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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: seriallover_OMG

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- Sagar married JHANVI because he was ANGRY with gangaa...WHY? Because she promised something to HIS father who was critically ILL. I mean love is blind but not selfish. He cant do this to Gangaa just because she kind of donated him back to his father 😕. I mean if Sagar doesnt want to go back to his family then Gangaa couldnt do anything anyways😕...so Sagar could have relaxed. But no,,,he married JHANVI...😡

- He is now a married who is in love with Gangaa. WOW!! Extra marital affair.😡...and we as viewers are supposed to appreciate it just because Sagar and gangaa are in love. Marriage is marriage and an affair is affair. Looks like sagar doesnt appreciate anything. He is MADLY in love with someone who he could have married easily but decided to complicate his life and frustrate viewers.🤢

- Gangaa doing the best she can to avoid him but he is barging into her room,,threatening her...acting like a psycho (not love) claiming that she belongs to her...I am sorry dude...you married JHANVI...good luck with her!!!! 😭

- Jhanvi is not wrong. she loves sagar and he married her. I would love it if they can force a new entry into this love triangle and make gangaa fall in love with a decent, intelligent, mature person who would appreciate her and not threaten her. 👏

- I loved their romantic scenes before sagar's marriage but not anymore. That is not supposed to happen. Stop supporting this!! 🤢 Gangaa tried her best to get Sagar but when she saw that he is happy with Jhanvi, she stepped back. WHICH IS GOOD.

- Gangaa should get a job, start earning asap and get a new apartment or something...If this show is all about widow remarriage then gangaa can literally find and marry her Mr.Perfect now...we would love that.👏

- Sagar should stop being so miserable now..he did what he could...As a viewer, I request to not show that its ok for a married man to love someone who is not his wife. 😕

Sagar has not fallen in love with another girl after his marriage. He married another woman to hurt his lover cum wife (whom he has accepted as his wife in front of society, if not by law). Calling him married man? He did not marry neither Gangaa nor Janvi in full sense. Half marriage with each of them. A marriage won't be valid if it is proved the person, who did is not in his senses. And all of us and his family knows, Sagar was not in his senses at that time.

I too hate when some married man pining for other woman or keeping affairs. But here the situation is very much different. So I do not think it show case EMA (extra martial Affair) only immaturity of Sagar.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I am now thinking that maybe Sagar marrying Jhanvi in anger and then repenting will actually do good. Earlier when he had put sindoor on Gangaa claiming her his wife, he may have felt guilty about not doing justice to Jhanvi as in those days he was under the impression that Jhanvi is a nice girl & he used to trust her so much & care for her! He may have thought that he broke an innocent girls' heart who used to be his long-time GF and she loves him dearly. But now, living under the same roof as husband- wife will eventually remove the mask from Jhanvi's face. She cannot keep on acting innocent shedding crocodile tears forever! Somehow or the other gradually the Chaturvedis will come to know the real staff she is made of and then when she finally goes away, none of them will feel sorry for her. This will help them to forget Jhanvi completely. They will finally realise that whatever glitters is not gold. This will pave the way for them to accept Gangaa whole-heartedly in future.Moreover, this incident and Gangaa's royal ignorance is already making a great impact on Sagar's character. He has always thought that Gangaa is pretty easily available- in childhood as a friend, in recent days as a lover. He never had to try hard to win her heart as she was always his. But now, he will have to go through the pain of rejection and will strive really hard to win her back. He does not know that Gangaa still loves him the same, that deep feeling can never change, better he does not know that for the time being. All this will only strengthen SaGa bond.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: rangan11

I am now thinking that maybe Sagar marrying Jhanvi in anger and then repenting will actually do good. Earlier when he had put sindoor on Gangaa claiming her his wife, he may have felt guilty about not doing justice to Jhanvi as in those days he was under the impression that Jhanvi is a nice girl & he used to trust her so much & care for her! He may have thought that he broke an innocent girls' heart who used to be his long-time GF and she loves him dearly. But now, living under the same roof as husband- wife will eventually remove the mask from Jhanvi's face. She cannot keep on acting innocent shedding crocodile tears forever! Somehow or the other gradually the Chaturvedis will come to know the real staff she is made of and then when she finally goes away, none of them will feel sorry for her. This will help them to forget Jhanvi completely. They will finally realise that whatever glitters is not gold. This will pave the way for them to accept Gangaa whole-heartedly in future.Moreover, this incident and Gangaa's royal ignorance is already making a great impact on Sagar's character. He has always thought that Gangaa is pretty easily available- in childhood as a friend, in recent days as a lover. He never had to try hard to win her heart as she was always his. But now, he will have to go through the pain of rejection and will strive really hard to win her back. He does not know that Gangaa still loves him the same, that deep feeling can never change, better he does not know that for the time being. All this will only strengthen SaGa bond.




I do agree to all your views. ..
But Ja being exposed shouldn't be made late anymore by dragging. .
She should be exposed in something more serious which she will surely do as she is going to be a psycho.. ..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: rangan11

I am now thinking that maybe Sagar marrying Jhanvi in anger and then repenting will actually do good. Earlier when he had put sindoor on Gangaa claiming her his wife, he may have felt guilty about not doing justice to Jhanvi as in those days he was under the impression that Jhanvi is a nice girl & he used to trust her so much & care for her! He may have thought that he broke an innocent girls' heart who used to be his long-time GF and she loves him dearly. But now, living under the same roof as husband- wife will eventually remove the mask from Jhanvi's face. She cannot keep on acting innocent shedding crocodile tears forever! Somehow or the other gradually the Chaturvedis will come to know the real staff she is made of and then when she finally goes away, none of them will feel sorry for her. This will help them to forget Jhanvi completely. They will finally realise that whatever glitters is not gold. This will pave the way for them to accept Gangaa whole-heartedly in future.Moreover, this incident and Gangaa's royal ignorance is already making a great impact on Sagar's character. He has always thought that Gangaa is pretty easily available- in childhood as a friend, in recent days as a lover. He never had to try hard to win her heart as she was always his. But now, he will have to go through the pain of rejection and will strive really hard to win her back. He does not know that Gangaa still loves him the same, that deep feeling can never change, better he does not know that for the time being. All this will only strengthen SaGa bond.



Well said! 👍🏼 I'm loving the growth in Sagar and very excited to watch how he wins Gangaa back & how SaGa reunite!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Humm..so much blame on sagar?? Why so?
Well i agree that sagar is stupid and is reaping what he sowed..He may have fought but shouldn't have married janvi..This spoiled everything..and even i agree that i myself won't support extra-marital affairs😒
But i guess everyone is judging him being too harsh..Rejection/betrayal is not easy to handle..Same happened to sagar..he took entry when gangaa was donating him..he felt like she the one for whom he fought from whole world was fighting with family, is now dumping him? was it so easy for her?She didn't realized what will happen to him? and this very idea ignited a fire in his heart.Now he wanted to hurt her back for trying to dump him..and trust me you are talking about the very calm and matured person who sits,meditate or breathe in and out in anger,but there are those people also in world who when are hurt try to hurt you back in the worst form,when in anger they set fire to everything..but then they are not bad or worst coz they soon realize it what destruction they have done and then either they repent or try to set all right..
You are talking about general point of view..but SAGA doesn't share a relationship which is common.Gangaa is not a person to him,She is his inner-self,his companion,his mirror,his better half,his soul.Sagar's character,ethics,thoughts,honesty,self-respect all is giving of her or i say little of his parents and more from gangaa..If you clearly see since childhood sagar alwaz was a rebellious kid..no one was able to control him..all ammaji,madhvi,niru,pulkit everyone one has to give up on his demands...But then gangaa came in his life and slightly things started getting in control..coz she was herself a kid who was hard to broke or bend..in her company sagar learned all her qualities..to stand for truth,to trust, to be honest,to sacrifice,ethics..etc
Somewhere i saw people saying gangaa should now stay away from sagar..coz he has turned into psycho and he may even land up rapping her.. Like seriously??🤢😡 Saying this only people have stained their relationship..How can someone knowing them say so? Yes he storms in her room late night or i say the very first night of his marriage and tries to get close to her,Yes i agree he pulls her to him and force her to accept his love...But do you really think sagar will make love with her in his senses? If it happens someday then either it may happen in legitimate way or in out of sense..But then i trust CV's won't put stains on gangaa character unless they carry it "Ram teri ganga maili" way.

God.. Sagar didn't grew up being a self-made man..He grew up as SAGA...that's why she resides with him in his every breathe,his every thought.So as soon as he realized in process of giving her pain he got married "HE ACTUALLY GOT MARRIED" to janvi..it hit him hard..he ran back to her like a kid who runs to his mother as soon as he realizes she is leaving him alone.Two days back she was his wife and he was proudly telling it to whole world and one mistake,in one blow table turned😭..Now again like a scared child he was trying to deny no this isn't his fault,he can't do this,How can he spoil his most priceless things from his own hands..He was trying hard to brush all blames..coz even in his dreams he can't think of loosing her..he got panicked that now everyone will force him to be away from her,even ganga won't like to see his face..so again he did what is his nature he rebelled,He shouted,he forced her,he tried to make her understand it all happend unintentionally that he only loves her and she too loves him,she can't punish him like that,to please forgive him and come back..he tried to realize her how he resides in her every part..Its not easy to detach herself from him.. BUT damage has been done and gangaa was trying to make him realize that only that this time you have done blunder and it can't be corrected with just sorry..
He was unable to accept the fact that he loosed his life,YES in true way ganga means his life..so he was pouring his helplessness in form of anger to everyone who were part of his destructive love story..He again was doing same trying to hurt others,when he is hurt...BUT he is not insane yaar..when ganga said "Don't touch me anymore".. he got shocked,his worst fear that he has loosed her..and in reply he didn't try to force but he said " sorry i was doing that till now,coz i thought i have that right on you" So here clearly try to understand his state of mind..he isn't having any intention of having extra-marital affairs,he was not in a state of mind to accept he has got married to someone else..its just the truth was unacceptable to him,like he waked up from nightmare and was making himself believe..no this can't happen..It took time to realize he is not more in sleep now..
In such case people need time..you can't apply all logics,rules or force them at that time..they need time at the moment to absorb the fact,to get calm,someone who acan handle them.. and here only and only ganga is the person who can handle him,same ganga who used to handle him in childhood too..The more he will see she is disgusted and disappointed with him..he will try to correct him..and thus he has taken his first step towards setting him correct.asking forgiveness from his father..😊
He even made janvi clear.."why don't you understand? you are trying to love a person who isn't worth to love" So i guess he now slowly understands what mess he has done and he isn't worth of loving and now repenting..He even asked her to set free from this loveless marriage..He promised he won't now hurt his parent.. He even promised ganga he won't now try to force her to accept his love..though both knows how much they love each other..

I am very much impressed with writers that they are handling every aspect of life giving it a real touch adding little drama..ofcourse a fictional show toh thoda drama to banta hai😉 They are one fabulous writers who have never disappointed me till date..the time when i think uff now its dragging just at that time they surprise me with their brilliance.and Yes life can't be handled too much in practical way when the situations coming in your way are too emotional..

Gangaa..? this character has alwaz impressed me,infact i learn a lot from her and take a bow to her👏 To fall in mess is easy but to make a way out of it is difficult,to take decisions is harder and here gangaa is such character who takes a firm decision and i guess right decision maintaining her dignity so i love her😳 If i would have been in her place i may have also handled sagar in same way...sometimes it may sound rude of her but if she gets weaken then no one will be able to stop or handle sagar..
To judge LOVE one needs to set his/her foot in loveland...coz sitting high and giving verdict may sound right but how hard it is to follow when you are emotionally hurt is understood only when you get personal to that feeling..But i guess strong and harsh decisions are actually needed in life sometimes..you just need one mental support or one string which can still bind you..
And her ganga and sagar are that string to each other..❤️

Hope someday this love story gets completed😳

PS- SORRY for such a long post..got carried away..sorry again.
Edited by ammu92 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: rangan11

I am now thinking that maybe Sagar marrying Jhanvi in anger and then repenting will actually do good. Earlier when he had put sindoor on Gangaa claiming her his wife, he may have felt guilty about not doing justice to Jhanvi as in those days he was under the impression that Jhanvi is a nice girl & he used to trust her so much & care for her! He may have thought that he broke an innocent girls' heart who used to be his long-time GF and she loves him dearly. But now, living under the same roof as husband- wife will eventually remove the mask from Jhanvi's face. She cannot keep on acting innocent shedding crocodile tears forever! Somehow or the other gradually the Chaturvedis will come to know the real staff she is made of and then when she finally goes away, none of them will feel sorry for her. This will help them to forget Jhanvi completely. They will finally realise that whatever glitters is not gold. This will pave the way for them to accept Gangaa whole-heartedly in future.Moreover, this incident and Gangaa's royal ignorance is already making a great impact on Sagar's character. He has always thought that Gangaa is pretty easily available- in childhood as a friend, in recent days as a lover. He never had to try hard to win her heart as she was always his. But now, he will have to go through the pain of rejection and will strive really hard to win her back. He does not know that Gangaa still loves him the same, that deep feeling can never change, better he does not know that for the time being. All this will only strengthen SaGa bond.



👍🏼 I agree
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Posted: 9 years ago
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For me between Sagar and Jhanvi, Sagar is more wrong.

Remember - We as viewers know of Jhanvi's plans and nature. But Sagar Does NOT know. For Sagar jhanvi is blameless. So him treating Jhanvi like crap makes no sense.

Again Sagar does NOT know jhanvi's true nature. So all this attitude he is giving her " you are bahu not biwi " makes him look like an ass as HE married her out of free will


Gangaa makes most sense to me. She loves him so she cannot stop worrying about him but she does not want to be the "other woman" even after knowing the truth about jhanvi. Bec marriage boundaries need to be respected. Good of her.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ammu92

Humm..so much blame on sagar?? Why so?

Well i agree that sagar is stupid and is reaping what he sowed..He may have fought but shouldn't have married janvi..This spoiled everything..and even i agree that i myself won't support extra-marital affairs😒
But i guess everyone is judging him being too harsh..Rejection/betrayal is not easy to handle..Same happened to sagar..he took entry when gangaa was donating him..he felt like she the one for whom he fought from whole world was fighting with family, is now dumping him? was it so easy for her?She didn't realized what will happen to him? and this very idea ignited a fire in his heart.Now he wanted to hurt her back for trying to dump him..and trust me you are talking about the very calm and matured person who sits,meditate or breathe in and out in anger,but there are those people also in world who when are hurt try to hurt you back in the worst form,when in anger they set fire to everything..but then they are not bad or worst coz they soon realize it what destruction they have done and then either they repent or try to set all right..
You are talking about general point of view..but SAGA doesn't share a relationship which is common.Gangaa is not a person to him,She is his inner-self,his companion,his mirror,his better half,his soul.Sagar's character,ethics,thoughts,honesty,self-respect all is giving of her or i say little of his parents and more from gangaa..If you clearly see since childhood sagar alwaz was a rebellious kid..no one was able to control him..all ammaji,madhvi,niru,pulkit everyone one has to give up on his demands...But then gangaa came in his life and slightly things started getting in control..coz she was herself a kid who was hard to broke or bend..in her company sagar learned all her qualities..to stand for truth,to trust, to be honest,to sacrifice,ethics..etc
Somewhere i saw people saying gangaa should now stay away from sagar..coz he has turned into psycho and he may even land up rapping her.. Like seriously??🤢😡 Saying this only people have stained their relationship..How can someone knowing them say so? Yes he storms in her room late night or i say the very first night of his marriage and tries to get close to her,Yes i agree he pulls her to him and force her to accept his love...But do you really think sagar will make love with her in his senses? If it happens someday then either it may happen in legitimate way or in out of sense..But then i trust CV's won't put stains on gangaa character unless they carry it "Ram teri ganga maili" way.

God.. Sagar didn't grew up being a self-made man..He grew up as SAGA...that's why she resides with him in his every breathe,his every thought.So as soon as he realized in process of giving her pain he got married "HE ACTUALLY GOT MARRIED" to janvi..it hit him hard..he ran back to her like a kid who runs to his mother as soon as he realizes she is leaving him alone.Two days back she was his wife and he was proudly telling it to whole world and one mistake,in one blow table turned😭..Now again like a scared child he was trying to deny no this isn't his fault,he can't do this,How can he spoil his most priceless things from his own hands..He was trying hard to brush all blames..coz even in his dreams he can't think of loosing her..he got panicked that now everyone will force him to be away from her,even ganga won't like to see his face..so again he did what is his nature he rebelled,He shouted,he forced her,he tried to make her understand it all happend unintentionally that he only loves her and she too loves him,she can't punish him like that,to please forgive him and come back..he tried to realize her how he resides in her every part..Its not easy to detach herself from him.. BUT damage has been done and gangaa was trying to make him realize that only that this time you have done blunder and it can't be corrected with just sorry..
He was unable to accept the fact that he loosed his life,YES in true way ganga means his life..so he was pouring his helplessness in form of anger to everyone who were part of his destructive love story..He again was doing same trying to hurt others,when he is hurt...BUT he is not insane yaar..when ganga said "Don't touch me anymore".. he got shocked,his worst fear that he has loosed her..and in reply he didn't try to force but he said " sorry i was doing that till now,coz i thought i have that right on you" So here clearly try to understand his state of mind..he isn't having any intention of having extra-marital affairs,he was not in a state of mind to accept he has got married to someone else..its just the truth was unacceptable to him,like he waked up from nightmare and was making himself believe..no this can't happen..It took time to realize he is not more in sleep now..
In such case people need time..you can't apply all logics,rules or force them at that time..they need time at the moment to absorb the fact,to get calm,someone who acan handle them.. and here only and only ganga is the person who can handle him,same ganga who used to handle him in childhood too..The more he will see she is disgusted and disappointed with him..he will try to correct him..and thus he has taken his first step towards setting him correct.asking forgiveness from his father..😊
He even made janvi clear.."why don't you understand? you are trying to love a person who isn't worth to love" So i guess he now slowly understands what mess he has done and he isn't worth of loving and now repenting..He even asked her to set free from this loveless marriage..He promised he won't now hurt his parent.. He even promised ganga he won't now try to force her to accept his love..though both knows how much they love each other..

I am very much impressed with writers that they are handling every aspect of life giving it a real touch adding little drama..ofcourse a fictional show toh thoda drama to banta hai😉 They are one fabulous writers who have never disappointed me till date..the time when i think uff now its dragging just at that time they surprise me with their brilliance.and Yes life can't be handled too much in practical way when the situations coming in your way are too emotional..

Gangaa..? this character has alwaz impressed me,infact i learn a lot from her and take a bow to her👏 To fall in mess is easy but to make a way out of it is difficult,to take decisions is harder and here gangaa is such character who takes a firm decision and i guess right decision maintaining her dignity so i love her😳 If i would have been in her place i may have also handled sagar in same way...sometimes it may sound rude of her but if she gets weaken then no one will be able to stop or handle sagar..
To judge LOVE one needs to set his/her foot in loveland...coz sitting high and giving verdict may sound right but how hard it is to follow when you are emotionally hurt is understood only when you get personal to that feeling..But i guess strong and harsh decisions are actually needed in life sometimes..you just need one mental support or one string which can still bind you..
And her ganga and sagar are that string to each other..❤️

Hope someday this love story gets completed😳

PS- SORRY for such a long post..got carried away..sorry again.


WOW!!! I agree with you completely! Beautifully written!!! THANK YOU for describing Sagar so well!!! As well as SaGa's relationship!!! 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼 Please do write more posts! 😃
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Posted: 9 years ago
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<font size="2">WOW!!! I agree with you completely! Beautifully written!!! THANK YOU for describing Sagar so well!!! As well as SaGa's relationship!!!👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼Please do write more posts!😃</font>


Ohh..thanks dear 😳 Generally I am a silent reader to this forum just post my views when I feel so..
And my family is fan of this drama..even my unromantic father too 😆
Btw nice dp Han..or I say the most controversial dp from saga scene 🤣
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: bips

For me between Sagar and Jhanvi, Sagar is more wrong.

Remember - We as viewers know of Jhanvi's plans and nature. But Sagar Does NOT know. For Sagar jhanvi is blameless. So him treating Jhanvi like crap makes no sense.

Again Sagar does NOT know jhanvi's true nature. So all this attitude he is giving her " you are bahu not biwi " makes him look like an ass as HE married her out of free will


Gangaa makes most sense to me. She loves him so she cannot stop worrying about him but she does not want to be the "other woman" even after knowing the truth about jhanvi. Bec marriage boundaries need to be respected. Good of her.




Yeah to some extent I side with you..sagar is being mean to her coz he don't know her true face..
But the only thing which gives me peace is he actually isn't treating her like a dirt..He is just escaping from giving any hopes to her..the boy was/is very much in love with ganga and he knows he can't fool his feelings so he is trying not even to fool her so called wife..yes he admits her to get respect as DIL but he escaped from the fact that he considers her to be his wife..he still considers ganga to be his wife..

But yeah janvi also acted as an opportunist and even after knowing Sagar was taking decision in jest and anger and has already filled her hairline went ahead marrying him..and this thing gave chance to Sagar to act so coz she was very well aware and intentionally choose to be part of his mistake aur mistake toh mistake hi hai uske lie 😆 so he is suffering and when she choose to be part of it..she too is suffering.

But yes he married to her as per his wish..there you can disagree with him..
your opinion dear 😃
I am a SAGA shipper so I don't mind it..i would have disgusted if he may have started treating her as wife
😡 😆
Coz at end of the day I want SAGA..not SAJA 🤣 Sagar don't deserve janvi to be his wife yarr
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