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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: LuvScooby

I think Geet is still insecure with herself and that's why she keeps repeating this sentence to him. She has been betrayed so badly by the people she had in her life (her family, Dev, etc.) that she can't come to terms with the fact that Maan is still with her.

I think she says this to reassure herself that someone can love her with all her baggage. I don't think that insecurity is going to go away this fast.

This makes sense, that it's more insecurity with herself and insecurity that what happened before with everyone's betrayal could happen again (even if logically she knows that will not be the case with Maan, but all that betrayal is bound to leave scars and consequences). After all, she said the same to Arjun.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Yes it is true that she should stop saying that because it makes it more apparent that the baby isn't Maan's even though he has accepted it saying that it is his as well. BUT I also think that she was just really shocked seeing the baby for the first time and that too with Maan....the emotions just spilled out. She couldn't help it. She is awed by how Maan is and is just feeling extremely lucky to have him in her life. :)
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Posted: 14 years ago
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yaar maan ne to geet ka past accept kar liya...bt maan k pat ka kya.....god knws ye sameera vali baat kab reveal hogi...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree she shouldn't bring this topic out again, I agree the situation was a bit emotional but she should realize that Maan doesn't love her despite her past but with her past. I think it was just the emotionality of the situation that made her say these things again.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@XAiShBaBy08X, @drdee142

It is true that it's such an emotional moment. Perhaps I am overlooking that. So maybe I can let it go. But after tomorrow, I hope I never hear something like that from her again.


Originally posted by: Soniya007

yaar maan ne to geet ka past accept kar liya...bt maan k pat ka kya.....god knws ye sameera vali baat kab reveal hogi...


Hahahah. Though I don't think Geet is so naive to think Maan never had any romantic relationships before. Though yes, if Sameera had a huge impact on him enough to change his personality and views, that's something that he probably should share with Geet.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: dewdropred

the pain wht she has or gone through is not tht easy dear ...

all i can say is ...
if a girl / women has a past it's not that easy for her to just forget ...
she said those words bcoz ... she felt the need for them .....
as she saw that maan was so happy on seeing their baby ...
she knows that maan is not the actual dad of the baby ... inspite of that on seeing the baby he felt so happy as though it was his baby ...
not that he does not think that way ... he does think that the baby belongs to him ...
but tears rolling down maan's cheek ... made geet say all those words ... his love his affection ... the way he run from office to hospital just to make sure that the baby & mother are safe ... he himself told that ... to the doctor that he wants their safety .... inspite of geet telling him it's not necessary he did not listen to her ....
the way he loves her made her say all those things to him ... bcoz deep down some where in her heart she feels that may b she should not have entered his life as she has a past ... not that she can live without him .... even the thought that maan is not there with her .... will take her life away & she will die if maan is not there with her ... but still she some times feels that he may deserve some one better than her ... & to that maan already replied that ... for him she is perfect ... he loves her the way she is ... for him no other girl matters ... as she is the one who taught him how to live ... laugh ... love ...
i guess i ate ur brain too much ...
u can agree / disagree ... it''s ur choice ... but don't get geet wrong ... put urself in her shoes ...


I agree with you. She was emotional at that time. Though it is sounding annoying it's ok as they are still not married. Once they are married, there will be no barrier between them. She will feel insecure till the marriage. I think she will feel this again in future but she'l not express it in words. When the baby will be born & she will look at Maan & baby's relationship she'l just appreciate it. Well to me it's logical & natural. Today Maan was trying to bond with the child & we'l see this bonding getting stronger in the future. With the passing of time all her fears will be doused.


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