Software Symphony 65 'Playthings' - Page 85

Bhallas speaking out for the first time in one voice!!

Nice... Appa sulking even more, II and RnB warring passionately and Sam trying to be a mother Gen again. Sometimes when I'm in the midst of an opinion war at home I feel a little like Sam - wanting to dredge the past and laying all that went the other way to one incident! But then life has too many layers right? The right action at the wrong time has unintended consequences. We know nothing about what made Savi leave the way she did. We know nothing about the impact it had on RnB vis a vis his relationships. We only know he went from woman to woman with no attachment and with impeccable manners.

II on the other hand lived for her family.. Did everything she could and beyond for her family. And then stood stoically against her fathers wishes to marry RnB. Now at every opportunity she tries to over reach to care for Appa's sensibilities.

One big difference between II and RnB - he does what he wants never ever calls tradition to his rescue. II makes her own bouquet - falling back on tradition, family values or simply her wishes to get what she wants.

Interesting to see what drives us all as people.. What makes us act the way we do.

SoSy has been an awesome platform for us to discuss and therefore understand ourselves a little better!!

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Shrugs and Kalpana I really enjoyed reading your posts
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Sorry that was was meant to be Shruthi and Kalpana..

Found a Missing persons notice ..."Aapan yaanna pahilaath kaa ?? "

"One big difference between II and RnB - he does what he wants never ever calls tradition to his rescue. II makes her own bouquet - falling back on tradition, family values or simply her wishes to get what she wants."

Asma first we keep missing each other online by a few hrs . So hellos first.True Asma, life has many layers , right things at the wrong time has uninteded consequences. And also true this platform and these discussions make us look at ourselves too. Bang on.

Though on the above quoted... That he has never called tradition to his rescue merits a different view ...
Don't remember exactly which update it was... But I think around the same time when II had to go back Mm and she argued with Dude... Saying something lwhat about her wish that she wants to stay at DII during post partum... Dude did say that punjabi rituals and tradition demand that postpartum is at husbands place. Why do I distinctly remember this is II was stunned with that counter and mocked something like so when did you start becoming the Gate keeper of punjabi traditions...
I found it extremely hilarious that a man who has docked II's father for using traditions... When he becomes a father uses the same to his rescue within 10 days of her birth. I remember making my review on that too. Exactly Endha update I don't remember.

He said that and he himself could not believe that he pulled that tradition rescue out of his pocket..
Ha ha

On the boquet that II uses... Yes she does... But against dude.. None of the flower arrangement she presents Appeals to him and dissatisfied... He turns it around and walks away with the full Garden most times. 😆

Originally posted by: VeeIyer

<font color="#0000ff">Found a Missing persons notice ..."Aapan yaanna pahilaath kaa ?? "</font>

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for a male and female called Neel Pandit and Suveccha Dabholkar. Apparently they are laapata for over a week😊

Since all of us know they are playing'hum tum ek kamre main bandh ho' for over a week, beating R&B and II's three day record, and we know only Nisha has the chaabi, a plea to release the two to our author😆😆

Shall post same notice at ID too !! Never know which one would catch Nisha's eye😉

😆 collective plea pending for milord's consideration . 😆

Good night all. Had fun in sosy today.

Originally posted by: blue5sky

Sorry that was was meant to be Shruthi and Kalpana..

Originally posted by: taramira

Ha ha ha..it's one and the same, I don't get offended or sad easily...

That's good to know Shruthi!
Stay that way ALWAYS 😊

Subah Subah mere jet lag mind mein ek khayal Aaya hai, nisha ji gaur farmayen ( oops neel pundits bhoot has entered my atma) I really want to see a remorseful RB. Jealous, possessive, passionate, SAB Dekha, ab thodi jhalak us Rb ki mil jaye, jo apne actions par sharminda ho. I have a feeling that with Manyas arrival the bhallas will unwittingly gang up together making II feel like an outsider. Ek to Nivi ke birthday ki khushi aur doosri or manya ki jealous numa batein. As is it II is super conscious about her place in the Bhalla clan and with the siblings all together it might make her feel isolated and an outsider. What if Rb ignores her perhaps not jannboojh kar and then as the drama unfolds realizes that he hasn't stood by his wife...want to see his cockiness index come down a notch or two. Please please Nisha..

Originally posted by: moonwearer

<font size="3">If we look at customs and traditions...the Ayush homam happens as per the customs of the father's family. The fact that this is a marriage of the couple's choice made the Dude agree to perform all rituals the Iyer way. Why should Sri Vishvanatha Iyer insist it has to be on Malai Mandir when the Bhallas are ready to do all that the Iyers desire in MM. I guess it is just to Placate Bala. Vandhu and Bala will have a problem even if it is in Malai Mandir...i am sure of that.</font>

<font size="3">I guessSri Vishvanatha Iyer having retired has nothing else to do so is raking up a non issue. If the Bhallas had said no to the Havan having it at the temple seems an option but the way he is creating a fuss is just to annoy the Dude .</font>

I agree 😃