Saturday afternoon with Eva 03/26/2011

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evasumi

@evasumi

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Posted: 14 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: HIPHOP50
Loved how you put the whole episode into words....especially the dev part. Who better than dev to explain to maan the consequences of his actions.
Totally agree geets self-respect was through maan and if he didn't think she has self-respect then nobody else mattered in her eyes.

Looking forward to next week😊

The part with Geet was too emotional to write and it was much bettter to watch the brilliant performance of Drashti which had few words..

But the part with Maan and Dev was full of dialogues and really great one so I thought to write it in details.. Yea Dev only could have let Maan know the folly of his action and lossing the love of your life..

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Julie

@Jadee777

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Posted: 14 years ago

#12

Eva 'Our angry Maan is back'Boy was he angry & I do see his POV. With all that has happened and we all know how much he loves Geet. His one (little)😆 flaw is that when he gets angry he says whatever he feels at that moment without even thinking his raw emotions takes over. Today his anger was dedicated towards Dev but due to his insecurities and the fact the he was blinded by jealously his harsh words stabbed and wounded Geet.

Both of their feelings are justified her feeling hurt and wounded and Maan insecure and betrayed. Their lack of communication is what caused this chain of events. Geet could forgive Dev because Maan is her strength, her support her love and with him at her side she can take on the world. She has said so to him and Geet has made Maan come alive, he can feel and love again. In short they complete each other.

I don't mind that she has forgiven Dev and I do see Maan's reasons for being jealous. It was a swift change, Geet couldn't stand to even see Dev to having him hold her hand, playing holy with her and he's comforting her. Maan is justified that is his right because he was always there for her. So he does see Dev as a threat because he couldn't understand why she forgave him.

Dev is repenting and he also wants to bring Maan & Geet closer (for now his actions are honest) he wants their happiness. So his actions thus far are to reunite Maaneet and to remove any misunderstandings.

Geet after reading Maan's letter has realized how much he loves her and she does want to start fresh and to move on with Maan. The person whom has always been there for her, loved her and protected her. She tried to talk to him to share her feelings and thought several times but Maan was too caught up in his emotions his angry he never gave her the chance.

Cudos to the entire team everyone was too amazing today ..Maan, Geet, Dev, Dadi & Annie.👏👏

I see this track was necessary to cover for GC's vacation and to move our Maaneet to a new, exciting and refreshing track. One we will all love and have been waiting for. Maaneet are made for each other two lovely hearts sharing one soul and are destined to be together.😍 Looking forward for next week.😉

Thanks Eva always love your take on the show. This is for you🤗

Edited by Jadee777 - 14 years ago

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shivamala

@shivamala

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Posted: 14 years ago

#13

Very nice episode today I totally enjoyed it. every one did good job.

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bhakti2

@bhakti2

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Posted: 14 years ago

#14

Thanks so much, Eva. As always your too too beautiful writing brought whole show back in front of my eyes as though I were watching again (except with your insights, which bring more meaning to it.) I was amazed at Dave's himmat today; he could only be so brave because he is strong in his belief that he can see truth. He himself has done so many wrong things, such terrible things, he doesn't want his brother to feel pain for making a mistake the way he feels pain for the wrong path of his life. I think it is Maan's personality to have anger first, then thoughtfulness afterwards. I have met many people like this. It's a problem, because they always have to chasing after their loved ones to clear up MU or hurt feelings, but what to do? This is how they are made. It's good Geet and Maan love each other before all else; that way they will be able to work this out in the end. But I wish it will happen soon.. I don't want to keep crying each day!😭 Love your beautiful Saturday post - thanks!

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evasumi

@evasumi

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Posted: 14 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: bhakti2
Thanks so much, Eva. As always your too too beautiful writing brought whole show back in front of my eyes as though I were watching again (except with your insights, which bring more meaning to it.) I was amazed at Dave's himmat today; he could only be so brave because he is strong in his belief that he can see truth. He himself has done so many wrong things, such terrible things, he doesn't want his brother to feel pain for making a mistake the way he feels pain for the wrong path of his life. I think it is Maan's personality to have anger first, then thoughtfulness afterwards. I have met many people like this. It's a problem, because they always have to chasing after their loved ones to clear up MU or hurt feelings, but what to do? This is how they are made. It's good Geet and Maan love each other before all else; that way they will be able to work this out in the end. But I wish it will happen soon.. I don't want to keep crying each day!😭 Love your beautiful Saturday post - thanks!

Bhakti dear Thank you.

yes I was applauding Dev's courage as in spite of being insulted he pushed his point.. He said with such a force that yes I will tell you what is right and what is wrong.. Once again Maan insulted him but he kept his vigil to let his brother see his folly..

Yes Maan is straight forward Maan is truthful Maan is full of integrity and dignity...but at the same time Maan is full of anger and self pride too... Yes it was Geet who was able to mellow him down by going to him directly and telling him what he did wrong and he understood and got connected with her as in her naiveness she just went and told what she felt.. and that has endeared her to him and her this things pulled him out little by little from his rigidness..

But when he saw Geet and Dev at the farm house and heard her telling him that she has forgiven him he was livid with the anger as he knew how much Geet abhored him and how much she never wanted to come in contact with him and for her to forgive him was something unbelievable and his mind just could not find the reason... his head spin and spin on those words without finding any solution. His mind could not find anything good in Dev.. He just could not see any change in Dev and he just saw him as he was. He kept on remembering those things of the farm house and watching Dev getting relaxed with all the family and Geet.. The touching of Dev just blew him off and he thought how could Geet let him touch him.. what must have Dev done that Geet forgot and let him behave normally with him and he just could not take that..he just comes to the kitchen and just starts beating up Dev.. When Geet comes to stop him his anger turns to Geet thinking why does she want me to stop and he asks her yes tell me Geet that what did he do to you that you let him played holi with him.... oh that was a shadow of doubt in him for Geet's integrity and then when heatedly he tells her that he has the Khurana blood in him which has the self respct and if Geet does not have that then it is not his problem He just separates himself from Geet saying indirectly that he does not consider her worthy of him.. and that just kills Geet inside.. she just looks at him as if she just died inside she only could utter one word and that is her cry from her heart that is his name Maan and broken heartedly she walks away...

In his anger he pulled himself apart from the one person he always wanted to be with in every lifetime...in that thing he almost thought that she was no more worthy of him and that was that Geet just could not take it.. as she always said to him that if you are with me then i can win the world but then he just pulled himself and she lost her world.. there was no fight in her.. She just lost her selfrespect... her dignity and her everything because her Maan thougth she had no self respect that was too much for to take she just could not handle his indifference to her.

Yea there are so many people like that... I have encountered few in my life.. they are upright they are decent but they have this anger issue and when they are angry they just burst like volcano and destroy everything in their path... They calm down later but they leave the scare which takes time to heal..

So now Geet is on her way to Amritsar already in the bus... Maan has come there and just misssed her but knows her destination as he was talking with the lady in red dupatta.. So let's see how this come about from Monday onward..

Edited by evasumi - 14 years ago

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evasumi

@evasumi

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Posted: 14 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: Jadee777

Eva 'Our angry Maan is back'Boy was he angry & I do see his POV. With all that has happened and we all know how much he loves Geet. His one (little)😆 flaw is that when he gets angry he says whatever he feels at that moment without even thinking his raw emotions takes over. Today his anger was dedicated towards Dev but due to his insecurities and the fact the he was blinded by jealously his harsh words stabbed and wounded Geet.

Both of their feelings are justified her feeling hurt and wounded and Maan insecure and betrayed. Their lack of communication is what caused this chain of events. Geet could forgive Dev because Maan is her strength, her support her love and with him at her side she can take on the world. She has said so to him and Geet has made Maan come alive, he can feel and love again. In short they complete each other.

I don't mind that she has forgiven Dev and I do see Maan's reasons for being jealous. It was a swift change, Geet couldn't stand to even see Dev to having him hold her hand, playing holy with her and he's comforting her. Maan is justified that is his right because he was always there for her. So he does see Dev as a threat because he couldn't understand why she forgave him.

Dev is repenting and he also wants to bring Maan & Geet closer (for now his actions are honest) he wants their happiness. So his actions thus far are to reunite Maaneet and to remove any misunderstandings.

Geet after reading Maan's letter has realized how much he loves her and she does want to start fresh and to move on with Maan. The person whom has always been there for her, loved her and protected her. She tried to talk to him to share her feelings and thought several times but Maan was too caught up in his emotions his angry he never gave her the chance.

Cudos to the entire team everyone was too amazing today ..Maan, Geet, Dev, Dadi & Annie.👏👏

I see this track was necessary to cover for GC's vacation and to move our Maaneet to a new, exciting and refreshing track. One we will all love and have been waiting for. Maaneet are made for each other two lovely hearts sharing one soul and are destined to be together.😍 Looking forward for next week.😉

Thanks Eva always love your take on the show. This is for you🤗

Jadee.. Fantastic view.. and thank you for the lovely hug too..

Yes I also felt that seeing Dev to familiar with family and Geet Maan was seething in anger and behind that was a hint of jealousy.. As Dev was the one who could bring out Geet from her sorrow and that has rattled Maan to the core. As he did not wanted any one near Geet but himself and Dev was able to break the ice of sorrow was just too much for Maan to take.. His anger was building in him little by little and it just reached the point where he just did not wanted to listen to Geet..

While in actuality the change in Geet was due to Maan's letter to her.. It was after reading that card she realized how much he loved her and how much he just could not see her that way and how much he wanted her to be happy and joyful again and how much he wanted to new thing in her life.. Dev was just a medium to bring that understanding in Geet and in that light Geet show that Dev was not the same Dev and she really did not wanted to start her life with Maan keeping Dev in her back ground she really was cutting the tie with Dev only that she can start fresh with Maan.. As she simply Geet and he simply Maan.. as she not the girl from HP and him not as her rescuer... but just Maan and Geet with no past and bright future.. and in the future Dev was there but just as related to Maan and Dadima and Annie her connection to Dev was through her husband her Maan.. and that is why she needed to cut that past with him and forgive him and forget to do anything with him..

But Maan could not see her POV as he did not know the details..

I also like when you said that Maan was justfied in his anger as he could not digest this swift change in Geet's behavior but he did not give chance for Geet to explain. He closed up himself and did not talk with her.

When he saw Geet and Dev in the farm house he could have confronted Dev then as what was he doing there but he walk out in anger and made wrong assumptions..

Anyways the CVs wonderfully covered Gurmeet's vacation by his aloofness and his closing up and him sleeping all the time but as now his back they will start this new track..

I really loved the whole team of Geet working beautifully.. Piyush and Nikunj with romeo and manisha and Geet and Anjuji... They all did wonderful job while Maan was sleeping off .... much needed sleep 😆😆😆

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Mrunmayi Naik

@-Mayu-

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Posted: 14 years ago

#17

Evaaaaaaaaaaa🤗

OMG!OMG!OMG! What an exceptional post darling!😉

I was in tears when I saw that Geet actually left her house; the house in which she was to spent her entire life with the Man she is in love with. It is her home; everyone over here loves her; respects her; but the one for whom she matters the most wasn't there; to stop her; to make her believe that indeed by forgiving him; she was ready to let go of her past; by which she wants to start life afresh!

Though everyone stopped her; she was still bearing a ray of hope; a hope that from somewhere her Maan would come running; take her in his arms; and confess that what she did was not wrong. The ray died and she left; a mournful look clearly explaining the pain; the angst; the anger she is going through; but again it is for the Man she loves!

Its often said the One's Love Should Make You Strong And Not Weak

That's what exactly Maan's love did to her; his love gave her a new lease of life; gave her love; she gained a self respect; which was clearly suppressed by her own family members; in the name of honor. Horrible!

It was her strongness; her heart which made her forgive Dev; her sinner only because she wanted to start a new life with Maan; in which her terrible; shocking past wont haunt her any more. That she will not have to be indebted to the Man who spurned her.

It was a clear misunderstanding between the Two; And When Maan looses his composure; his temperament; all he knows is That His Geet committed a mistake; BUT it didn't occur to him once also that Why must have she done that?

And now coming to the Dev Maan confrontation! It was much needed and I am glad that Dev gave a piece of sense to his Angry Young Man Bro!

As you have well described the Dev Maan convo; I will not say anything except that I felt really Bad for Maan!

Go Maan get back you love; your life!

Thaanks for the Pm!

Love

Mayuuuuuuuuuu<3<3

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Putija

@PutijaChalhov

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Posted: 14 years ago

#18

Lovely analysis of the sad episode Eva

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evasumi

@evasumi

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Posted: 14 years ago

#19

Thank you Mayuri and Chalhov

Yes The part of Geet leaving the house was too painful to describe and thank you putting that in..

Yes you said rightly.. In all the humiliation of Geet at HP and at Office it was Maan who stood by her and gave her that strength and that confidence and that self respect and love and honor and status. and He also told her that if you were not right in your principle and fight I would never have stood by you. Maan knows how much she went through and stood on her principle though she was all alone in the world with being an unwedded mom and fighting a battle of existence in the big city like Delhi.. then he supported her gave her the confidence fought for her made her life easy by making her path smooth behind the scene and become her life... her support... her existence and now that Maan tells her that she has no selfrespect it was like sucking the life out of her... It was like making her feel that whatever was between them and had developed between them was totaly fake as today he came to conclusion that he was a man with a word and integrity and she was not and that is why he said I am that man of honor and if she does not have that in her then it is not my problem...

For Geet it was a fatal blow... Her life depend upon Maan and his love for her. Her whole world is her Maan. Her day started and ended with her Maan. Her sun rose and set on Maan. She breathe the name of Maan in her life... As if Maan's love and Maan's respect and Maan's honor fed her life support system.. and in just one angry sentence Maan cut those tiea with her and she just collapsed instantly without that love without that honor and without that support..

Oh Gosh what a sad circustances of life in Maaneet's life but this has to be dealt with.... Maan is an awesome.. fantastice... truthful and full of integrity person but still with the issue of anger and when he is angry he is vocanic and just utters whatever comes in his mind without thinking who he is dealing with and tend to treat every one with the same attitude.

So I think events of his life will make him see the life little differently now and he will learn that he is not that Mr perfect all the time and others around him who he thinks have less sense then him do have better understanding with issue of heart and that everytime mind does not work in the life and he has to learn let heart rule once in a while and that life is not just black and while it also has the shades of grey in it...

Edited by evasumi - 14 years ago