SS56 - Page 35

Originally posted by: NSB7

MANNY

What i think she is like...

If i stand there as II and imagine a manny and experience whatever II feels like...she looks like a loin ready to pounce at me

Scary...doubting me...keeping me on gaurd..and causing me trouble.

As Manny its entirely different

I have been exposed to things i failed ti handle...i was broken down and crushed to earth by the man i thought i loved..again and again

I have no hope on the emotion love...i believe the world is filled with selfish bas***ds (pardon my language... i being manny..verbally no filters) and they approch me for money..physical possibilities or jist flirt...i struggle not to get carried away...but i end up doing it...after all i am alone and lonely...while everyone is settled...im wanderig...so o meed to be feel loved...even if it is fake.

And my siblings?? U as much as think of laying a finger on them...i will chop your both hands legs and stuff off...no no not just chop your head off and give j easy death.

I dont want them to go through What i have...i dont want to see them get hurt

Reason why i love Marliese... or any girlfriend that dimpal had...he wasn't attached to them...if they walked out..he never cared..nobody ever did...he like a magnet and they would stick to him..hr wouldn't have to be in pain...he never cared for them.

But Ii? They are married for godsake...something that shows how deeply invested my stupid brother is in her...AMD so she scares me...she figHTS him... ignores him..and orders him around...and dimpal follows her like a puppy...im afraid she will walk out and dimpal won't be himself ever again...or she will bamk om his love and use him...how can i see him hurt??

And why will she love him back? After dad...after how screwed my family is...how dimpal wanders and runs away to paris..how he never talks and expresses...she is too good to be true

Can a woman be so down to earth and nice and good anf caring? Sam is...but thats sam..and II cant...can shr? Nooo i dont want to let myself think that...no no no

Tan..tan stood by sam through so much...What has II done for dpal? Nothing compared to that..how can i trust her with my brother????

But dimpal talks to dad...because of her

Dad is happy because of her

Sam says she is real

I feel good around her too

But! No...i cant trust...i cant

Havr seen enough not to trust.

After she walked into dimpal's life

I meed to knock nefore entring his room

I cant get alone time with him

I cant cry and fight because he is always around

He doesnt play games until i fall alseep anymore

He doesn't sit and talk to me for hours

His house and his room are not equally mine now

He doesn't show up in my house

His free time isn't mine anymore

My dimpal is not mine amymore

And he never compramised..not unless it was for me..not even sam..and now!!! He has changed for her.

She now comes attached along with dimpal

Agrhhh...do i talk to her nice or no

I lIke her but i dont trust her..dont want to

I like her but im jealous of her...i cant help...!

I jUST dont know!!!!!!!

WORDDD...Very Well written about Manya's viewpoint. 👏 👏

Staying in her shoes and analyzing stuffs will definitely make us feel bad for Manya but at times I wonder tht Manta should watch what is she talking. She expresses everything on the face and talks without thinking. My opinion. The other day she bursted in front of RnB. Theek hai Bhai hai. He knows her well n her nakre But But if II ws thr, Im sure II myt throw a fit to go bk to Delhi or might not talk to Manya anymore. II is more sensitive when it comes to matters like this. I feel...!

I hope I made sense here...! Manya Lovers...my opinion, no offense.

Thanks sonal putti and avni

Nams very wel written was waiting to read ur tufts

Originally posted by: shidin0117

Nams very wel written was waiting to read ur tufts

Sri good plan but will have to see have never been to plays

Though have been to rangashankara would love to meet u all

shilpaaa

Originally posted by: putti77

Sonal
You are doing wonderful job with special index..
👏
If you are using laptop have word or notepad to prepare the links...

I have all my notes in SoSY folder 😉

Thanks putti, I m using I pad and yes I prepare on notepad.
I love learning new things it keeps me up tight ... I m enjoying
Doing it. All the working will take time but I know I can do it.
I learned web designing in 2001 when comp. we're not that easy
Now a days even a cell phone hav all the features...
It's my interest that I m able to do it as I don't want ki Vedika says to me
Mom u know nothing

Originally posted by: NSB7

Thanks sonal putti and avni

Avni..you are right

Manya mofat hai

Boll deti hai sab kutch

She doesn't know to hide things

But dimpal ke samne uska bolna...it was so natural

Agar i dont like my sisters friends i tell her...tu sambhal...i dont like that girl...age teri marzi

She was so shaken after the fight... jo dimpal kabhi awaz nahi uthata...usne papaji ko room see nikal ne ko kaha

And zor zor see ladh rahe the

I would be worried

Kya pata..manny and her husbands fights could have beem bad and her mind imagined the fight to be similar.

Tho she freaked out

Uske case mein agar II galat hai..tho its ok if II overhears...she must know ki dimpal ko hurt karke she can get away.

Bura lage tho lage.

We know what happened inside...we kmow what II thinks

But manny doesn't

And manny only sees dimpal is angry and upset and worried

The man who never cared for anybody was angry and thats big for manny

And dude dint shout at her

He kissed her forehead and hugged her.

His very way of saying..i know u care and agraid manya...but sabh thikh hai

Im ok see..

And dont worry

A simple expression speaking of how manny needs to be understood first and judged later

Kya bolet ho??😊

Bilkul sahi...aur kya pata shayad Manya must hv faced all those physical abuse..as in getting beaten by her husband and then that lead to divorce. Anything must have happened and seeing their fight, it must have brought her all the old bad memories. Well im just assuming...! Nisha didn't explore Manya's first marriage stories. Hoping to see that so we can explore more of Manya and maybe we might even feel pity for her despite her arrogant behavior.

Plus a girl like manya would want to be loved cared and pampered...she expected that in her first marriage it didn't work phir aya Vik usko sirf paiso ke paade the thn comes M . Basically she's not even secure with the latest guy she's hooked to. Staying single or even in complicated relationship at the age of 30+ definitely makes you go crazy! U expect many but not satisfying u plus she's crabing her brother's love which is not there as compared to before.

The last line..so apt...! She needs to understand anything before judging. Aisa na ho ki she judges so much and later she regrets.

Nammu perfect insight into Manny's brain loved it

Thought of not to peep in here until next update...
Just came to say...
I ❤️ SoSY moms more n more... Period.
Bye for now..

Avni and Nams my two cents on Manny.

We all come cast not as these Mahatmas. We come with strokes in varied hues. Some are flat characters some are round evolving all the time. Nisha as a very skilled writer brings in multiple dimension to each of the characters she pens. I am sure Manny is being very concerned for her loved ones when they are all that you have stems from her insecurity and when the bitterness is emptied and she begins to make space for love and care in her heart be genuinely loved and cared for we will be able to see the traces of Savitha and Ranjan's upbringing. Till then the defensive mechanism that she has shrunk into to go on the offensive to safeguard the interests of the self and her loved ones. Life has struck a rude blow in a series and there is none to divert her pain into creative energy. It was one mess after another. In Sam Tan was her anchor and Lasya the much needed healing factor. In the dude work , his pursuits, success and lasya and her Mami have become the anchors and distractions and the persona of his II is transforming him and healing him .
Manny is intolerant of even being called by her dad as Manya. It is always my way or the highway. She has made wrong choices thus far and paid a heavy price and it has left her with a very very deep scar. Her healing can happen only when she is ready to empty the bitterness. Her venting out is a release of pent up wrath and the fact that II covered her with a sheet is news that shocks her. You can see how nuanced the writing is. As the tale unfolds we will find her emerge quite adorable unlike the proverbial mean SIL's of Indian Soaps.

I read custody when i started watching YHM and liked the serial for the character delineation of Raman and Ishitha. When they lost it i stopped i was even shocked to read that Manju Kapur wanted Shagun not to be depicted demonic. As a creator you love all your creations.
Manny is possessive. She adores her family. She has not accepted II as part of the family as yet as she is yet to bond without her filters interfering her perception. In the case of Tan or II trusting Bala it is because of the ties forged in formative years have now become deep trust. The trust that exists between II Dad and Sam II and Tan II has undergone the litmus test. The dude trusts II implicitly as he has seen her redeeming qualities like Sam and Dad. II is still unsure because of the dude's past and she is unable to discern when he teases and when he is sincere. Sam Tan Dad all have understood and seen her innocence and naive intelligent adorable girl. Manny has seen too much of sorrow and exploitation that she is unable to see beyond the surface.

Nams...will definitely put forth the idea to kids and hubs...will log in to the website and chk the timings...we can only go in weekends. we go to Sai Baba bhajans or the venkateshwara temple in JP Nagar...and take walk around there. Even we went to the cafe and had snacks. I had the most yummiest Saabu Dana vada there...