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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: nmerchant

--- 1). Yet she runs from him and can't tell him the whole truth?

2)---At least tell him I don't like seeing you so worried and anxious. I love you too much and I looked for the jerk and this is all I have left to go on..and hand him the darn No. !!

3)--And this whole idea of keeping things from the person you love and all in his interest! To protect him, so he is not hurt, blah blah blah...who buys that! I don't care for it. Sorry but my expectations were really higher for this show and unfortunately looks like thats gone now as they are just using the on screen chemistry of the main leads as to what holds us to the show. Nothing more! Please even though we drool with the hot and steamy scenes, we still want the story line and characters to remain strong. Speaking for myself here, don't know if anyone agrees!


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1) .. even I want geet 2 tell the complete truth 2 maan ... without hiding any thing ...
2).. I hope she tells him tht she really cares 4 him & ask him not 2 b worried abt any thing & not hide any thing from him ...
3)I 2 hope tht thy don't show the misunderstanding part in b/w maaneet ...bcoz i 2 expect that they show some thing diff from the CV'S not the misunderstanding part ...luv 2 c some thing diff...
4)i mentioned the same line in a diff. post already --- here it is -- "I hope she does not lie abt the number ...she can change the topic .... she can say tht thy r getting late & just leave tht room with her bags ... "in tht way she simply skipped tht question ...so in future if he aks her abt it atleast she can tht she din't lie abt that # ... so therefore V may not have misunderstanding abt it ...& I think maan will find out the truth himself ...He is not going 2 keep quiet so easily ...
forgot 2 add this sterday....just slipped from my brain at tht time ...
4).geet is not dumb ...she wants 2 fight her war herself without maan's help ...
Edited by dewdropred - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I don't know if I have been watching too many Kekta serials, but, to be honest, I understood why Geet didn't tell Maan. Geet knows Maan is quite obsessive and committed, so if she tells Maan, Maan's entire life will become consumed by this mission to find the bride ditcher and neither Maan nor Geet will be able to move on. Geet already made quite an effort to find Dev, so she probably thinks Maan's pursuit will be equall futile, or if it bears results, it will be at the cost of his well being and sanity. She loves him too much to do that to him.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: nmerchant

Now here r my few reasons why Geet doesn't want to tell anything about that Dev to Maan.. 😳
  • First is she doesn't want Maan to get in any sort of trouble...she knows to what extent Maan can go for her..she doesn't want Maan to get obsessed in his revenge mission and forget smiling again...
Don't you think Maan is shown as a pretty solid guy, and though he would go to the ends of the world for his love, he would be able to take care of himself without getting into trouble, so to speak? He would smile because he was getting her justice and also take care of her at the same time. Thats why we are all so taken in by his character, dark, handsome, arrogant, strong! Totally DREAMY!
Well, that is what you think but have we not seen how shattered he was when he came to know of Geet's pregnancy? He was hurting himself physically, mentally and emotionally. There he was under the impression she betrayed him and was angry. Now she knows the depth of his love for him. So if he cannot find the culprit he will hurt himself doubly because the anger will be turned inward. His inability to get her justice could wreck his life. Now you can always say why should she think that he would not be able to find him but think of it from her point of view. She is just eighteen, has limited experience with the world. She sees things from her eyes. She tried finding the culprit but couldn't. When she tried to find him, she was told that the information that she had was too sketchy and not enough to trace the guy. To her it is like looking for a needle in haystack. So she thought it would be difficult, maybe next to impossible, for Maan too. She underestimated his resources or capabilities but then she can only think from her own perspective, is it not? If Maan cannot find the guy, he would suffer for the rest of his life because he would get frustrated and obsessed with this 'mission'. Is that what she wants for her man? Definitely not. That is the prime reason she decides to keep quiet. For his sake and not hers.
  • Second is she wants Maan to stand in her support but when it comes to fight for justice she wants to do it on her own sinse Maan was nowhere connected to her past....and she learnt it from Maan only ,to always fight on her own rather than being the damsel in distress waiting for the knight in shining armour😆..

That would be my ideal story line: Geet and Maan discover it is Dev together, when she tells him this is the number of the guy and that is all I have about him. They are now joined forever, past, present nd future is both theirs together. Maan lets her know with shock that this is his brother dev's number in canada. She is aghast at the knowledge and repeats Dev?? Dev Khurana? Then they both work together to get her justice. Maan already knew his brother was upto no good and one can blame Naintara but in the end, the despicable acts were performed by Dev himself rt? Maan does not have to take over and can definitely support her when she corners Dev herself!

Well, yesterday Maan realised that the number belonged to Dev. Why did he not straightaway ask her how his brother's Canada number came to be in her possession? Why did he adopt the convoluted path of just saying this code is from Canada? So you see Maan himself is not too straightforward. Moreover, Maan's grey cells also should be exercised, isn't it? Why should everything be spelt out for him? He already knows the culprit is supposedly from Canada and here he has a chit with a Canada number and that too that of his bro. He knows his bro is a crook. Can he not put two and two together? If not, at least can he not start to think something is amiss?
Third is she herself doesn't hv enough information about Dev right now(she doesn't even know whether Dev is his real name or not) and just telling Maan the name will not do any good as Maan will become more restless in finding out the culprit...
The phone no. and full name should be enough incriminating evidence, in addition to the other names, Naintara, Pammi etc..
She does not know Maan knows these names. So how can she presume that it would not be difficult for Maan to trace the culprits?
  • Fourth is they hv just started their relationship..but still a bit of awkwardness is there...both need to talk more in the coming episodes before Geet feels more free and confident to give away the culprit's name to Maan😳
Don't understand the reason for this awkwardness: Maan has revealed his deepest feeling for her and she has revealed her darkest moments, her past. I feel they should be closer than ever ? Thats why these last couple of episodes with their behaving like strangers does'nt quite gel for me. They should be closer than ever and Geet should express her thoughts to him in some way, I feel😭 Maan is coming across as strong, loving but Geet is falling short I feel.
Yes, they have revealed their deepest feelings. That is why there is more awkwardness. It will take time for both of them to soak up everything and then the awakwarness will go. Is Maan really strong? I would like to see whether he reveals his own past without any prompt once they get together. He has still remained the enigma, hasn't he? So when he can keep things to himself why are we expecting Geet to reveal all? As to love, Geet's love is no less than Maan's. It is because she loves hims so that she was willing to subject herself to the pain of opening up her raw past, wounds of which have not completely not healed. Just think of it. The girl has never discussed her past with anyone, not even her best friend, Pinky but she let herself open up to the man she loved and literally ran behind him to make him hear the whole truth even when he did not want to. So let us not be biased here. If she had not run after him to reveal the truth, the guy would still be smarting in anger thinking she betrayed him.

Sorry to butt in and respond to the questions you have raised. But I totally empathise with Geet yesterday.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Though I loved yady's epi a lot but still I agreed with your pov.
They must stop characterising Geet as a confused person always.
Well I understand when she had a self dialogue that she does not want MSK to be involved in the matter coz she does not want him to be tense again still I vouch on the fact that when both of them had already so much drama coz of the untold truth for such a long time then why again the same thing???
For me it just to give life to another 20 epis as u said correctly........afterall its daily show............so everything they cant show in a single epi........
They might have thought another melodrama for this.
But it is quite difficult to accept a fact that since she failed to find DEV so also MSK will.The reach he's having does not reflect that at all.Infact a confident and perfect person like him can better find out abt the person.So the only explanation to all these hiding the heartfelt emotions is to have another drama.
Well I appreciate ur pov in the sense that its high time to show Geet too feels the same depth,passion and intense emotions for him.Infact I'm feeling this right after she came back from the rly station coz since now both of them are aware of the bitter truth and MSK's determination to have her in his life at any cost ,his depth of love everything needs to be reciprocated equally.Not an ounce less.He accepted her as his soulmate and Geet's character needs to be portrayed in that light also.
I enjoyed yday's epi to the core coz the loving yet the confident n Mr.perfect Maan Singh Khurana is back in its original flavour and am looking fwd to it how he's dealing with the number issue.He's so intelligent to find out the truth easily as he already knows the man ditched geet was from Canada but rest depends on CVs.And I think it'll be the next twist after the Manali trip.
Edited by Rituparnaa - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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did not understand what she meant when she said Yeh ladhai meri hai aur mujhe ise akele ladna hoga!! Thought she just told him she had put it behind her and would'nt let it overshadow her today and tomorrow. Rt?

OMG I did not get that part and thought over it !!!! Why did they even put tht dialogue into the episode.?? Was it to make her look strong??
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: mistymistu

did not understand what she meant when she said Yeh ladhai meri hai aur mujhe ise akele ladna hoga!! Thought she just told him she had put it behind her and would'nt let it overshadow her today and tomorrow. Rt?

OMG I did not get that part and thought over it !!!! Why did they even put tht dialogue into the episode.?? Was it to make her look strong??

True that dialogue was quite confusing......am still pondering on that line.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rituparnaa

True that dialogue was quite confusing......am still pondering on that line.



bekar dialogue tha...jab maan ko wo apna future manti hai abi to maan se khud ko alag samjhti hai kya ke wo kahe ye ladai mai akeli ladu gi.... mera nahi khayal ye geet ko independent/strong etc show krta hai jesa ke baz log kahen ge😛 jab wo delhi aai thi Canadian embassy mai usko koi help nahi mili...abi bhi akele usko help nahi mil sakti...MSK ke help to chaye culprit ko dhndne k liye 🤔
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Posted: 15 years ago
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IF they wont show Women dumb in serial how will the male lead fall in love with her?🤣
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sano88

IF they wont show Women dumb in serial how will the male lead fall in love with her?🤣



mar jawan 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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