Humm..so much blame on sagar?? Why so?
Well i agree that sagar is stupid and is reaping what he sowed..He may have fought but shouldn't have married janvi..This spoiled everything..and even i agree that i myself won't support extra-marital affairs😒
But i guess everyone is judging him being too harsh..Rejection/betrayal is not easy to handle..Same happened to sagar..he took entry when gangaa was donating him..he felt like she the one for whom he fought from whole world was fighting with family, is now dumping him? was it so easy for her?She didn't realized what will happen to him? and this very idea ignited a fire in his heart.Now he wanted to hurt her back for trying to dump him..and trust me you are talking about the very calm and matured person who sits,meditate or breathe in and out in anger,but there are those people also in world who when are hurt try to hurt you back in the worst form,when in anger they set fire to everything..but then they are not bad or worst coz they soon realize it what destruction they have done and then either they repent or try to set all right..
You are talking about general point of view..but SAGA doesn't share a relationship which is common.Gangaa is not a person to him,She is his inner-self,his companion,his mirror,his better half,his soul.Sagar's character,ethics,thoughts,honesty,self-respect all is giving of her or i say little of his parents and more from gangaa..If you clearly see since childhood sagar alwaz was a rebellious kid..no one was able to control him..all ammaji,madhvi,niru,pulkit everyone one has to give up on his demands...But then gangaa came in his life and slightly things started getting in control..coz she was herself a kid who was hard to broke or bend..in her company sagar learned all her qualities..to stand for truth,to trust, to be honest,to sacrifice,ethics..etc
Somewhere i saw people saying gangaa should now stay away from sagar..coz he has turned into psycho and he may even land up rapping her.. Like seriously??🤢😡 Saying this only people have stained their relationship..How can someone knowing them say so? Yes he storms in her room late night or i say the very first night of his marriage and tries to get close to her,Yes i agree he pulls her to him and force her to accept his love...But do you really think sagar will make love with her in his senses? If it happens someday then either it may happen in legitimate way or in out of sense..But then i trust CV's won't put stains on gangaa character unless they carry it "Ram teri ganga maili" way.
God.. Sagar didn't grew up being a self-made man..He grew up as SAGA...that's why she resides with him in his every breathe,his every thought.So as soon as he realized in process of giving her pain he got married "HE ACTUALLY GOT MARRIED" to janvi..it hit him hard..he ran back to her like a kid who runs to his mother as soon as he realizes she is leaving him alone.Two days back she was his wife and he was proudly telling it to whole world and one mistake,in one blow table turned😭..Now again like a scared child he was trying to deny no this isn't his fault,he can't do this,How can he spoil his most priceless things from his own hands..He was trying hard to brush all blames..coz even in his dreams he can't think of loosing her..he got panicked that now everyone will force him to be away from her,even ganga won't like to see his face..so again he did what is his nature he rebelled,He shouted,he forced her,he tried to make her understand it all happend unintentionally that he only loves her and she too loves him,she can't punish him like that,to please forgive him and come back..he tried to realize her how he resides in her every part..Its not easy to detach herself from him.. BUT damage has been done and gangaa was trying to make him realize that only that this time you have done blunder and it can't be corrected with just sorry..
He was unable to accept the fact that he loosed his life,YES in true way ganga means his life..so he was pouring his helplessness in form of anger to everyone who were part of his destructive love story..He again was doing same trying to hurt others,when he is hurt...BUT he is not insane yaar..when ganga said "Don't touch me anymore".. he got shocked,his worst fear that he has loosed her..and in reply he didn't try to force but he said " sorry i was doing that till now,coz i thought i have that right on you" So here clearly try to understand his state of mind..he isn't having any intention of having extra-marital affairs,he was not in a state of mind to accept he has got married to someone else..its just the truth was unacceptable to him,like he waked up from nightmare and was making himself believe..no this can't happen..It took time to realize he is not more in sleep now..
In such case people need time..you can't apply all logics,rules or force them at that time..they need time at the moment to absorb the fact,to get calm,someone who acan handle them.. and here only and only ganga is the person who can handle him,same ganga who used to handle him in childhood too..The more he will see she is disgusted and disappointed with him..he will try to correct him..and thus he has taken his first step towards setting him correct.asking forgiveness from his father..😊
He even made janvi clear.."why don't you understand? you are trying to love a person who isn't worth to love" So i guess he now slowly understands what mess he has done and he isn't worth of loving and now repenting..He even asked her to set free from this loveless marriage..He promised he won't now hurt his parent.. He even promised ganga he won't now try to force her to accept his love..though both knows how much they love each other..
I am very much impressed with writers that they are handling every aspect of life giving it a real touch adding little drama..ofcourse a fictional show toh thoda drama to banta hai😉 They are one fabulous writers who have never disappointed me till date..the time when i think uff now its dragging just at that time they surprise me with their brilliance.and Yes life can't be handled too much in practical way when the situations coming in your way are too emotional..
Gangaa..? this character has alwaz impressed me,infact i learn a lot from her and take a bow to her👏 To fall in mess is easy but to make a way out of it is difficult,to take decisions is harder and here gangaa is such character who takes a firm decision and i guess right decision maintaining her dignity so i love her😳 If i would have been in her place i may have also handled sagar in same way...sometimes it may sound rude of her but if she gets weaken then no one will be able to stop or handle sagar..
To judge LOVE one needs to set his/her foot in loveland...coz sitting high and giving verdict may sound right but how hard it is to follow when you are emotionally hurt is understood only when you get personal to that feeling..But i guess strong and harsh decisions are actually needed in life sometimes..you just need one mental support or one string which can still bind you..
And her ganga and sagar are that string to each other..❤️
Hope someday this love story gets completed😳
PS- SORRY for such a long post..got carried away..sorry again.
Edited by ammu92 - 9 years ago