Indradhanush 2 'Itta Sa' - Page 92

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Kalpana

It is based on the history of Neel being firm with Nihar?
Not tolerating tantrums?

You know instead today she sees her son being unusually forgiving about a stranger's child?

Neel could have been harsh with Nihar previously with his no nonsense atitude and here he is today looking the other way when the child is obviously crossing the line?

Neel ofcourse has a reason to love Aadhya, but Amma doesnt know it yet

Ok this angle works. Thank you for the clarification .

My perspective with real life experiences :

Originally posted by: Errantnomad

Best wishes .

I guess everything has been discussed and talked about. But of course I have to give you two bits as well. So this is how I feel about amma's reaction. When we see a child acting out or behaving in a way that he/she is not supposed to (normal societal standards) it's a direct judgment on the parenting skills. We do this all the time. Bachcha udham macha raha hai to ma baap ne kuchch sikhaya nahi, Bachcha ro raha hai to Bachcha sambhaalna nahi aata etc etc. We are always quick to judge and here amma already proud of the way nupur and Neel have raised nihaar and after having made the Suvi connections is quick to judge Suvi. No one takes into account that the child even at that age has emotional needs and this is their way of expressing them. Upar se Neel has told her she is divorced - recipe disaster ki hi hogi. Imagine if she finds out that she married an already married man, not sure if she can be charitable. And anyways she is principal type. 😉

Originally posted by: moonwearer

not sure if she can be charitable. And anyways she is principal type. 😉

I am responding just to this statement. We always visualise a school teacher or a Principal to be stern and serious bespectacled and instilling fear all around. It is a generalization people make based on the images media has fed us As a student from montessori to PG i have interacted with 9 Principals of whom i would say 1 fell into that category. In my Professional life though i have got to meet atleast a 1000 spanning 3 decades . I work very closely with government schools in three indian states Tamil Nadu Karnataka and Bihar, and UK and new Zealand. They understand children in most cases and are extremely compassionate and are equipped with the basics of child care.I have heard folks on this forum also earlier tell me you must be the strict stern human...I can only smile ... we have to don several hats one could be disciplinarian...it is not that being uncharitable is not a pre requisite to the screening of a school Principal just as being nasty is not to become a Mother in law...today a lot teachers and Principals rededicate themselves to a life with children shaping their lives giving them the warmth care and safety they so deserve...at a time when even their homes and day care centers are not safe any more. I am part of the discussion group that is looking at even the dangers posed by the design of a school can impinge on a child's well being...

The Architectural design of schools , Prisons and convents are said to be alike as it was thought to be for the same purpose. Conditioning ...today however things are different...classrooms more welcoming ...Principals are professionals looking at the well being of kids and need not always fall into the stereotype society holds.

Shruti If i was responding to you i would definitely do so by addressing it to you. I was working on the unconscious Biases that we carry...this generalization has been held and perpetrated and played and replayed

Originally posted by: moonwearer

Shruti If i was responding to you i would definitely do so by addressing it to you. I was working on the unconscious Biases that we carry...this generalization has been held and perpetrated and played and replayed

"Humne to nahi maangi"


She apologized personally first thing Monday brushing off Payal's assertion that Neel is "really busy and cant meet you" claims

"I am glad you came" he said cheerfully

"Aisa aane ka nai tha na mere ko?' she said genuinely upset

"Let it go Suvechha" he said kindly

"thanks" she nodded awkwardly looking at her own two hands
"Did u have a good trip?" he asked

"Kam ghoome apan, but it was very relaxing, the next door lady is really nice" she declared

"The one that maintains the house?" he asked

She nodded

"I didnt do much for selling. Shaayad jaana hoyega mere ko phir agar Varsha OK karegi to" she said

"Varsha doesnt want to sell?"

"Nai Kaustubh... waha bus stop ke bajoo mein Mall aayega shayad.. in the next 5 years, Mumbai ka koi developer hai usne khareed daala hai" she explained

"He wants it to appreciate?" Neel asked somberly

"His family had too much money in Pune in auto parts" Suvi ranted a angst ridden appeal

"I am sorry" he said

"Nai mere ko bolne ka hai... for coming like that" "Nihar ka text mila mere ko Saturday ko, is he enjoying?"


"Amma ke laadle hain, ghar ke sabse pehle bhi... hum strict hain, Amma bhi strict hain waise to par Nihar ke liye kaafi concessions kar leti hain" he explained

"Must be nice to be so loved and wanted... he is such a good boy" Suvi declared

"Aur teen hafte ki mauj hai unki" he said

"Are you not taking time off?" she asked casually

"Do u want me to?" he asked

She looked up at him, and turned red

"Aap khud nikal gayin do hafte, lautkar hamey jaane ko keh rahin hain" he accused

"I am not ordering" she fumbled

He smiled mischievously

"Amma ko lagega you are not paying attention only" she went on the defensive

"Do u notice when someone quits paying you attention?" he asked

She squirmed

"Aapko sabki itni chinta hai?"

She nodded smiling "Barobar karne ka... nai?" she said smugly

"Hamari chinta bhi karti hain?" he asked gently flirting

She blushed and got up as her heart hammered inside her ribs

"Tabhi na... sorry bolne ko aayi" she said

"Humne maangi to nahi" he said about the apology

They looked at each other until she left

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Bhuvan called Amma to check on her
Amma talked about Preet and the house, agreeing how expansive and big everything was in NOIDA
"Aajkal kaise dikhte hain Neel?" Bhuvan asked sadly


"Is ghar mein itne bedroom hain, ek bedroom ko home office bana chuke hain, jaise aapne dekha hoga, wahi rehte hain, neighbors are great, atleast on one side" Amam said

"Hmm...koi baat karte hain aapse?" Bhuvan asked

"Nahi... kahan... bas Nihar ko lekar pareshaan se rehte hain woh" Amma lamented

"Aadhi chinta thee pehle, ab chinta baatne waali koi raheen nai" Bhuvan was really sad

"Humne poochha, ghar Nupur ki sajawat mein kyon lagayi"

"To?" Bhuvan asked eagerly

"Amma hamey koi aur sajawat ki kahabar nahi kaha" Amma began to cry

Bhuvan sighed audibly

"Humne kisi darawne sapne mein bhi aisi ummeed nahi ki bhaisaab... Ruchi roti rotee hain..." Amma justified her tears

"Yaha Ragini ka bhi wahi haal hai " he said

They were silent for a while

"Isi liye hum kahe, is baat ka kuch kiya jaaye" Bhuvan said firmly sniffling, snorting

"Nupur ko le ayiye" Amma teased sniffling back

"Hamari bus mein hoti yeh baat kaash" Bhuvan went hoarse crying

They went silent again

"Ad nikaale paper mein/" Bhuvan asked

"Arey unse shaadi ki baat kaun karey?"

"Hamey karne deejiye" Bhuvan begged

""Unhee ko kuch kehne dein aap" Amma pleaded

"Woh maangege dobaar shaadi?" Bhuvan asked baffled... "hamey to lagta nahi" he said

"Aap kaise baat karenge unse, "Aapne beti khoyi hai" Amma said stunned

"aur aapne bhi" Bhuvan said

Amma nodded with gratitude, to be offered the status of a mother to the daughter in law was indeed a great gift, she was speechless
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Why she sooo sweet ????