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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: PGirn

Hi Nandita


I am at lost of words..SUPERB post..The way u described it yaar! i feel like givin u an award! Ur too good

Bless u!

I think i read ur post for the first time!

If ever they want to write a book on GEET..i will suggest ur name...!

Complie all ur post since Episode 1 haha and voila! GEET NOVEL hehe


thanks for sharing!





Aww! thank you i'm humbled...your comments itself i take as compliment , thank you for such sweet words of encouragement

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shweta13

Ohhhhhhhhh nandita , you did it again .........🤗 I love reading your post , i belive whet Cvs try to portray what GC n DD act is beautifully expressed and understood through you.... please keep this going till the serial lasts, hope that day never comes so soon in near furture.



hey thanks ...🤗thats so sweet of you.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: nanditasingh

"Maan Singh Khurana aisa hii hai."


Once in a lifetime comes a love,
So sweet, so pure, so rare;
A flashing, brilliant, blinding light,
Like a comet through the air.

A love without rhyme or reason,
That knew no space or time.

(Allison)



What can be more pure & sacred than unconditional love that only believes in giving & for taking from you..he wants to take away all your sorrows & pain.
Love that can be compared to devotion & a lover to God...for he is always there when you need him to hold you , protect you, love you & expect nothing in return.
Expect nothing but trust & faith in him , thats all.


To me Maan is one such lover, rather only....


His Wedding night, a night he dreamed of ... the woman he loves , the woman he desires all his socially , legally , morally & physically to cherish....waiting eagerly only for him to love her.

Love he does unconditionally but not alone as a emotion & need , but to him his love & loved ones are his responsibility.

Not alone Geet but the life breathing in her womb it too is his responsibility & first priority to him from the day he has known of its li'l existence in their life .


Though he had walked away from her then refusing to hear her more after she had told him of her pregnancy ..but he cared then too...leaving aside all his anger for her he took care of her when she fainted in his arms ....
He knew she needed him even more now & he could never let her down.

Situations changed , truth dawned ..... the Baby from being Geet's turned into theirs, & his responsibility to him....he made sure she gets ever needed attention to complete the full stage of her pregnancy & bring home new life ....

The moment he first saw the glimpse of the Baby from responsibility it became his dream, their dream ... love.
He went through death himself when Geet & Baby were fighting for their lives.... if anything could have happened to either of them..it could have been his soul that could have been ripped apart......coz to him it could not be his pain alone , not his loss alone to suffer , but of the Geet's too.

To him it has always been that, its never about him, its first Geet, now Geet & Baby then comes them, they three .... he alone never exists , never did when it comes to Geet.


"knowledge is not always a blissful state"

So true it holds...a moment before he never knew that on his wedding day itself he will get to hear the heart wrenching news that may be with all his prayers, love & care he wont be able to save their Baby, he wont be able to keep the promise he made to Geet if situation worsens...now it wont be Baby or Geet & no choice can he make to stay true to the trust she has in him...

Again he bottles up all this knowledge, pain & fear within himself & smiles through the wedding ceremony so that Geet could be kept away from the anxiety & stress that is dangerous for her & their Baby.

He suffers it alone.


He walks away from her on their first night fearing for her delicate state & the knowledge he cannot share as he knows Geet wont be able to handle it & knowing that he is holding back himself for her sake will end up making her more guilty and give her more pain.....he can think of no reason to offer hence the lame but only available reason he uses to maintain their distance , for her & Baby's safety.


Unknown to his intentions & confused with his action , woman in love that she is who has landed in her dreamworld finally with her dream man...to her the distance is hard to bear & not normal .... she knows the passionate man that Maan is....yet his being immune to her presence drives her to initiate things, to stir him.

But the man being Maan, he remains strict to his resolve he craves for her..yearns for her & her trying every moment to seduce him adds much more to his suffering yet he does not give in to his desires....


Trust my love that's what he says
Leave your fears far behind


And that she can't ...she has always felt blessed having him in her life , it is something that gives her all the strength & also a huge fear, fear of losing him.
Having lost & lost so much in life she is unable to believe that her dreams wont shatter again .... this time its so much at stake that if she even comes near to lose it she will kill herself & she fears it max.

Blinded by her own fears, desires & unable to comprehend the depth of the reason for his actions & his love for her .... she reacts. She assumes 'all love lost' in between them .... and she confronts him....blames him of having changed.

She questions him ...' what wrong have i done?'


He looks away fearing that his eyes may tell her of his pain & in no way he wants to burden her with his own...he does not lie but with head bowed down he lets her speak all her fears, her questions

Questions turn to accusation - 'You want to stay away from me , you want this right !'

Shocked by this he looks at her , that she misunderstood him , read him wrong ...he finally begins to share his fears , his own pain with her...with welled up eyes he tells her -

'I'm sorry , i know how much i'm hurting you by breaking your dreams about our nearness but Trust me i'm not happy doing this either...you cannot even imagine how much all this is killing me '


His emotions in the vulnerable most state , he refuses to look at her anymore fearing that he can't hold back his pain from her anymore, not when he is seeing she is in pain too.

He refuses himself the freedom from this inner gulf of torture by not answering her , 'If you are in pain too why are you doing this to us?'


There is no answer now but the truth to this & truth alone he cannot share, he cannot make her go through the fear & pain of having to lose her baby , which obviously is grave compared to her fears & pain now.


He stays quite , his silence pleads for her understanding ,
but again his silence gets misinterpreted as she had done it months back when he had refused to answer to her accusation that he is marrying her only to save Dev & the Khuranas.........


She loses control & voices her loss of trust in his love, their love

'You don't love me anymore now.'


All his hopes that she will trust him , understand him unconditionally as he does, crash to the ground into millions pieces ,
he looks at her searches her eyes for a single spark of trust she might have for him to hold on to it for his own sanity of mind , he finds none , nothing but questions & glaring accusations


His all hopes shatter again
when she continues with her accusations rather than trying to feel his pain, understand him, atleast try to reason that he who can go through anything to bring that one smile on her face , to whom his own happiness , infact life itself never exists without you being first there .....he now helplessly admitting at not being able to give her joy how much tied down , how much in pain he himself must be.


He looks away to hide his disappointment
She failed him ......fails to understand him,

'Eros turned to Ares'

He looks back again & keeps on searching , trying to read her eyes ....hoping for that one flicker of trust still

But her point-blank disbelieve in his love, their love drives him over the edge & all his raw hurt, emotions flow in & he yells out what she subconsciously has ticked as answers for the questions she hit him with.


'Yes I love to see you suffer, this is what you wanted to hear , yes i love in seeing you in pain..happy this is what you wanted to hear right!'

- he pulls her to himself hoping against hope to make her see his pain , his love that he has been trying hard to keep away from her all this while .


Now desperately he wants her to see his pain , her questioning their love is death to him , her eyes filled with tears of shattered dreams, broken trust is death to him.
Death he cannot endure , death he does not deserve ...death he refuses to live with even for a moment.

With no sign of change of mind, no sign of her trying to understand him finally kills his all hopes with which he had held her.


Masking his disappointment , his pain & utmost his fear in anger he hurts her as she hurt him.

Not an attempt to get even as some might think but to make her see what she did to him, how she bleed his heart
.


'i cannot see tears in your eyes.....it hurts me, and so i hate you'

Having heard him she looks down drowning herself in tears .....drowning him in her pain & guilt that these tears are his doing .

He gives her one parting look with questions held in them ...

'How can she be so blind to his pain & only see his anger ... how can she ever had loved him, loves him but fail to understand him ? How can she take his words on face value & not take into account the emotions they hold in them?'


It's so easy to blame everyone
Look in the mirror you're the only one
Your finger points at those who care
Just keep it up and they won't be there


No more able to speak & no more able to assure her of his love or bear her lack of trust in their togetherness , their love , marriage .

And He walks away.



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Pretty much long i know, may be boring too.
But having read few voice their 'anti -Maan' love ...has me doing what i like doing the most..voice my respect, trust & love for him.

i so wish men could cry with equal ease......
then may be we could feel their plight as we do of women.

And then may be all could understand Maan truly.


Wounds Heal But words Not
if this holds true for what he told Geet, isn't it same for her too when she did not trust his love

blame both or pity both...why one?


My point of view & stand for it...thank you if you really did read it all

Love
Nandita

Nandu...This analysis is simply beautifully put...
The Man..His Love for Geet..always on the upperhand....He drives her away...But he is hurting as well...He knows that he will not be able to be away from her..so resorts to what he knows works....He uses the words which he knows hurts her the most...Geet never wanted the Khurana izzat and all that and MSK is well aware of that...He does this on purpose and as a result gets it right...he has hurt Geet...
For him Geet is priority...But for Geet the baby takes the top spot..so thus he gives up his happiness for the happiness of his beloved...He in his own weird way has tried to safeguard Maaneet baby....But i m worried that hope this does not stress her out more and hopefully will not have any disastrous results....
MSK doing this has given Geet the stress...but just may be this stress is less compared to the stress she may feel when she comes to know abt the inevitable abortion she may be undergoing...which Maan is aware of....That stress would simply take away the light from His Geet...So by pushing himself and Geet into the darkness of rejection...He is saving Geet from a bigger abyss...
Both were hurtful...but both had reasons for it...Hence this MU is meaningful...Hoepfully light will come into the darkness and Maan N Geet will be happy and together again soon
But the need of communication between the couple has come into the forefront..coz the promo actually has a different meaning for me...Pyar hua...Shaadi Hui..and ab Kya...MSK n Geet need to be able to have a communiction...The way they read each others eyes....that will have to brought out again...
Extremely well written nandu...Maan the Man of few words....The Man who was hurting coz he was hurting Geet which is completely not what he ever wants to do and yet has to do it....
Hope Maan will be able to voice his feelings and geet will be able to understand his POV....
I just wrote what i took from yesterdays episode and acc to my POV of MSK...The Maan who was apparant yesterday so v much.....
Bye for now Nandu..
Lots of Love
Mags
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Posted: 14 years ago
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what can be more grave or painful for Geet, her husband not getting intimate with her , keeping distance (sorry i don't see it as ignoring her) or that she might have to lose her Baby?

Answer this & you will know why Maan is hiding the truth...he acted rude , hurt her only in attempt to shield her from bigger one
Edited by nanditasingh - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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You Know what this is the same thing which i have been telling everyone when that scene was aired in yesterday's episode!! Even i told this in geet's FB page. But Your post now will make everyone know this. Thanx for that

I was so upset when geet said to maan that u dont love me anymore. I mean how could she even think for a second that maan, MSK doesnt love geet anymore. This was the most hurtful line for maan which he couldnt bear up and then he yelled at geet. and geet how can she not read Maan's eyes. it was so in pain.

hope geet understands her mistake today and say sorry to him
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Nandita, a well written and a needed post at the moment...thank you so much for this.

I personally don't favour any of them, neither Maan nor Geet. I feel pity for both of them for not being able to know how to deal with the situation.

We, as the viewers think and say that, why can't she/he say or do this or that? But we don't see the depth of their characters.

Maan and Geet are two different characters like the rest. Though they love each other (sorry, I cannot judge who loves more) they are stick to their personalities which I don't want to see them to change. Even if they want to change also they won't be able to do so.

Maan is a loner, he won't share anything with anyone, and he is a man of actions rather than words while Geet is the opposite. So we have seen the difference, Maan kept quiet while Geet burst out everything.

I don't want to blame Geet or Maan for the action. We, the audience are aware of the reason behind Maan's behaviour, but Geet has no clue about it. She knows and believes that Maan loves her, may be that's why she wanted to know the reason...what else a newly wedded wife could think that her hubby is distancing himself from her since after the marriage???

Maan was hurt, we have seen the pain...so as usual he brought out anger to cover up...

Maan's dialogues....
he made Geet K family bahu, gave her name, wealth....so and so.
the same thing Geet has asked before marriage...the cause of a previous MU....she asked, for which Maan didn't answer then, so what could be the after effect of it now?

If Geet comes to know the truth from the doctor she will feel guilty for doubting Maan's love...but the words spoken could be a barrier between them.

For conclusion, all I can say is that both Maan and Geet were the victims of the situation...Men keep things to themselves while women let things out....It is not because they doubt each other's love or it isn't because of lust that Geet questioned Maan.

Love,
Amrita
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Posted: 14 years ago
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heyy nandu beautiful post like always respect your pov
that's what i think:
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1603581#38627938

Mallu
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Posted: 14 years ago
#28

Originally posted by: nanditasingh

"Maan Singh Khurana aisa hii hai."


Once in a lifetime comes a love,
So sweet, so pure, so rare;
A flashing, brilliant, blinding light,
Like a comet through the air.

A love without rhyme or reason,
That knew no space or time.

(Allison)



What can be more pure & sacred than unconditional love that only believes in giving & for taking from you..he wants to take away all your sorrows & pain.
Love that can be compared to devotion & a lover to God...for he is always there when you need him to hold you , protect you, love you & expect nothing in return.
Expect nothing but trust & faith in him , thats all.


To me Maan is one such lover, rather only....


His Wedding night, a night he dreamed of ... the woman he loves , the woman he desires all his socially , legally , morally & physically to cherish....waiting eagerly only for him to love her.

Love he does unconditionally but not alone as a emotion & need , but to him his love & loved ones are his responsibility.

Not alone Geet but the life breathing in her womb it too is his responsibility & first priority to him from the day he has known of its li'l existence in their life .


Though he had walked away from her then refusing to hear her more after she had told him of her pregnancy ..but he cared then too...leaving aside all his anger for her he took care of her when she fainted in his arms ....
He knew she needed him even more now & he could never let her down.

Situations changed , truth dawned ..... the Baby from being Geet's turned into theirs, & his responsibility to him....he made sure she gets ever needed attention to complete the full stage of her pregnancy & bring home new life ....

The moment he first saw the glimpse of the Baby from responsibility it became his dream, their dream ... love.
He went through death himself when Geet & Baby were fighting for their lives.... if anything could have happened to either of them..it could have been his soul that could have been ripped apart......coz to him it could not be his pain alone , not his loss alone to suffer , but of the Geet's too.

To him it has always been that, its never about him, its first Geet, now Geet & Baby then comes them, they three .... he alone never exists , never did when it comes to Geet.


"knowledge is not always a blissful state"

So true it holds...a moment before he never knew that on his wedding day itself he will get to hear the heart wrenching news that may be with all his prayers, love & care he wont be able to save their Baby, he wont be able to keep the promise he made to Geet if situation worsens...now it wont be Baby or Geet & no choice can he make to stay true to the trust she has in him...

Again he bottles up all this knowledge, pain & fear within himself & smiles through the wedding ceremony so that Geet could be kept away from the anxiety & stress that is dangerous for her & their Baby.

He suffers it alone.


He walks away from her on their first night fearing for her delicate state & the knowledge he cannot share as he knows Geet wont be able to handle it & knowing that he is holding back himself for her sake will end up making her more guilty and give her more pain.....he can think of no reason to offer hence the lame but only available reason he uses to maintain their distance , for her & Baby's safety.


Unknown to his intentions & confused with his action , woman in love that she is who has landed in her dreamworld finally with her dream man...to her the distance is hard to bear & not normal .... she knows the passionate man that Maan is....yet his being immune to her presence drives her to initiate things, to stir him.

But the man being Maan, he remains strict to his resolve he craves for her..yearns for her & her trying every moment to seduce him adds much more to his suffering yet he does not give in to his desires....


Trust my love that's what he says
Leave your fears far behind


And that she can't ...she has always felt blessed having him in her life , it is something that gives her all the strength & also a huge fear, fear of losing him.
Having lost & lost so much in life she is unable to believe that her dreams wont shatter again .... this time its so much at stake that if she even comes near to lose it she will kill herself & she fears it max.

Blinded by her own fears, desires & unable to comprehend the depth of the reason for his actions & his love for her .... she reacts. She assumes 'all love lost' in between them .... and she confronts him....blames him of having changed.

She questions him ...' what wrong have i done?'


He looks away fearing that his eyes may tell her of his pain & in no way he wants to burden her with his own...he does not lie but with head bowed down he lets her speak all her fears, her questions

Questions turn to accusation - 'You want to stay away from me , you want this right !'

Shocked by this he looks at her , that she misunderstood him , read him wrong ...he finally begins to share his fears , his own pain with her...with welled up eyes he tells her -

'I'm sorry , i know how much i'm hurting you by breaking your dreams about our nearness but Trust me i'm not happy doing this either...you cannot even imagine how much all this is killing me '


His emotions in the vulnerable most state , he refuses to look at her anymore fearing that he can't hold back his pain from her anymore, not when he is seeing she is in pain too.

He refuses himself the freedom from this inner gulf of torture by not answering her , 'If you are in pain too why are you doing this to us?'


There is no answer now but the truth to this & truth alone he cannot share, he cannot make her go through the fear & pain of having to lose her baby , which obviously is grave compared to her fears & pain now.


He stays quite , his silence pleads for her understanding ,
but again his silence gets misinterpreted as she had done it months back when he had refused to answer to her accusation that he is marrying her only to save Dev & the Khuranas.........


She loses control & voices her loss of trust in his love, their love

'You don't love me anymore now.'


All his hopes that she will trust him , understand him unconditionally as he does, crash to the ground into millions pieces ,
he looks at her searches her eyes for a single spark of trust she might have for him to hold on to it for his own sanity of mind , he finds none , nothing but questions & glaring accusations


His all hopes shatter again
when she continues with her accusations rather than trying to feel his pain, understand him, atleast try to reason that he who can go through anything to bring that one smile on her face , to whom his own happiness , infact life itself never exists without you being first there .....he now helplessly admitting at not being able to give her joy how much tied down , how much in pain he himself must be.


He looks away to hide his disappointment
She failed him ......fails to understand him,

'Eros turned to Ares'

He looks back again & keeps on searching , trying to read her eyes ....hoping for that one flicker of trust still

But her point-blank disbelieve in his love, their love drives him over the edge & all his raw hurt, emotions flow in & he yells out what she subconsciously has ticked as answers for the questions she hit him with.


'Yes I love to see you suffer, this is what you wanted to hear , yes i love in seeing you in pain..happy this is what you wanted to hear right!'

- he pulls her to himself hoping against hope to make her see his pain , his love that he has been trying hard to keep away from her all this while .


Now desperately he wants her to see his pain , her questioning their love is death to him , her eyes filled with tears of shattered dreams, broken trust is death to him.
Death he cannot endure , death he does not deserve ...death he refuses to live with even for a moment.

With no sign of change of mind, no sign of her trying to understand him finally kills his all hopes
with which he had held her.


Masking his disappointment , his pain & utmost his fear in anger he hurts her as she hurt him.

Not an attempt to get even as some might think but to make her see what she did to him, how she bleed his heart
.


'i cannot see tears in your eyes.....it hurts me, and so i hate you'

Having heard him she looks down drowning herself in tears .....drowning him in her pain & guilt that these tears are his doing .

He gives her one parting look with questions held in them ...

'How can she be so blind to his pain & only see his anger ... how can she ever had loved him, loves him but fail to understand him ? How can she take his words on face value & not take into account the emotions they hold in them?'


It's so easy to blame everyone
Look in the mirror you're the only one
Your finger points at those who care
Just keep it up and they won't be there


No more able to speak & no more able to assure her of his love or bear her lack of trust in their togetherness , their love , marriage .

And He walks away.



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Pretty much long i know, may be boring too.
But having read few voice their 'anti -Maan' love ...has me doing what i like doing the most..voice my respect, trust & love for him.

i so wish men could cry with equal ease......
then may be we could feel their plight as we do of women.

And then may be all could understand Maan truly.


Wounds Heal But words Not
if this holds true for what he told Geet, isn't it same for her too when she did not trust his love

blame both or pity both...why one?

and

one question ...
what can be more grave or painful for Geet, her husband not getting intimate with her , keeping distance (sorry i don't see it as ignoring her) or that she might have to lose her Baby?

Answer this & you will know why Maan is hiding the truth...he acted rude , hurt her only in attempt to shield her from bigger one


My point of view & stand for it...thank you if you really did read it all

Love
Nandita

Bravo
Only one post i must say that has highlighted both their plight .
Geet's confusion, fear and pain
As well as Maan's double pain one having to hide the truth from her second the pain of being away from her
If Geet is suffering seeing him distance himself from her isn't he going through the same
Its so unfair to take sides when both are suffering. So disheartening
Thankyou for this deeply thoughtful post
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: nanditasingh


Nandiiiiiiiiiii🤗

Amazing post👏👏

You are a rock star⭐️⭐️
Had to reply as this was a stupendous; well written post; it was a true eye opener for me.
Thanks a ton!
Here are my thoughts. Hope you will not mind them.😆


"Maan Singh Khurana aisa hii hai."


Once in a lifetime comes a love,
So sweet, so pure, so rare;
A flashing, brilliant, blinding light,
Like a comet through the air.

A love without rhyme or reason,
That knew no space or time.

(Allison)



What can be more pure & sacred than unconditional love that only believes in giving & for taking from you..he wants to take away all your sorrows & pain.
Love that can be compared to devotion & a lover to God...for he is always there when you need him to hold you , protect you, love you & expect nothing in return.
Expect nothing but trust & faith in him , thats all.

Well your exceptionally written posts made me that i was worng; wrong for the first time in analyzing Maan. Thanks for the eye opener. I confess; i was so wrong.

Exactly; the above written word are echoing in my mind. Exactly; Maan's love for Geet is unconditional. He expects nothing in return than Geet understanding the pain; angst; anguish he is going through. What he expects is that she shows the same trust and love; faith in him before their marriage.


To me Maan is one such lover, rather only....

Maan is a gem; that too a rare kind. He is only one! He is Maan Singh Khurana.


His Wedding night, a night he dreamed of ... the woman he loves , the woman he desires all his socially , legally , morally & physically to cherish....waiting eagerly only for him to love her.


Love he does unconditionally but not alone as a emotion & need , but to him his love & loved ones are his responsibility.

Not alone Geet but the life breathing in her womb it too is his responsibility & first priority to him from the day he has known of its li'l existence in their life .

Bingo!

Very well said dear👏👏

The wedding night was the most special night in his life and he waited for it for ages. The night was of their unison. Their consummation of their marriage. The girl of his dreams was in his arms; submitting to him; and yet as he worships the relation he shares with her; the bond that they share; he withdrew. Only a man who cares and loves his wife more than his life; could let the weak moment pass.


Though he had walked away from her then refusing to hear her more after she had told him of her pregnancy ..but he cared then too...leaving aside all his anger for her he took care of her when she fainted in his arms ....
He knew she needed him even more now & he could never let her down.

Maan always loved Geet and he accepted her with her past; though he was hurt; felt betrayed yet he saved her. He is her Knight in shining armor; with him beside her; Geet is always safe.

Situations changed , truth dawned ..... the Baby from being Geet's turned into theirs, & his responsibility to him....he made sure she gets ever needed attention to complete the full stage of her pregnancy & bring home new life ....

Wow! Geet's baby became their baby! It was a transition that made me go mad. Maan will always respect her; her feelings and will never let any one random person; insult Geet. They will have to face Maan before they can hurt Geet. Remember when she had to go to the hospital; he booked the whole of the ward; He told that Mrs. Khurana is coming. He never mentioned that Geet is coming. For him; her respect in the soceity; her status; her values are all he cares for! I salute Maan!


The moment he first saw the glimpse of the Baby from responsibility it became his dream, their dream ... love.
He went through death himself when Geet & Baby were fighting for their lives.... if anything could have happened to either of them..it could have been his soul that could have been ripped apart......coz to him it could not be his pain alone , not his loss alone to suffer , but of the Geet's too.

👍🏼👍🏼

You couldn't have put it better!

Though I would like to add some more. It became his biggest dream; his only desire was to see his baby! Geet was happy to see that Maan finally accepted the baby; loves them unconditionally. Loosing their baby would have been a loss from which both couldn't have ever come up. He couldnt loose Geet nor their baby; yet he took a decision. Geet surely loves him and her love gave him the power to overcome this hurdle.

To him it has always been that, its never about him, its first Geet, now Geet & Baby then comes them, they three .... he alone never exists , never did when it comes to Geet.

Bang On!!😃

Yes! Geet and their baby are his only priority! He can do any thing to see them both safe and secure; even if that means; hurting himself to see a happy family later on! His day begins with them and ends with them. His world revolves around them; how can he think about himself first. Its time Geet stops worrying and he takes all the charge.


"knowledge is not always a blissful state"

So true it holds...a moment before he never knew that on his wedding day itself he will get to hear the heart wrenching news that may be with all his prayers, love & care he wont be able to save their Baby, he wont be able to keep the promise he made to Geet if situation worsens...now it wont be Baby or Geet & no choice can he make to stay true to the trust she has in him...

Again he bottles up all this knowledge, pain & fear within himself & smiles through the wedding ceremony so that Geet could be kept away from the anxiety & stress that is dangerous for her & their Baby.

He suffers it alone.


He walks away from her on their first night fearing for her delicate state & the knowledge he cannot share as he knows Geet wont be able to handle it & knowing that he is holding back himself for her sake will end up making her more guilty and give her more pain.....he can think of no reason to offer hence the lame but only available reason he uses to maintain their distance , for her & Baby's safety.


Unknown to his intentions & confused with his action , woman in love that she is who has landed in her dreamworld finally with her dream man...to her the distance is hard to bear & not normal .... she knows the passionate man that Maan is....yet his being immune to her presence drives her to initiate things, to stir him.

But the man being Maan, he remains strict to his resolve he craves for her..yearns for her & her trying every moment to seduce him adds much more to his suffering yet he does not give in to his desires....


Trust my love that's what he says
Leave your fears far behind


And that she can't ...she has always felt blessed having him in her life , it is something that gives her all the strength & also a huge fear, fear of losing him.
Having lost & lost so much in life she is unable to believe that her dreams wont shatter again .... this time its so much at stake that if she even comes near to lose it she will kill herself & she fears it max.

Blinded by her own fears, desires & unable to comprehend the depth of the reason for his actions & his love for her .... she reacts. She assumes 'all love lost' in between them .... and she confronts him....blames him of having changed.

She questions him ...' what wrong have i done?'


He looks away fearing that his eyes may tell her of his pain & in no way he wants to burden her with his own...he does not lie but with head bowed down he lets her speak all her fears, her questions

Questions turn to accusation - 'You want to stay away from me , you want this right !'

Shocked by this he looks at her , that she misunderstood him , read him wrong ...he finally begins to share his fears , his own pain with her...with welled up eyes he tells her -

'I'm sorry , i know how much i'm hurting you by breaking your dreams about our nearness but Trust me i'm not happy doing this either...you cannot even imagine how much all this is killing me '


His emotions in the vulnerable most state , he refuses to look at her anymore fearing that he can't hold back his pain from her anymore, not when he is seeing she is in pain too.

He refuses himself the freedom from this inner gulf of torture by not answering her , 'If you are in pain too why are you doing this to us?'


There is no answer now but the truth to this & truth alone he cannot share, he cannot make her go through the fear & pain of having to lose her baby , which obviously is grave compared to her fears & pain now.


He stays quite , his silence pleads for her understanding ,
but again his silence gets misinterpreted as she had done it months back when he had refused to answer to her accusation that he is marrying her only to save Dev & the Khuranas.........


She loses control & voices her loss of trust in his love, their love

'You don't love me anymore now.'


All his hopes that she will trust him , understand him unconditionally as he does, crash to the ground into millions pieces ,
he looks at her searches her eyes for a single spark of trust she might have for him to hold on to it for his own sanity of mind , he finds none , nothing but questions & glaring accusations


His all hopes shatter again
when she continues with her accusations rather than trying to feel his pain, understand him, atleast try to reason that he who can go through anything to bring that one smile on her face , to whom his own happiness , infact life itself never exists without you being first there .....he now helplessly admitting at not being able to give her joy how much tied down , how much in pain he himself must be.


He looks away to hide his disappointment
She failed him ......fails to understand him,

'Eros turned to Ares'

He looks back again & keeps on searching , trying to read her eyes ....hoping for that one flicker of trust still

But her point-blank disbelieve in his love, their love drives him over the edge & all his raw hurt, emotions flow in & he yells out what she subconsciously has ticked as answers for the questions she hit him with.


'Yes I love to see you suffer, this is what you wanted to hear , yes i love in seeing you in pain..happy this is what you wanted to hear right!'

- he pulls her to himself hoping against hope to make her see his pain , his love that he has been trying hard to keep away from her all this while .


Now desperately he wants her to see his pain , her questioning their love is death to him , her eyes filled with tears of shattered dreams, broken trust is death to him.
Death he cannot endure , death he does not deserve ...death he refuses to live with even for a moment.

With no sign of change of mind, no sign of her trying to understand him finally kills his all hopes with which he had held her.


Masking his disappointment , his pain & utmost his fear in anger he hurts her as she hurt him.

Not an attempt to get even as some might think but to make her see what she did to him, how she bleed his heart
.


'i cannot see tears in your eyes.....it hurts me, and so i hate you'

Having heard him she looks down drowning herself in tears .....drowning him in her pain & guilt that these tears are his doing .

He gives her one parting look with questions held in them ...

'How can she be so blind to his pain & only see his anger ... how can she ever had loved him, loves him but fail to understand him ? How can she take his words on face value & not take into account the emotions they hold in them?'


It's so easy to blame everyone
Look in the mirror you're the only one
Your finger points at those who care
Just keep it up and they won't be there


No more able to speak & no more able to assure her of his love or bear her lack of trust in their togetherness , their love , marriage .

And He walks away.



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Pretty much long i know, may be boring too.
But having read few voice their 'anti -Maan' love ...has me doing what i like doing the most..voice my respect, trust & love for him.

i so wish men could cry with equal ease......
then may be we could feel their plight as we do of women.

And then may be all could understand Maan truly.


Wounds Heal But words Not
if this holds true for what he told Geet, isn't it same for her too when she did not trust his love

blame both or pity both...why one?

and

one question ...
what can be more grave or painful for Geet, her husband not getting intimate with her , keeping distance (sorry i don't see it as ignoring her) or that she might have to lose her Baby?

Answer this & you will know why Maan is hiding the truth...he acted rude , hurt her only in attempt to shield her from bigger one


My point of view & stand for it...thank you if you really did read it all

Love
Nandita


For the rest of the post where you dont see any replies; my special comments is because i am speechless after reading that i have nothing to add. Its perfect! I so wish i could make posts like you. Its so superb that i was waiting for more to read; there is nothing that i can reply now. It will make you post lose its charm!

Thanks once again for the post!!

Love
Mayuuu<3<3

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hi Nandita,
Wonderful post 👏.
You have beautifully explained the pain of Maan. Whenever Geet need something Maan is always there, but most of the time when Maan need some emotional support or believe, most of the time Geet failed to show trust and believe. How she questioned him about love ? He has already proved so many time before.
Really Maan is in double pain. My heart is went out for him. He is emotionally weak, Geet has just seen this during Sangeet. She has to understand that something is hurting him.
Once again thanks for your wonderful post, because most are blaming Maan.

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