Short Story-Take my breath away-Vik&Nags!Upd 7/26 - Page 54

Originally posted by: rushtrip

take your time...

dentist..tumhare liye or the kids?

It was for me....I went for a cleaning last week...and she saw a little cavity...so I had it filled.....you the last pregnancy really took a toll on my body...it left my teeth weak too!😕

Originally posted by: AKANargis

Just got back from dentist office..... reading now!!!

Wow..nice update...Daadi ke baare mein kya kahe.....bhaut k/hoob....what a lady. You can never underestimate her.....she did raise these 2 hellions...no?...Well one Hellion and one Khaddoos!!😉

Abs....Sorry, you had more to contend with than I did...i thought I was going to get the brunt od Daadi's wrath.....but looks like I walked away rather clean....but She wants to talk to my parents...so lets see what will happen!!!😕

It was so cute how Vicky cried in Daadi's arms.....its so sweet to see how much he want this marriage too.....this coming form Vicky the PLAYER....wow...I must be a GREAT CATCH...huh???😉

Originally posted by: AKANargis

Wow..nice update...Daadi ke baare mein kya kahe.....bhaut k/hoob....what a lady. You can never underestimate her.....she did raise these 2 hellions...no?...Well one Hellion and one Khaddoos!!😉

Abs....Sorry, you had more to contend with than I did...i thought I was going to get the brunt od Daadi's wrath.....but looks like I walked away rather clean....but She wants to talk to my parents...so lets see what will happen!!!😕

It was so cute how Vicky cried in Daadi's arms.....its so sweet to see how much he want this marriage too.....this coming form Vicky the PLAYER....wow...I must be a GREAT CATCH...huh???😉

ahem..yeah.. very cute..

hope abs doesnt kill me...

Koi mujhe baatao ki maine eisa kya kiya hai jo Dadi meri vaat par vaat lagane par tuli hain:

1. Punjabi sikha enu 😔

2. Blaming Maan (and me indirectly) for a rushed marriage.🤔

3. If 1 month wasn't bad enough, she has extended for another 2 months (well thanks Devar ji for trying. Atleast you did try unlike Maan who can never defend me😡)

4. Plus I am tortured to stay with her till morning! Hay Bhagwaan Dadi maa ke saath lunch par yeh haal toh subah hote hote kya haal hoga.😕
😭
5. And then, the whole subservient tradition (which actually is followed in my house for real. If the men are talking, the women stay shut. Only the matriach can speak with the men!). Itne zor se phatkaar lagayi, aur woh Dusht Daanav ko bolne mein kab se takleef hone lagi. 😡 Bada aaya tha maddad karne! Fine, this keeping the aan-shaan goes both ways.

6. My parents would never like her taking chare of even their arrangements. Papa would be highly unhappy. Fine he ain't rich like the Khuranas, but me being their only daughter and the youngest of the whole generation (only 3 girls in my gen), my family has their wishes, and they don't want to be freeloaders. Humara apna condo hai NCR mein, hum kyun jaayenge kaheen aur rehne!

7. Mera bhi mann karta hai main apni family ke saath rahoon. Apni cousin-sisters, bhabhis, buas, mausis, aur maamis se raat bhar baat karoon. Agar Dadi ne 2 months extend kiya so Maan should suffer. Ussay milna hi hai, toh theek ghar walon ke saamne aaye.

Maybe she's doing this on purpose to see how much patience I have, as I will be the elder one so I will have more responsibilities. Fine, Maan will bear the brunt 👏 of all this. Main ussay baat nahin karoongi. I so want to go home after the call to my parents. I really feel upset.

Haan haan gale lagaya, par ussay pehle hi itni vaat laga chuki hain jo woh gesture phika pad gaya.😭 I won't be comfortable staying there.

😡

Fikar not Vrush, I just gave my opinion on Dadi's hitlershahi! Main ab unke pote ki vaat lagaoongi. Aur mere Papa Dadi 420 ki!

Papa might get so mad, that he would call off the wedding. And I won't go against my family. So Dadimaa karwate rehiye apne laadle ki shaadi uske baad poore armaanon ke saath.

Oh and Maan can keep his hankys to himself as I won't use his. I won't cry in front of him. I will glare at him 😡 and be asked to be left alone.


and I'm so incensed right now, and I can't do anything but go and read the Holy Gita to calm down. That's the only thing composes my mind when I'm completely not in control of my emotions.

Originally posted by: Hot_Indo_Chilly

Fikar not Vrush, I just gave my opinion on Dadi's hitlershahi! Main ab unke pote ki vaat lagaoongi. Aur mere Papa Dadi 420 ki!

Papa might get so mad, that he would call off the wedding. And I won't go against my family. So Dadimaa karwate rehiye apne laadle ki shaadi uske baad poore armaanon ke saath.

Oh and Maan can keep his hankys to himself as I won't use his. I won't cry in front of him. I will glare at him 😡 and be asked to be left alone.


and I'm so incensed right now, and I can't do anything but go and read the Holy Gita to calm down. That's the only thing composes my mind when I'm completely not in control of my emotions.

i wanted you in this mood..now maan saab gaye..majaa aayega na..uski vaat lagane mein?

but wont you agree with me a bit? badi bahu usually gets all the responsibility and the younger one gets away with anything..well almost..
i do believe it is in our tradition to not speak against the family or husband, so that is the point i come across i understand you may not agree...

Originally posted by: rushtrip

i wanted you in this mood..now maan saab gaye..majaa aayega na..uski vaat lagane mein?

but wont you agree with me a bit? badi bahu usually gets all the responsibility and the younger one gets away with anything..well almost..
i do believe it is in our tradition to not speak against the family or husband, so that is the point i come across i understand you may not agree...

Arrey main toh khud nahin bolti apne Papa ke saamne jab woh super angry hote hain. Darr ke maare chuhiya ban jaati hoon. And same applies when it comes to my oldfer cousin-bros who are like 18 yrs older than me. I just do as they say, and don't contradict them in front of others. Yeh sab cheezein Bihari logon mein kaafi hai! So yup I understand, as I follow it too!

Chalo Vrushali mujhe puja ghar le chalo, taaki main gita paath kar sakoon apne ko shaant rakhne ke liye.
But what has angered me the most is getting blamed for Maan's neglience of not getting his dadi to speak with my family. And my family is not going to be putty in her hands no way !

Maan ko shaadi nahin karni chahiye agar woh apni fiancee ko defend nahin kar sakta. Aage bhi eisa hoga, aur uske muh par taala pad jaayega. Now this is my point of concern...I am not marrying some spineless fool. Aaj Dadi ne kuch kaha, kal agar ghar chhote bhi kehne lageinge (this is being hypothetical) then where's my respect, where my izzat? Maan is the one responsible for safeguarrding that. And the pain my family would feel figuring out that I'm unhappy and my hubby has no courage to protect me. Jo aata hai, beizzat kar jaata hai.

Hmm, but this show of partiality may in the future strain my relations w/ Dadi, though I won't say anything. I might just decide to keep my distance, and just do what I'm asked to...

yep damage control has to be done by Maan and i am sure he will tackle daadi in his own fashion, though it would have been nice if he had defended you in front of daadi.

Originally posted by: rushtrip

yep damage control has to be done by Maan and i am sure he will tackle daadi in his own fashion, though it would have been nice if he had defended you in front of daadi.

Maan ki ta uaasi ki taise hone waali hain...Maan tu bach ke rahi!!!

Abs...Vicky hota to zaroor kuch bolta...no...it so his personality!!! 😉

Now....deep breaths...and calm down, combined families mein asise hota hai...take it all in stride!!!😕