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Posted: 9 years ago
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Not watched yet but read WU..
and now im feeling that gangaa is doing ssoething that is wrong...dont bash me for this
but u guyzz see na niru brought her from ashram and gave her a roof to live, food to eat,books to study, friend(sagar) to play with her, pulkit as her bro, mads as her mother although she never think of her as her real daughter but she loved her, niru gave him every comforts of life except that washing that widow stain that she got but he tried his best to make her feel like his daughter...he never made her felt like she is orphan but what did she do instead
now she wants to become a DIL of that house, it something like"jis thaali me khate ho usi me chet krte ho",,,im really sorry if someone is getting hurt from my words but this is my inner feelings,,
its not like im against saga ...frome the episode when saga met as a child, i always waited for a leap to watch their love story and i always imagined that after leap sagar will fall for her and not she..i imagined when sagar will confess his love for her the only thing she will say is that "i'll never ever break babu's trust"
lets think from brin not from heart
think if some widow girl was brought to your house and fall in love with your house son then the first thing you'll be thinking about is "we trusted her and now what she is doing"
P.S:dont get angry from my words im rally very soory but its an open forum so we are allowed to express our thoughts

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Apart from everything we MUST NOT forget that it was a child marriage, Bal Vivaah which is illegal according to Law too. This kind of practices destroyed many girl child's life and made their life literally a hell.
So Ganga has every right to get married and most importantly of her choice when the guy himself is loving her so much.

Its NOT cheating or Betrayal as Niranjan and his family said. They may not accept them but cant stop them to marry legally.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mifra_14

Not watched yet but read WU..

and now im feeling that gangaa is doing ssoething that is wrong...dont bash me for this
but u guyzz see na niru brought her from ashram and gave her a roof to live, food to eat,books to study, friend(sagar) to play with her, pulkit as her bro, mads as her mother although she never think of her as her real daughter but she loved her, niru gave him every comforts of life except that washing that widow stain that she got but he tried his best to make her feel like his daughter...he never made her felt like she is orphan but what did she do instead
now she wants to become a DIL of that house, it something like"jis thaali me khate ho usi me chet krte ho",,,im really sorry if someone is getting hurt from my words but this is my inner feelings,,
its not like im against saga ...frome the episode when saga met as a child, i always waited for a leap to watch their love story and i always imagined that after leap sagar will fall for her and not she..i imagined when sagar will confess his love for her the only thing she will say is that "i'll never ever break babu's trust"
lets think from brin not from heart
think if some widow girl was brought to your house and fall in love with your house son then the first thing you'll be thinking about is "we trusted her and now what she is doing"
P.S:dont get angry from my words im rally very soory but its an open forum so we are allowed to express our thoughts

haha dont worry its just in drama yeh sab hota hai in real life aisa nahi hota aur waise bhi main kyun bring a widow for live with me yeh sab old thinking se hota hai agar my son fall in love with widow so what i let him weds her bcz he loves her woh bhi uske paas haq hai uske life jeene ke liye khas ki agar yeh widow omar se choti so why not agar woh achi hai sanskaar hai koi yeh farq nahi hai aur waise bhi yeh meri son ka life mein kaun hoti its his life decision woh karta hai mein nahi yeh old think just india mein hoti hai and i dont like this at all har insaan uski paas haq agar woh mera beta ka naseeb hai so why not agar mein usse trust karte hoon pyar karte like a daughter just you say to mein aisa zaroor karongi and after all nirju has study low so har human has a right of life of love we can be arrogant and soche sirf apne bare mein and ruined our bache ki life tright mifra i hope ur understand bcz tumhare soch ghalat hai and sorry for say this
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shivaanya

Apart from everything we MUST NOT forget that it was a child marriage, Bal Vivaah which is illegal according to Law too. This kind of practices destroyed many girl child's life and made their life literally a hell.

So Ganga has every right to get married and most importantly of her choice when the guy himself is loving her so much.

Its NOT cheating or Betrayal as Niranjan and his family said. They may not accept them but cant stop them to marry legally.

im not saying that as she is a widow therefore she doesnt have a right to re marry...who the hell they are to stop widow from marrying again...they too deserves all happines of life ...and as im not hindu thats why obviously i'll always support widows to wear colorfull clothes cz my rligion says that...it doesnt mean i dont respect ur riligion..i respect all religions😳
but what gangaa is doing is something wrong na ..i mean living in someone house gettnig all comforts and then wants to become a DIL of that house..its not like im against saga ..i too want to see them togehter but in a very sensible manner ..if niru would have supported them then i would have definitely agree with them but none of the family member is with them, so she soulhd understand that no one had aver think of her as their home mate...
she should silently move on and then they will come to know the importance of her and then they all will agree...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: jacina98

haha dont worry its just in drama yeh sab hota hai in real life aisa nahi hota aur waise bhi main kyun bring a widow for live with me yeh sab old thinking se hota hai agar my son fall in love with widow so what i let him weds her bcz he loves her woh bhi uske paas haq hai uske life jeene ke liye khas ki agar yeh widow omar se choti so why not agar woh achi hai sanskaar hai koi yeh farq nahi hai aur waise bhi yeh meri son ka life mein kaun hoti its his life decision woh karta hai mein nahi yeh old think just india mein hoti hai and i dont like this at all har insaan uski paas haq agar woh mera beta ka naseeb hai so why not agar mein usse trust karte hoon pyar karte like a daughter just you say to mein aisa zaroor karongi and after all nirju has study low so har human has a right of life of love we can be arrogant and soche sirf apne bare mein and ruined our bache ki life tright mifra i hope ur understand bcz tumhare soch ghalat hai and sorry for say this

ya r8...
but what gangaa is doing is something wrong na ..i mean living in someone house gettnig all comforts and then wants to become a DIL of that house..its not like im against saga ..i too want to see them togehter but in a very sensible manner ..if niru would have supported them then i would have definitely agree with them but none of the family member is with them, so she soulhd understand that no one had aver think of her as their home mate...
she should silently move on and then they will come to know the importance of her and then they all will agree...

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I got your point.sometimes i also feel strange the way she shows audacity in her voice despite staying as refugee at chaturvedi house.she even did it with sagar after getting rejection from him.problem is we are habitual seeing ekta kappor's type heroines in serials who accepts everything good or bad happened in their life remaining mum.but ganga isn't like them indeed.she never has thought herself as refugee rather like human being n daughter of this family.she thinks as human being she has every right to see dream n fulfil it.as human being she has loved another human being n it's no sin to love sagar because she never thinks about family status as she always considers chaturvedhi family as her own family hence she demands sagar to them as like as a child demands something's to its parents n when parents disagree to give it the way child argue with parents same way ganga is arguing with anma ji n others. Now it can be said its ganga's delusion that she always has thought this family considers her as daughter of family.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mifra_14

ya r8...

but what gangaa is doing is something wrong na ..i mean living in someone house gettnig all comforts and then wants to become a DIL of that house..its not like im against saga ..i too want to see them togehter but in a very sensible manner ..if niru would have supported them then i would have definitely agree with them but none of the family member is with them, so she soulhd understand that no one had aver think of her as their home mate...
she should silently move on and then they will come to know the importance of her and then they all will agree...

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ur right in this i agree with you😊

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ganga would be wrong if she had plotted this all... her love for Sagar is spontaneous.. she was drawn to him since childhood. And even after growing up she put her wishes aside and wanted to move on from him. And what happened? Sagar too fell in love! Love is unconditional... neither sagar nor ganga planned this... it just happened and they r fighting it out to keep it alive...
sorry to differ but I think Ganga isn't betraying anyone... again, chaturvedi's are typical to think this way but then I think everyone will soon understand that saga r meant to be!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I dont agree... ganga never asked niru to bring her home or give her watever he gave... if niru did something for her in the same way ganga did a lot for his family... if we go by take n give it is an equal case... she loves sagar... that is why she wants to become DIL of them not the other way round... from the begning uptill now ganga never asked for anything... she is asking her right... right to be the wife of her love... thats it.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ILTHBEB

I got your point.sometimes i also feel strange the way she shows audacity in her voice despite staying as refugee at chaturvedi house.she even did it with sagar after getting rejection from him.problem is we are habitual seeing ekta kappor's type heroines in serials who accepts everything good or bad happened in their life remaining mum.but ganga isn't like them indeed.she never has thought herself as refugee rather like human being n daughter of this family.she thinks as human being she has every right to see dream n fulfil it.as human being she has loved another human being n it's no sin to love sagar because she never thinks about family status as she always considers chaturvedhi family as her own family hence she demands sagar to them as like as a child demands something's to its parents n when parents disagree to give it the way child argue with parents same way ganga is arguing with anma ji n others. Now it can be said its ganga's delusion that she always has thought this family considers her as daughter of family.

ya r8...finally someone supported me...after writiing this topic i felt that u will all just bash me for this but thank go this dint happen...
i totally agree with u each single word...she should realize this thing...
and when sagar rejected her she did the same thing with him too.i mean if someone doesnt love u, u cant force him to love u bck though we all know he was not aware of his feelings at that time but gangaa dint know na so what did she do, stop talking toher,..i mean like really??this thing i always noted but never spoke about just because i dint want to be ur hatred but today aftrer reading WU, i couldn't stop myself from writing this ...
and u see na she herslef said u brought me from the ghat and give me refuge but now what she is doing
we all know she has firm faith on her and waht about tht self-respect that she alwayse speak about that she gained from her bappa...is that allowing her to do all this

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