Live and Let Live

That is all i gotta say to some people on this forum amazingly !!!

I never thought i would have to open a topic like this and post it at geet. i love everybody here and this is hard for me as it is for people in the den too. i am a frequent visitor of the Den and even though i don't actively post there i have a certain soft corner for it. when a platform where i waste 3-4 hours of my day is being attacked and then closed for stupid reasons, i feel the need to speak up in defense of my devils.

LIVE AND LET LIVE. If somebody enjoys talking about certain topics and have opened a separate thread to express their view points and talk to like minded people - LET IT BE. You might not agree with those individuals but the point remains that those threads are being opened for a different section of people and may be it isn't the right thread for you.

Geet members are a one big happy family and when you you resort to personal attacks like you have at several different threads - mine included, u r kinda attacking the other person - your intentions might not be that but thats how it is perceived. So why would you want to hurt other people's feelings.I know thats not what u want either. If you don't like what the thread has to say, ignore it - it was obviously opened for people who might want to talk about similar scenarios, etc, and not u. I left a thread because i thought i had unintentionally hurt somebody's feelings there and i really didn't want additional drama. for her or for me. Maybe if you look at it that way, it will make it easier for you to remove your self from such situations.

And lets not talk about the first amendment and i have the right to express my opinion - yeah everybody has that, but when its at the expense of putting other people down that ain't cool.

Just my two cents.

Peace.

Neha

Note: a similar version to this comment was posted as a response earlier in another one of the threads i had visited.

Another disclaimer: Please this is not an attack on anybody - this is me trying to have a rational conversation with someone telling them that they might need to change their modus operandi, so please don't make it into something that its not intended to be. Moderators if this thread gets out of control please feel free to close it down!!! no pun intended.