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evasumi

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Posted: 14 years ago

#21

Alovi:

Love your POV... u r right...

I just want to believe that He himself is allowing Dev to come between them.. but he will soon realise that what he did..

let's hope it is done quickly with Gurmeet back from vacation... 😊

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Julie

@Jadee777

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Posted: 14 years ago

#22

I think Maan is feeling insecure and feels like Geet is wanting to go back to Dev. He's feeling like she has opened up to Dev and has shared her feelings and fears and she has NOT done so with him. He has seen her smile and he was NOT the one to make her smile. He's possessive of Geet and he can't concept the fact that she is even talking to Dev , much less hearing and seeing Dev consoling her when that should of been his right. Wow our jealous Maan is back. I love it. 😆

I think Geet is leaving because she has chosen to forgive Dev so she and Maan can move on, start fresh. She is hurt that he is doubting her love, her loyalty and her faithfulness.

Edited by Jadee777 - 14 years ago

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my_view

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Posted: 14 years ago

#23

With all being said and done couple of things stand out about Geet.

1) She expects Maan to understand her position always without understanding what ticked him off in the first place.

2) She prides in not hiding anything from Maan...decides to forgive Dev but not make diligent efforts in telling Maan about it pronto.

If MSK loved the baby with passion, his hatred for Dev has been equally passionate.

It seems Geet brought the wrath upon herself in a way knowing full well how Maan feels about Dev and reacts to the sight of the man anywhere within the same room let alone playing holi and touching Gith's face.

MSK being a strong reactive personality that he is, it is folly on her part to expect Maan not to retaliate after being provoked so to speak.

MSK is a man of few words. He may not have exactly chosen the right words to express his disgust after Holi fiasco. His bad.. But as far as strongest natures go, when they are influenced by someone, they submit most unreservedly until they are pushed to the edge.

I will be pragmatic here and look forward to Geet having a pang of compassion in forgiving Maan for his choice of words since forgiving is her Mantra lately. After all Maan's harsh words cannot even compare to Deva's atrocious unspeakable crimes and misdeeds to her.

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evasumi

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Posted: 14 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: Jadee777
I think Maan is feeling insecure and feels like Geet is wanting to go back to Dev. He's feeling like she has opened up to Dev and has shared her feelings and fears and she has NOT done so with him. He has seen her smile and he was NOT the one to make her smile. He's is possessive of Geet and he can't concept the fact that she is even talking to Dev , much less hearing and seeing Dev consoling her when that should of been his right. Wow our jealous Maan is back. I love it. 😆

I think Geet is leaving because she has chosen to forgive Dev so she and Maan can move on, start fresh. She is hurt that he is doubting her love, her loyalty and her faithfulness.

Perfect explanation... the bottom line is that Maan could not take the fact that Geet came out of her sorrow because of Dev where as he must be the one to bring her out.. i think may his jealousy has increased his anger 100 folds

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evasumi

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Posted: 14 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: my_view

With all being said and done couple of things stand out about Geet.

1) She expects Maan to understand her position always without understanding what ticked him off in the first place.

2) She prides in not hiding anything from Maan...decides to forgive Dev but not make diligent efforts in telling Maan about it pronto.

If MSK loved the baby with passion, his hatred for Dev has been equally passionate.

It seems Geet brought the wrath upon herself in a way knowing full well how Maan feels about Dev and reacts to the sight of the man anywhere within the same room let alone playing holi and touching Gith's face.

MSK being a strong reactive personality that he is, it is folly on her part to expect Maan not to retaliate after being provoked so to speak.

MSK is a man of few words. He may not have exactly chosen the right words to express his disgust after Holi fiasco. His bad.. But as far as strongest natures go, when they are influenced by someone, they submit most unreservedly until they are pushed to the edge.

I will be pragmatic here and look forward to Geet having a pang of compassion in forgiving Maan for his choice of words since forgiving is her Mantra lately. After all Maan's harsh words cannot even compare to Deva's atrocious unspeakable crimes and misdeeds to her.

well I would say that Geet tried to tell Maan and seek to speak with him but he was sleeping. then she wanted to wait for him to wake up but dadima came to say that she is needed downstairs to welcome guests and told her that he has always been like that during holi he will be ok after a while. but in all these in her heart she did not forget the fact that she needed to talk to maan as he seems to be upset.

Yes MSK is the man of few words and his love and possessiveness of Geet makes him like this.. I also do hope that Geet sees his love in that and comes back to Maan.

But the fact that Dev understood Geet more than him was the main factor of his volatile anger..

and rightly so as for him no one can understand Geet better then him..

Edited by evasumi - 14 years ago

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my_view

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Posted: 14 years ago

#26

^^^ I think when Geet wants to get Maan's attention she knows how to do it..case in point when she locked him in the conference room to confess about events leading to her pregnancy...but even If she could not talk to Maan about her decision to forget Dev, she should have waited until she could to further her interactions with Dev... A major blunder in her judgement to put Tikka on Dev..

Every outburst of Maan or anyone for that matter cannot be attributed to insecurity..Some people adhere to principle no matter what....I refuse to believe the reason for Maan's anger is him feeling insecure about Dev. To me that is an insult to the magnanimity he displayed in accepting and loving Dev's biological child more than he would have loved his own.

Forget MSK, a lot of people here on the forum including myself cannot understand how Geet can forgive Dev.. and we are least bit insecure about Dev.

Dev was a criminal and a lowlife and he cannot erase his Karma by saying how sorry he is over and over. Repenting takes time sometimes a lifetime.. He has a long way to get there.

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evasumi

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Posted: 14 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: my_view
^^^ I think when Geet wants to get Maan's attention she knows how to do it..case in point when she locked him in the conference room to confess about events leading to her pregnancy...but even If she could not talk to Maan about her decision to forget Dev, she should have waited until she could to further her interactions with Dev... A major blunder in her judgement to put Tikka on Dev..

Every outburst of Maan or anyone for that matter cannot be attributed to insecurity..Some people adhere to principle no matter what....I refuse to believe the reason for Maan's anger is him feeling insecure about Dev. To me that is an insult to the magnanimity he displayed in accepting and loving Dev's biological child more than he would have loved his own.

Forget MSK, a lot of people here on the forum including myself cannot understand how Geet can forgive Dev.. and we are least bit insecure about Dev.

Dev was a criminal and a lowlife and he cannot erase his Karma by saying how sorry he is over and over. Repenting takes time sometimes a lifetime.. He has a long way to get there.

Well that time Geet did make him listen her because her whole existence depended upon Maan hearing her whole truth that he would not feel she has cheated him. during thoes time also she tired to tell him the truth so many time but could not find the courage but at last she did and she made him listen and this time she did not because I think they had to bring this track due to Gurmeet's vacantion.

So I think once he comes back from the vacation they will right this issue in couple of episodes

The reason I said about insecurities because there were couple of incidents where Dev was proven right and that has angered Maan.

About baby's room being cleaned too early and that will make Geet upset.

Then Dev offered to take Geet to the orphnage and Geet agreed that also angered Maan and Dev came and said after a long time Geet was happy. and then Geet went back to being sad and closed down again. So these things started bothering Maan and for him it should not be like that.

Then he walked upon Geet and Dev talking and Geet saying that she forgave him...

This all adds up to make his anger rise like volcano and behind all that is the fact that Dev was able to bring Geet to normal while he could not..

So when Geet was trying to stop him he turns her with a wrath and asks her heteadly so tell me geet why were you playing holi with such a person. He hated the fact that he touched his Geet. Imagin if he wpuld have seen Dev holding Geet's hand at the farm house he would have turn extremely violent.

But all these was brought I think to cover Gurmeet's absence due to his vacation as there was no time for heart to heart talk between Geet and Maan which both needed to do desparately.

Well why did Geet forgave Dev.... Dev was a criminal and lowlife no doubt about that but he is trying to rectify himself as he said that he has a right to repent yes he does... and I think it was better that Geet forgave him as she does want to go ahead in the life without remembering those painful moments.

Dev is dadima's grandson too and is going to stay with them as Dadima wishes that. So everytime Dev enters. Geet and Maan either stop speaking or leave the room and that behavior affects the whole house hold specially dadima feels sad... Geet closes up... Maan closes up and Annie though loves both the brother equally cannot show her love as she knows that Maanbhai would not like that. So that connection of the past still bothered Geet and Maan..

Geet understood what Dev was trying to do for repentence and that is what change the person. And when that person is changing and leaving behind all his bad habits and sins then it is high time Geet also just let go of past and move ahead without any emotional connection with him

But well everyone has their own POV and we all think differently because we all are different individual.. but I would always believe in my heart that forgiveness is a good begining and brings healing and joy

Edited by evasumi - 14 years ago

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Anu

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Posted: 14 years ago

#28

Everyone is busy bashing Geet since she put rang on Dev.. Funny thing is they all claim, they are fine with Geet forgiving Dev, but why she put tilak on Dev.... here is a great definition of forgivenss, I was trying to say, but was not able to put words nicely.. so found it from a Bible teachings book

Forgiveness recognizes what you thought your brother did to you has not occurred. It does not pardon sins and make them real. It sees there was no sin. And in that view are all your sins forgiven. What is sin, except a false idea about God's Son? Forgiveness merely sees its falsity, and therefore lets it go. What then is free to take its place is now the Will of God.

So then, if she has really forgiven Dev, I think there is no need to make big deal of holi scene.. Yes Maan should know entire facts, but the audiences who know still bash her..

Hey, I accidently posted this on your other post... it was meant to be posted here

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evasumi

@evasumi

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Posted: 14 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: AnuN
Everyone is busy bashing Geet since she put rang on Dev.. Funny thing is they all claim, they are fine with Geet forgiving Dev, but why she put tilak on Dev.... here is a great definition of forgivenss, I was trying to say, but was not able to put words nicely.. so found it from a Bible teachings book
Forgiveness recognizes what you thought your brother did to you has not occurred. It does not pardon sins and make them real. It sees there was no sin. And in that view are all your sins forgiven. What is sin, except a false idea about God's Son? Forgiveness merely sees its falsity, and therefore lets it go. What then is free to take its place is now the Will of God.

So then, if she has really forgiven Dev, I think there is no need to make big deal of holi scene.. Yes Maan should know entire facts, but the audiences who know still bash her..

Hey, I accidently posted this on your other post... it was meant to be posted here

No problem Anu it can go on both the thread.

Well in actuality Geet did not put rang on Dev... She very respectfully and with dignity put the tilak on Dev. She did not play holi with anyone as she was waiting for her Maan. The slight color on her cheek was just a token touch by Dev wishing her happy holi..

So Technically Geet did not play holi at all she as the elder bahu of the house just put the tilak on the forehead of her brother in law...

So if people are saying or bashing that Geet played holi then it is the misconception I would say

And the most famous Lord's prayer taught by Christ to his 12 disciples states that

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

So it also means that if we do not forget others Lord will also not forgive us. Hence our forgiveness from high above depends upon how we forgive others....

So forgiveness brings peach joy and blessings from above as it is godlithing to do..

Edited by evasumi - 14 years ago

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alovi_21

@alovi_21

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Posted: 14 years ago

#30

I agree with @ evasumi, my thoughts are same,

she has forgive dev due to so many reason.

1) dadi ma will not be happy with Maan n geet behaviour towords Dev, she told Geet Dev ko eke moka dena chahiye, after so much repenting.

2) she want to live happy life with maan by forgetting her bad memory

3) she know how much Dev is trying to repent, even if u remember she told NT that atleast Dev ko apni galti ka ehsaas to hai. she hate NT more than Dev due to this reason, as still she has no shame on what she did with Geet, Geet has that nature, take that example of arjune ko contract diya after knowing that Arjun is NT bro, shasha ke saath usne kuchh bad nahi kiya maan bataya bhi nahi ki parti main uski sari shasha ne tore ki thi.

and about holi color dev putting, was so natural at that moment, dadima n anni was there n every body was there what ppl were expecting she should say somthing bad to Dev to ruin happiness at happy family moment , so dadi n anni feel bad at happy moment, she already tell bad to Dev at form house, she acted matuerly I feel as Kurana's bahu, as we hate dev char very badly we are not thinking about Geet situation in this way.

sec she would have never thought that Maan can doubt on her intention n love , loyality towords Maan, she has full faith on Maan that why she has innocently did holi act.

we should not forget that just few days back she gone through MC big loss , still she is trying to smile for Maan as Dadi told her maan ke liye hi smile karo, so she is trying to do that, try to keep yourself in Geet place n think, we all love maan so much , but does not mean he was right today. just tell me she don;t have any right to forgive ppl according to her dicision, she has to ask evrything with Maan before taking dicision, uski koi marji nahi bachi kya maan se shadi karne ke baad, still she want to share this big decision with Maan, but due to Maan anger she didnot.still due to maan anger use blood donate wali baat chupani padi.

still Maan anger justify upto some extend but those word never justify men it very hurtful n insulting no body can tolerate, just asking those who r supporting maan bad word whether they can't tolerate those word any kind of situation, I don't think so. I m sorry but I can't ,wo bhi jisse aap sabse jyada pyaar karte ho, it my POV no offence with others.

Edited by alovi_21 - 14 years ago