What Do I Mean When I Say Sorry. - Page 9

Originally posted by: lily_k25

" when a person says sorry..it doesnt mean that he/she is wrong n hence they r sorry...
it just means that the person values the other person (feelings,prensence in their life) more than their fight "

this holds good to both geet n maan...they alwasy valued,luved eachother more than oneself...whcih always made them apologise to each other n forgive each other without any ego clash for a long period of time


nandu...awesome one yaar...each n every point whcih u wrote is correct n touched the very core of the heart..no wonder we understand maan so much😳
maan is one guy who raised the expectations, want of every girl for her prince charming...that if we find anyone less worthier than him we wouldnt accept him..thast the magic of maan singh khurana 😳

Originally posted by: Rituparnaa

Oh Nandita......what a brilliant post !

Due to shoratge of time am writing less.Will edit later !

Uno what I found yday epi a perfect one with the beautiful understanding between MG.This is what I always expected from the show.I mean it was really nice the way Geet understood her mistake n Maan reassured her in his arms.Loved it when he explained his helplessness abt avoiding her with his words.Infact I too wanna thank CVs the way it was executed flawlessly.

Originally posted by: mahikaa

Wow the way you make one experience emotions through your words is remarkable. was apprehensive reading updates but thanks to you and Nidz i watched it on youtube and i agree it was PERFECT & it was Geet's moment not Maan's as she meant what she said were as he was helpless of the 2 this reminds me what u wrote in your last article 'knowledge is not blissful state' its the knowledge of everything and still being helpless makes him say what all he never meant and she knows it now and so that made her double guilty not just sorry to have forced him to do what hurts him the most that is see her in pain.

kudos for being so brilliant

Originally posted by: lily_k25

i saw many saying that ' Maan is God' and ' Maan is not God ' ..'he is not 'the perfect' ..he is just human'
but i say...he is both God and is not Perfect...u all can ask how??

he has more of divinity in his character and actions and his beliefs rather than in the status tag others give him...which makes him more divine n god like..he is not god..but he more divine for which he is compared to a god.

he is not perfect...yes he is not...but..thats what makes him "the perfect"...he is sooo immperfectly perfect...
he is called perfect because he is not perfect n he knows he has his flaws...he thinks he is correct and some wrong...but he doesnt think that he alone is correct and the rest of the world is wrong...
there is a slight difference in there..." him thinking that him being correct " and "him thinking that him alone being correct "
thats y he values others judgement too..and thats wat makes him soo immperfectly "perfect"


yoo..did i make any sense to u guys..or did i confuse u all more?😆

Originally posted by: pal_2010

Hi nandita,

Once again wonderful post. You have conveyed that CV want to show. When I was reading analysis, I was really disappointed that such s sweet episode was not linked by them. I think that is one of best episode.

But after reading you post I feel so nice that there are some sensible persons exists. Thank for giving such nice post.

After Kashish now I am your big fan.

Originally posted by: sptrno

Nandita wowwwwwwwwwwwwwwww amazing superb awesome.....once again a marvellous piece dear👏......keep up the fab work!!!

You know usually to say sorry one needs courage and strength.........also usually people think that if u r saying sorry to someone u r bowing down and u r reducing ur level, status or respect but people who think like this do not know that saying sorry u r rising in the eyes of the person whom u r apologizing as well as ur own eyes ............people who apologize r actually very strong bcuz they r ready to accept their mistake and also be prepared to accept any punishment if any instead of covering up their mistakes with some excuse......and in the case of MAANEET they punish themselves when they realize they have committed a mistake or hurt each other unknowingly..........there is no ego or any inhibition between MAANEET......so for them saying sorry was not a matter of hesitation as seen in most of other cases/other people.....infact in their case both they were very restless eager and impatient to apologize to each other............Geet wanted to apologise bcuz she felt she was wrong and hurt her Maan so much with her words, with her questions, with her every action which pierced his heart like a zllion thorns......while sayign sorry she did not at that point think whether he wud forgive her or he wud also say sorry for his rude and harsh behaviour (which he actually did bcuz he had no other choice and to protect his Geet frm the more painful truth.........once Geet comes to know the truth frm the doc for Geet her Maan's harsh words and rude behaviour seemed like the sweetest melody, sweetest gesture ever done by anyone to her) Geet is always like this as u have mentioned even after slap scene in the storeroom Geet apologised to Maan first without expecting anything in return.............in both the cases Geet has apologised first but this does not mean Maan does not want to say sorry it is just that both r different......Geet usually comes to normal easily i mean she is an extrovert kind of a person so speaks wat is on her mind her heart more easily than Maan who is more like an introvert but in Maan's case his heart his soul his every breath wud be aplogizing every second even if he is silent.......silent with only words but if if one wud see his eyes his heart they wud easily read his 'sorry'........Maan always keeps his feelings, his guilt inside but he also wants to apologize just like his Geet ...........once they both apologized all their heavy burden of guilt, pain, tears, questions, their confusions all disappeared ............MAANEET once again proved that instead of torturing yourself and punishing yourself for hurting the other person unknowingly it is always better to speak ur heart out what is on ur mind it is better to say sorry as soon as u realize ur mistake and as soon as it is possible bcuz sometimes delayed apologies might make no sense or have no effect bcuz it might be too late too late to rectify one's mistake............so instead of regretting later for not saying sorry it is always better to apologize...........also in MAANEET's case they both r saying sorry to the person they care, love, understand and trust the most.......infact 'sorry'.......just a word with five letters but this gave a new meaning to MAANEET's relationship and their divine and sacred bond of love, care, respect, admiration and worship grew stronger and deeper with these words..........also u r absolutely right MAANEET's apology was simple but still very divine, sacred, pure as it was straight frm their heart and that is y it touched our hearts so much as well............along with 'sorry' the hug had a healing, soothing and magical effect on them.............they handled the whole situation perfectly and that is y MAANEET r special, unique, divine, sacred, perfect couple, perfect soulmates and truly they r a couple made in heaven..............and now their love and concern for their baby their life their heart their heartbeat their soul their breath their everything as parents comes above their wishes, desires, passion as husband and wife..........the child is really a 'blessed one' to have mama and papa like Geet and Maan.........

Lots of love,

Spandana

p.s.sorry for the late reply dear

Originally posted by: -Rati-

Hope you are doing great with your exams.

Originally posted by: -Rati-

Wonderful. Actually I am mesmerized by this post. You really have a way with words. You make me see things more with your words than the visual did when I watched it.
Marked all the lines I loved in red But this expression I just am absolutely stunned
"He dint mean it & now he knows that she knows that he dint mean it ..it was forced by her rather than by him.

So he says a plain sorry - nothing more , nothing less .


He is not guilty since he dint mean any of it that he said , but sorry he is , and sorry he genuinely said.


Guilty she is.

She meant what she said, but he dint. She meant it when she said he no more loves her.

She meant when she said she has lost her trust in him.

She broke not alone his heart but his trust by losing her trust in his love.

And her meaning what she hit him with is what makes her guilty.


Hence it was Geet's apology not Maan's that marked the moment."


👏

It is so simple if one sees things clearly and not clouded by gender biasness or biasness towards a particular character.

The title is amazing a question put as a confident statement.
Its impressive and eye opener.
Thankyou

👏

Originally posted by: dolphinUSA

Nandu-bandu.....Geez I haven't called you that in a long time na? Here...🤗

You already know how I feel about your post. It makes most sense to me that what he did, did not need a verbal apology. You already know the part that I like most. As a justification for his actions, all I'm going to say is.....She herself told him once that NO ONE is more important to her than the baby. Which means the baby comes first and then he. So rather than telling her the truth about the baby's condition and getting her worried, he fights with her which would be the 2nd reason for her worry...not the first. He'd rather that she is hurt by his behavior than be tensed about the baby's health.

Now coming to sorry...like you said...she really did think he stopped loving her so her apology was justified. But he did not mean the words that come out of his mouth in response to the bombardment of questions she posed....so there is really no need for an apology.

But I do have to say one thing. I'm tired of him being shown as mahaan. A little more human touch would have been nice. Only because this Maan is a little too sweet for words. It's as though there is no reality. When I was watching ystd's episode (yeah yeah I actually sat through the whole episode).....I was like this is not the show I fell in love with. This is become a too sweet to be true love story. Their fight was real...it felt real...it was needed. But the make up was a bit cliched. The same dialogues, the same hug, the same emotions. It's repetitive...

I'm tired of seeing Geet all goofy and tripping and falling and careless and Maan being there to help her. It's not real anymore. It's as if she is born to fall in front of him and he is born only to help her. It takes away the profound feeling of love. It now looks more of a duty...a responsibility..you know what I mean? As a couple, both need a mature. She needs to be a little more responsible towards her own self..specially since she is carrying a baby in her womb...and he needs to keep tabs on his anger. Frankly, even though they had fought...it was not right of him to not call her even once while he was gone. He just assumed she was mad....he didn't try.

Am I cribbing too much? LOL...if not here....where else can I show what I feel? Hope you don't mind :)

Originally posted by: nanditasingh

Spandhan, thanks & rather i'm sorry owing to my exams i could not get back & read your & rest of my friends wonderful replies...Sowieee

I so love reading you, its an honor to have you on the thread, as you not alone comment & compliment ..but add to it & thats what every postmaker looks forward to. Read your thoughts as the post is their thought & they want to know yours on the given topic.