Hi there viji!!!!.....while i appreciate ur POV....but i just feel like mentioning da way i look at dis sitn....so here goes...
@underlined.....u know i think dat here its not so much abt maan's ego....but his extreme hurt dat is making him behave dis way!!!!....come one how many of us....(forget whether man or woman)....wud take kindly to da way geet insulted n demeaned maan in front of da whole world!!!!
Wat wud be our reacns as normal ppl if we had got da same insulting words n untrue accusations(dat geet threw at maan) of da worst kind thrown to us on our face...wen whatever we r doin is 4 dat very 1 person who is breaking our very world with her baseless accusations!!!.....
I mean maan here is behaving da way he is....coz he is just big time hurt!!!!..its not abt ego!!!...any normal guy or girl wud be hurt at geet's behaviour!!!!!!......whether in love or not...so where does da ego cum in all dis????
Hey Imu i understand and to an extent agree to what you have said...Ki he is Hurt Big time hurt...i am not denying that....
But his actions today in the washroom(Ya Jo bhi room tha)....clearly indicates that his EGO is hurt big time....He literally forces himself on her...he compels her to admit that she needs his "HELP"....Geet does not say anything all she does is look at him with pleading eyes....which to me was her way of telling him ki she wants him in her life....she is incomplete without him...But the Wrong notion that he is having ki she cant do it on her Own thats wrong and she will not give into his compelling.....also another instance that Proves the same is where Geet tells ki Maan is making thing for her Difficult on Purpose....(We many Idiots at Skype had discussed this and came to the same conclusion ki Maan is going to create difficulties in her Life, Geet being the person she is will over come all this hurdles, and in this Process Maan will actually Fall in Love with his Sherni Once again....) had he been hurt he would not think of making difficulties in her path....this he is doing only so that Geet admits that she needs his help .
Maan is just tryin 2 prove to himself dat geet needs him in totality(his love, his strength, his support)...coz he just simply loves her beyond reason.....n cannot accept dat she doesn't need him in any capacity at all!!!!...but he doesn't want to again bare his soul 2 her....so instead of telling her dat she needs his love...he is using da word support!!!!...dats all....n most of da ppl end up reading LOVE as SUPPORT....
I disagree to This....as said had it been love or support he would not make things this difficult for her.....He is trying to Prove that she is Incapable with out him....and she needs his Help.....6 frames out of 10 yesterday proved the same....
There is no denying his love for her....But Maan in this relationship has been always at the Giving end and Geet at the receiving end.....This actually satisfies his insecurities that she will never leave him kyuki she is always the receiver ...and so she will be binded to him...But thats what was faulted here.....Geet to said she does not Need him....
Imagine what if Sameera had also done the same???? Now Geet doing the same would only add to his agony and there by Ego.....His Mission is Geet Handa its as though he is going to prove that She will not make it....and he in his all possibilities is trying to shut the doors that open upto her....
Yesterday when Geet says that she needs the Client List File and when Romeo actually gives it to her...Maan intervenes and does not allow it to happen.....Why does he do that....He is Hurt but why is he staying as a Path Blocker....this very actions and Dialogues are the Ones that proves he is hurt but his EGO is hurt/scratched Big time
coz see even after all dis...his concern 4 her is intact!!!!...is dat ego or love???....n even after all dis he cant see her tears...is dat love or ego???...even after all dis he cant let her out of his sight...is dis love or ego????...if i wud be in maan's place....honestly i don't know how much love i wud be capable of feeling after being hurt da way he was by geet!!!!
(Here qquoting from my previous Post)
Maan is ALMOST back to Square One
Guys Please do not ignore the word "Almost"....Yes Maan Singh Khurana who was the Synonym of Angry Young Man is back.....He does not like flowers, he does not like colors, he does not like emotions and he is the Boss and Boss is always right attitude.......But this MSK is an MSK with a Twist.....Even if he has gone back to the Square 1 mode this time there is an additional something to his very existence-His Love and Concern for Geet.....He could not stop himself from scolding her for her callous behavior of climbing down the ladder in her pregnant condition.....It was not a Boss who was Speaking then it was her Maan.
So i know dat maan has an ego...but here its not his ego but his undying n extremely dep love for geet...which is making him react in dis way...coz dis is da only way he can prove to himself....dat geet needs( read LOVES) him beyond everything n any sitn!!!!....maan's anger i feel is completely justified!!!!
Just my POV...dats all!!!!...hope u dont mind such a long response 2 ur take!!!!
Lots of love always,
imu
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