Why is it tht...

Why is it tht when a guy gets betrayed by love he tends to build a wall so tht no one can come in and betray him again...idk if u remember da show kaajal da main protaginst dev (ironaclly da same name as dev is show geet lol) did da same thing his first love had died so he became cold hearted and built a wall on his emotiones...maan is doing da same thing....i knw ita ur first love and usually its hard to love again as u only fall in love once...but tht doesnt mean its da end of da world...life is all bout taking risk and Finding new opportunities....i understand tht maan had a teriable past and once loved someone...was betrayed...trust was broken...hence thts da way he is today...whereAs geet went thru 2 times worse then maan and yet she is still living...loving da life and smiling at little things...

Sorry for my rambling...idk if i made sense but it was in my head for couple of days lol...(ignore any typos) lol