Paakhii… is she even a true friend?

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Posted: 3 years ago
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First of all pakhi says she is Agastyas best friend, first ep mein yeh dikhane ki koshish ki thhi that Agastya and pakhi are best buddies but idk why I couldn’t feel the attachment that best friends have from Pakhi’s side.. secondly she gets events by saying that she can get Agastya to come there, knowing that he doesn’t like to attend such events, this made me think that she is just using him, even though this might not be the case but execution shayad aisi thhi scene ki ya phir it’s just Pakhis character that made me feel like this. Thirdly, when Ishaan and Agastya both got hurt she wasn’t willing to to go to Agastya.I know she was panicking and no one can think straight in that situation and also she loves Ishaan, but my point os Agastya and Pakhi are shown to be bestest friends since years aur itne saalo ka rishte par(be it friendship) , aap apne new found love ko importance de rahe hain, it was Ishaan who sent her to Agastya aur agastya aise hi khush ho raha thha that she left Ishaan for him. I know agastya bhi kuchh achha nahi kar raha so people might say thheek huwa uss ke saathh, but abhi I am talking about Pakhi’s POV only.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Pakhi I dont know what they want to show...but what they are showing is she is a very shallow character...Agastya is her bff, not the other way around, varna itne years use jaanti hai ek observation ya instinct bhi to koi chiz hoti hai...she doesnt have any idea about Agastya other than what he shows her right...and yes she does use him and all this universe talk...like she doesnt have the minimum brains to question how can so much good luck come to one person constantly...and ye Ishaan...she was so fast make him her love of the life and all...like itni fast I dont know koi itv heroine thi kya....


I think what they want to show is she is innocent and naive...sees the world with rose coloured glasses...but what they are ending up showing is she is very shallow...I believe the issue here is casting and execution, not the story itself...

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Wow!

Your post is somewhat similar to what I posted just now. 😆


Yes Paakhi is no doodh ki dhuli. She does come of as a selfish person who doesnt care or oblivious towards Agastya's feelings.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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yes I have noticed it when all her family was around him to collect the expensive gifts from him they all were like they are a liability for him no-one even once said it why he have to do it and madam is using him full on every thing ,in 15 years of time she never tried to understand that which things triggers him which things he tries to avoid and why ?she is in full mode of being Dom and dodo just to get the advantages from him ,that is not called being a true friend if you are not there when he needs you and never tried understand him ,he better find rue and friend who can understand him and is there for him when he needs . sorry I think I have said too much but what ever was bugging me .

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Pakhi is a very shallow person. And she is the type of person who can't do anything on her own. The one thing she did was to fall for a guy she hardly knew. That itself is clear red signal about the person she is. May be they want to show her as naïve and innocent but is coming out as shallow and stupid. I still can't believe she has no clue about Agastya's feelings. I mean, girls tend to understand these things much better than boys. They have a sort of sixth sense in such matters. But this dumb woman is blissfully living in a bubble of her own. Agastya is also partially responsible for this, so is her family. He has made a habit of getting everything done for her. If he didn't and she actually struggled a bit, may be then she would have got some sense.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pratigya

First of all pakhi says she is Agastyas best friend, first ep mein yeh dikhane ki koshish ki thhi that Agastya and pakhi are best buddies but idk why I couldn’t feel the attachment that best friends have from Pakhi’s side.. secondly she gets events by saying that she can get Agastya to come there, knowing that he doesn’t like to attend such events, this made me think that she is just using him, even though this might not be the case but execution shayad aisi thhi scene ki ya phir it’s just Pakhis character that made me feel like this. Thirdly, when Ishaan and Agastya both got hurt she wasn’t willing to to go to Agastya.I know she was panicking and no one can think straight in that situation and also she loves Ishaan, but my point os Agastya and Pakhi are shown to be bestest friends since years aur itne saalo ka rishte par(be it friendship) , aap apne new found love ko importance de rahe hain, it was Ishaan who sent her to Agastya aur agastya aise hi khush ho raha thha that she left Ishaan for him. I know agastya bhi kuchh achha nahi kar raha so people might say thheek huwa uss ke saathh, but abhi I am talking about Pakhi’s POV only.


Here's the thing. I agree and disagree on some of the points regarding Paakhi and Agasthya's relationship mentioned on the forum.


Paakhi is naive and blind no doubt but I think she's pretty much optimistic perhaps due to her upbringing during her childhood.Either she's eternally positive or perhaps she has been taught to see the fact that there's a cloud in every silver lining by her own family whatever might be the situation be it good or bad.


On the other hand Agasthya had quite the rough childhood inspite of all the riches in his life his parents could have afforded to him.He has been bereft of the love and care from his mother's side and the closest maternal affection he has got is perhaps from him own Grandmother.His loneliness has been somewhat filled due to Paakhi;s entry into his life transformed into eternal Obsession where he's making all the wrong moves to due to the fear of losing her.


As far as Paakhi being a true friend is concerned the way she expressed concern and directly rushed to the spot when Agasthya injured himself using that gun proves at least that she has genuine care for Agasthya.Also every childhood friend be it Boy/Girl do not give any nicknames to their pals unless they are really close.That's why Paakhi address Agasthya as her Dodo.


Yeah it does look weird that Paakhi's family easily accepts the expensive gifts given by Agasthya but it might be due to the 2 facts-


1- This is a fiction show so anything is possible here.


2- Paakhi's family dotes on Agasthya perhaps as their own son or has formed a close relationship with the Raichand Family over the childhood years of Paakhi and Agasthya due to the two children playing with each other. that's why they were ready to accept any gift from him.


3-Paakhi's Chacha is no doubt a greedy person who has an eye for materialistic things.


Yes its Paakhi's fault that inspite of seeing Agasthya's extra-care and concern for her like presenting that Heart-Shaped Diamond Necklace(Obvious Sign of Love) as pointed out by Ishaan she refused to listen and hear the same.


Even today while she was blabbering in today's episode to Agasthya after Ishaan's character was totally destroyed right in front of her own eyes due to Agasthya's machinations she was already advised by Agasthya to take her buzzing love affair with Ishaan on a slow start and not base that on the one-night she spent with Ishaan at the Haunted-Mansion.


Yes Paakhi is really gullible when compared to Ridzi or Arohi before her but its the CV's fault who made her character into a total Universe-Dumbo.


However inspite of her above mentioned shortcomings at heart she's really a good-person who wants the best for anybody whether he's good like Ishaan or grey/bad like Agasthya.


She did face a much difficult choice when it came to the decision of going to the aid of her 2 allies- her love Ishaan or her friend Agasthya.Both were injured and needed her help.


As far as Agasthya is concerned for him this relationship is more than being a mere friendship.He loves her madly and is willing to either hurt or eliminate any person who comes between him and Paakhi even if his actions could end up hurting Paakhi.That's the price he's willing to pay for her.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Pakhi is a shallow character as everyone said here.


For a moment we can ignore that she fell for a random guy in a day given its a fiction show.


But when her so called best friend got shot by a bullet , she wasn't ready to prioritize him over the guy she met a day ago and how come she doesn't have a fking clue about Agastya's issues when he sees fire.


Best friend Kya she doesn't even come close to being a regular friend IMO.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I know this is fiction - still if pakhi was a true friend (forget bff)...


she would know about agstya's fire problem and possessiveness/fear of losing about her... too...


she would accept his love or not it is her choice... but she would act to accept it (knowing his mental condition - not to worsen it) ... help him with medical treatment of the phobia he has.


after...a while would...disclose to him what she thinks about their relationship... once he is ... out of that fears completely.....


that's what a real friend would do - specially when if that guy stood by you since childhood...

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