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Originally posted by: Ashu25

I didnt tell you people????

Guys am married🤣

Its been 6 months now.

Thanks for all the wishes

Haww Ashu!! Dats bad. Chalo koi nahi. Welcome to the married clan. Wish u a blissful n happy married life dear. So was it arranged,love or runaway(don't mind , just kidding 😆 )???

Neha...kaash run away bride hoti main

Originally posted by: Ashu25

Neha...kaash run away bride hoti main

Arranged hi hai

I had no choice.

Arey Ashu aise nahi bolte. Each marriage is unique. You just need to be positive in ur outlook and gv ur 100%. Koi mool mantra nahi hai mere 7 yrs ke experience se. You will steer through the marriage and learn by yourself what will work and what will not work. Sometimes the ride would be smooth and sometimes bumpy. The communication between u and ur hubby shld never stop and it has to be open. Initial years are tough be it love or arranged. Mine was love which v both fought to make arranged. First 3 years were bumpy. Nothing is smooth even now but I think v both are more in sync now to handle the issues together and maturely.
All the best dear.

Originally posted by: Neha07

Arey Ashu aise nahi bolte. Each marriage is unique. You just need to be positive in ur outlook and gv ur 100%. Koi mool mantra nahi hai mere 7 yrs ke experience se. You will steer through the marriage and learn by yourself what will work and what will not work. Sometimes the ride would be smooth and sometimes bumpy. The communication between u and ur hubby shld never stop and it has to be open. Initial years are tough be it love or arranged. Mine was love which v both fought to make arranged. First 3 years were bumpy. Nothing is smooth even now but I think v both are more in sync now to handle the issues together and maturely.
All the best dear.

Yes Ashu, no specific tips. shaadi is a work in progress for ever. Few days we rough it out with parents and siblings (before and after marriage) , on a few days we rough it out with in laws , few days we rough it out with our own children and MANY MANY DAYS , Ha Ha , we rough it out with husband 😆 😆 as we go up in life together. Jokes apart conflicts have a way of figuring out themselves with time one way or the other. It's ok to let out steam but we got to Work at it, individuals we all are tuned each to their own. We need to figure out our stations by tuning .

Originally posted by: ishruhi

Sab naya hai, hamey ajeeb lag raha hai she said choked up-this was sooo touching.I had 6 months gap btwn my engagmt and marriage,and i had talking contacts with my in laws.even then,first day at that place made me cry buckets...it felt like the moment u stop crying,your life at your own home ends and the new place begins...what made me good was acc to our custom,first day we will get back to girls home😊
Valentines day morning and u made it full of memories teeku...
Hope harit will not be in his let her figure out' mood...

Yep, A little hand from Harit would be a big one. Swan said a comforting hug may be? Me says a quick peck wouldn't be that bad, they are also involuntary intimacies 😉 😆

Originally posted by: Ashu25

I didnt tell you people????

Guys am married🤣

Its been 6 months now.

Thanks for all the wishes

Omg, didn't know! CongratsAshu ! Best wishes for a Happy married life !!!

Thanks for the gyaan ppl

Congrats Ashu !!!!
So happy for you.
Any tips?? Well marriage in itself is a learning process which goes for whole life wether it's an arrange or love marriage
In arrange it's a bit more complicated or should I say shocker
U tend to know or explore everyday a new feeling or relation.. don't be scared it's not a horror story it takes time but u will understand to handle things your way
So chill and enjoy...
😆

Originally posted by: Ashu25

Thanks for the gyaan ppl

I am fed up already

You guys are great

Each one of u with so much experience ...am so blessed to be gere

Ahh... don't be fed up !

Be positive... life is what u make ! Love or arranged- it is about two people retuning their frequencies constantly to run a happy life.
It's about give and take ! Don't hesitate to give ! You will have a chance to take even if it is not right away !
Patience is a key. In difficult situations, count 10 before you spill the words.

Enjoy the next stages of life !

Happy Valentines Day Peeps ❤️ 🤗 🥳