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Taiyo

@Taiyo

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Posted: 15 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: Morning Star
sry but i am totally against the issue

No offence: But, just out of curiosity asking: What makes you against the issue?

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fannnn

@fannnn

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Posted: 15 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: cooldude10
Ohkay, so peeps, this is like the fifth or the sixth post of mine here in the forum 😆 well, we all are happy about the current romantic track 😊 but when it comes to the baby, everyone goes all rude and says they want a miscarriage?! this goes over my head. People, don't be so rude. Geet has risked everything because of the life inside her 😆 do you want all of her efforts to go in vain?! NO.
here are a few reasons people tend to give when asked why exactly they do NOT want the baby

baby of dev aka, a fraud/cheater

This reason totally sucks man 😆 exactly, how the hell is the baby's fault what dev did to geet? i had been giving this reason too but again, when i came to think of it, i realized how stupid i was. 😆 bechare bache ki ky ghalti that his biological dad was a traitor?!

Love story of maan and geet

Haha! i think this is what MOST of us say right?! 😆 people say that with the baby there wouldn't be any proper development in maaneet's love story. I happen to think, that this baby might create the bond between maan and geet more stronger than ever. And will make their relationship strong and very powerful

Young mom

I happen to think that if she stuggles and survives for her baby at a young age of eigteen, that would prove US women to be really strong! This would prove that WE WOMEN are strong and WE FIGHT IN WHAT WE BELIEVE IN. 😊If Geet's a mom at a young age, and she takes care of the baby perfectly, that's gonna make geet a perfect role model for all of us out here. 😊

The whole point of my post is that we should NOT punish the poor baby for what has happened to GEET. If Geet wants to keep the baby, then we shouldn't be having any problems with it. Asking for a miscarriage is really rude 😔 we are punishing the poor soul (geet) for no good reason. she left everything behind, her family, her home EVERYTHING just for the sake of the baby and by asking for a miscarriage we're asking the cvs indirectly to fail geet in what she had believed in 😕 and to all those who think that if a women is pregnant, she should not fall in love, which century are you guys living in?! 😆 we learn to MOVE ON. and no one has control over their feelings, they just grow!

and the most important reason i want the baby is that it's a proof of the devil's dhoka. It's a proof of geet's determination and her faith in what she believed in!

Phew, i guess i made my point clear. no need to get offended. pleasse comment!

Hi cool dude,

I appreciate your point of view, but i beg to differ..

1. Geet was not sure what is right. She was cheated ( but was not sure under what circumstances) so she chose to have the baby. In a way, she was rebelling against her family who first got her married in a haste and then wanted her to abort the child. Since she got a sign in the gurudwara, she decided to keep the baby.She left her family not because of the baby alone , but because they didn't value her.

2. What is the baby's fault?? : That is my exactly my point... what is the baby's fault? every child deserves a good childhood and love of his/her parents. Which child would like to know that he/she is the offspring of a rapist? Geet is just 18... the child is not conceived out of love, s/he is conceived out of deceit..Pure deciet. Bringing a child to this world is a huge responsibility which doesn't end with giving birth. Tomorrow when Geet moves on, and has another child with a man she loves, will the man be able to love both their kids equally?? So, what's the child's fault.. why bring him to a life that has higher chances of not being perfect?

3.At the moment , the baby is not even formed, the body, form or soul doesn't exist yet. Now is the best time for a mother to decide what is right for her offspring.. it's not that someone is killing life here, it's just that someone has chosen to avoid forming a new life

Lastly i think that there are many ways in which a woman can be shown strong and determined.. she need not bring up a child single handedly to prove her independence

A child is labour of love who you look at everyday and rejoice...a child is an extension of two souls who come together to form a new life and nurture it...

Most importantly, these are my thoughts.. i don't intend to hurt anyone's feelings.. the world is divided on this topic anyways, so i don't expect people to concur on these views...

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Taiyo

@Taiyo

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Posted: 15 years ago

#33

@fannnn: A story has different aspects and that makes it engrossing and interesting. If you take out the baby from this story, it becomes the usual one.

Geet, according to me, has developed a bond with her unborn child and why should someone deprive her of that bond because she has fallen in love with a new man. I guess she did not step in the earlier relationship thinking it was fake, but she believed and trusted and the child is her strength and her belief and trust.

Edited by an12345678 - 15 years ago

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asmaanixx

@asmaanixx

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Posted: 15 years ago

#34

@fannnn

You have expressed your views very well and I appreciate that. If people expressed themselves the way you do then we could have so many logical conversations. As for your points this what I think:

1. You're right. Geet didn't only leave because of the baby; she also left because her family didn't give her any value. But they had crossed their limits when they had told her to abort the child and I don't think any woman would accept that especially if she wants to keep the child. Her family completely disregarded her after they found about her pregnancy. They were willing to put Dev and everything that happened behind them and move on but once the truth came out, they abandoned her.

2. No, it's not the baby's fault, but if Geet aborts it then doesn't that mean that even she doesn't want it? That she doesn't love and care for it? By giving birth to this baby will mean that despite the fact that she was deceived, she was willing to take care of it. She was willing to take on the whole world just so that it can have a life. So that it can have a chance in this world.

3. That is true but for a mother it's different. Once they find out that they're pregnant, they assume that the baby is already within them. They even talk to it! They tell every little thing. If they get a little jolt, the first thing they do is put their hand on it to make sure that it's okay. They don't take care even if they die, but nothing should happen to the baby.

Yes, they could show a different way of being independent, but the CV's chose this track and personally I don't think there is anything wrong with it. It is a very unique and beautiful storyline and I wouldn't want it in any other way.

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Ayesha.

@cooldude10

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Posted: 15 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: fannnn

Hi cool dude,

I appreciate your point of view, but i beg to differ..

1. Geet was not sure what is right. She was cheated ( but was not sure under what circumstances) so she chose to have the baby. In a way, she was rebelling against her family who first got her married in a haste and then wanted her to abort the child. Since she got a sign in the gurudwara, she decided to keep the baby.She left her family not because of the baby alone , but because they didn't value her.

The baby was definitely a BIG part in her "decision to leave". because of her pregnancy, geet realized that her family did not value her. She did know it before but the abortion incident made her certain.

2. What is the baby's fault?? : That is my exactly my point... what is the baby's fault? every child deserves a good childhood and love of his/her parents. Which child would like to know that he/she is the offspring of a rapist? Geet is just 18... the child is not conceived out of love, s/he is conceived out of deceit..Pure deciet. Bringing a child to this world is a huge responsibility which doesn't end with giving birth. Tomorrow when Geet moves on, and has another child with a man she loves, will the man be able to love both their kids equally?? So, what's the child's fault.. why bring him to a life that has higher chances of not being perfect?

Is it necessary!? i mean, it is a soap.. in reality, i've seen some people love their adopted child equally. But this is a soap right?! and it definitely IS a huge responisbility and i want GEET to be shown fulfilling it. This baby IS the reason she's living. if we kill it off, d'you think geet would be able to survive?!

3.At the moment , the baby is not even formed, the body, form or soul doesn't exist yet. Now is the best time for a mother to decide what is right for her offspring.. it's not that someone is killing life here, it's just that someone has chosen to avoid forming a new life

Lastly i think that there are many ways in which a woman can be shown strong and determined.. she need not bring up a child single handedly to prove her independence

I bet this was the BEST way to show people that she can survive on her own for what she believes in 😊

A child is labour of love who you look at everyday and rejoice...a child is an extension of two souls who come together to form a new life and nurture it...

Most importantly, these are my thoughts.. i don't intend to hurt anyone's feelings.. the world is divided on this topic anyways, so i don't expect people to concur on these views...😊

@fann: Your points are very valid and sensible 😊 but again, not everyone thinks like you 😆

ohkay so umm my comments are in blue 😊

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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

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Posted: 15 years ago

#36

Ayesha I love u for making this fantastic eye-opener post🤗...I think the main highlight of this serial is showing how a young girl who was betrayed in the past and is carrying a baby..is slowly finding happiness and breaking all the myths of our society by falling in love with her saviour😳...SO without the baby the whole essense of the show will b lost...the baby is the most strong connection between Geet and Maan's love story here..and the baby should b like a catalyst in making their relationship stronger so that they can set a bold example in front of our society today..So I cannot imagine the story here without Geet's baby😳...

Heres what I wrote on FB about this issue...

Whoever feels that how a pregnent lady with a past can fall in love so soon..Well I dunno in which century they r living ...I don't understand why everytime we have a problem if a girl wants to move on in life without any inhibitions......if a guy has a past...sleeps with multiple girls..and then falls in love..we hv no problem..we start supporting that guy blindly for his transformation...but if the girl does the same..we start shouting from the rooftops saiyng "oh how can she forget her past so soon"...why such hypocracy in our society ??..why can't a 18yr old bubbly girl forget her traumatic past and move on again in life in a short span of time ??..why the baby should become an obstacle here...Fine she is pregnent ..so what ??..if she finds true love in the form of someone like Maan Singh Khurana..why can't she feel the attraction or that physical thirst again ??..I feel Geet CVs r very realistic and bold in this case...they r actually trying to break the so called norms and myths of this hypocratic society where we r living right now...and for this they deserve the credit ..look at any other daily soap today...Women in the serial r like doormats..always crying..suffering...not ready to move on in life because of their past...always sacrificing like some mahaan Devi....I m myself witnessing all this nonsense in Uttaran or bidaai for years now..so for me Geet's character is like a revolution here...she breaks the myth of these daily soap sati savitri type heroines and shows us a completely different side of womenhgood where a girl can feel the passion all over again even after going through a trauma...I was watching a serial called Jyoti on Imagine in which a girl is pregnent...betrayed by her BF...tries to commit suicide by jumping inside the well...Geet could hv done the same na ??..but she instead fought for her baby and wants to give birth to her baby despite knowing the fact that society might not accept this...she took her life positively from here on..yes scratches of her past r still there which she keeps remembering sometimes..but at the same time she is learning to move on with life...fall in love..feel the new sensation and pleasures thats knocking inside her heart's door...is it wrong to think that way ??..and lets admit the fact that Geet is not falling for any random tom dick and harry guy..that we say oh its absurd..she is falling for the guy who saved her life and baby..supported and trusted her at every walks of life..gave her that security in the form of shelter..in short he has left a very strong impact on her life...so I feel if I was in Geet's place in that condition..even I would hv felt the same sensation that Geet is feeling today......

And also some questions r raised about why is she running or jumping or moving around if she is pregnent😕😆...Let me give u one real life example..everyone must b knowing that Film Actress Kajol is 7-8months pregnent right now...recently I saw one article in TOI Newspaper where it was written that she shot for a song sequence for "We r family" film where she was suppose to do rock and roll dance on a piano wearing high heels when she was over 4-months pregnents and she did it successfully...now tell me what everyone has to say here ??😃...in short pregnency does not make u paralytic that u can't even move from one palce to another😆..those jumping or walking or running which Geet did is nothing compared to what struggle a middle class pregnent lady normally does in real life by travelling regularly to offices in jam-packed local trains during 6-7 months of her pregnency.....also many people raised questions about why she is not consulting any doctor here..ok I agree she should visit a doctor..its important...but how many woman living in remote villages go and regularly consult a doctor when they r pregnent ??...So does that mean village ladies never give birth to any babies and hv miscarriages regularly ??..again a huge misconception😆...but again I maintain..during pregnency..check-up is necessary but that doesn't mean without regular check-ups, babies don't survive..its just a myth...and another issue is how many months Geet is pregnent..well we need to understand here that one day in the serial is stretched till 5-6 episodes...so we need to take those permutations and combinations into account while deciding how many months she is pregnent...Maan himself said that Geet is working for last one month in Delhi...before that she was just few weeks pregnent..so overall she is not more than 2 months pregnent...and no woman in real life will start showing just after 2 months of pregnency....😆😆...so we need to get few misconceptions about Geet's pregnency out of our minds..so far CVs hv shown everything realistically..mayb some bloopers r there..but then thats fiction for u where everything should b taken with a pinch of salt..or else we all should watch Discovery channel then😆😆

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Ayesha.

@cooldude10

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Posted: 15 years ago

#37

jyo, i read your analysis! Ur amazing with your points and i can see the non sensical arguments some poeple are having on facebook 😆

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441240

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Posted: 15 years ago

#38

i actually agree with all your points....

i want Geet to have the baby....

so that this show can go on to protray Geet as a independent, strong and single mother!!!!!

and then add Maaneet romance to that...

then that just further shows that women who have been through such horrid events can actually have a happy ending if they fight for it !!!!!!!

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Vinitha

@Blueberry_07

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Posted: 15 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: fannnn

2. What is the baby's fault?? : That is my exactly my point... what is the baby's fault? every child deserves a good childhood and love of his/her parents. Which child would like to know that he/she is the offspring of a rapist? Geet is just 18... the child is not conceived out of love, s/he is conceived out of deceit..Pure deciet. Bringing a child to this world is a huge responsibility which doesn't end with giving birth. Tomorrow when Geet moves on, and has another child with a man she loves, will the man be able to love both their kids equally?? So, what's the child's fault.. why bring him to a life that has higher chances of not being perfect?

@Bold: I don't think you should look at that criteria when considering whether to give birth to a child..So you mean to say, just because the child was born out of deceit Geet should abort it..??..😕

Of course no child would like to know that he or she is the offspring of a rapist..but again that doesn't mean you should abort the child just because of that!

@Bold blue: I can turn the question around and ask you the same thing...Tomorrow when Geet moves on and has another child with a man she loves, why woudn't the man not love both kids equally..? .If she is able to find the right man who will accept the her way she is..with a child..i'm sure this issue woudn't be a problem...If let say it is going to be a problem..then Geet woudn't be marrying the man in the first place..! Single mothers who are going to consider remarrying in the future...they first thing that they'll take into conisderation is whether their future husband will not only accept them alone...but also their child...Plus..we'll never know till we let the future unfold by itself..and with a man like Maan, i'm sure this woudn't be an issue esp if he truly loves Geet..which we will find out in the coming episode..i suppose..

@Bold red: And not everybody's life is going to be perfect when they enter into this world.

So i have to say i disagree with you on this point.