Sagar lost it and I am losing it!!!!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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To Creative team:
- Sagar married JHANVI because he was ANGRY with gangaa...WHY? Because she promised something to HIS father who was critically ILL. I mean love is blind but not selfish. He cant do this to Gangaa just because she kind of donated him back to his father 😕. I mean if Sagar doesnt want to go back to his family then Gangaa couldnt do anything anyways😕...so Sagar could have relaxed. But no,,,he married JHANVI...😡

- He is now a married who is in love with Gangaa. WOW!! Extra marital affair.😡...and we as viewers are supposed to appreciate it just because Sagar and gangaa are in love. Marriage is marriage and an affair is affair. Looks like sagar doesnt appreciate anything. He is MADLY in love with someone who he could have married easily but decided to complicate his life and frustrate viewers.🤢

- Gangaa doing the best she can to avoid him but he is barging into her room,,threatening her...acting like a psycho (not love) claiming that she belongs to her...I am sorry dude...you married JHANVI...good luck with her!!!! 😭

- Jhanvi is not wrong. she loves sagar and he married her. I would love it if they can force a new entry into this love triangle and make gangaa fall in love with a decent, intelligent, mature person who would appreciate her and not threaten her. 👏

- I loved their romantic scenes before sagar's marriage but not anymore. That is not supposed to happen. Stop supporting this!! 🤢 Gangaa tried her best to get Sagar but when she saw that he is happy with Jhanvi, she stepped back. WHICH IS GOOD.

- Gangaa should get a job, start earning asap and get a new apartment or something...If this show is all about widow remarriage then gangaa can literally find and marry her Mr.Perfect now...we would love that.👏

- Sagar should stop being so miserable now..he did what he could...As a viewer, I request to not show that its ok for a married man to love someone who is not his wife. 😕

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Posted: 9 years ago
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The only thing that stuck to me in your post is Janvi is not wrong. Really? She has done many acts that are criminal and she ought to be behind bars for it. Lets use the most prominent one: making naked collage of an innocent girl to enable her to become Sagar's wife. Or maybe her putting itching powder Ganga's clothes, or maybe all of her antics that could have cost Ganga her life. Are those actions not wrong?

Where has it been written that you have to stay in a loveless marriage? Sagar was not in his senses when he married Janvi. Janvi knew where his heart was and even his mother said he was not in his senses but no one but Ganga had tried to stop him because that is all that they wanted, ie for Janvi to become their daughter in law. And to top it off, Janvi knew Sagar had filled Ganga's maang with sindoor, now tell me, would you marry a guy after knowing all of this? I know, I would not. And therefore whatever followed after that, she asked for it. I might sound insensitive but heyho, its the plain truth. She causd circumstances to make Ganga feel like shit, so she can come close to Sagar, and now karma is teaching her a good lesson. Ganga does not not even have to do anything.

Whilst I am not taking the blame away from Sagar (as he had his part to play too and he has to suffer the consequences for that), Janvi is no angel. Her brother told her to back off but she did not. And now she can suffer.

And what affair? Ganga has stayed away from Sagar and even wiped his sindoor off her forehead. So there is no affair. And there will never be an affair because Ganga has morals.

And do not worry. Vermillion has a strong meaning to it and that haq was given to Ganga only. And says who that he has to love Janvi to complete his responsibilities? He is doing what he can as a son, despite him being wronged by his parents.

My only request to the makers are, he is not to pursue Ganga romantically until he ends his relationship with Janvi officially. Because I have no desire to see the mistress angle.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: _innocent_

The only thing that stuck to me in your post is Janvi is not wrong. Really? She has done many acts that are criminal and she ought to be behind bars for it. Lets use the most prominent one: making naked collage of an innocent girl to enable her to become Sagar's wife. Or maybe her putting itching powder Ganga's clothes, or maybe all of her antics that could have cost Ganga her life. Are those actions not wrong?

Where has it been written that you have to stay in a loveless marriage? Sagar was not in his senses when he married Janvi. Janvi knew where his heart was and even his mother said he was not in his senses but no one but Ganga had tried to stop him because that is all that they wanted, ie for Janvi to become their daughter in law. And to top it off, Janvi knew Sagar had filled Ganga's maang with sindoor, now tell me, would you marry a guy after knowing all of this? I know, I would not. And therefore whatever followed after that, she asked for it. I might sound insensitive but heyho, its the plain truth. She causd circumstances to make Ganga feel like shit, so she can come close to Sagar, and now karma is teaching her a good lesson. Ganga does not not even have to do anything.

Whilst I am not taking the blame away from Sagar (as he had his part to play too and he has to suffer the consequences for that), Janvi is no angel. Her brother told her to back off but she did not. And now she can suffer.

And what affair? Ganga has stayed away from Sagar and even wiped his sindoor off her forehead. So there is no affair. And there will never be an affair because Ganga has morals.

And do not worry. Vermillion has a strong meaning to it and that haq was given to Ganga only. And says who that he has to love Janvi to complete his responsibilities? He is doing what he can as a son, despite him being wronged by his parents.

My only request to the makers are, he is not to pursue Ganga romantically until he ends his relationship with Janvi officially. Because I have no desire to see the mistress angle.



I SECOND EVER WORD SHE SAID..IT WOULD HVE BEEN WRONG IF JANVI WAS A NICE GIRL BUT HECK SHE IS NOT. EVN IF V LEAVE ALL HER WRONG DOINGS STILL SHE IS A PARTNER IN CRIME. SHE KNOWINGLY JUMPED IN A MARRIGE WHICH WAS TO TAKE REVENGE OUT OF ANGER. SHE KNEW IT..JUMPED IN IT AND NOW SHOUTING FIRE FIRE WONT HELP!

SAGAR HAVE ALSO UNDERSTOOD HIS LESSON. LIKE IN TODAY EPI HE SAID TO GANGAA I HAVE ACCEPTED WHAT U SAID SO HE WILL NOT FORCE HER TO GET ROMANTICALLY INVOLVED AND NEITHER SHE WILL..SO THERE IS NO EMA. HE WILL ALTHOUGH KEEP ON SHOVERING HIS CONCERN WHICH IS ACCEPTABLE. AS THEY WERE CHILDHOOD FRNDS.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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1- Jhanvi is a bad person. Whatever she did is in her nature. She is a selfish person. I AGREE. Now was sagar a bad person? NO...was gangaa a bad person? NO..You expect bad people to do bad things and good people to do good things...A positive and a negative always becomes negative. Simple Math...I have never supported Jhanvi as a person..she did what she could do and now she is married to Sagar and Sagar asked for it. Not that Jhanvi forced him to marry her with any of her tactics. SHE DIDNT FORCE SAGAR.
2- Sagar lost his senses. When you lose your senses, you try to relax and calm yourself down. You go somewhere and meditate. Gangaa donating him to his father (he isnt charity) wasnt that big of a issue anyways. WHAT HE DID WAS- MARRY JHANVI. would you ever do that? O mighty _innocent_ ...would you ever marry someone just because you are feeling bad about what your lover did. If yes, dont read this anymore😭. If no, keep reading.😉

3- I try to reason with people who do bad things with me...sometimes...and sometimes I ask them to leave me alone cause I am short tempered. Sagar is an immature character who doesnt know these simple things. I mean s**t happens, now get over it. 😊

4- I have NEVER supported Jhanvi but I am quite enjoying Sagar and Jhanvi together. Seeing a miserable Sagar without gangaa is a good feeling. Atleast now he would know how gangaa feels.

5- Poor gangaa is trying to make her future but he is distracting her...it might be a good idea if sagar goes away for a while- maybe die- get a plastic surgery or something and come back.

6- Also, if you are one of those girls/guys who enjoy scenes like sagar manhandling gangaa (forcing her to listen to him), or coming in her room late at night, treating her like a lover then PLEASE reality is different. I would definitely report a guy like this, no matter how much I loved him before. I wish Indian serials would get mature with their storyline and characters. A guy can talk to me as long as he is respecting my space and opinions.

LAST: All this is my opinion. Nothing personal towards you. We are just two people with different opinions. Lets respect that. 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@Seriallover_OMG....Of course its your opinion & I totally respect that albeit I beg to differ with what you have expressed here. I believe only 1% might find something to like b/w Janvi and Sagar, although the makers have not shown us anything to like between them. I do not feel sorry at all for Janvi and therefore I find her misery laughable.
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"Also, if you are one of those girls/guys who enjoy scenes like sagar manhandling gangaa (forcing her to listen to him), or coming in her room late at night, treating her like a lover "

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"I am no manhandling lover!!😆 Oh wait you said " If I am right?! Well rest assure I am not." 😃 And Sagar said today, he will not force his expressions or feelings upon her. So there you go, your queries have been answered in regards to the show, and in regards to whether am one of those girls too!😃

Moving on, I used an example to show how Janvi is equally to blame for jumping in hell with Sagar and therefore she ought to suffer like he is suffering. But obviously that example went amiss. And I guess you've only seen one set of individuals reacting when they lose their senses, as many others act rather differently, some act like Sagar ie like an idiot, some tend to harm themselves, some tend to hurt those close to them and some choose to relax. Its an individual choice.


I dislike Janvi and her suffering makes me content. I love Sagar and Ganga together and would like them to become one eventually. No consummation means a marriage can be annulled as well, so all is not lost! HOWEVER, please REMEMBER, I said only after he OFFICIALLY FINISHES things with Janvi that I will want to see him and Ganga together. I am not promoting extra marital affair. I felt the need to be clear on that.

Thank you.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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hmmm...@_innocent_ I am pleased to know that you are not one of those die-hard fans who would do anything to prove themselves right. Thanks for not abusing me...so I dont have to be afraid at night as you are not going to kill me 😉 Right?
coming back to the sane healthy argument we were having...

- Jhanvi is obviously bad. So, I am not concerned with whatever happens to her. She can just not come back and I wont be bothered. She can go to jail or better HOOK UP WITH YASH. She is a house fly which is going to fly around and no matter you how much you want, she is not going away. Hate is also a reaction and you hate her. So, basically you are bothered by her. You know what I do "I dont care".

- Sagar is YES my concern. He is miserable. I am finding this funny because he is paying for his mistakes. Loosing Gangaa was not an option. He could have fought with her. THANKS CREATIVE TEAM for showing us this illogical story line. And @_innocent_ I know that people give different reactions when they are angry,,,but this was an outrageous move. Why cant you see this? Obviously you love sagar, so you are a good example of "Love is blind". 😉

- Gangaa- sweet and pure. I hope she finds her true love. One who wouldnt just leave her because she said something or did something which he didnt like or approve.

Lastly, @_innocent_ I AM NOT SUPPORTING JHANVI. All my reactions are based on what sagar did to gangaa. Why he did what he did? why is he suffering? ETC.

Question time: @_innocent_ If you were Gangaa, and Sagar would come back to you asking for forgiveness after marrying Jhanvi (who you hate so much) , would you accept him and wait for him until he divorces Jhanvi or whatever because until Divorce happens, you will have to tolerate Jhanvi with Sagar? Seeing him doing all those rituals with Jhanvi (not you) because he married her and not you. Let me know.

Awaiting your reply!!! 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: seriallover_OMG

hmmm...@_innocent_ I am pleased to know that you are not one of those die-hard fans who would do anything to prove themselves right. Thanks for not abusing me...so I dont have to be afraid at night as you are not going to kill me 😉 Right?

coming back to the sane healthy argument we were having... (😆😆 #KuchBhi ...I have been on this forum long enough to decipher b/w what is real and what is reel. So am all for healthy arguments, after all disagreements are what makes it fun.)

- Jhanvi is obviously bad. So, I am not concerned with whatever happens to her. She can just not come back and I wont be bothered. She can go to jail or better HOOK UP WITH YASH. She is a house fly which is going to fly around and no matter you how much you want, she is not going away. Hate is also a reaction and you hate her. So, basically you are bothered by her. You know what I do "I dont care".

- Sagar is YES my concern. He is miserable. I am finding this funny because he is paying for his mistakes. Loosing Gangaa was not an option. He could have fought with her. THANKS CREATIVE TEAM for showing us this illogical story line. And @_innocent_ I know that people give different reactions when they are angry,,,but this was an outrageous move. Why cant you see this? Obviously you love sagar, so you are a good example of "Love is blind". 😉 #Haha! If you go through my posts here you will understand just how much I "loved" Sagar post his action of marrying Janvi and his lack of trust in Ganga😆 I have never seen someone trying to relax when they are angry, but maybe that is because I interact with really crazy people I guess😆 No, but on a serious note, when one is angry, one can do the worst thing in an act of anger, we see that day in and day out in real life. Aur yeh toh sirf reel life hain, so kuch shocking nahi hai!😆😆

- Gangaa- sweet and pure. I hope she finds her true love. One who wouldnt just leave her because she said something or did something which he didnt like or approve.

Lastly, @_innocent_ I AM NOT SUPPORTING JHANVI. All my reactions are based on what sagar did to gangaa. Why he did what he did? why is he suffering? ETC. Like I said, my initial reason for commenting was because the only thing that got stuck to me after I read your initial post was that Janvi is not wrong. I just had to understand from which angle you thought that, and hence why I commented. He is suffering because he is an idiot and behaves like a bigger idiot when he is angry. His one action has ruined his happiness along with Ganga's.

Question time: @_innocent_ If you were Gangaa, and Sagar would come back to you asking for forgiveness after marrying Jhanvi (who you hate so much) , would you accept him and wait for him until he divorces Jhanvi or whatever because until Divorce happens, you will have to tolerate Jhanvi with Sagar? Seeing him doing all those rituals with Jhanvi (not you) because he married her and not you. Let me know. If you go from a realistic POV then no I would not forgive Sagar nor wait for him. FROM a reelistic POV, ie from Ganga's POV, it is not difficult to believe that she will wait for him. She put sindoor for him since she was a young girl, because she needed to save his life. She considered him as her husband from that day. She gave him her soul. Albeit it was different for Sagar as he only understood her importance after his alliance was fixed with Janvi. But Ganga is not waiting for Sagar, she is trying to move on with her life. She constantly reminds him of his new relationship with Janvi. Sagar also has not done any rituals with Janvi because he realised his mistake on the same day. Sagar is not behaving like a husband to Janvi and he will never behave like a husband to her. His heart is not there, and it is not fair on him or Janvi to continue this marriage. It is baseless. And if Janvi had any sense she would get the marriage annul. One cannot be coerced into fulfilling a relationship if one's heart does not lie in it. I am not overlooking Sagar's mistake in marrying Janvi. I am just saying that it is not a mistake that cannot be rectified.



Awaiting your reply!!! 😊 My replies are in blue😳

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Posted: 9 years ago
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One more reply...I am getting famous...😆
Your replies are in blue...SO as I dont know your real name- I would love to call you BLUE. ⭐️

so, @Blue Thanks for answering. I knew you would say that you will not forgive sagar. Gangaa is exactly doing that. But I am sure there are more lovey-dovey scenes on the road ahead.

Gangaa might forgive him- IF HE DOES SOMETHING OUTSTANDING like marrying Jhanvi (the housefly). BLUE wants the same thing right?

What I can digest: Sagar can divorce Jhanvi (but this is not going to happen for a long time) My bet is 3 months. Blue, please be patient for the time being.

What I cant digest- no more love scenes until sagar divorces Jhanvi. so, what will I do? Stop watching Gangaa or something. I am sure there are many hopeful viewers like you watching it daily who can update me from time to time.

But it was nice to have a nice conversation with you BLUE. You tolerated me really well. Keep it up. 👏

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I can't relate with this Sagar anymore. He seems to have lost his brains after he married Jaanvi. He blames everyone in the family for his marriage except himself. Jaanvi is another one who is obsessed with Sagar and she doesn't mind to do anything to be with him no matter if he has an affair too with any other women because he is like her toy that she wanted to own since long. No girl in her right mind would accept such a relationship and this girl lacks self respect too. If her parents would witness her marriage, I am sure that they would have stopped it as they seem to be decent people.

Sagar's mother too is a hypocrite like Niru and the entire family of Sagar (excluding his brother and bhabhi) are selfish. They all care about society and child marriages/widow traditions rather than their son's future.




Sagar is so weak now as a character and vulnerable too that nobody can ever trust him. He said and promised Ganga that he wouldn't leave her but one statement from Ganga made him marry another girl in just one day?


I don't like to watch any romantic scenes between Sagar and Gangaa and fortunately the makers haven't shown any scenes. I hope they don't and now only concentrate on Gangaa becoming a lawyer. I hope she gets a new man too in her life if not lover as she has already suffered a lot in life and it would be tough for her to love any other person again.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@roni_berna You nailed it. I cant AGREE MORE. So, there is someone who finally understands. Yo! Creative Team, take some notes...👏




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