Putti,yousaid it well,II CHOSE to marry r&B but was vandu force to marry bala? NO
Agree she has lot to deal with but doesn't Amma also? Do you see Amma saying to II 'you are so lucky you dont have to work but I have to' Amma has taken everuthing positively in her stride. Sometimes she may feel sad but did she ever say bad about Periappa.never.
everone has problem in their life,shravu has the problem of wnating everything he desired right before baldie was born.Remember he stole the ipad? he needs GUIDANCE ,we sure everyone gives him lots of love from R&b to even appa. You must remember when II pleaded to akka to let her tell athim to appoint sofia.vandita told II she was trouble
II angrily asked her why did she tell her then.vandita said she WANTED ii to do something. see that what I mean,why doesn't she do what she wants instead of using II! Yeah she must be treated like a princess all the time but she also treated as a middeclass by chachu and Manya,isn't it? she may rant ok fine but why compare?
the same Vandu-Bala supported II to get married to Dude are today the same one rebuking her when she helps and taunting her of his in laws wealth when previously before wedding they would let II buy anything for shravu. Did II change her behaviour towrds them? well no.
money and luxury is important but one should think of spending within their means just like Bala do. but the point is akka extremely desires things beyond her means.