BasicSensitivity-101.. guess not.

^^ He didn't said those words in normal condition. Everyone knew he was angry @ that time! He didn't really mean them && she's well aware of that!

Maan never knew the truth behind this forgiveness!! && Yes geet did try to explain him but maan didn't listen to her! There, maan was @ fault && I can't deny that!! I'm not one-sided supporter!! I Love both of them && support the right thing!!

I didn't say she's playing holi with him I said she allowed him to put colors on her! && I,never said she wanted to play holi with others or she wasn't thinking about maan. The only thing she was wrong @ was letting Dev put colors on her!

He sent them to jail when he came to know about their wrong deeds! But after they got out, he didnt have proofs to put them again in jail! But he assured that he'll get Geet justice!!

yeah its true Truth does not become bigger or better by hurling abuses or usinf crass language! But he didn't really mean them or wanted to say that!! He said when water went from top of his head && Dev asked him that question!

Well, Nice talking to you😊. Right now its midnight here && I've to go. So, I'm really sorry if I couldn't reply! Bye Bye take care! Good Night[if its night] or Good day[if its day]😆

Edited by mrs.MSK_GurTi - 14 years ago

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: mrs.MSK_GurTi

^^ He didn't said those words in normal condition. Everyone knew he was angry @ that time! He didn't really mean them && she's well aware of that!
Maan never knew the truth behind this forgiveness!! && Yes geet did try to explain him but maan didn't listen to her! There, maan was @ fault && I can't deny that!! I'm not one-sided supporter!! I Love both of them && support the right thing!!

I didn't say she's playing holi with him I said she allowed him to put colors on her! && I,never said she wanted to play holi with others or she wasn't thinking about maan. The only thing she was wrong @ was letting Dev put colors on her!

He sent them to jail when he came to know about their wrong deeds! But after they got out, he didnt have proofs to put them again in jail! But he assured that he'll get Geet justice!!

yeah its true Truth does not become bigger or better by hurling abuses or usinf crass language! But he didn't really mean them or wanted to say that!! He said when water went from top of his head && Dev asked him that question!

Well, Nice talking to you😊. Right now its midnight here && I've to go. So, I'm really sorry if I couldn't reply! Bye Bye take care! Good Night[if its night] or Good day[if its day]😆

We all know he didnt mean them and that is the reason people are not pouncing on him..😆.. of course .. characteristic MSK to say whatever hurts the most when angry..

But you shud understand that he cannot pull that off everytime!.. somethings really hurt beyond reason , somethings should never be said because they can never be taken back..

theres a reason why anger is considered to be a weakness, a fault.. and this is the reason.

You cannot trash your wife like that and have her bounce back the next instant.

and yes .. its gnht here too.. monday cant come fast enuff.

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kiran khurana

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: ninand

We all know he didnt mean them and that is the reason people are not pouncing on him..😆.. of course .. characteristic MSK to say whatever hurts the most when angry..

But you shud understand that he cannot pull that off everytime!.. somethings really hurt beyond reason , somethings should never be said because they can never be taken back..

theres a reason why anger is considered to be a weakness, a fault.. and this is the reason.

You cannot trash your wife like that and have her bounce back the next instant.

and yes .. its gnht here too.. monday cant come fast enuff.

LMAO!! trust me if he would have really meant them, I would be the first one to punch him!😆

I know it was rude && hurted geet. But think about him, how much hurt he was when he saw Dev with Geet! Not once or twice, but 4 times. But not once he doubted Geet, he was furious @ dev!

Geet should've confronted him, instead of walking out on him!! She always does that && never tries to understand him && never think what he would be going through!! She knows how much he loves her, so he can never be mean to her!! We know anger is his weakness && geet knows that too!! Maan has accepted her with her every weakness & strength! Can't she truly accept him with his one weakness?? Everytime, he gets angry, she walks out on him && leaves him alone!! That's what is not acceptable!

&& Oh its night there?? Where r u from?? && yeah mondays never come fast!

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Posted: 14 years ago

@mrsmskGurti: she has accepted him as her all.. weakness or weakness.. but c'mon.. isnt she spp'ed to feel bad or hurt at all..! at all! over anything!

hey... she couldnt even remain angry with him over that Dev's blood fiasco.. when he in anger had said that he'd rather die than have to live a life indebted to Dev.. even that was bad.. that he kept his pride over a life with Geet and the baby... but she so easily forgave him..

what I am saying is... insaan kabhi to hurt hoga! kabhi to! anger as a weakness cannot be used for everything..

btw.. im in US east coast... funny way of having a convo yeah 🤣

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Originally posted by: ninand
@mrsmskGurti: she has accepted him as her all.. weakness or weakness.. but c'mon.. isnt she spp'ed to feel bad or hurt at all..! at all! over anything!

hey... she couldnt even remain angry with him over that Dev's blood fiasco.. when he in anger had said that he'd rather die than have to live a life indebted to Dev.. even that was bad.. that he kept his pride over a life with Geet and the baby... but she so easily forgave him..

what I am saying is... insaan kabhi to hurt hoga! kabhi to! anger as a weakness cannot be used for everything..

btw.. im in US east coast... funny way of having a convo yeah 🤣

Well, if she really has thn Y does she walks out on him?? I'm not saying she shouldn't feel bad, she should! She could've gotten angry with him or couldn't have talked to him like last time!! My parents get in fight sometimes && my dad says rude words to my mom!! But my mom doesn't leave house, she doesn't talk to him for some days && thn my dad tries to manofy my mom😆. What i'm trying to say is Leaving house is not the solution!!

aaaahhh........No she didn't forgive him so easily. She didn't talked to him for a day or so && he had to manofy her!! && There I agree it was maan's fault && I never supported maan @ that time!! I wholeheartedly 😆😆supported Geet!

Hahahahahah🤣🤣 yeah && I'm from canada😉. Okay now I'm leaving! Bye Bye good night🤗

Edited by mrs.MSK_GurTi - 14 years ago

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